❓ PLP Inquires II ❓

[hotwords229_A]

Men - Do you wish your body was eroticized more by your partner or in porn (pics, vids, lit)? What part of your body do you love getting compliments on? What part do you wish would get more notice?

I’ve been saying for years that the problem with objectification isn’t that it exists, but that it is (mostly) one sided.

I find it sexy when I hear women objectifying men and looking at sexy images of dudes. It should happen more often. I can’t imagine a guy anywhere would feel bad being physically lusted after, although you might open Pandora’s box.

For myself, I’m not big on compliments, but feel free to tell me I have a nice ass, great bulge, hot-whatever, I don’t mind and I kind of like it.

 

[PrettyLilPussy19]

Women - How often do you compliment or eroticize your male partner’s body in comparison to him complimenting yours? What part of the male body makes your knees weak and your mouth water? Let’s celebrate the men!

In my current long term relationship, I'm definitely the complimenter. But even in past relationships and on Lit, I do try to give compliments when my imagination is taken hold by a certain body part. To @hotwords229_A 's point, on Lit, you do have to be careful not to open Pandora's Box so that may factor in here.

What do I love? Besides his face and his cock because... obvious. Well it large depends on the guy but I love the way a man's legs look, specifically his thighs. I love expressive hands. I love the patch of flesh between the top of his cock and his belly button. I love a nice ass and there's something about the back of neck after a haircut. Mmm.

 

[deft]

there's something about the back of neck after a haircut. Mmm.

That made me shiver!

 

[AlexBailey]

11.04.24

In a discussion with a friend, I remarked on the fact that women’s bodies have way better erotic PR than men’s bodies. (Yes some of this is the total male objectification of women, but let's put that aside for now. As well as the difference in male and male presenting. We can tackle that in the future.) Women have an easier time seeing the beauty and eroticism in other women, regardless of sexual orientation and even though women may find the male body extremely attractive, it definitely isn’t spoken about in the same way. So my question is in two parts -

Men - Do you wish your body was eroticized more by your partner or in porn (pics, vids, lit)? What part of your body do you love getting compliments on? What part do you wish would get more notice?

Women - How often do you compliment or eroticize your male partner’s body in comparison to him complimenting yours? What part of the male body makes your knees weak and your mouth water? Let’s celebrate the men!

Well, I’m queer with a kink for being objectified and an attraction to those who love attention. Men, women, and anything in between can be sexy to me, particularly if they display a kinky edge.


While my perspective may only be shared by a small minority of the population, I know there are many others out there of any gender who would love to be a play toy for a horny admirer and be the object of their lusty desire.

Not everyone likes licorice, but some who do can’t get enough of it.

So yeah, dress me up, tie me up and fuck me - then let’s switch and I’ll do the same for you.


Also, I tend to get the most admiring comments and attention from men or women when I’m wearing a kilt.
(I’ve got a fine little ass.)

 

[PrettyLilPussy19]

11.05.24

Let's talk music!

¹ What never fails to put you in a good mood?
² Can you name three albums you consider perfect from start to finish?

 

[NRJLIVES4ever]

11.05.24

Let's talk music!

¹ What never fails to put you in a good mood?
² Can you name three albums you consider perfect from start to finish?

1. Something funky. Funk is a fantastic anti-depressant. Put on some Sly Stone and try to stay in a bad mood.

2. Sure can.

Marvin Gaye- What's Going On?
Motorhead- Ace of Spades
Johnny Cash- American Recordings

 

[LadyLascivious1]

1. Something funky. Funk is a fantastic anti-depressant. Put on some Sly Stone and try to stay in a bad mood.

2. Sure can.

Marvin Gaye- What's Going On?
Motorhead- Ace of Spades
Johnny Cash- American Recordings

This year the Botanic Gardens near me had a section in their Jack O Lantern walk for best albums of all time

 

[NRJLIVES4ever]

This year the Botanic Gardens near me had a section in their Jack O Lantern walk for best albums of all time

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Oh wow that's amazing! I love it

 

[PrettyLilPussy19]

11.05.24

Let's talk music!

¹ What never fails to put you in a good mood?
² Can you name three albums you consider perfect from start to finish?

1. Well Love Shack is lately the feel better song around my house and who can be mad at that.

2. My three albums are ones where every song one each one takes me to a very specific time and place.
▪︎ Jagged Little Pill - Alanis Morrisette (painting murals, becoming an adult, finding my fuck you)
▪︎ Cardboard Castles - Watsky (finding out adulting is a scam, being proud of working hard, buying a home)
▪︎ Inside - Bo Burnham (this remains my depression soundtrack bc if you can't laugh while you're crying what's the point?)

 

[TomTeacher19]

11.05.24

Let's talk music!

¹ What never fails to put you in a good mood?

Christmas music (I know it bugs some to think of that right now but it's my answer so there)

² Can you name three albums you consider perfect from start to finish?

Eric Clapton unplugged

Olivia Rodrigo guts spilled

Don McLean American pie

 

[LadyLascivious1]

11.05.24

Let's talk music!

¹ What never fails to put you in a good mood?

Sad or angsty music

² Can you name three albums you consider perfect from start to finish?

I could agonize over this for ages, so I’ll go with the ones that come to mind today.

1. Nirvana - Unplugged in New York
2. The National - Boxer
3. Pulp - Different Class

 

[StillRain]

Damien Rice - O
Taylor Swift - Folklore
Something for Kate - The Official Fiction

 

[BongoGal]

The National - Boxer

Fantastic album!

 

[Whiskeyjack]

11.05.24

Let's talk music!

¹ What never fails to put you in a good mood?
² Can you name three albums you consider perfect from start to finish?

I'll have to skip the first question, because nothing's doing the trick at the moment.

3 perfect albums:

1 - "Summerteeth" - Wilco
2 - "Throwing Copper" - Live
3 - "Birds Say" - Darlingside

 

[PrettyLilPussy19]

11.07.24

Alright Lit, let’s weigh in on a recent Reddit AITA that I read and haven’t been able to stop thinking about.

In summary -
Man has Girlfriend A for seven years and they break up because she decides to move abroad and he decides to stay. Man eventually starts dating an acquaintance of GF A a year later. Let’s call her Girlfriend B! (very original). Man and GF B are very happy together for three years, they buy a house and have a baby together. Once day while she’s at the store, Man’s laptop breaks and he has to send an important email from GF B’s laptop. He discovers a folder labeled “GF A” and in that folder is a plethora of pictures, screenshots from social media, and links that span their whole three year relationship with the newest item added just two weeks ago. Apparently GF B had been stalking GF A and slowly making herself over in the likeness of GF A. The pictures and screenshots were from all over social media spanning years. And the links were to clothing and products that GF A wore in pictures and mentioned. Man is horrified and feels like he doesn’t know GF B at all and wonders what to do with his life now.

Questions:
1. What the fucckkkk?
2. How would you feel if you found out your SO was shaping their appearance or personality to be more attractive to you? Fuckery or flattery?
3. Have you ever or would you ever take a cue from your SO’s exes to make yourself more attractive to them?
4. Why did this man not realize that his new GF was morphing into his old GF?

I really just want to talk about this. Indulge me?

 

[RosewoodTulip]

11.07.24

Alright Lit, let’s weigh in on a recent Reddit AITA that I read and haven’t been able to stop thinking about.

In summary -
Man has Girlfriend A for seven years and they break up because she decides to move abroad and he decides to stay. Man eventually starts dating an acquaintance of GF A a year later. Let’s call her Girlfriend B! (very original). Man and GF B are very happy together for three years, they buy a house and have a baby together. Once day while she’s at the store, Man’s laptop breaks and he has to send an important email from GF B’s laptop. He discovers a folder labeled “GF A” and in that folder is a plethora of pictures, screenshots from social media, and links that span their whole three year relationship with the newest item added just two weeks ago. Apparently GF B had been stalking GF A and slowly making herself over in the likeness of GF A. The pictures and screenshots were from all over social media spanning years. And the links were to clothing and products that GF A wore in pictures and mentioned. Man is horrified and feels like he doesn’t know GF B at all and wonders what to do with his life now.

Questions:
1. What the fucckkkk?

I know. An updated Single White Female for sure

2. How would you feel if you found out your SO was shaping their appearance or personality to be more attractive to you? Fuckery or flattery?

Nope. Don't like it. This just feels like deception which is a big no. I want the person I originally chose, not someone who feels like they have to change for me.

3. Have you ever or would you ever take a cue from your SO’s exes to make yourself more attractive to them?

I've worn clothes I know they like, that kind of thing, but only because I like it too.

4. Why did this man not realize that his new GF was morphing into his old GF?

People are blind to what's right in front of them most of the time. Did the guy keep in touch with Gf A to see that Gf B was copying her?

I really just want to talk about this. Indulge me?

So she's either unhinged or insecure. If he'd never uncovered the evidence would he ever have realised on his own? I know some people have "types" and of course some people like to experiment with their style.
Maybe because the two women were acquaintances B thinks she's only with him because A left so if she becomes more like A he won't leave?

Also I'm glad I'm not the only one who entertains herself with that bin fire of a subreddit. (yes I know a lot of it is creative writing prompts but I don't care)

 

[Whiskeyjack]

11.07.24

Alright Lit, let’s weigh in on a recent Reddit AITA that I read and haven’t been able to stop thinking about.

In summary -
Man has Girlfriend A for seven years and they break up because she decides to move abroad and he decides to stay. Man eventually starts dating an acquaintance of GF A a year later. Let’s call her Girlfriend B! (very original). Man and GF B are very happy together for three years, they buy a house and have a baby together. Once day while she’s at the store, Man’s laptop breaks and he has to send an important email from GF B’s laptop. He discovers a folder labeled “GF A” and in that folder is a plethora of pictures, screenshots from social media, and links that span their whole three year relationship with the newest item added just two weeks ago. Apparently GF B had been stalking GF A and slowly making herself over in the likeness of GF A. The pictures and screenshots were from all over social media spanning years. And the links were to clothing and products that GF A wore in pictures and mentioned. Man is horrified and feels like he doesn’t know GF B at all and wonders what to do with his life now.

Questions:
1. What the fucckkkk?

What the fucckkkk indeed. That would creep me out. Though I'd probably want to sit down and talk before I blew my lid. Is this a mental health problem? A self-esteem thing? Or is she planning on eventually hunting down and skinning GF A to make a mask of her face?

2. How would you feel if you found out your SO was shaping their appearance or personality to be more attractive to you? Fuckery or flattery?

At this point, after 18 years of marriage, I'd be equally flattered and suspicious. But as long as she's taking general cues from things I like (plaids! stockings! Red Sox jerseys!), and not trying to exactly copy someone else (especially someone else from my past), I'd be mostly flattered.

3. Have you ever or would you ever take a cue from your SO’s exes to make yourself more attractive to them?

I only know 2 of my wife's ex's. One was a good guy (I'm still in his fantasy football league) and the other was an abusive asshole. The one thing they both had in common is that they both wore Yankees jerseys a lot. So... no. I'm never wearing those.

4. Why did this man not realize that his new GF was morphing into his old GF?

I'm guessing he wasn't stalking GF A nearly as much as GF B was. If my wife comes home with a new dress, I'm not immediately going onto social media to find out if one of my exes has the same dress. I doubt I'd even notice. We're not that observant.

I really just want to talk about this. Indulge me?

 

[AlexBailey]

11.07.24

Alright Lit, let’s weigh in on a recent Reddit AITA that I read and haven’t been able to stop thinking about.

In summary -
Man has Girlfriend A for seven years and they break up because she decides to move abroad and he decides to stay. Man eventually starts dating an acquaintance of GF A a year later. Let’s call her Girlfriend B! (very original). Man and GF B are very happy together for three years, they buy a house and have a baby together. Once day while she’s at the store, Man’s laptop breaks and he has to send an important email from GF B’s laptop. He discovers a folder labeled “GF A” and in that folder is a plethora of pictures, screenshots from social media, and links that span their whole three year relationship with the newest item added just two weeks ago. Apparently GF B had been stalking GF A and slowly making herself over in the likeness of GF A. The pictures and screenshots were from all over social media spanning years. And the links were to clothing and products that GF A wore in pictures and mentioned. Man is horrified and feels like he doesn’t know GF B at all and wonders what to do with his life now.

Questions:
1. What the fucckkkk?
2. How would you feel if you found out your SO was shaping their appearance or personality to be more attractive to you? Fuckery or flattery?
3. Have you ever or would you ever take a cue from your SO’s exes to make yourself more attractive to them?
4. Why did this man not realize that his new GF was morphing into his old GF?

I really just want to talk about this. Indulge me?

It sounds like some serious insecurity to me. They’ve been together for three years. GF A has had a baby, her life has been upended and her body was hijacked by a delightful little bundle of joy. She may be insecure about herself, her body, her career, and a shitstorm of hormone and situation induced insecurities.

Is the guy compassionate or does he have all kinds of chauvinistic expectations?

She may be trying to hold everything together on the surface but is worried that her husband will still want who she was when they met and may see the previous GF as a rival she needs to compete with.

Most of all this couple needs to talk, but also the poor girl needs friends and things to pay attention to besides everything that could go wrong - then see if she still wants to track the ex.

 

[hotwords229_A]

11.07.24

Alright Lit, let’s weigh in on a recent Reddit AITA that I read and haven’t been able to stop thinking about.

In summary -
Man has Girlfriend A for seven years and they break up because she decides to move abroad and he decides to stay. Man eventually starts dating an acquaintance of GF A a year later. Let’s call her Girlfriend B! (very original). Man and GF B are very happy together for three years, they buy a house and have a baby together. Once day while she’s at the store, Man’s laptop breaks and he has to send an important email from GF B’s laptop. He discovers a folder labeled “GF A” and in that folder is a plethora of pictures, screenshots from social media, and links that span their whole three year relationship with the newest item added just two weeks ago. Apparently GF B had been stalking GF A and slowly making herself over in the likeness of GF A. The pictures and screenshots were from all over social media spanning years. And the links were to clothing and products that GF A wore in pictures and mentioned. Man is horrified and feels like he doesn’t know GF B at all and wonders what to do with his life now.

Questions:
1. What the fucckkkk?
2. How would you feel if you found out your SO was shaping their appearance or personality to be more attractive to you? Fuckery or flattery?
3. Have you ever or would you ever take a cue from your SO’s exes to make yourself more attractive to them?
4. Why did this man not realize that his new GF was morphing into his old GF?

I really just want to talk about this. Indulge me?

Crazy chicks are HOT!
This is like a reverse Vertigo. I think the Man falls off a church and GF A and GF B start a hot lesbian action OnlyFans “Twins” addition.

 

[Lmizzler]

11.07.24

Alright Lit, let’s weigh in on a recent Reddit AITA that I read and haven’t been able to stop thinking about.

In summary -
Man has Girlfriend A for seven years and they break up because she decides to move abroad and he decides to stay. Man eventually starts dating an acquaintance of GF A a year later. Let’s call her Girlfriend B! (very original). Man and GF B are very happy together for three years, they buy a house and have a baby together. Once day while she’s at the store, Man’s laptop breaks and he has to send an important email from GF B’s laptop. He discovers a folder labeled “GF A” and in that folder is a plethora of pictures, screenshots from social media, and links that span their whole three year relationship with the newest item added just two weeks ago. Apparently GF B had been stalking GF A and slowly making herself over in the likeness of GF A. The pictures and screenshots were from all over social media spanning years. And the links were to clothing and products that GF A wore in pictures and mentioned. Man is horrified and feels like he doesn’t know GF B at all and wonders what to do with his life now.

Questions:
1. What the fucckkkk?
2. How would you feel if you found out your SO was shaping their appearance or personality to be more attractive to you? Fuckery or flattery?
3. Have you ever or would you ever take a cue from your SO’s exes to make yourself more attractive to them?
4. Why did this man not realize that his new GF was morphing into his old GF?

I really just want to talk about this. Indulge me?

This story is fascinating

It’s one thing to want to make your self more attractive to your partner. It’s a whole different thing to stalk someone else and take on their look though especially when it was his previous girlfriend. Wow!

There is more to this story. There has to be.

I blame the boyfriend for much of this. He should have caught on. He should have seen her look changing. He should have made her feel more loved for who she was. Seems like she might be crazy but he hasn’t helped her out at all.

 

[MedicalMuse]

11.07.24

Alright Lit, let’s weigh in on a recent Reddit AITA that I read and haven’t been able to stop thinking about.

In summary -
Man has Girlfriend A for seven years and they break up because she decides to move abroad and he decides to stay. Man eventually starts dating an acquaintance of GF A a year later. Let’s call her Girlfriend B! (very original). Man and GF B are very happy together for three years, they buy a house and have a baby together. Once day while she’s at the store, Man’s laptop breaks and he has to send an important email from GF B’s laptop. He discovers a folder labeled “GF A” and in that folder is a plethora of pictures, screenshots from social media, and links that span their whole three year relationship with the newest item added just two weeks ago. Apparently GF B had been stalking GF A and slowly making herself over in the likeness of GF A. The pictures and screenshots were from all over social media spanning years. And the links were to clothing and products that GF A wore in pictures and mentioned. Man is horrified and feels like he doesn’t know GF B at all and wonders what to do with his life now.

You find the best AITAs on Reddit. Truly wtf kind of material.

Questions:
1. What the fucckkkk?

Just nope.

2. How would you feel if you found out your SO was shaping their appearance or personality to be more attractive to you? Fuckery or flattery?

Weirded out. Especially because I don’t even know what I’m into.

3. Have you ever or would you ever take a cue from your SO’s exes to make yourself more attractive to them?

No. If you don’t like me as me, you won’t like me in ex girlfriend cosplay either.

4. Why did this man not realize that his new GF was morphing into his old GF?

It’s like boiling frogs. Happened so slow he probably didn’t even know it was happening.

I really just want to talk about this. Indulge me?

Happily.

 

[PrettyLilPussy19]

This story is fascinating

It’s one thing to want to make your self more attractive to your partner. It’s a whole different thing to stalk someone else and take on their look though especially when it was his previous girlfriend. Wow!

There is more to this story. There has to be.

I blame the boyfriend for much of this. He should have caught on. He should have seen her look changing. He should have made her feel more loved for who she was. Seems like she might be crazy but he hasn’t helped her out at all.

See I agree with you the most. Why did GF B not feel like she was good enough? Did he talk about GF A all the time and make it obvious he wasn't over her? And how did he not notice? I think maybe a broken heart slammed two people together who made a baby before he fully healed up?

Bitches be trippin'

 

[hotwords229_A]

See I agree with you the most.

You may agree with him the most, but you know damn well that you’d look at the OnlyFans page I was talking about.

 

[IelleDan]

Holy shit...that to be seems insane. But I wouldn't be mad if someone took that scenario and wrote a book.

 

[PrettyLilPussy19]

You may agree with him the most, but you know damn well that you’d look at the OnlyFans page I was talking about.

Hey, I'll LOOK at almost anything. That's a terrible gauge!