barefootgirl69
🧡 Wild Lil Cupcake
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- May 14, 2015
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There are some subs who tell they like to forced into submission - and they don't seem to have much criteria for their doms. They are, as far as I know, a minority even among big subs.
But a littles's submission, on a general level (not necessary in every single session - some of us need a little forceful reminder at times), is a choice, based on trust. If a little is submissive on the first place, that is! Dominating littles don't seem common, but I personally know one CG/l couple where both are sadomasochistic switches. (Following their antics in munches is rather perplexing at times, to be honest.) And even they have that trust. Even if I didn't know they have gone through a months long vetting period, I can see with my own eyes their mutual trust.
Comfort and sympathy can be offered without a dynamic and without using titles - like we littles do to each other, or like @snexxer did to me yesterday. How many blanket forts and hot chocolate trays, even cookies have we littles here gotten from the big ones?
Trust is essential. When those who come in to help us by dropping off cookies or soup, an ear to hear us, we know they aren't looking to be our Daddy or to be "fun" because people are looking for "fun".
I can't trust someone who, obviously, knows nothing about being a Daddy and swoops in repeatedly wanting to have a daddy spot. And "fun". Red flag.