Daddy's Little Girl - Fourth Edition

Definitely. I think I'm probably more emotionally mature now than before, having let my little side out and exploring it.

Because denying it isn't mature.
I think being able to say how I feel makes me feel more in control of myself, less fearful.

I decided to tell someone today that I miss him and not be afraid to share that.
 
Let's talk about HONESTY IS ATTRACTIVE for a moment. Even when vetting someone and talking to them to see if there's compatibility or connection, honesty is important.

If things aren't coming together and you feel you want to end things, making excuses isn't the way to do that, from  either side of the slash. There's no reason to lie and tell someone that you're at your parents or just showing up at a baby shower at 1130 on a Friday night. 🙄
 
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Would you do it anyway? Would you be tempted or would you be obedient, or both?
It's likely that I would be obedient. I like pleasing him and making him proud. I have a bratty streak, but it's not primarily about non-compliance. It's more of a foot stomping pouty brattiness when I am feeling impatient or like I am being denied something.

That "effort" thing is so very attractive and makes me feel even more secure and safe.
Beautiful post @cascadiabound! I love this.
Let's talk about HONESTY IS ATTRACTIVE for a moment. Even when vetting someone and talking to them to see if there's compatibility or connection, honesty is important.

If things aren't coming together and you feel you want to end things, making excuses isn't the way to do that, from  either side of the slash. There's no reason to lie and tell someone that you're at your parents or just showing up at a baby shower at 1130 on a Friday night. 🙄
Effort and honesty are the top two characteristics for me.
 
This is true in any relationship imo, but are especially good things to look for and expect in a DDlg relationship.


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Honesty and authenticity are requirements.

Without enough emotional maturity, communication, genuine connection and taking accountability things just don't really work... (And why did I agree to suffer the lack of those for so long 🤨)

And yes, genuine connection damn attractive. Even in friendship. I try to collect those, as it isn't too common - you realise that when you come across someone who you really connect with.
 
This is true in any relationship imo, but are especially good things to look for and expect in a DDlg relationship.


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I've just reread all of these and I love this so much.
And honestly, having these qualities and being able to express yourself in a healthy way should be a standard but I haven't been able to find anyone with a fraction of that emotional maturity.
I try to hold myself accountable but with the wrong person that just leads to me assuming blame that is not mine.
Might put this on my tinder account 😁
 
I don't get this. But I also haven't had coffee yet.
Basic needs is "princess" does that mean wearing a tiara and permanently flouncing into rooms?
I am probably being too literal or trying to find deeper meaning than a pink triangle with words on top of it.
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Flouncing! Lol. Cass, you have such a way with words.
 
I don't get this. But I also haven't had coffee yet.
Basic needs is "princess" does that mean wearing a tiara and permanently flouncing into rooms?
I am probably being too literal or trying to find deeper meaning than a pink triangle with words on top of it.
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Lol! Yes, you are thinking too literally. That triangle and the labeled sections is from Maslow’s Hierarchy of Needs. It’s a psychological theory that says these are the needs a human has and the order of necessity in which they must be met to reach the top, self actualization. It’s used as a framework for different treatment modalities. I’ll attach the real triangle.

But the meme is just a playful joke that all I need to be fulfilled is to be treated like a princess, flouncing and tiara optional 😜
 

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Lol! Yes, you are thinking too literally. That triangle and the labeled sections is from Maslow’s Hierarchy of Needs. It’s a psychological theory that says these are the needs a human has and the order of necessity in which they must be met to reach the top, self actualization. It’s used as a framework for different treatment modalities. I’ll attach the real triangle.

But the meme is just a playful joke that all I need to be fulfilled is to be treated like a princess, flouncing and tiara optional 😜
Oh I completely recognized it immediately as a play on Maslow's heirarchy of needs...which is why it wasn't working for me intellectually.

Treated like a princess by everyone? By one person? By all men?
If it's a basic need that means "being treated like a princess" trumps all else? Food, clothing, shelter?

That's where the meme of Maslow's heirarchy used this way creates too much cognitive dissonance for me.

Again - clearly thinking too much. 🤔
 
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Lol! Yes, you are thinking too literally. That triangle and the labeled sections is from Maslow’s Hierarchy of Needs. It’s a psychological theory that says these are the needs a human has and the order of necessity in which they must be met to reach the top, self actualization. It’s used as a framework for different treatment modalities. I’ll attach the real triangle.

But the meme is just a playful joke that all I need to be fulfilled is to be treated like a princess, flouncing and tiara optional 😜

What would flouncing look like for you? Probably lots of flirty bouncing??
 
I did remove it; but so everyone knows, this story is NOT about incest. I guess you should have actually read it. Fear not, everyone on Twitter has an unsupported opinion.
I got this far "Every daddy calls his daugher princess." and puked in my mouth. But, I did go back to see if I was wrong. End of first paragraph "but it was her father that always made her feel safe and loved. They had a special relationship." 🤢

Thanks for removing your link.

Oh, just one more suggestion. Do spell check when you write.
 
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