What was your first sexual experience that lead to your current fetish or fantasies?

[Nellie60]

Similar but I was able succeed that with one girl but I completely understand.

 

[Goldenfinger]

When my wife stuck her finger in my ass to massage my prostate to see if she could get me to cum.

 

[easyoff]

I can’t mention the type of sex I want but I would like to try a gang bang

You sound fun

 

[ToPleaseHim]

I can’t mention the type of sex I want but I would like to try a gang bang

You shouldn’t have mentioned it. Deleting the posts doesn’t really delete them. Disgusting.

 

[yowser]

For years before it actually happened, the idea of mouths and tongues doing lovely things to sensitive nether parts was absolutely intoxicating. An assigned reading in college, some Victorian erotica, put me over the edge, added archaic slang to my smut vocabulary ('minette' and 'gamahuche') and led to exquisite explorations with my college girlfriend. For those who want the long read, I have written about it all: First Lick.

 

[PMarky2]

First girlfriend was a natural smoocher - eyes lock, lips touch, mouths opens, tongues start to dance, then our eyes would close, and we would not come up for air until we started turning blue. I loved that. Whilst we kissed, we would try and find the access points in each other's clothing, and in the breaks we would slowly remove the obstructions until we were naked. I still love that, but I don't get it with the wife. When she is well enough, she is a kit off and get down to it type, and, sadly, a lousy kisser who I have never been able to teach. The missus loves being eaten, which is something I got into with a series of 'good girls' when I was in my twenties. A 'good girl' is one that does everything except play hide the sausage whilst trying to find a balance between rampant hormones and Evangelical morality.

 

[VDrago_1369]

I was a teenager and there was a wooded area not far from my house with a nice nature trail. I went there one time and I got really horny, so I stripped down and started masturbating there in the wild.

 

[TwoHeadsBald]

I was propositioned by a mans wife at a club.
She introduced me to open marriage. I knew about open marriage never knew anyone that practiced it.

 

[Bigboobbabe]

Had a GF that could suck the best cock. She could open her throat and no gagging...Took all of my thick 8" to the base. Feel her nose in my hair, It was like she would swallow and i would feel her throat muscles on my cock. She always make me cum so hard. Ruined me for BJ's. Cause when i would get me cock sucked after her i would stop girls cause they couldnt take all of me. So would just fuck.. So now to be deep throated is only a dream....

Pick me!

 

[Bigboobbabe]

CSI had a character Lady Heather.
She was a domme and her sex club was implicated in the crime.
She had a very mental dominance over Grissom.
She explained how the sub was in control.

I am a consultant for federal and state healthcare compliance. I am not in a sub position at work.

When I met my first true Dom, I finally understood and believed how the sub had the power. We weren't together very long, but it set the stage for me.

My second Dom, I knew about 5 months before fully submitting to him.

That feeling is so empowering and freeing.

I want that feeling again.

 

[Rose_Button]

Purely through drunken anger when I found out my girlfriend at the time was seeing someone else I pissed all over her dresses in the wardrobe. Not content with my revenge the next time I needed the loo I decided I was going to piss in her underwear drawer but something stopped me, got me pulling on a pair of her knickers and wetting them instead. When I awoke with a hangover and went to the bathroom to find several pairs of pissy knickers I felt such shame and embarrassment.

For some weird reason now I'm quite partial to wetting when I'm wearing lingerie and / or knickers.

 

[WildFireTN]

First girlfriend was a natural smoocher - eyes lock, lips touch, mouths opens, tongues start to dance, then our eyes would close, and we would not come up for air until we started turning blue. I loved that. Whilst we kissed, we would try and find the access points in each other's clothing, and in the breaks we would slowly remove the obstructions until we were naked. I still love that, but I don't get it with the wife. When she is well enough, she is a kit off and get down to it type, and, sadly, a lousy kisser who I have never been able to teach. The missus loves being eaten, which is something I got into with a series of 'good girls' when I was in my twenties. A 'good girl' is one that does everything except play hide the sausage whilst trying to find a balance between rampant hormones and Evangelical morality.

Very familiar and similar experiences.

 

[liketojo]

First time I came into another person was MM blowjob in his car. My fetish for outdoor blowjobs has been part of my wife and mine fun all these years. I find cruising and car sex stories/videos' to be my favorite go to porn. Go figure...

 

[subdudeme13]

CSI had a character Lady Heather.
She was a domme and her sex club was implicated in the crime.
She had a very mental dominance over Grissom.
She explained how the sub was in control.

I am a consultant for federal and state healthcare compliance. I am not in a sub position at work.

When I met my first true Dom, I finally understood and believed how the sub had the power. We weren't together very long, but it set the stage for me.

My second Dom, I knew about 5 months before fully submitting to him.

That feeling is so empowering and freeing.

I want that feeling again.

I recall that episode but no details. The one thing I do recall is that I disagreed but cannot say why.

 

[Bigboobbabe]

I recall that episode but no details. The one thing I do recall is that I disagreed but cannot say why.

I didn't understand it at first.

They key is an "true" Dom. Not just a fake wanna be.

Example"
I was with a Dom and he was using a wooden spoon to spank me.
We had discussed boundaries, and he knew my safe word.

The spoon hit my leg, just below the knee, but not on bone. On muscle and flesh.
It hurt for some reason. I called a halt.

He instantly dropped the spoon, scooped me on his lap, and was comforting me.
Play stopped in it's tracks to discuss and examine what happened, what hurt, etc.

He cradled and comforted me for minutes.

Then play resumed with modification.

I was totally in control of everything around that playtime.

That's a simple example, but I think it demonstrates the point.
The Dom takes his pleasure in the subs pleasure. If the sub isn't enjoying it, a good Dom will halt everything in the blink of an eye.

 

[wildp]

Happened in high school so can’t really post on here but can in DM

A lot have messaged me and asked about this. Thank you as I enjoyed sharing it

 

[Suburbia]

I was at a swing club. At the time I was a solo entrant. I went into a room with a husband and wife. I lay on my back and the wife above me on all fours sucking me off. I licked her and he came in behind her doggy style.

At one point he took his dick out and sort of pointed it at me and I thought, "what the hell" and stuck it in my mouth.

OH MY GAWD!!! So *that* is what that is for! I was struck at how smooth it was. How it was squishy and hard at the same time and it just fit perfectly in my mouth!

I'd have never known.

 

[Stromer]

I didn't understand it at first.

They key is an "true" Dom. Not just a fake wanna be.

Example"
I was with a Dom and he was using a wooden spoon to spank me.
We had discussed boundaries, and he knew my safe word.

The spoon hit my leg, just below the knee, but not on bone. On muscle and flesh.
It hurt for some reason. I called a halt.

He instantly dropped the spoon, scooped me on his lap, and was comforting me.
Play stopped in it's tracks to discuss and examine what happened, what hurt, etc.

He cradled and comforted me for minutes.

Then play resumed with modification.

I was totally in control of everything around that playtime.

That's a simple example, but I think it demonstrates the point.
The Dom takes his pleasure in the subs pleasure. If the sub isn't enjoying it, a good Dom will halt everything in the blink of an eye.

That's the way it should be. Mrs. Stromer and I have never really been into the Dom/Sub play, but we have played with it. There was one night that she used her safe word and it was over. We talked about what made her use her safe word, I expressed how sorry was for taking it that far and we had great night of sex. I never wanted to push her to that point and when she realized how guilty I felt for taking it to that point, she actually opened up about what she wanted, knowing I would never push her boundaries again.

 

[Goldenfinger]

We have quite a few kinks.

First kink was tasting my cum. I never did I alone but I never had an issue with kissing after oral sex. Realistically they had already swallowed so it wasn’t a snowball situation. A lot of times there was some dripping but it wasn’t a big deal. Men have a hard time doing it because they loose interest which I don’t understand but also I’ve had a number of women who would not let me kiss them after cumming in their mouth.

 

[BrooklynDodger]

I wouldn’t describe it as a fetish, but I am extraordinarily aroused by watching a woman masturbate. That started back in my first year at college when I unexpectedly came home early and heard a groaning sound from one of the bedrooms in the house I shared with various students.

It seemed as though one of my housemates was ill, so I went towards the sound to see if she was okay. Her door was ajar. I peeked in. She was lying on her bed, on her back, with her skirt pulled up to her waist, her panties at her knees, masturbating furiously.

I was transfixed, and could not keep my eyes off her as rubbed her pussy, her face flushed, her mouth open, whimpering with desire.

I was so aroused that I had to unzip my pants and masturbate as I watched. we came at the same time. Ever since then watching and listening to a woman as she masturbates has been one of my biggest turn ons.

 

[Goldenfinger]

My second kink would be Dominant women. I don’t know what started it, I was in the military. My wife things it’s a copping mechanism for me to deal with ptsd.

 

[Goldenfinger]

Wife wanted to give me a prostate massage wich led to using toys then to pegging.

 

[subdudeme13]

I didn't understand it at first.

They key is an "true" Dom. Not just a fake wanna be.

Example"
I was with a Dom and he was using a wooden spoon to spank me.
We had discussed boundaries, and he knew my safe word.

The spoon hit my leg, just below the knee, but not on bone. On muscle and flesh.
It hurt for some reason. I called a halt.

He instantly dropped the spoon, scooped me on his lap, and was comforting me.
Play stopped in it's tracks to discuss and examine what happened, what hurt, etc.

He cradled and comforted me for minutes.

Then play resumed with modification.

I was totally in control of everything around that playtime.

That's a simple example, but I think it demonstrates the point.
The Dom takes his pleasure in the subs pleasure. If the sub isn't enjoying it, a good Dom will halt everything in the blink of an eye.

I do recall now and agree. A Domme that pushes boundaries is my desire. She pushes me to beg for mercy but says no mercy. That was a discussion we had and so to that point I had control. How far she pushed was in her control but she didn't want to damage her toy. I do have some deep dark masochistic urges and those are my attraction to Dommes. Luckily for me they have been smarter than me.

 

[Nellie60]

I wouldn’t describe it as a fetish, but I am extraordinarily aroused by watching a woman masturbate. That started back in my first year at college when I unexpectedly came home early and heard a groaning sound from one of the bedrooms in the house I shared with various students.

It seemed as though one of my housemates was ill, so I went towards the sound to see if she was okay. Her door was ajar. I peeked in. She was lying on her bed, on her back, with her skirt pulled up to her waist, her panties at her knees, masturbating furiously.

I was transfixed, and could not keep my eyes off her as rubbed her pussy, her face flushed, her mouth open, whimpering with desire.

I was so aroused that I had to unzip my pants and masturbate as I watched. we came at the same time. Ever since then watching and listening to a woman as she masturbates has been one of my biggest turn ons.

Hot story! Amongst other fetishes, fantasies and real turn ons, watching a woman masturbate is up there..

 

[Bigboobbabe]

I met a guy, seemed nice, but what a wacko.

I told him, I am a sub in the bedroom.

We never met because he was nuts.

Told me I could never wear a bra or panties again.
I was to text him by 7:30 in the morning with a message to him written on my breasts.

I had a message for him!