Male sub thread

[MissTaken]

What does it for you?

The physical activity surrounding submission and S and M play or the mental fuzz that occurs when submitting?



Tell all!

 

[MissTaken]

*bump*

So, I want to know...is the strike of the whip or the fact that you are on your knees, gagged and worshipping your Lady that really turns you on?

 

[sifer]

*bump*

So, I want to know...is the strike of the whip or the fact that you are on your knees, gagged and worshipping your Lady that really turns you on?

For me it is worshiping my lady and giving my self completely to her. To me there is now greater display of love and trust posible.

 

[shyly curious]

i found this thread early this morning ...

... and have now read all posts on it.

for many vanilla years, i felt incomplete, ...

now, i have given my sexual identity to another. she owns my mouth, my cock, my ass, and my hands. they now exist only to please her, they are not mine to touch unless she requires me to do so, either for training, or to pleasure her body and soul.

giving this to her, becoming her "sub", is an act of the heart and the spirit for me. it completes me, gives me great pleasure to offer her whatever she wishes.

when she speaks of her desires, her fantasies, her needs, ... she is trusting me at an incredible level, that i will not run, screaming "NOOOOOO..." into the nite. she trusts that i will listen and respond honestly, openly, respectfully, ...

how can i do less then to honor that, i would be not a man if i did not see the value of a relationship where such communication was the normal thing between two people.

it is i who am lucky, to have found a woman, who enjoys me as i am, and is willing to be so open and encourage and allow me the same ...

i kneel before her, wondering at my luck, wishing only to see her smile, wanting only that which makes her smile ...






for those inclined, there is a story on LIT, "ten rules for a husband", in the fetish catagory. some very thought provoking concepts.



be well all, shy

 

[Limbhugger]

Welcome Shy. Good post.

 

[Telafio]

After reading all the posts on this thread. I feel a real sense of frustration.

Frustrated that I am at present unable to express my submissivness.

Frustrated that there seems to be an almost mythical aura around the Domme. I mean does she even exist.

I was pleased to read of other subs who are lucky enough to have found a Domme.

Thank you guys for sharing your experiences.

 

[sifer]

Be not in dispaire Telephino there is a dome for you who is currently frustraited by a lack of true submisive men.

 

[MissIntrigue]

Re: i found this thread early this morning ...

drama

 

[SweetDommes]

Re: Re: i found this thread early this morning ...

I checked my pms this morning as he worked. He sent me one during the night hours as I slept, titled "a thread to read from beginning to end' and in the pm he begs of me, "Please Mistress Please..." It was all he said. I went to the thread and as I got a few minutes throughout my morning, I read whatever I could. He wants/needs to be here at this thread, to speak, to know, to learn, to share and express of himself the he that he has always been but was never safe enough to. He wants me here with him, with my approval and encouragement. I give him this freely and he posts such a post that I do not realize what thing I have done to earn this from him. I honor it, I accept it, WE will walk together, open doors together, for OUR discovery, for OUR growth...and I look upon him as he kneels before me, I smile and turn his face up to greet mine, I kiss him tenderly and tell him how deliciously precious he is to me, and I continue to wonder how did I get so lucky....
You make my heart weep fire...

I read both posts & was touched by both ... glad that you're both here to share with us.

 

[shyly curious]

Re: Re: i found this thread early this morning ...

I checked my pms this morning as he worked. He sent me one during the night hours as I slept, titled "a thread to read from beginning to end' and in the pm he begs of me, "Please Mistress Please..." It was all he said. I went to the thread and as I got a few minutes throughout my morning, I read whatever I could. He wants/needs to be here at this thread, to speak, to know, to learn, to share and express of himself the he that he has always been but was never safe enough to. He wants me here with him, with my approval and encouragement. I give him this freely and he posts such a post that I do not realize what thing I have done to earn this from him. I honor it, I accept it, WE will walk together, open doors together, for OUR discovery, for OUR growth...and I look upon him as he kneels before me, I smile and turn his face up to greet mine, I kiss him tenderly and tell him how deliciously precious he is to me, and I continue to wonder how did I get so lucky....
You make my heart weep fire...

sub is humbled, ... kneels, ... reaches out to MissIntrigue, ... in his hands he holds his complete essence, ... he offers his heart, his inner being, ................... he wishes to please MissIntigue, ... M'lady, ... she is the core of his being, she is the light that makes each day glimmer, ... the spark of sub's thoughts ...

sub feels warmth, care, and such overwhelming tenderness as she takes his maleness from sub, ... as HERS, ... rightfully Hers, ... as it should be, ...

sub feels he has finally found his alter, ... a place to worship, ... a place he has sought for so many long years, ... sub is longing to worship, ... to show his devotion, his faith, his abject surrender to her womanly being, ...

to kneel, ... to accept her fantasies, her needs, her wishes as the only thing of value, ...

sub feels peace, ... bliss, ... and rests his head on her feet, ...

finally, ... he is sub, ... he is complete, ... and is so grateful, ...

thank you MissIntrigue, ...

 

[MissTaken]

Re: Re: i found this thread early this morning ...

I checked my pms this morning as he worked. He sent me one during the night hours as I slept, titled "a thread to read from beginning to end' and in the pm he begs of me, "Please Mistress Please..." It was all he said. I went to the thread and as I got a few minutes throughout my morning, I read whatever I could. He wants/needs to be here at this thread, to speak, to know, to learn, to share and express of himself the he that he has always been but was never safe enough to. He wants me here with him, with my approval and encouragement. I give him this freely and he posts such a post that I do not realize what thing I have done to earn this from him. I honor it, I accept it, WE will walk together, open doors together, for OUR discovery, for OUR growth...and I look upon him as he kneels before me, I smile and turn his face up to greet mine, I kiss him tenderly and tell him how deliciously precious he is to me, and I continue to wonder how did I get so lucky....
You make my heart weep fire...

Welcome to both of you.

I am glad you found this thread as I , too, have enjoyed reading and posting here.

Feel free to offer your thoughts, questions and share your journey with us so that others may benefit.

I do believe that male submission involves a different set of dynamics than fem subs cope with, and some things are the same.

That being the case, it seems that male subs have a difficult time finding somewhere to discuss and explore these feelings openly and I hope that this forum can be one of those places.

for shy and MissIntrigue

 

[MissTaken]

After reading all the posts on this thread. I feel a real sense of frustration.

Frustrated that I am at present unable to express my submissivness.

Frustrated that there seems to be an almost mythical aura around the Domme. I mean does she even exist.

I was pleased to read of other subs who are lucky enough to have found a Domme.

Thank you guys for sharing your experiences.

Many share in your frustration and frankly, as a submissive seeking my Dream Dominant, I was also frustrated. As you have read, scooter and I met in a vanilla context and the relationship evolved from there.


As we have moved further into our relationship, we believe many men have the same fantasies that he does, but , many men don't believe that they can be reality or supress them for their own reasons. I believe that had I not had the BDSM background that I did, perhaps he would never have been able to verbalize his darker fantasies and certainly would not have been able to realize them.


To anyone who is learning more about themselves here and seeking partners, best wishes to you. I admire you for being able to pursue what many men will only dream about.

Many hugs,

 

[Satin Kitty 69]

MissIntrigue & shy, your posts moved me, reminding me of the sense of connection and deep understanding that being in a Domme-sub relationship means.

Telafio, it was only two months ago I read a post on this very thread from a guy looking for a Domme, while at the time I wasn't sure I had the time after a few exchanges I realized it wasn't so much that he needed me, but that to be complete I needed him also. For I am a Domme because he has given himself to me entirely, and I have accepted his loyalty and dutiful attention. I care about him in a way different from my other relationships and friendships, since he is truely apart of my exploration...it is our path we walk on when we talk and play.

In a way I find my situation interestingly unique, although it may only be so because I do not know all who dwell in Lit and this world. On a daily basis I share my life with my guy, including in our often equal play some Dominance-submissive relations. Through the internet I am a Domme to a wonderful and loyal sub. From each relationship I find a new form of exploration to share, and each are highly valued and are precious to me.

 

[MissIntrigue]

Re: Re: Re: i found this thread early this morning ...

More fucking drama he is a drama slut

 

[shyly curious]

... bump ...

 

[Cardinal]

I would like to be a sub to my wife but she won't take charge. Am I out of luck or can she become a dom for me?

 

[shyly curious]

I would like to be a sub to my wife but she won't take charge. Am I out of luck or can she become a dom for me?

greetings cardinal, you might try

www.elisesutton.homestead.com/main.html

she has some interesting info on how you might help your wife discover her domme side.

go slow and be patient, being a good sub takes time, being a good domme takes time, you both have to want this and help each other to learn what works for you in your situation. it is more then sex, it is a way of being, with and for each other.

good luck, and stop back to share along your journey. there are many here who can assist and guide you to sites and threads with good info.

be well, shy

 

[SweetDommes]

I would like to be a sub to my wife but she won't take charge. Am I out of luck or can she become a dom for me?

There are many threads on the forum about this topic. I'm sure that at least some of them are in the library thread, so I would suggest checking it out, and you can also search the forum for threads.

 

[SweetDommes]

It's been awhile since anyone did anything with this thread - once again, it seems that the male subs have gone into hiding ... *peers into the corners* where are you guys?

 

[MissIntrigue]

They seem to be on 'BDSM personals submissives seeking Dom/mes' thread

 

[RavenSpirit2k4]

I, for one, hope that the male subs around here will come back and post in this thread some more.

 

[MissIntrigue]

Some of the ones at the other thread are newbies- this one(thread) was not up front- they may not have known it was even here. I'll go leave a link ...

 

[Alt]

You'll just have to do a better job of tying us down!

 

[SweetDommes]

Only if you beg properly alt

 

[Alt]

I am the Spartacus of subbies. Even the emporer Hoosierius has difficulty in controlling me.