The way to a Dominant's heart

[witcha]

*stops taking notes and throws her pencil across the room * sorry...too complicated for a stupid girl like me.....will be there any cartoon version of this??


witcha

 

[RJMasters]

*stops taking notes and throws her pencil across the room * sorry...too complicated for a stupid girl like me.....will be there any cartoon version of this??


witcha

Yeah just watch snoopy and woodstock and it will all make perfect sense

 

[CutieMouse]

*****

 

[witcha]

Aww..Thanx a lot RJMasters.....Now I finally understand all of this....(btw Snoopy is soooo cute )


*smiles innocently at RJMasters*



witcha

 

[ethereal~minx]

my perspective was not yours and not ..unfortunately.. related to you at all but rather to the "submit because I'm dominant'' type of person. I understand you are not that type. my wish is that I would have let you know that before adding more to your thread.

I do not disagree with you RJ.

 

[RJMasters]

my perspective was not yours and not ..unfortunately.. related to you at all but rather to the "submit because I'm dominant'' type of person. I understand you are not that type. my wish is that I would have let you know that before adding more to your thread.

I do not disagree with you RJ.

nods...think I was adding to your comment...at least I didn't think we were dis-agreeing...I can only see it working the way you described it too...

For some reason of late I seem to be giving the impression I am a dis-agreeable fellow...perhaps I need to sit out for a bit and examine why that is.

 

[catalina_francisco]

Catalina, this is all inappropriate... this is not Gorspeak, it is Shakespearespeak.

this girl humbly thinks you need some GOR lessons too!! aaaaaaaahahahhahah.

LOL, just browsing threads in between a million other things and came across this instruction.....ROFLMAO, I tried, I really did, but Francisco doesn't like it and told me to get up off the floor, get real, and get back to some real work and pleasuring that he could enjoy and take pride in!! Even was tempted to order me to silence I think so he wouldn't have to pull out the Gor dictionary so often to understand what I was on about....hmmm, of course as I failed at it so miserably, even the dictionary wasn't likely to give him much help.

Catalina

 

[RJMasters]

LOL, just browsing threads in between a million other things and came across this instruction.....ROFLMAO, I tried, I really did, but Francisco doesn't like it and told me to get up off the floor, get real, and get back to some real work and pleasuring that he could enjoy and take pride in!! Even was tempted to order me to silence I think so he wouldn't have to pull out the Gor dictionary so often to understand what I was on about....hmmm, of course as I failed at it so miserably, even the dictionary wasn't likely to give him much help.

Catalina

It can be humorious to go back and read a thread you made over a year ago. Laughs and wonders why you would choose to resurrect this old and forgotten thread just to poke fun at Gorean Culture Catalina? IDK maybe your not and I just miss the point of you bumping this thread.

I have appreciated some of the other older posts you have bumped though...especially this one -

https://forum.literotica.com/showthread.php?t=307880

I remember about 7 years ago being on line and running across a gorean culture online. It was quite interesting. Spent a little time there learning what it was all about. I am sure it is different from place to place. This place was really into roleplay. It largely hung on strict protocols and mannerisms for both Doms and Submissives. I quickly lost interest in it, but one thing I did enjoy, was some of the aspects about that culture was the dances and the serves. You could tell those who worked really hard to practice them and do them well. I am sure the time and effort they put into learning them and performing them came from a pure desire to serve.

The language was very dificult to learn and understand. However, as with most other BDSM-type cultures, once you take the time to learn about them and get to know some of the people, you learn that they are just expressing themselves in a way they had learned. Its too bad that it didn't work out for you and Francisco. I don't think I could deal with a large part of that culture either, especially the language, but I certainly learned to appreciate the dances and serves. I have never met or seen this in Rl, so maybe much of it doesn't traslate well into real life.

~~~~~~~~

As to the original posting or starting this thread...I took the time to go back and re-read through it. I think today I would still consider the concept of the thread to be valid for me, but would probably answer much in the same way AA did...

"Some of it fits, some doesn't....Shrug"

However I think ShadowsDream sumed it up nicely...

"The way to this Dominants heart is to be sincere about submission, honest about limits and have the softest eyes that can easily be brought to tears. Nothing profound but all simply elemental for Me."


Some of the funny parts of this thread I remember was Marquis's responsing to a tougne and cheek answer I put up about what do you do or say when a submissive doesn't submit.

(~Rolls up sleves, what the fuck did you just say?~)

Marquis: LOL, now we're talking.


Another part was when ADR, Des and KC all got dentention. Silly times but lighthearted fun.


Some of the not so nice parts...the huge hyjacking of the thread at the expense of another person. Made me think of another thread I had read recently which I 100% agreed with.

https://forum.literotica.com/showthread.php?t=397598

Don't know how bumping this motheaten thread will be of interest to anyone, but I am sure you had your reasons. Thanks for the walk down memory lane.

 

[Kajira Callista]

I for one think that bumping up old threads is a great thing to do from time to time. I think it gives new posters a better look at who older posters around here are and where we are coming from. It also gives them a chance to add to what is already there and for the older posters to have a better look at and understanding of the newer ones.

 

[RJMasters]

I for one think that bumping up old threads is a great thing to do from time to time. I think it gives new posters a better look at who older posters around here are and where we are coming from. It also gives them a chance to add to what is already there and for the older posters to have a better look at and understanding of the newer ones.

Nods and agrees.

 

[Kajira Callista]

lol

Nods and agrees.

 

[catalina_francisco]

It can be humorious to go back and read a thread you made over a year ago. Laughs and wonders why you would choose to resurrect this old and forgotten thread just to poke fun at Gorean Culture Catalina? IDK maybe your not and I just miss the point of you bumping this thread.

As you noted I have bumped a few threads, (even cooking) as I have always done over the past few years in being on Lit. I think it helps in a variety of ways, not least of all those who may be looking for threads but struggling with our less than perfect search function these days. This one was about Dominant's, something I am having to deal with lately in our negotiations with possible play partners, and in skimming, I came across ADR's 'instructions' to me which I felt she would get a smile out of knowing I had tried and failed.

Catalina

 

[alice_underneath]

I for one think that bumping up old threads is a great thing to do from time to time. I think it gives new posters a better look at who older posters around here are and where we are coming from. It also gives them a chance to add to what is already there and for the older posters to have a better look at and understanding of the newer ones.

As one of the new posters here, I must say that this thread is indeed eye-opening.

Specifically, I have learned three things.

#1. Another new poster may not be so "new". Someone, quick, call the New York Times. This is truly relevant.

#2. An older poster has either matured quite a bit in the last year, or recently started a very hypocritical thread.

#3. The man who wrote this post -

https://forum.literotica.com/showpost.php?p=15619056&postcount=108

- is currently exhibiting an extraordinary amount of dignity.

Just my opinion.

Alice

 

[BeachGurl2]

Catalina, I love that you are reviving old threads - as a relative newbie here, it's quite enlightening to read through some of them.

RJ, I always have enjoyed reading your thoughts. You have what I think is an excellent ability to see yourself clearly and express that well. Quite refreshing, actually, to see someone so very willing to go down that road as most people don't have that accurate view of themselves or the confidence it takes to examine it in a public forum. So, thank you.

I'm subscribing to this thread so that I can go back and read it as I have time. Lots of good stuff here - even mixed in with the crap that some people must serve up from time to time.

 

[catalina_francisco]

Catalina, I love that you are reviving old threads - as a relative newbie here, it's quite enlightening to read through some of them.

I enjoy reading back over many of them, sometimes rediscover ones I forgot about, and in some ways it is like a diary for some of us to see what we were doing when, how things have or haven't changed. There are always going to be hijacks and disagreements, but for me that is preferrable to everyone agreeing in threads and then disagreeing behind the screen....sharing views and moods allow us all to grow and share and learn.

Catalina

 

[BeachGurl2]

I enjoy reading back over many of them, sometimes rediscover ones I forgot about, and in some ways it is like a diary for some of us to see what we were doing when, how things have or haven't changed. There are always going to be hijacks and disagreements, but for me that is preferrable to everyone agreeing in threads and then disagreeing behind the screen....sharing views and moods allow us all to grow and share and learn.

Catalina

I absolutely agree, disagreement is a good thing. Helps me learn and grow as a person. I just wish some people could serve it up with a little more tact, is all.

 

[alice_underneath]

I absolutely agree, disagreement is a good thing. Helps me learn and grow as a person. I just wish some people could serve it up with a little more tact, is all.

Great point, BeachGurl.

It would also be great if people could "disagree" without taunting, belittling, or directly insulting other posters.

 

[Kajira Callista]

ahh maybe we should leave it up to RJ to fill in the behind the scene blanks that no one can see now.

 

[Kajira Callista]

i changed my mind, i'll do it myself. not exact wording but something about me askin him in pm "what is goin on with that chick"....him telling me she was stalking him or something close to that.... submissive who respected him defending him.




hmmm history often does repeat itself doesnt it?

 

[BeachGurl2]

Great point, BeachGurl.

It would also be great if people could "disagree" without taunting, belittling, or directly insulting other posters.

Exactly what I mean. Thank you, Alice.

i changed my mind, i'll do it myself. not exact wording but something about me askin him in pm "what is goin on with that chick"....him telling me she was stalking him or something close to that.... submissive who respected him defending him.




hmmm history often does repeat itself doesnt it?

Not sure what you're implying, but I hope it's not what it sounds like.

 

[Kajira Callista]

btw, i dont know why cat bumped this one but im assuming that it was because in between all the silly play stuff there are a lot of great opinions and information.

 

[catalina_francisco]

I absolutely agree, disagreement is a good thing. Helps me learn and grow as a person. I just wish some people could serve it up with a little more tact, is all.

LOL, my take on it is we are all human, we all have off moments, we all have triggers, and for those of us who post often and/or regular, there are going to be moments we all post in a way we later on reflection may feel less than impressed with, or may be taken other than they were intended, or may be influenced by things the rest don't see onscreen, but for the most part it usually means people are being real as opposed to presenting a face they want people to believe is real....and it often generates discussion which is necessary on a discussion board. IME it is the rare poster who can't get past it and be friends once the dust has settled.

Catalina

 

[brioche]

LOL, my take on it is we are all human, we all have off moments, we all have triggers, and for those of us who post often and/or regular, there are going to be moments we all post in a way we later on reflection may feel less than impressed with, or may be taken other than they were intended, or may be influenced by things the rest don't see onscreen, but for the most part it usually means people are being real as opposed to presenting a face they want people to believe is real....and it often generates discussion which is necessary on a discussion board. IME it is the rare poster who can't get past it and be friends once the dust has settled.

Catalina

hear hear!
But there are some people you just decide to avoid, not because you're enemies, but because they're far too similar to you in whatever way

 

[BeachGurl2]

LOL, my take on it is we are all human, we all have off moments, we all have triggers, and for those of us who post often and/or regular, there are going to be moments we all post in a way we later on reflection may feel less than impressed with, or may be taken other than they were intended, or may be influenced by things the rest don't see onscreen, but for the most part it usually means people are being real as opposed to presenting a face they want people to believe is real....and it often generates discussion which is necessary on a discussion board. IME it is the rare poster who can't get past it and be friends once the dust has settled.

Catalina

Very good point. An interesting new way for me to look at it. See, learning something new.

 

[alice_underneath]

See, learning something new.

LOL. I'm learning quite a bit too!

Most notably.... there's a lot of behind-the-scenes soap opera crap that goes on here! Who knew?!?