Daddy's Little Girl - Fourth Edition

[BodieOhl]

Well, if one hasn't experienced or seen or read/heard a deep discussion about for example the deep gratitude that can be involved, it may be difficult to even believe. Even if you've read/heard but not experienced, you might not grasp it. I didn't, before it basically hit me in the head. And I'm NOT the kind to easily feel grateful, it's mostly been mostly just an intellectual phenomenona me. Now it's a very deep-running feeling.

Actually, I think most people don't know or understand much anything of the psychological side of BDSM. The trust. The bond, if in a relationship. The level of care. How it can be a need instead of just a want.

And DDlg is even less understood.

Truth!

 

[barefootgirl69]

Actually, I think most people don't know or understand much anything of the psychological side of BDSM. The trust. The bond, if in a relationship. The level of care. How it can be a need instead of just a want.

And DDlg is even less understood.

Someone mentioned this on another site this week. So many think it's just a sexual thing. They can't understand it's not just a kink or kinky sex, but - as you said - psychological thing. I need the nurturing and caring side, where I trust and we connect, way more than I need an orgasm.

ETA: But, I want the orgasm, too! #greedy

 

[JerseyJade]

ETA: But, I want the orgasm, too! #greedy

Is that what you use my crayons for????

 

[barefootgirl69]

Is that what you use my crayons for????

I use them afterward to try to explain my thoughts.

 

[JerseyJade]

I use them afterward to try to explain my thoughts.

Remember how I told you to give back my crayons? Well.... I changed my mind. Keep them!

 

[Kitty_so_frisky]

*Walks in with extra crayons to share. Curls up under a fuzzy blanket*

 

[Strixaluco]

Someone mentioned this on another site this week. So many think it's just a sexual thing. They can't understand it's not just a kink or kinky sex, but - as you said - psychological thing. I need the nurturing and caring side, where I trust and we connect, way more than I need an orgasm.

I'm not even little in the bedroom in the first place. I revert to sub with one heated kiss.

Otherwise I'm more of a little than a sub.

 

[geronimo_appleby]

mornings!

 

[barefootgirl69]

mornings!

Good morning!

 

[geronimo_appleby]

Good morning!

bed time?

 

[barefootgirl69]

bed time?

Not yet. I still want to read my book.

 

[geronimo_appleby]

Not yet. I still want to read my book.

ooh, what we readin'?

 

[barefootgirl69]

Room for Rent by Noelle Ihle
A thriller.

 

[geronimo_appleby]

Room for Rent by Noelle Ihle
A thriller.

i'll take a look at that.

it's a rugby fest today. last 3 games in the siz nations comp. need beers!

 

[barefootgirl69]

i'll take a look at that.

it's a rugby fest today. last 3 games in the siz nations comp. need beers!

Don't drink them too fast. Pace yourself. One for each game.

 

[geronimo_appleby]

Don't drink them too fast. Pace yourself. One for each game.

eh? you calling me a wanker?

one for each game, pffft. the games take 2 hours [40 mins each way, a ten minute interval, and then time stpped on the clock for fucking about and injiries, etc.].

 

[Polranny]

eh? you calling me a wanker?

one for each game, pffft. the games take 2 hours [40 mins each way, a ten minute interval, and then time stpped on the clock for fucking about and injiries, etc.].

Loads of wankers in the England team

 

[Btq97]

Loads of wankers in the England team

Yes a far too many in the management team as well.

 

[barefootgirl69]

eh? you calling me a wanker?

one for each game, pffft. the games take 2 hours [40 mins each way, a ten minute interval, and then time stpped on the clock for fucking about and injiries, etc.].

Oh, boy! Good thing you didn't have any other plans. Make sure you stay hydrated!

 

[Polranny]

When not wanking they're playing hopscotch

 

[barefootgirl69]

When not wanking they're playing hopscotch

What's wrong with hopscotch?! *gasp*

 

[Polranny]

Difficult to wank and play hopscotch ( warning... a long word follows) SIMULTANEOUSLY

 

[geronimo_appleby]

Loads of wankers in the England team

beat the other wankers last week though.

 

[barefootgirl69]

Difficult to wank and play hopscotch ( warning... a long word follows) SIMULTANEOUSLY

That's a bit condescending.

 

[geronimo_appleby]

Oh, boy! Good thing you didn't have any other plans. Make sure you stay hydrated!

i will. with beer.