Do you ever feel real emotions for someone you've met on here?

[sally_sparrow]

Yes. I still do.

 

[oldnotdead47]

I met a woman on Lit nearly 9 years ago (another id) We became really close, both of us in really difficult marriages at the time. It all started with her responding to me about a story that she had written that really touched me. I was surprised she answered, but we talked every day for many years and had some amazing times. So, yes, it does happen.

 

[CelestialCrystal_Goddess]

As of right now I'm still getting to know people on Literotica. I like getting to know people deeply, before I connect with them on a deeper level. I'm sure anything is possible though.

 

[newhere2learn]

Yes, Stellarmuse of this site. For the last 8 years we've communicated a lot, to the point of sharing WhatsApp details etc. She's been hugely supportive and at one point was my domme via message.

Since the pandemic, contact grew fleeting, and not heard from her in a few months despite reaching out. I often worry about her.

 

[chame1eon]

Yes, Stellarmuse of this site. For the last 8 years we've communicated a lot, to the point of sharing WhatsApp details etc. She's been hugely supportive and at one point was my domme via message.

Since the pandemic, contact grew fleeting, and not heard from her in a few months despite reaching out. I often worry about her.

That is concerning.

 

[sally_sparrow]

Yes, Stellarmuse of this site. For the last 8 years we've communicated a lot, to the point of sharing WhatsApp details etc. She's been hugely supportive and at one point was my domme via message.

Since the pandemic, contact grew fleeting, and not heard from her in a few months despite reaching out. I often worry about her.

I hope she is okay That is sad news. I know the pandemic turned my life a bit upside down as it has for many, hopefully she is healthy and will return

 

[newhere2learn]

I agree, from memory she lived out in manilla or such. We chatted a bit earlier during the pandemic but was sparse and short messages..sent a video of them in lockdown.

Over the years we'd.moved past the sexual, and (from my side) become "pen pals" as it were.

Contact grew less, note she's not been on here in ages. Same for fetlife, Kik and WhatsApp.

We didn't argue etc, so no reason to assume I offended her. She commented she was under the weather physically and mentally at last contact, so I just hope she's having time away and is ok.

 

[newhere2learn]

I've just checked WhatsApp, last contact from her was mid-September. I have sent messages every couple of weeks wishing her well.


ETA: WhatsApp/Kik/Fetlife all the penultimate week of September

 

[FunLi]

Yes, absolutely.
When I first joined Lit it was to just add some excitement and something to look forward to while being in a not terrible but definitely a lack of affection, attention, etc. of a marriage which most of us are familiar with. I’ve found in the past that chatting with others keeps that part of me satisfied and in a way, more content with my situation - aka, not be miserable day in and out and instead feel able and capable to keep my family together because what’s missing is being fulfilled by someone or something else.
I never once thought I’d join this site, meet the people I have both in-person and just through chatting, and falling for someone..yet as much as I was in denial, it happened.
I feel very lucky to have met him when I did. Sometimes I think back on everything over the past year and it just seems crazy to me how everything has turned out..but while I feel fortunate and lucky, there’s also the reality of loving a man you can’t and won’t ever have - it stings sometimes. It’s not easy other times. You just have to remind yourself that most are here for an escape from their reality and that’s all it will ever be and I’m learning to be okay with that and just enjoy it while I have it.

 

[PinkInPink]

You bet. My hubs is on this site. Today, I love him. Some other days too.

We didn't meet here but discovered we were both here during our courtship, which brought us that much closer because this has been a good forum for expressing what we may want to explore without having to directly say it, which can sometimes be embarrassing if its something new.

 

[islandjoe2]

You bet. My hubs is on this site. Today, I love him. Some other days too.

We didn't meet here but discovered we were both here during our courtship, which brought us that much closer because this has been a good forum for expressing what we may want to explore without having to directly say it, which can sometimes be embarrassing if its something new.

In all seriousness, this is all true.

 

[Dirt_in_the_Ground]

It must be close to 15 years ago now that a woman suddenly appeared on this little Google group that I’d set up for my favorite refugees from the defunct iVillage. I can’t recall ever learning how she found the group in the first place, but we hit it off immediately, and within a couple of hours of starting our first chat, she was sending me unsolicited Penthouse-level pics. And I thought, Well, this isn’t going to last long. But for years after that we had great conversations and smashing cyber fun, and we still keep in touch. She probably knows my sexual preferences, proclivities and desires in greater detail than most of the woman I’ve been with physically, and recently she told me she was considering a move to about an hour away from where I most often am these days. Perhaps this is what my dotage has in store for me, if my dotage isn’t forestalled by my bad habits.

 

[newhere2learn]

I hope she is okay That is sad news. I know the pandemic turned my life a bit upside down as it has for many, hopefully she is healthy and will return

She replied just before Christmas, confirmed she's alive and well

 

[lauramilf]

Now and again but sadly they never seem to last these days

 

[OxfordJack]

yes...a few times. It can lead to problems though.

 

[bw699353]

Yes afew times

 

[sally_sparrow]

She replied just before Christmas, confirmed she's alive and well

That is great to hear I'm glad she got back to you!

 

[MidnightRyder007]

I have, communication wasn't perceived well....

 

[Lollygirl26]

Very much so. I have found some amazing people on here...male and female. Helped me through loss, happiness. Been some assholes. Some i dream about, some i watch from the threads.

 

[hot_hunny_bunny]

There are some great people on here. You can become close as they tend to be your private online family/lover.

I got a nice message from a guy who hadn't seen me around for a couple of days after I reappeared after a long while off here, he posted on the thread too has anyone heard from bunny

 

[PlayWithMeToday]

It’s only happened twice. The first time it was new and exciting, sexy and kind of intoxicating. It was full of highs and lows but was mostly great until it just was just all of a sudden gone...

The second time was wholly unexpected. It crept in slowly and built into something fun and sweet and sexy and kind of amazing. It ended recently, but on good terms with understanding on both sides.

 

[Maddiel1]

I think many don’t understand or appreciate the deep emotions that can happen in an online setting. But they are very real. I’ve been very fortunate in that I developed a great and lasting friendship with someone I met here. It has been painful at times, it’s been difficult at times but I have never regretted it. And honestly, hard times come with close relationships of any kind.

 

[Smoothshavendad]

Honestly, I’ve never experienced a real close connection or emotions for anyone on here yet. I’m not against it. I’m actually new to all this but I would love to meet someone on here with similar interests and build some kind of connection or relationship. I’m willing to give it a try, just to see where things go and what they become. Because I think it has the potential to turn into something more meaningful or even a great friendship. Just my random thoughts!

You sound very nice. I’m sure you will connect with the right people soon.

 

[Dirt_in_the_Ground]

I have been trying to give this question some thought for quite some time, and I guess the best way to express it is that I feel delight. Delight in meeting new and interesting people. I have certainly felt fondness for many, and felt like I have been inspired to be better myself because of it.

 

[Huff76]

I have been trying to give this question some thought for quite some time, and I guess the best way to express it is that I feel delight. Delight in meeting new and interesting people. I have certainly felt fondness for many, and felt like I have been inspired to be better myself because of it.

I like this. Fond/fondness are lovely words, very underused I think


I will simply say yes