Daddy's Little Girl - Fourth Edition

[Strixaluco]

Bunny slips into Owl’s blanket fort and snuggles closely

Thanks, I have trouble sleeping... (and a housewarming party tomorrow, my turn to be +1....)

 

[barefootgirl69]

Not even putting in my two weeks notice!

 

[FrenchLopBunny]

Since Daddy and I agreed to have a bunny tattooed on his forearm I have been all over Pinterest looking for ideas. This morning we settled on the design. It is a stock tattoo stencil but Daddy is going to have it customized with color and also have my collar added to it. I'm excited!!!

 

[FlyingThruLife]

That is so amazing bunny, I'm so happy for you! What an amazing way for Daddy to show his love for you.

 

[FrenchLopBunny]

That is so amazing bunny, I'm so happy for you! What an amazing way for Daddy to show his love for you.

Some days I feel like I'm in some fairy tale, and this can't possibly be true. My last relationship ended so badly that I was ready to give up on ever finding love, and I didn't really know anything about DD/lg.

 

[FrenchLopBunny]

Thanks, I have trouble sleeping... (and a housewarming party tomorrow, my turn to be +1....)

Thinking about you today and hoping the housewarming is not adding to your stress.

 

[~Elizabeth~]

Since Daddy and I agreed to have a bunny tattooed on his forearm I have been all over Pinterest looking for ideas. This morning we settled on the design. It is a stock tattoo stencil but Daddy is going to have it customized with color and also have my collar added to it. I'm excited!!!

Sounds like a perfect choice Bunny. Hope to see it when finished. Can’t stop smiling for you and him.

 

[~Elizabeth~]

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Not even putting in my two weeks notice!

I tried that, but like the Godfather line, it pulled me back in, dang it.

 

[~Elizabeth~]

Thanks, I have trouble sleeping... (and a housewarming party tomorrow, my turn to be +1....)

Hope it’s going well Strix!

 

[FrenchLopBunny]

Sounds like a perfect choice Bunny. Hope to see it when finished. Can’t stop smiling for you and him.

After my bunny tail post I got a lot of crude PMs, so we now we have a rule of no body part posts, of either of us. He tolerates my SofiaLaFrench author page avatar since it’s a stock photo, but I’m concerned that a few more PMs will result in me having to make a decision on a new avatar for that page.

 

[~Elizabeth~]

After my bunny tail post I got a lot of crude PMs, so we now we have a rule of no body part posts, of either of us. He tolerates my SofiaLaFrench author page avatar since it’s a stock photo, but I’m concerned that a few more PMs will result in me having to make a decision on a new avatar for that page.

Oh that really sucks. People can be such freaking buttholes on there.

 

[FrenchLopBunny]

Oh that really sucks. People can be such freaking buttholes on there.

BTW, I love your avatar

 

[FlyingThruLife]

I'm so sorry to hear that bunny, feels like people think because this is an erotic literature website, they can just post whatever, and not act like decent human beings.

Sorry for the bad experience

 

[~Elizabeth~]

BTW, I love your avatar

Thank you! I find yours adorable!

 

[Strixaluco]

Thinking about you today and hoping the housewarming is not adding to your stress.

It was less stress, more just consuming my spoons that were scarce. Managed to conserve enough to adult at home, too, and do acutely needed housework... But I really wish I could just do nothing today.

 

[Strixaluco]

After my bunny tail post I got a lot of crude PMs, so we now we have a rule of no body part posts, of either of us. He tolerates my SofiaLaFrench author page avatar since it’s a stock photo, but I’m concerned that a few more PMs will result in me having to make a decision on a new avatar for that page.

That sucks.

There's an option to only allow PM's from people you follow (unless you initiate the conversation), but it's of course a rather restrictive choice.

 

[cascadiabound]

That sucks.

There's an option to only allow PM's from people you follow (unless you initiate the conversation), but it's of course a rather restrictive choice.

Sometimes it is the way to go tho.
Also - remember you don't need to respond to the asshats. Just *leave* the conversation and block them. There will always be trolls who think they can get attention by sending inappropriate messages by PM. Give them no attention at all.

 

[FrenchLopBunny]

That sucks.

There's an option to only allow PM's from people you follow (unless you initiate the conversation), but it's of course a rather restrictive choice.

Bunny could do that, but Sofia gets story feedback sometimes in a PM, and even got a request to write a story for a reader. At any rate, the damage is done and I have to be very careful about posting photos. I just ignore the bad messages and block the sender.

 

[cascadiabound]

This is excellent advice - thought I'd share it here, because I know sometimes I get overly determined to please... and sensitive to criticism.

 

[FrenchLopBunny]

This is responsible for soooo much of my anxiety! My therapist said something very similar, but of course, she turned inward on me. "If the person does not matter to you, why do you allow their words to matter?"

 

[Strixaluco]

This is responsible for soooo much of my anxiety! My therapist said something very similar, but of course, she turned inward on me. "If the person does not matter to you, why do you allow their words to matter?"

How the idea is presented can make a huge difference.

 

[AngelicaS1780]

This is responsible for soooo much of my anxiety! My therapist said something very similar, but of course, she turned inward on me. "If the person does not matter to you, why do you allow their words to matter?"

For me, I go too much in the opposite direction. I couldn't care less about what someone whom I don't know or respect thinks or says about me. But I care far too much at times about what people whom I love/like/respect think about me. If I'm not careful, I can let constructive criticism overwhelm me or make me defensive.

 

[FrenchLopBunny]

How the idea is presented can make a huge difference.

Absolutely, and by her phrasing it that way, it forced me to think. Her question still forces me to think. That question alone might be what has helped me the most.

 

[Kitty_so_frisky]

This is responsible for soooo much of my anxiety! My therapist said something very similar, but of course, she turned inward on me. "If the person does not matter to you, why do you allow their words to matter?"

For me, I go too much in the opposite direction. I couldn't care less about what someone whom I don't know or respect thinks or says about me. But I care far too much at times about what people whom I love/like/respect think about me. If I'm not careful, I can let constructive criticism overwhelm me or make me defensive.

Yes and yes. I just overthink everything

 

[RosewoodTulip]

This is responsible for soooo much of my anxiety! My therapist said something very similar, but of course, she turned inward on me. "If the person does not matter to you, why do you allow their words to matter?"

Ah well what if my friends and loved ones are just being kind and I really am (insert horrible intrusive thought)? Wouldn't someone with no emotional investment in me be more likely to speak their mind?

Of course not. Just as those who do care have no cause to lie. But try telling that to the anxiety/depression power couple. They are very convincing