The way to a Dominant's heart

[RJMasters]

Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Geeze la petes!

Hey man, quit stealing my moves!

Heehee...ya know...I did remember that from your post a while back....

Considerate a compliment, subs aren't the only ones who can take notes.

 

[rebeccaMH]

 

[Desdemona]

Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: The way to a Dominant's heart

yeah good points Des.

I don't think I am trying to set aside what you are saying...

In any relationship I am in, there is always room for respectful disagreement. When I started this thread....I mentioned this....

I often see or hear about things submissives want/need in their relationships with their Dom/me. Maybe I am tossing out a vowel.

I think the only point I am trying to make, is how I as a Dom react. And though I wouldn't put on panties and get a book, I think I would behave very much in the same way as Netz in that situation. And I do not consider that as being anywhere close to point B or goodbye.

So its not so much about laying down a law here or policy...its more in the spirit of....these are thing which I find attractive....this is how I react when "such and such" happens. Because we are in a relationship with a D/s dynamic...there is an avenuse which can be used to touch the Dom in me. You can use it, or not...kinda of thing.

When I see or hear a submissive fustrated and upset over something that is going on in their relationship...I ask them what have they done about it? As I listen I shake my head alot, because I know what they have done has not been done through a proper expression of a submissive spirit....and so I simply say, have you tried submitting?

There have been countless times I have relented my position or have made room for respectful disagreement. Anytime one comes to me and says...

Sir...I am trouble about this and I need:

To talk about it...
Help and asssurance...
Your understanding

Its all about how one approaches. If this is known, why try to do it the hard way?

Its funny, but you can pretty much get away with calling me an inconsiderate bastard and if said in an appropriate way, I wouldn't become defensive...and chances are I know it is true at times, I can be an inconsiderate bastard(though its rarely ever intentional)...so I might agree and apologize for it. Might even thank you for bringing it to my attention...and will make future steps to avoid making the same mistake in the future...Wow imagine that.

RJ, Thanks for the clarification. It's pretty much what I thought you would say. I will never understand why anyone does it the hard way. It's way too much trouble.

Now, I'm going back to my corner and resist the urge to call you an inconsiderate bastard (because quite clearly, you aren't one) just to get a response. LOL

 

[Desdemona]

Re: Re: Re: Re: The way to a Dominant's heart

I love your shoes :O They are kick ass!

Thanks

 

[RJMasters]

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[Kajira Callista]

oh my...did the gor shuttle land in the talk forum by mistake?

 

[A Desert Rose]

oh my...did the gor shuttle land in the talk forum by mistake?

LMAO... you took the words right out off of my fingertips, doll.

It's such cute posting though, isn't it? (insert rolley eyes emoticon here please.)

 

[Kajira Callista]

LMAO... you took the words right out off of my fingertips, doll.

It's such cute posting though, isn't it? (insert rolley eyes emoticon here please.)

inserts

 

[A Desert Rose]

inserts

LOL

I do think this is the kind of posting style that goes straight to a Dom's heart, don't you KC?

 

[Kajira Callista]

LOL

I do think this is the kind of posting style that goes straight to a Dom's heart, don't you KC?

coughwheeze-uhhuh-gagchokecough

 

[A Desert Rose]

coughwheeze-uhhuh-gagchokecough

You're telling me in code, that this is where I'm failing in working my way into His heart. You are really saying... I capitalize I when it should be lower case and I don't speak in the third person and I use proper grammer (usually).

Whew!!!! This will take some work on my part. I'm so used to doing it the way I was taught in school, yaknow?

 

[Kajira Callista]

You're telling me in code, that this is where I'm failing in working my way into His heart. You are really saying... I capitalize I when it should be lower case and I don't speak in the third person and I use proper grammer (usually).

Whew!!!! This will take some work on my part. I'm so used to doing it the way I was taught in school, yaknow?

its ok...its a very hard transition, but the air on gor helps....it really does.

 

[A Desert Rose]

its ok...its a very hard transition, but the air on gor helps....it really does.

What? are you telling me I have to now book a flight to Gor?

Opps... it should have read... What? are you telling me i have to now book a flight to Gor?

 

[Kajira Callista]

What? are you telling me I have to now book a flight to Gor?

Opps... it should have read... What? are you telling me i have to now book a flight to Gor?

*grabs her by the shoulders and shakes her* its the only way adr...i know you can do it. now throw yourself on the floor at the door of the shuttle BEG permission to get on the flight and belly crawl to a fur on the floor. no seatbelts for kajira ya know.

 

[A Desert Rose]

*grabs her by the shoulders and shakes her* its the only way adr...i know you can do it. now throw yourself on the floor at the door of the shuttle BEG permission to get on the flight and belly crawl to a fur on the floor. no seatbelts for kajira ya know.

I'm gonna pee my pants... LOL


We need a thread on Gorean behavior and customs. You know, the do's and don'ts and in's and out's of Gorlandia.

 

[Kajira Callista]

I'm gonna pee my pants... LOL


We need a thread on Gorean behavior and customs. You know, the do's and don'ts and in's and out's of Gorlandia.

no no no need for a thread...i can teach ya how to type it all just right




your box is full dolly

 

[catalina_francisco]

Me thinks there is some new and interesting perceived competition which has entered the sub brigade of this thread..and do I detect a smile on RJ's dial behind the screen? Welcome rebecca.

Catalina

 

[A Desert Rose]

no no no need for a thread...i can teach ya how to type it all just right

Well... i would say i'm sorry for the hijack and get on my knees with my face on the floor and type in lower case and kiss his boots and all that shit.. But I'm not.


LMAO

That kind of posting just screams for a teasing.

 

[Kajira Callista]

Me thinks there is some new and interesting perceived competition which has entered the sub brigade of this thread..and do I detect a smile on RJ's dial behind the screen? Welcome rebecca.

Catalina

trained pleasure slaves do not compete on gor ya know cat its just not done.



edited 'cause im laughing to much to see the typos

 

[A Desert Rose]

Me thinks there is some new and interesting perceived competition which has entered the sub brigade of this thread..and do I detect a smile on RJ's dial behind the screen? Welcome rebecca.

Catalina

Oh yea, she's here and I sure hope she is here to stay!!!

 

[Kajira Callista]

Oh yea, she's here and I sure hope she is here to stay!!!

hmmmm any place else needing a hijack today? *pops a reeses in my mouth and tosses one to ADR*

 

[A Desert Rose]

hmmmm any place else needing a hijack today? *pops a reeses in my mouth and tosses one to ADR*

Yea, I can think of at least a couple threads we could infiltrate... LOL Let's go shopping, whattyasay?

And I'm sure RJ is loving all this attention, catalina. ;-)

 

[Kajira Callista]

Yea, I can think of at least a couple threads we could infiltrate... LOL Let's go shopping, whattyasay?

And I'm sure RJ is loving all this attention, catalina. ;-)

grabs bag of peanut butter cups and heads for the door.

 

[catalina_francisco]

trained pleasure slaves do not compete on gor ya know cat its just not done.



edited 'cause im laughing to much to see the typos

Me thinks you were also too busy to note the 'perceived' before 'competiton'.

Catalina

 

[Kajira Callista]

well in my world...nothing and no one can be perceived as competition
wow im full a myself today eh dolly?



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