What was your first sexual experience that lead to your current fetish or fantasies?

[Sct73]

My sister and I becoming very close just before my wedding day and her first divorce ,which led to a decade long affair

Sounds hot

 

[Stromer]

Honestly: the fact that my first girlfriend was horribly sexually abused by her father. If I can’t enact my sexuality in a really active way, if I tend strongly submissive, that’s why. Because my formative sexual experiences were with someone who was often scared and unhappy and found it very hard to trust anyone or her own body to give her any kind of pleasure.

So yeah: anyone on here with fantasies about family members. Don’t fool yourself that they’re in any way reciprocated. And don’t imagine you can enact your fantasies without profoundly damaging someone you love.

Thank you for saying that. It's one thing to have fantasies, but another thing to actually do it. I have three cousins that were abused by my uncle, he got caught and did some time for it, but that did nothing to help the struggle my cousins still deal with 35 years later.

 

[Tony195756]

Catching my sister playing with herself and joining in

 

[Bigaug]

I will always have girl on girl sex, and women masturbating as my number one fetish. When I was a kid we got into my buddies trunk and snuck into a drive in with adult movies . This one movie had scenes of a frustrated housewife who started masturbating after her husband fell asleep, it was amazing to me, and happened several times in the movie. They also had a group of frustrated housewives who got together for tea and wound up having lesbian sex. It stuck with me, and throughout the years whatever girl I dated or was with I always tried to get them to do something with their girlfriends. I was able to get my first wife to have her best friend get in bed with us, they were both intoxicated, they pulled their shirts off and were sucking each other's nipples, then some fool walked in on us. My current wife has made out with some women, including her sister and played with each other. I always enjoy it

 

[SmoothAndSweet]

My very first experience was when an older boy/gurl took a likeing to me and showed me porn and taught me how to masturbate

 

[Schiavone]

Older guy compared to me maybe late 30’s early 40’s working at a restaurant. I was younger went out for a smoke after work. After getting kinda high sitting in his El Dorado Cadillac he started asking about if I had any girlfriends, and showing me pics of naked women in magazines, yes it was before internet,
He started playing with his cock thru his pants and I stared at him in my stoned state getting aroused. He told me to strip off all my clothes and lay back
And play with myself. I did as I was told.
“Such a good listener and so obedient too”
“And so smooth everywhere!”
ended up having me suck him and he sucked me.
So guess I enjoyed being a sub and still do.

 

[van_delay]

Not really a sexual experience but I vividly recall watching my Mom paint her toenails in the summer time. Led to both my strongest fetishes

 

[Misty_Arias]

Always curious why people develop an attraction to certain fantasies or desires over other acts.

I have always found the hj for example a real turn on or eating pussy.

Ever since I was a teenager and getting my first hj from the hands of an older woman a friends mother its been an fantasy relived many times with various girlfriends. Love all forms of sex but seem to navigate towards hj finishes.

Now that I have started tell me your early experiences that have done the same

I still fantasize about making out and getting fingered when I was a virgin in high school.

 

[Smoothshavendad]

I still fantasize about making out and getting fingered when I was a virgin in high school.

Who did you want to finger you? A teacher perhaps?

 

[Misty_Arias]

It was usually a high school boyfriend that wanted more but that was as far as I would go. Dry humping and finger fucking is all that was on the menu. I would stroke them while getting finger fucked until we both came. I still love getting finger fucked to this day.

 

[Nellie60]

It was usually a high school boyfriend that wanted more but that was as far as I would go. Dry humping and finger fucking is all that was on the menu. I would stroke them while getting finger fucked until we both came. I still love getting finger fucked to this day.

Common result if you didn't want full sex. I have been very happy with a hj and satisfying her with my fingers..

 

[Anita669]

Had a brief oral with my uncle and funny thing... this didn't pull me into loving incest.
In my late 20s, dating the double-my-age man (now my hubby), daddy issues went into reading the incest porn stories... and got hooked.

 

[Anita669]

Then I found the polaroids. My mother naked. My mother naked with her legs wide open. And with a cock in her mouth. And with a guy on top of her who definitely wasn't my dad. And being spit roasted (neither cock being my dad).

I thought about risks I take... like this one is... but in the end... dont really give a fuck.

 

[magic_rat]

I thought about risks I take... like this one is... but in the end... dont really give a fuck.

Totally the only attitude to have. Risks are manageable.

 

[Treeview]

wow...that would be an eye opener

 

[magic_rat]

It was.

 

[SunsetSurge]

I still fantasize about making out and getting fingered when I was a virgin in high school.

Me, too, with the finger fucking. That first cautious slide in… I relive it in my imagination decades later.

 

[Dirtydaydream94]

I thought about risks I take... like this one is... but in the end... dont really give a fuck.

Fuck it! Take the risk babygirl

 

[Beth_Anne90]

I thought about risks I take... like this one is... but in the end... dont really give a fuck.

I like the way you think Anita!!

 

[Artfan2]

Is swinging a fetish?

I was probably XX when I discovered my dad's porn stash - or rather he granted me access to it after he found some tatty mags in my room I'd got from school and decided I'd prefer more quality wank material.

I loved it all, and especially the letters section where it seemed like every other letter was from a guy who shared his wife with others, or a woman who'd get shared and loved the extra cock. That to me felt like nirvana. A woman so sexually abandoned she'd let other men fuck her, often in groups.

At the bottom of the stack were contact mags. They confused me, I couldnt figure out why my parents would have them (I was naive, sue me) or what VVWE meant, or why there were pencilled stars next to some in our area.

Then I found the polaroids. My mother naked. My mother naked with her legs wide open. And with a cock in her mouth. And with a guy on top of her who definitely wasn't my dad. And being spit roasted (neither cock being my dad).

That's what tuned my head into swinging.

It would be jaw dropping to discover polaroids of your mother with other men like that. Even more so if you hadn't previously seen any porn of other people doing similar things.

 

[UtilityCurve]

Common result if you didn't want full sex. I have been very happy with a hj and satisfying her with my fingers..

In high school (after our 18th birthdays, of course!) that would have been perfectly fine with me, too. Gotta start somewhere.

 

[trsest7]

my first experience was at the hands of another guy. We were in puberty and a friend asked me if I had ever cum. I said I didn't knwo what he was talking about. He offered to show me. My room was in the basement so I always had privacy. He pulled his cock out and started to jack himself off. After some heavy breathing and moaning his body got stiff and he shot a steam of cum out. Once he was done he licked it off his fingers. I started once he finished. I just couldn't cum for some reason so he took my cock in hand and jacked me off. I came a ton. He licked it off his hand too. The next few times I did it I licked it off my hand too. I have loved jacking off and eating cum ever since.

 

[Japansurfer]

Had a fun relationship with a mistress who strangely had a ‘daddy’ figure. She would explore ass play, have me lick kiss and finger/try to fist her, till she squirted.

She introduced me to being tied up and pegged me.

This led me to my current fantasies of continuing what she started but would also love to watch as her daddy fucks her, be invited to join in by fingering her as his big cock is also in her, lick her clit as she rides him, he cumms hard and I have to clean them both up

 

[rockynook]

Having sex with my older sister. This lead to Femdom, feminization and cuckolding.

 

[Lucy_Lastic]

Jesus guys... is there ANYONE here who hasn't fucked their sisters (in their heads, at least)?