Dom/me "Thought of the Day" calendar

[Mr Blonde]

Is it just my imagination or did the month of March pass by very quickly?

Well, something had to be done...or else we would end up discussing the Fourth of July on Christmas.

All kidding aside, I had to work very quickly so someone PM me if I made a mistake or accidental repetition or if there are any weak posts that should be replaced with something more suitable.

 

[catalina_francisco]

Is it just my imagination or did the month of March pass by very quickly?

Well, something had to be done...or else we would end up discussing the Fourth of July on Christmas.

LOL, keep this pace up and it might be Christmas in July!!

Catalina

 

[Phoenix Stone]

Just 'discovered' this thread. Wow! Yow! Thanks!

(purr)

 

[msboy8]

Thought For the Day

"Remember this, Sex is all about Pleasure and Pain. The amounts you want decide who and what you are." Miss Anne

 

[redelicious]

April 2

One must have control before being able to give it away.

To give control away you must first own it. Self control.

When you give it away you have more of it. Self control.

It will happen naturally if it is meant to be.

--Shadowsdream

https://forum.literotica.com/showthread.php?s=&threadid=241163

 

[DisGirlisNutz]

April 12

Start training a man from the fist moment you meet him.

 

[DisGirlisNutz]

The night i met him i started training him right at the bar!

 

[FungiUg]

Re: April 12

Start training a man from the fist moment you meet him.

Freudian slip?

 

[Mr Blonde]

April 4

As the whips and crops begin to fly I feel an energy build that consumes Me with the desire to test limits and bring tears flowing down flushed cheeks. Whimpers and moans mixed with the occassional scream excites Me and drives Me to continue to add one toy after another to My arsenal of torments. As My energy increases I am on fire...Hot and intense...not a soft spot left to be found. I become a Tiger feeling the cage that surrounds My toys with the limits yet to be over come.

--Shadowsdream link

 

[Mr Blonde]

April 5

[W]e feel that giving him/them a new name is counter-productive. We want our boys to keep the personality that they had before we owned them - we may do some behavior modification, but it is still the same personality. If we change their name, it separates them from the person they were before we owned them.

--SweetDommes link

 

[Mr Blonde]

April 6

I have no want, need, or desire to "break" my guy. His submission will come willingly or it won't come at all for us, and that's something I can live with. When we chose to go down this road it wasn't with the intention of making me (as the Mistress) more superior to him, or him (as my slave) less than what he is. He is a strong man, with a very strong personality, I would never wish for that to change.

--Mistress Tae link

 

[Mr Blonde]

April 7

Dommes want the same thing Doms want! To mold someone to our vision of their best possible self, to stretch and explore their preconceived limits and boundaries, to "free" them to open
all sides of their personalities.

--Four_Inch_Heels link

 

[Mr Blonde]

April 8

Discussing his frustrations searching for a partner before finding Catalina...

I was not able to get the peace of mind I needed, my thirst could not be quenched and while I was looking desperately for answers I was just awakening my hunger and my needs without being able to feed them.

--Francisco link

 

[AngelicAssassin]

April 17

Life is not fair because the world owes you nothing. Anything worth having requires you earn it with the best of your heart, mind and soul. Any effort less than your best makes the having less. ~ T.O.M.

 

[Mr Blonde]

April 10

Part of a Dominant's responsibility is to guide their submissive back from the depths of their submission and for many, it requires thought, compassion and even, at times, planning. I do believe that a lack of aftercare can cause a fissure in the trust between a sub and Dominant. Much like taking someone to the outer most edge of a cliff and telling them to find their way back, blindfolded.

--MissTaken link

 

[Mr Blonde]

April 11

I do not like to be kept waiting and this trait in My personality is magnified when I am in the mood to go out. If he wants to put Me in a bad mood that is likely to last all day this is the best time to accomplish it. Waiting makes Me seethe with discontent. If there is one thing a submissive does not want to see in this Domme it is discontent.

--Shadowsdream link

 

[Mr Blonde]

April 12

Had a sub for 4 months or so years ago, and I put 5 or 6 [clothes] pins on each side of her pussy lips. She claimed that she hated it, but I never saw her get wetter.

--WriterDom link

 

[Mr Blonde]

April 13

I just want to say that being black (well, half-black) and dominating white women is absolutely the shit.

--Marquis link

 

[Mr Blonde]

April 14

Mmmmmmmmm blood. I have once or twice bitten to draw blood, I have also used blades and insulin needles to extract, and I find biting and knifeplay to be my favorites. It is erotic, it is intimate, and for those of us who enjoy it, it allows us to experience some of that darker aspect of ourselves that most people try so hard to hide ... to keep up the appearance that we are civilised.

--KestralWolfe (abridged) link

 

[Mr Blonde]

April 15

I've always thought that one who forbids a slave to so much as talk to another Dominant doesn't really own that slave.

--Netzach link

 

[Mr Blonde]

April 16

Discussing ways to use pantyhose...

Those are just perfect for everything...they make blindfolds, they make nice gags, can be used as "ropes". They make nice "humiliation devices" for the male sub meeting me for a first dinner out and being sent to the bathroom to put them on and return his undies into my hand instead, they make nice accessoirs in "sensation play" if put wet into the minibar freezer before the night starts ... oh, there is so much versatility in them ...

--Hecate (abridged) link

 

[Mr Blonde]

April 17

To tell you the truth, Daddi is a whole nother world in Lesbian relationships. Daddi/little boi is more common than Daddi/little girl for some reason. Daddi's are generally rougher around the edges, rougher in their treatment (in a loving way of course) and they love their belt. Daddi's generally dress in drag as well. And they almost ALWAYS mark their little boi or girl.

--DustyWolfe link

 

[Esclava]

<snip> Try a little experimentation, and as a suggestion, have him start with an open palm. The crop doesn't register anything to his nervous system except resistance at impact. An open palm feels the impact. As an area, on you, becomes reddened and overloaded, have him shift to another area. Your system gets a new jolt, but gives you time to recover at the former. His hand, however, still has to deal with continuing to deliver the impact.

His thrill? He gets to pick the new area, and if you both choose, you don't see it coming until impact. He also gets to return to a "used" area whenever he wishes. If he's smart, he'll take his time moving back to an area he's already engaged. Over time, he can return a little quicker. In the long run, his mind might transfer the learned response when using a crop.

Overall, your body gets to adjust, his exhuberance slows down a bit, and you both get used to building a bonfire with the wood available instead of Eddie Murphy's uncle dumping gasoline on the backyard BBQ.

--AngelicAssassin

https://forum.literotica.com/showthread.php?s=&postid=8415711#post8415711

I will remember these wise words. TYVM

Esclava

 

[Mr Blonde]

April 19

I normally speak in a pleasant (so I am told) tenor, but when I am actively dominating, I drop the pitch to a baritone, and add a certain emphatic pitch. In fact, I rely more on voice intonation than I do on eye contact.

--FungiUg link

 

[Mr Blonde]

April 20

Boredom can very easily be the beginning of the end of a D/s relationship. From both sides of the whip...If I bore him he will and should start looking for what he knows he deserves. If he bores Me I will and should allow him to find someone else to entertain.

--Shadowsdream link