Male sub thread

[SweetDommes]

Then don't expect to get tied up ... only good subbies get what they want ...

 

[alonelygal]

Then don't expect to get tied up ... only good subbies get what they want ...

*being good...checks thread heading...Male*






darn

 

[Alt]

Hey now, whats wrong with a little spirit to spice things up? Besides, us wilder ones give better massages!

 

[Solidsnake0802]

I am a male sub, pretty new to the BDSM scene, but I think it suits me.

 

[SweetDommes]

sorry lonelygal

so now to start some discussion ... um ... *thinking*

OK OK, so I just got up from a nap & my brain is a little fuzzy ... someone else come up with something

 

[Alt]

so now to start some discussion ... um ... *thinking*

OK OK, so I just got up from a nap & my brain is a little fuzzy ... someone else come up with something

Sex toy parties- dangerous or a good way to put the sub to work?

 

[MissIntrigue]

A good way I say....

 

[MissTaken]

Hi everybody!

I was thinking about this thread the other night before my computer crashed, my refrigerator got really warm and my vcr/dvd player died.

Gosh, I need a male subbie with technical abilities to come and take care of me!

(Got one...but he is working!)

Anyway, has anyone here been involved in a scene which was a rape with the fem domme being the aggressor?

I have, but am wondering how to embellish the theme a bit.

Our rape scenes have been highlighted by the mental control that makes his getting out of a situation impossible.

I would like some ideas for physical control beyond the typical ropes and chains.

 

[Phoenix Stone]

Anyway, has anyone here been involved in a scene which was a rape with the fem domme being the aggressor?

I have, but am wondering how to embellish the theme a bit.

Our rape scenes have been highlighted by the mental control that makes his getting out of a situation impossible.

I would like some ideas for physical control beyond the typical ropes and chains.

Not in rl but I've got this fantasy.... Once you've got him by the uh testes, ever so gently, the rest of him just seems to follow, naturally, with very little tugging of the reins required. The teeniest little squeeze serving as a reminder. In my fantasy, she does this at a party in a room full of people. Just goes up to him, hands down front of suitpants, she tugs and strolls him calmly out of the room, leaving everyone aghast but unsure what to do.

 

[SweetDommes]

My thoughts were more for restraints not involving rope or chains or anything major - like pinning or clipping the sleeves of a long sleeved shirt together at random - or taking a bracelet and looping it through his watch band before putting it around the other wrist - a "spur of the moment" type of bondage for a seemingly unplanned "rape".

 

[MissTaken]

Not in rl but I've got this fantasy.... Once you've got him by the uh testes, ever so gently, the rest of him just seems to follow, naturally, with very little tugging of the reins required. The teeniest little squeeze serving as a reminder. In my fantasy, she does this at a party in a room full of people. Just goes up to him, hands down front of suitpants, she tugs and strolls him calmly out of the room, leaving everyone aghast but unsure what to do.

have you been reading my journal?



My favorite thing is what I can do to his scrotum and the effect it has on him. (Insta- hard on.)

He hates it, but hates when it stops!

 

[Xelebes]

It's been awhile since anyone did anything with this thread - once again, it seems that the male subs have gone into hiding ... *peers into the corners* where are you guys?

I'm sorry, I did not know this thread existed!

Anywho.... back to reading this whole thread.

 

[RavenSpirit2k4]

A little tip, guys

I just got chatted up by a 19 year old male sub who's been posting personals here, saying he was looking for a domme no older than 30. I reminded him that I'm 33. He said he was aware of that but "it's so hard to find a domme."

Needless to say, I didn't exactly feel flattered. So don't do that.

 

[Xelebes]

Re: A little tip, guys

I just got chatted up by a 19 year old male sub who's been posting personals here, saying he was looking for a domme no older than 30. I reminded him that I'm 33. He said he was aware of that but "it's so hard to find a domme."

Needless to say, I didn't exactly feel flattered. So don't do that.

I'll keep that in mind. Though I plan not to fervently seek out dommes and that situation would never arise for me to state such. If I happen to find one, then so be it. But I am currently contented right now leaving it all in my fantasies.

 

[Xelebes]

This is why we male subs do not post often. All of a sudden a good thread is turned into a personal attack on male subs. We aren't hiding in any kind of woodwork. I personally do not hide, but when I do post and contribute my opinions and my ideas someone always without fail shoots them down. Ussually basing their reason on the fact that they are a Dom/me and no other reason.

Ok, this post may be old but damn is it very true. Very often, any idea that I present to the public "seems to get shot down" or mostly my ideas come out all rushed and incoherent hence that feeling. That is why I am mostly feeling only okay to post when I respond and not to start a discussion.

This usually means that I end up being shy in real life but appear open and involved in forums - so many ideas to respond to.

 

[RavenSpirit2k4]

I promise I'll try to not do that.

 

[Xelebes]

I promise I'll try to not do that.

It never really is your fault, as it is usually my fault for thinking I am an idiot and getting all flustered.

 

[Alt]

Hi everybody!

I was thinking about this thread the other night before my computer crashed, my refrigerator got really warm and my vcr/dvd player died.

Gosh, I need a male subbie with technical abilities to come and take care of me!

(Got one...but he is working!)

Anyway, has anyone here been involved in a scene which was a rape with the fem domme being the aggressor?

I have, but am wondering how to embellish the theme a bit.

Our rape scenes have been highlighted by the mental control that makes his getting out of a situation impossible.

I would like some ideas for physical control beyond the typical ropes and chains.

The one time I was involved with this was when the "female aggressorS" had actually tied my shoes together. I could move, but definitely could not get away. Of course one of my wrists was also handcuffed to the bannister so I would not have gotten far. They took the situation much further after that. Lets just say I was very vulnerable and stimulated at the same time! To this day I am not sure how much the mailperson saw! I was left in the foyer for hours!

 

[Alt]

Re: A little tip, guys

I just got chatted up by a 19 year old male sub who's been posting personals here, saying he was looking for a domme no older than 30. I reminded him that I'm 33. He said he was aware of that but "it's so hard to find a domme."

Needless to say, I didn't exactly feel flattered. So don't do that.

What an idiot! At 33 you're only going to get better!

 

[RavenSpirit2k4]

Re: Re: A little tip, guys

What an idiot! At 33 you're only going to get better!

Thank you kindly.

 

[MissIntrigue]

And might I add that it gets even better at 40!

 

[Alt]

And might I add that it gets even better at 40!

That you do! Nice cuffs!

 

[SweetDommes]

Re: A little tip, guys

I just got chatted up by a 19 year old male sub who's been posting personals here, saying he was looking for a domme no older than 30. I reminded him that I'm 33. He said he was aware of that but "it's so hard to find a domme."

Needless to say, I didn't exactly feel flattered. So don't do that.

Could be worse ... we used to get "you're how old? ... god you're just pups" and "you aren't old enough to be dominant, how about you sub to me awhile first ... " *mutters 'damned jackasses''*

 

[Xelebes]

And might I add that it gets even better at 40!

I hope that's the truth, because if that's not the reality, I'm gonna be disappointed.

 

[Alt]

Re: Re: A little tip, guys

Could be worse ... we used to get "you're how old? ... god you're just pups" and "you aren't old enough to be dominant, how about you sub to me awhile first ... " *mutters 'damned jackasses''*

Wow! Even I know better than to say that to you!