Dissection of The Slut

[Netzach]

I find that the definition of "slut" holds true if you're talking about someone who likes to *get fucked* a lot. The "slut versus stud" conundrum only applies until you start talking about the guy who likes to take it up the ass as much as humanly possible.

I suppose also, that if you have a girl, in theory, who fucks with a strap on 90% more than she gets fucked, you would not get most people to agree she's a slut. She'd be a freak in most people's minds, but probably not a slut.

 

[myinnerslut]

My mind has been wandering again so thought I would bump this for those who might want to contribute to the discussion.

Catalina

i guess i can throw in my two cents, but i havnt read the whole thread so i hope i dont start with something that has been gone over ten times already.

"slut" for me is a loaded word. its derogatory. it just is. it it wasnt, i wouldnt enjoy being called it so much when in bed with Sir. it ranks right above "whore" and "bitch".

even so, i find a great sense of pride in being HIS slut. it says a few thins to me. it says i am his and nobody else's. it says i dont have to hide how i feel about things, specifically sex. it says that he likes and wants me this way. it allows me to unleash myself.

on a slightly off note: Sir calls me insatiatable. the medical profession calls me hypersexual. it is a semi-common side affect of females age 18-30 who are bipolar, as i am. so mabye i'm a slut due to science....

 

[Etoile]

Have you heard of Michelle Ormond, "the pass-around girl?" Now that is someone who is sex-addicted like crazy. Denver Westword had a feature on her recently.

 

[eastern sun]

Though I would never, ever call myself a slut, I have always acted like one. I was promiscuous very young. I have always fucked on the first date. And I love showing people how much I love sex.

However, as a freshman in high school, when I got "the reputation" for being easy to fuck, I began setting limits, effectively cutting myself off from all social life except drinking alone, and fucking my boyfriends. When I quit drinking at 16, I tried to be "good" and maintain "appropriate" behavior - only one boyfriend at a time, in "meaningful" relationships that lasted years.

That those very "appropriate" boyfriends turned me on to anal sex, bondage, wax, blindfolds, floggers, mind games, and exhibitionism, kept the slut in me very happy, because I was able to lose my civilized, restrained self by acting out the sexual taboos, and therefore experience the sexual animal that I am.

My husband loves the slut in me, and encourages me in every possible way, even while I maintain a highly respectable public persona. We thrill that I can go from sex slave to PTA President with only the damp panties to give me away. . .

when my husband encourages me to express and then act on my desires, I frequently surprise myself by what I say and do.

I think it is the "shamelessness" of the slut that is most liberating and disturbing.

what would happen if we felt no shame? would our civilized world collapse? would Britney Spears shave her head? would we watch her?

 

[Netzach]

If the world lost all shame Britney would be the least interesting show on TV.

 

[catalina_francisco]

would Britney Spears shave her head?

Didn't she do that a couple of days ago already? Britney shaved and tattooed

Catalina

 

[Etoile]

Britney can totally get off my TV now. I am so sick of it. The talking heads were yapping about taking the woman's kids away because she's supposedly "unstable" even though all the did was shave her head. WTF?

 

[pet120306]

Oh gosh, how to answer...

Those that knew me growing up would probably (who am I kidding, they DID) call me a slut, simply because I enjoyed having sex, whether in the context of a relationship or not. I STILL enjoy it. But the combination of sometimes social pariah and denying my desire to be submissive, I curtailed my urges, only letting them out in "acceptable" ways, such as with my husband and through fantasy. Still a slut, at least in my mind...

I even ended up having an affair, with my husband's knowledge and consent, and all that it really led to was my rediscovery of wanting to belong to someone, as their submissive, and I found out about this lovely place called Lit. Long story...my Mr. found me, and we are working our way towards IRL in the context of a polyamorous relationship with my husband. Am I a slut? Yeah.

But in the GOOD kind of way. I am sexually voracious with my husband, and a slut for my Mr. As another poster put it, I am HIS slut, just the way that both of us want it...

 

[liberatedslave]

I'm a voracious slut, Sir says I'm the first gf of his to have a libido to match his own. I love pleasing him and will always give that 100% because i get such a kick from it. When he calls me slut or whore, it's a summation. It's both a taunt and a compliment, a blush and a smile. I am also HIS slut, owned by him to use like a slut, for his pleasure alone, where my own is incidental, he will do exactly as he wants with me and I enjoy that so much. So yes, i love being his slut