Pmann’s Reasons Why Women Won’t Talk To Me (You) Thread

[Justadesperatewifeandmom]

Well it's nice insight and pretty interesting points of view. I appreciate that no one took anything personal. I hope everyone continues to enjoy lit in your own ways. And most of all stay horny

indeed. It doesn't always work that way, but I do enjoy when it does.

 

[PlayfulLilDarlin]

To be thought of in a moment and say I want to share this MOMENT with you? I get it. I really do. And I am not being judgmental at all. I just am not built the same

I am similar on this, one-night stands are not something I judge on but also not something I can do personally. I want something that is meaningful to me, and I am not sure I can share the intimacy of someone I care about with others.

I will flirt and be playful, I can throughly enjoy a good witty back and forth and be titalated by well worded conversation. I have to watch myself to ensure I am not assuming more is behind what I see as an intimate sharing of ideas and details than maybe was intended. I don't want my disposition to translate into how I 'read' the intentions of others. Basically, just because something is personal to me doesn't mean that that it was equally personal to the other person.

I haven't setup a meeting with anyone from Lit, I wouldn't rule it out, but it would be a process of building enough trust to feel comfortable and safe doing it.

 

[Dribble]

Women have beautiful bodies. Each and all. In no way should anyone think I don't think they should embrace whatever they need to help gain affirmation of that. I view general pics...those taken to compliment a thread...those given freely to all...as different from pics given individually. But I can see how there is an overlap here for some. And this thread is highlighting this.

 

[Lord Pmann]

and this is why I almost always love @Lord Pmann and his threads. They almost always turn into discussions of some sort.

Thank you. I’m very clever.

 

[MedicalMuse]

Thank you. I’m very clever.

And humble. Don’t forget humble.

 

[LadyLascivious1]

Many. "Good" guys are ignored. I also think many women like to talk the talk but......

Lit, like life, is not guaranteed to be fair. Not everyone is going to connect with someone. Not all good people will find what they’re looking for and some shady people will

Hell, you probably can’t even get a majority vote on what is considered “good” in the first place.

What I can say for myself is that any significant partner I’ve had, as well as anyone I consider a friend, has fallen into what I would consider the “Good” person category. Kindness matters to me. But that doesn’t mean that I owe my time or attention to every “good” person on Lit.

It seems many women here who say they are looking for on line fun, sexy chat etc. never seem to follow through. I'm assuming its because of them being swamped with PM s. The same women who complain and make threads like why do men ghost actually have ghosted guys. Guys will make a thread (probably someone new to Lit) looking for female is constantly shamefully bumping his thread up. You would think women on this site tired of the same guys would jump on that.

I’m not a fan of sweeping generalizations like this and would encourage you to consider what you see in public threads is only a portion of Lit. People can appear one way in public and be very different in private, in both good and bad ways. The people you think don’t follow through might be doing just that and you are unaware. The new personals from the “good” guy could be an alt who is aggressive and disrespectful one on one. It’s smart to never assume anything.

Women here seem to pay more attention to how many likes they get, When in reality all they have to do is say anything like I lke the smell of my own crap and us guys will put up hearts over eyes likes. As a women on this site have you ever pM someone who posted something YOU liked ? To me for women who want this and crave that. Wouldn't that be an opportunity to reach out to someone that maybe you have something in common with ? I don't know I think it;s really easy for a woman on this site to choose a play mate,

I don’t take offense to your opinion, but again it’s sweeping generalizations. I have no idea what my like count is and couldn’t care less. I just had a conversation today with a friend about having zero interest in doormats, anyone who seriously panders to me, or would put me on a pedestal. And the vast majority of people I am close to on Lit I PM’ed first. I’m willing to bet I’ve sent more first PMs than been the one to receive a first PM including the inappropriate ones I delete without responding to. I know what I like and it’s easier for me to spot it than anyone else, so why wouldn’t I start a conversation?

I did too, but I suspect it is an honesty and transparency thing. I don't think it applies the same way across different women. I think those of us that take pictures for ourselves and share as we wish tend to be transparent about that.

It’s definitely about the transparency and honesty involved. If I tell someone I took a picture for them, it’s theirs as much as mine and I will ask or tell them if I want to share it somewhere else.

There are plenty of times I take pictures for myself though. Or in response to a thread, whether it’s the chest thread or witty banter that led to the naked apron pics thread, and those are just as exciting to me in a different way.

I won’t limit myself to just one of those types of pictures because I enjoy them all. Most importantly though, I’m honest about enjoying them all.

Also “cling tighter than Chinese lingerie” is such a great turn of phrase

Neither am I interested in the looks, really. I may admire someone's looks, but that isn't what gets me.

Agreed. I’ve found that my affection for someone generally means that I find their characteristics attractive. That’s one of my favorite things about Lit. You have an opportunity to get to know someone, their personality and possibly their sexuality, before you see them. That can be an amazing gift and open you up to things you might not experience otherwise.

 

[Misshotndeep]

Oh and then there are the guys that don’t bother to read us ladies profiles. I mean I tell them a bunch about me. Including my sexual orientation and they just don’t bother to look. If they can’t read a profile why would I give energy to a conversation. Lazy men get nowhere in life or here.

 

[default24]

I used to think I was pretty fluent in sarcasm . Sometimes it is so hard to tell

I speak sarcasm. She was using it HEAVILY

 

[LadyLascivious1]

I used to think I was pretty fluent in sarcasm . Sometimes it is so hard to tell

I’m choosing to believe you are being just as sarcastic as Muse.

 

[MedicalMuse]

Look y’all, @Lord Pmann knows me well enough to know my sarcasm comes with a dose of affection.

 

[Nevyn_Black]

1st point- Posting here is doing nothing but feeding @Lord Pmann 's ego. It is sweeling beyond any rational proportion and soon he will not be able to contain it. Everything will feed it, even when I post this. BE WARNED!

2nd point-I've seen a whole lot of sweeping generalizations here. When you say things like; "Guys just want sex!" It isn;t a true statement, because not every guy is the same. Some men are Asexual.

Same with; "All women want an Alpha Male!"
There are Mommy Dommes who just want a cute little boy to take care of.

Just because its what you feel and think, or even what all your friends feel and think, does not make it universally true. All people are different from one another, even if they share genitalia. So lets not point fingers, or say ALL men, or ALL woman about anything. Deal?

 

[Lord Pmann]

I just want to be clear, I was NOT being sarcastic when I said I was clever. It’s true. I am VERY, VERY clever.

 

[Lord Pmann]

1st point- Posting here is doing nothing but feeding @Lord Pmann 's ego. It is sweeling beyond any rational proportion and soon he will not be able to contain it. Everything will feed it, even when I post this. BE WARNED!

My ego is totally in check. I don’t know why anyone would think otherwise.

 

[Lord Pmann]

Just because it’s what you feel and think, or even what all your friends feel and think, does not make it universally true. All people are different from one another, even if they share genitalia. So let’s not point fingers, or say ALL men, or ALL woman about anything. Deal?

That sounds like the worst case of conjoined twins that I’ve ever heard of. Is it like one single, shared penis? Or dual penises, like two rats whose tails get tangled together and form like a super tail?

 

[Ingenue844]

I used to have my PMs open. And any message that was respectful I would respond to.

I’ve since stopped responding to platitudes or content-lite PMs (“yo what’s up?” “Hey girl”). Unless that’s a friend I chat with regularly and that’s just an opening. But often it’s just that and then a lame attempt to start eBoning.

I do enjoy any conversation that has to do with what we’re interacting about on the threads.

 

[Nevyn_Black]

That sounds like the worst case of conjoined twins that I’ve ever heard of. Is it like one single, shared penis? Or dual penises, like two rats whose tails get tangled together and form like a super tail?

May you be cursed to wear nothing but a shark skin disco suit for the rest of your days. Complete with chest hair revealing open collared shirt, and obligatory gold chains about your neck.

 

[Misshotndeep]

May you be cursed to wear nothing but a shark skin disco suit for the rest of your days. Complete with chest hair revealing open collared shirt, and obligatory gold chains about your neck.

Disco Stew returns!

 

[LadyLascivious1]

Look y’all, @Lord Pmann knows me well enough to know my sarcasm comes with a dose of affection.

I particularly appreciate that you lead with sarcasm and there’s a dash of something else instead of the other way around

 

[MedicalMuse]

I particularly appreciate that you lead with sarcasm and there’s a dash of something else instead of the other way around

I aim to please

 

[PlayfulLilDarlin]

even if they share genitalia.

I always heard sharing was caring.

 

[Lord Pmann]

May you be cursed to wear nothing but a shark skin disco suit for the rest of your days. Complete with chest hair revealing open collared shirt, and obligatory gold chains about your neck.

You gotta admit, sharing genitals paints a funny picture.

 

[Misshotndeep]

I always heard sharing was caring.

At least no one has to worry about sharing STDs on HERE. It seems like as much as some folks e-fuck they would have a bunch by now.

 

[aussiegeekygal]

I just want to be clear, I was NOT being sarcastic when I said I was clever. It’s true. I am VERY, VERY clever.

It is annoyingly true.. He is clever.

 

[Lord Pmann]

At least no one has to worry about sharing STDs on HERE. It seems like as much as some folks e-fuck they would have a bunch by now.

Not true. There are some people on this forum I won’t respond to without putting on a condom first.

 

[PlayfulLilDarlin]

At least no one has to worry about sharing STDs on HERE. It seems like as much as some folks e-fuck they would have a bunch by now.

But you could catch a computer virus! Clap2.0 or herpEs