🫧Chloe's Curiosities Captivated🫦

[Chloe_Harper]

I love the way this poem perfectly describes a scene without saying too much. You can picture the very position she's in. Grasp the feelings elicited between the two without knowing if any words are actually exchanged.

It says just enough while leaving enough to the imagination. And, oh, what the imagination can do with what's left unsaid.

 

[Chloe_Harper]

 

[BrendaBear]

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That, is beautiful.

 

[Chloe_Harper]

Let's talk collars

There's a lot to be said about what a collar means in a relationship. There's all kinds of different collars ranging in meaning and use. The colors can mean different things too. For me though, it has always meant one thing: belonging.

There have been many times in my life, in family, friendships and relationships, where I just didn't feel like I belonged. Or, maybe I did, but I wasn't first choice, I was convenient. I was a placeholder.

So, when I learned people wear collars in certain D/s relationships, I was intrigued. Sure, it was hot, but it awoke new feelings in me. I didn't want anything too much, too obvious, too gaudy, so I dismissed the idea other than in fantasy. Then I learned about day collars

The discreet look, the soft materials, the elegance, it all spoke to me. The ones pictured above is the style specifically I found myself drawn to. But, that's not all...

Someone wanting to collar me, that was something I was sure would never happen. I wasn't the person, the girl, someone wanted to have, claim, own in that kind of way. But, the dream, the longing, persisted. The need to show that someone wanted me, that I belonged, became stronger and stronger.

It's what I want, what I hope to become a reality some day. And, that doubt that I'll get it, it's just a little smaller than it once was.

 

[BrendaBear]

Let's talk collars

There's a lot to be said about what a collar means in a relationship. There's all kinds of different collars ranging in meaning and use. The colors can mean different things too. For me though, it has always meant one thing: belonging.

There have been many times in my life, in family, friendships and relationships, where I just didn't feel like I belonged. Or, maybe I did, but I wasn't first choice, I was convenient. I was a placeholder.

So, when I learned people wear collars in certain D/s relationships, I was intrigued. Sure, it was hot, but it awoke new feelings in me. I didn't want anything too much, too obvious, too gaudy, so I dismissed the idea other than in fantasy. Then I learned about day collars

The discreet look, the soft materials, the elegance, it all spoke to me. The ones pictured above is the style specifically I found myself drawn to. But, that's not all...

Someone wanting to collar me, that was something I was sure would never happen. I wasn't the person, the girl, someone wanted to have, claim, own in that kind of way. But, the dream, the longing, persisted. The need to show that someone wanted me, that I belonged, became stronger and stronger.

It's what I want, what I hope to become a reality some day. And, that doubt that I'll get it, it's just a little smaller than it once was.

OMG - I feel the same way... like, all of it, the same way you do. I didn't know I wanted to have one, until I learned more about them, then I wanted one bad, but.. no one is wanting to claim me.... but... baby, we'll both get there... I'm sure of it!

 

[Chloe_Harper]

OMG - I feel the same way... like, all of it, the same way you do. I didn't know I wanted to have one, until I learned more about them, then I wanted one bad, but.. no one is wanting to claim me.... but... baby, we'll both get there... I'm sure of it!

Oh, girl. This is why I love sharing things like this here, so we know we aren't alone in our feelings and desires. And yes, we will

 

[cascadiabound]

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Let's talk collars

There's a lot to be said about what a collar means in a relationship. There's all kinds of different collars ranging in meaning and use. The colors can mean different things too. For me though, it has always meant one thing: belonging.

There have been many times in my life, in family, friendships and relationships, where I just didn't feel like I belonged. Or, maybe I did, but I wasn't first choice, I was convenient. I was a placeholder.

So, when I learned people wear collars in certain D/s relationships, I was intrigued. Sure, it was hot, but it awoke new feelings in me. I didn't want anything too much, too obvious, too gaudy, so I dismissed the idea other than in fantasy. Then I learned about day collars

The discreet look, the soft materials, the elegance, it all spoke to me. The ones pictured above is the style specifically I found myself drawn to. But, that's not all...

Someone wanting to collar me, that was something I was sure would never happen. I wasn't the person, the girl, someone wanted to have, claim, own in that kind of way. But, the dream, the longing, persisted. The need to show that someone wanted me, that I belonged, became stronger and stronger.

It's what I want, what I hope to become a reality some day. And, that doubt that I'll get it, it's just a little smaller than it once was.

These are beautiful examples of day collars. And yes... your words resonate.
You deserve to be claimed. Beloved. And yes, collared.

 

[Chloe_Harper]

These are beautiful examples of day collars. And yes... your words resonate.
You deserve to be claimed. Beloved. And yes, collared.

Thank you as do all who wish that for themselves

 

[Chloe_Harper]

Fluffy blankets and pillows, nesting, big comfy beds/couches, throw in some stuffed animals, him that's the dream bedroom.
I want to find comfort during times of struggle, joy, sensuality, loss, pain, kinkyness, and sleep. I want to feel all the textures that feel best against my skin no matter if I'm cuddling, getting spanked, making love, or getting absolutely fucked.
I want to feel at home, safe, just as I feel in his hold, grip, choke. I want to feel his skin against mine while sprawled on the softest possible place. I want where I sleep to be more than just where I lay my head at night. I want it to be where we spend most beautiful moments together, creating beautiful and dirty memories among the softest, fluffiest place.
As a little, it's also where I want to go for security, sparks of joyful imagination, lap time, reading, coloring, play time.
So, let me sprawl, and surround myself with all things soft, fluffy, smooth, fuzzy. Let him be there with me as we let our bodies enjoy being pampered by simply being at home. Let this be a manifestation of what the future can hold for me.

 

[Chloe_Harper]

I love the provocative nature of this picture. The pose, the artistic quality, the message. Everyone might see something different, or you might even depending on your mood.

When I first saw this, I saw a submissive kneeling and bent over, awaiting her Daddy to come and deliver the promised spankings. Her derriere raised just right for his hand (or other spanking implement should you desire) to come down and swat. It could be for "punishment", or it could be she simply was missing his touch. Either way, she kneels and waits, at the ready.

But then, looking at it again, reflecting for a moment, I saw a girl who has had a rough day. Maybe it was work, family, loss, or just too many emotions to deal with. And, instead of collapsing fully on the bed, she made it only this far. And I picture him, coming in and seeing this, but being able to feel what the true emotional charge of the room is. Maybe he sits by her and plays with her hair, encouraging her to vent to him should she feel inclined. Maybe he caresses her bum as he stands behind her, letting her know he is ready to put her in subspace if that's what she needs. Maybe he lifts her up into his arms, pulls her onto his lap, and simply holds her. Any of those sound like the right answer. I'm certain there are more right answers I haven't yet considered.

Regardless, she is in a space where she feels safe enough to be emotionally vulnerable whilst in a physically vulnerable position. That, that, to me, is beautiful.

 

[Neanderthal247]

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I love the provocative nature of this picture. The pose, the artistic quality, the message. Everyone might see something different, or you might even depending on your mood.

When I first saw this, I saw a submissive kneeling and bent over, awaiting her Daddy to come and deliver the promised spankings. Her derriere raised just right for his hand (or other spanking implement should you desire) to come down and swat. It could be for "punishment", or it could be she simply was missing his touch. Either way, she kneels and waits, at the ready.

But then, looking at it again, reflecting for a moment, I saw a girl who has had a rough day. Maybe it was work, family, loss, or just too many emotions to deal with. And, instead of collapsing fully on the bed, she made it only this far. And I picture him, coming in and seeing this, but being able to feel what the true emotional charge of the room is. Maybe he sits by her and plays with her hair, encouraging her to vent to him should she feel inclined. Maybe he caresses her bum as he stands behind her, letting her know he is ready to put her in subspace if that's what she needs. Maybe he lifts her up into his arms, pulls her onto his lap, and simply holds her. Any of those sound like the right answer. I'm certain there are more right answers I haven't yet considered.

Regardless, she is in a space where she feels safe enough to be emotionally vulnerable whilst in a physically vulnerable position. That, that, to me, is beautiful.

I thought she was passed out drunk, trying to make it to bed, but failed lol. Either way she's a sexy woman.

 

[Chloe_Harper]

I thought she was passed out drunk, trying to make it to bed, but failed lol. Either way she's a sexy woman.

Well... we've all been there too

 

[Neanderthal247]

Well... we've all been there too

I've been drunk and slept in funny positions, but never with my ass out like that lol. Either way she's a beautiful woman.

I actually can see the first scenario, her being seductive waiting for her man. With her clothing so sexy and hair beautifully done, I don't think she's depressed. This picture can inspire many different fantasies

 

[Chloe_Harper]

I've been drunk and slept in funny positions, but never with my ass out like that lol. Either way she's a beautiful woman.

Well, you clearly haven't been that kinda drunk

I actually can see the first scenario, her being seductive waiting for her man. With her clothing so sexy and hair beautifully done, I don't think she's depressed. This picture can inspire many different fantasies

Yea, the first scenario is what first sparked in my mind. The second isn't about being depressed, just a long or rough day, needing that attention.

Either way, I'm glad we agree, beautiful photo that inspires many different fantasies

 

[Chloe_Harper]

Let's talk about hand placements

The throat grab from in front is such a deliciously Dominant hand placement. There's this sense of both control and a momentary loss of one all at once. His need to touch you, claim you, have you, put you in your place. And I just fucking love it.
On the flip side, from the front still, there is the more gentle caress and tilting of the chin. Still Dominant, but in a more sensual way. His need to look upon your face, read you as he takes this control over you. A longing between you both. Perhaps it comes before the one listed first, or, perhaps, it's its own move. A small act of intimacy itself. And boy, do I love this move!
Still, from the front, there's his fingers on your lips. This, a tease. He is in full control, though he desperately wants to let go. To trace your lips with his finger, press it against your mouth, knowing you want to suck and taste it, but not allowing it until/unless he says so. Such a Dominant move in such a small act, and I love it every damn time.
Oof. That throat and chin grab from behind, it's different from the one from in front. This one has a deeper sense of control, like he knows he has her right where he wants her. Her tilt up of the chin, submitting to his grip, displaying she puts her trust and body in his hands. It's beautiful, but also oh so hot.

 

[Chloe_Harper]

Uh... this might not be good for my health, but okay...

Always worried about your health with our posts

It can be that way from the other side, too. I've had women in my life I would have loved to have collared, but they weren't into anything like that, I've had women who might have been open to that but weren't "that" for me. Never the two sides in one person. I've resigned myself to it just being a fantasy for me, now. Maybe this is related to the question that @BrendaBear posted yesterday regarding settling or not. I guess I have, at least with regard to this.

I get that. It, of course, goes both ways. I was speaking from the sub side. Seeing your side, thay want/need to do that, I imagine it was hard not being able to have that person wear your collar.

I say it's never too late though. Hope is what makes us human and keeps the fantasies alive. Never settle, just don't expect. You may find someone surprises you.

 

[BrendaBear]

My tax…

But one isn’t enough for me…

This isn’t a kiss… but still very appropriate for me….

 

[Chloe_Harper]

My tax…

But one isn’t enough for me…

This isn’t a kiss… but still very appropriate for me….

I. Love. All. Of. These. also, I did say tease was appropriate, so that last one still fits, you saucy minx thank you for paying your taxes

 

[MischiefMakerAlways]

These are my own thoughts and feelings and in no way detract from anyone's desires or preferences.

Let's talk collars

There's a lot to be said about what a collar means in a relationship. There's all kinds of different collars ranging in meaning and use. The colors can mean different things too. For me though, it has always meant one thing: belonging.

There have been many times in my life, in family, friendships and relationships, where I just didn't feel like I belonged. Or, maybe I did, but I wasn't first choice, I was convenient. I was a placeholder.

Girl... I feel this in so many painful ways. I'm sorry.

Someone wanting to collar me, that was something I was sure would never happen. I wasn't the person, the girl, someone wanted to have, claim, own in that kind of way. But, the dream, the longing, persisted. The need to show that someone wanted me, that I belonged, became stronger and stronger.

Collars mean so many things to me. The first and most prominent point is the ownership or submission it depicts. I don't want a slave, slaves have no voice or autonomy, NMK. That's where the sub shines - a sub is a person, they are just as valuable, they are just as autonomous, and they are just as important to the dynamic as the Dom - the sub is 50% of the equation.

So what does the collar mean, particularly the day collar? It means what a ring means - that the sub is wearing a symbolic item that demonstrates a commitment. I picked out two for my treasure because I wanted to afford her the opportunity to be a little dressier or a little more obvious and simple. As our dynamic progresses, we will discuss other collar options as well, especially since some will be less about ornamentation and symbolism and more about utility. The day collar is a subtle indication to those "who know" that this particular sub is spoken for. If slightly less subtle, it also is a point that I find pride in. People see that and may think things like, "Oh, she's freaky" or "They do weird shit." I take pride in that. I just flew for a quick work trip and took a play toy with me in my carry on. As they scanned my bag, I just stared right at the TSA agent in case they looked around to see who's bag it was. I know I had a cocky grin on my face the whole time, albeit, unconsciously.

Then there's the intentionality - is it the right size, does it match the dynamic, does it match the sub's personality, is it appropriate for these people? There is a lot of thought that goes into it! But, at the end of the day, it all points to a deep, committed relationship.

It's what I want, what I hope to become a reality some day. And, that doubt that I'll get it, it's just a little smaller than it once was.

If I've learned ANYTHING recently, don't give up hope.

Fluffy blankets and pillows, nesting, big comfy beds/couches, throw in some stuffed animals, him that's the dream bedroom.
I want to find comfort during times of struggle, joy, sensuality, loss, pain, kinkyness, and sleep. I want to feel all the textures that feel best against my skin no matter if I'm cuddling, getting spanked, making love, or getting absolutely fucked.
I want to feel at home, safe, just as I feel in his hold, grip, choke. I want to feel his skin against mine while sprawled on the softest possible place. I want where I sleep to be more than just where I lay my head at night. I want it to be where we spend most beautiful moments together, creating beautiful and dirty memories among the softest, fluffiest place.
As a little, it's also where I want to go for security, sparks of joyful imagination, lap time, reading, coloring, play time.
So, let me sprawl, and surround myself with all things soft, fluffy, smooth, fuzzy. Let him be there with me as we let our bodies enjoy being pampered by simply being at home. Let this be a manifestation of what the future can hold for me.

Those all look so incredibly plush and comfy - but I have to remind myself, cleanability is critical! Not everything is easy to wash, and I know for certain that this is a very important detail I have to keep in mind in any furniture or accessories!

I do like that almost all of your selections do look large enough for guests as well...

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I love the provocative nature of this picture. The pose, the artistic quality, the message. Everyone might see something different, or you might even depending on your mood.

When I first saw this, I saw a submissive kneeling and bent over, awaiting her Daddy to come and deliver the promised spankings. Her derriere raised just right for his hand (or other spanking implement should you desire) to come down and swat. It could be for "punishment", or it could be she simply was missing his touch. Either way, she kneels and waits, at the ready.

But then, looking at it again, reflecting for a moment, I saw a girl who has had a rough day. Maybe it was work, family, loss, or just too many emotions to deal with. And, instead of collapsing fully on the bed, she made it only this far. And I picture him, coming in and seeing this, but being able to feel what the true emotional charge of the room is. Maybe he sits by her and plays with her hair, encouraging her to vent to him should she feel inclined. Maybe he caresses her bum as he stands behind her, letting her know he is ready to put her in subspace if that's what she needs. Maybe he lifts her up into his arms, pulls her onto his lap, and simply holds her. Any of those sound like the right answer. I'm certain there are more right answers I haven't yet considered.

Regardless, she is in a space where she feels safe enough to be emotionally vulnerable whilst in a physically vulnerable position. That, that, to me, is beautiful.

This is EXACTLY what the Dom/sub dynamic is supposed to be, for me. I can physically dominate almost any woman that would consent to it - I'm not a small guy. But to have a sub who is so purely vulnerable, secure, loved, and devoted is precisely what I, as her Dom, aim to provide for her. In these moments, she can ask, "Sir, would you hold me?" Or, I can ask, "Do you need to forget for a while, my pet?" To have the sense before either one speaks and only say enough to confirm the need... that's everything.

Let's talk about hand placements

The throat grab from in front is such a deliciously Dominant hand placement. There's this sense of both control and a momentary loss of one all at once. His need to touch you, claim you, have you, put you in your place. And I just fucking love it.

The eye contact, if not blindfolded - to see the intensity in my eyes, the trust but nervous submission in hers. FUCK...

On the flip side, from the front still, there is the more gentle caress and tilting of the chin. Still Dominant, but in a more sensual way. His need to look upon your face, read you as he takes this control over you. A longing between you both. Perhaps it comes before the one listed first, or, perhaps, it's its own move. A small act of intimacy itself. And boy, do I love this move!

This is always its own gesture. It can precede or be preceded by anything as it is its own unique nonverbal communication. And to use it in the midst of a heavy scene to remind my sub that she is worth more than rubies to me, that she is prized, and that my physicality upon her is of passion for her alone, it is not satisfying mere flesh, but it's a deep bond that we experience together.

Still, from the front, there's his fingers on your lips. This, a tease. He is in full control, though he desperately wants to let go. To trace your lips with his finger, press it against your mouth, knowing you want to suck and taste it, but not allowing it until/unless he says so. Such a Dominant move in such a small act, and I love it every damn time.

"These lips belong to me. They are mine and I am obsessed with them. I want them to speak of your submission, I want them to beg for me, I want them upon my own, and I want them to be used to please every part of me."

Oof. That throat and chin grab from behind, it's different from the one from in front. This one has a deeper sense of control, like he knows he has her right where he wants her. Her tilt up of the chin, submitting to his grip, displaying she puts her trust and body in his hands. It's beautiful, but also oh so hot.

This is the display of power. This is the, "you are mine!" And it's intoxicating.

 

[Chloe_Harper]

These are my own thoughts and feelings and in no way detract from anyone's desires or preferences.

Girl... I feel this in so many painful ways. I'm sorry.

Collars mean so many things to me. The first and most prominent point is the ownership or submission it depicts. I don't want a slave, slaves have no voice or autonomy, NMK. That's where the sub shines - a sub is a person, they are just as valuable, they are just as autonomous, and they are just as important to the dynamic as the Dom - the sub is 50% of the equation.

I agree. This is very beautifully said. For those that like, enjoy, need the Master/slave dynamic, I get it. It's just not my thing. I've had no voice before, no control, not been allowed a safeword or an opinion. I know that's not what Master/slave is, necessarily, but it's just too close to the mark for me. Feeling like an equal who is choosing to submit, while still having choices, that's more my speed.

So what does the collar mean, particularly the day collar? It means what a ring means - that the sub is wearing a symbolic item that demonstrates a commitment. I picked out two for my treasure because I wanted to afford her the opportunity to be a little dressier or a little more obvious and simple. As our dynamic progresses, we will discuss other collar options as well, especially since some will be less about ornamentation and symbolism and more about utility. The day collar is a subtle indication to those "who know" that this particular sub is spoken for.

I love that for y'all and that you thought in that manner for her

Then there's the intentionality - is it the right size, does it match the dynamic, does it match the sub's personality, is it appropriate for these people? There is a lot of thought that goes into it! But, at the end of the day, it all points to a deep, committed relationship.

Yes. All of this. Yes.

If I've learned ANYTHING recently, don't give up hope.

I agree. And I haven't. My hope reignites and grows daily

Those all look so incredibly plush and comfy - but I have to remind myself, cleanability is critical! Not everything is easy to wash, and I know for certain that this is a very important detail I have to keep in mind in any furniture or accessories!

I love that practical and logical thinking. I know things aren't easy to wash, but for the sensory comfort, I would do my best to find stuff I can handle.

I do like that almost all of your selections do look large enough for guests as well...

Of course you like that

This is EXACTLY what the Dom/sub dynamic is supposed to be, for me. I can physically dominate almost any woman that would consent to it - I'm not a small guy. But to have a sub who is so purely vulnerable, secure, loved, and devoted is precisely what I, as her Dom, aim to provide for her. In these moments, she can ask, "Sir, would you hold me?" Or, I can ask, "Do you need to forget for a while, my pet?" To have the sense before either one speaks and only say enough to confirm the need... that's everything.

The eye contact, if not blindfolded - to see the intensity in my eyes, the trust but nervous submission in hers. FUCK...

I didnt even consider the blindfold but yea... I mirror that "FUCK..."

This is always its own gesture. It can precede or be preceded by anything as it is its own unique nonverbal communication. And to use it in the midst of a heavy scene to remind my sub that she is worth more than rubies to me, that she is prized, and that my physicality upon her is of passion for her alone, it is not satisfying mere flesh, but it's a deep bond that we experience together.

Love your POV on this one

"These lips belong to me. They are mine and I am obsessed with them. I want them to speak of your submission, I want them to beg for me, I want them upon my own, and I want them to be used to please every part of me."

This is the display of power. This is the, "you are mine!" And it's intoxicating.

Agreed wholeheartedly


Thank you for your opinions and insights on all of these. I love hearing from a Dom's perspective on these matters and feelings as well

 

[BrendaBear]

....I picked out two for my treasure because ...

I loved seeing this... What can I say? I'm a hopeless romantic and just so delighted for you both...

....especially since some will be less about ornamentation and symbolism and more about utility....

That made me squirm.

Just sayin'....

 

[Chloe_Harper]

For those that have Lit-ships, online relationships, long-distance, a partner who has to travel, or a love you've lost there are some nights where you need to be held, to be holding, to be next to each other. It's hard. Loss and distance make these moments feel never-ending.

We try to find ways to cope. We tell ourselves to suck it up. We remind ourselves this feeling will pass. We try not to spiral in that emotional turmoil of not having them here.

But, I find myself wanting to let that hurricane toss my fragile soul about in its harsh winds. Flood my very being with that desperate longing for the eye of the storm. Knock down those emotional walls with the flung debris. Let the storm take me and do its worst.

It will be painful, rough, torturous. It will send me into a state of yearning, desire, desperation. I will fly on the winds that carry me, and I will fall onto the earth to be shattered.

But, I know, in my heart of hearts, the sun will rise, the storm will calm, and he will be there. Maybe not physically, but what he can provide is so much more than what I thought possible.

His words will soothe the aches. His voice will mend the pieces scattered in the damp air. His hands will hold my heart like it's the most precious thing he's seen. And I will let him.

Or, for those that have lost that someone... the memories of those moments will do the same. Even though they're gone, your love for them and what you shared remains alive. That will be your sun after the storm, and the warmth and light you carry for them will help you pick up those pieces once again.

None of us are alone. These feelings belong to us all. They are real. They are yours. They are mine. And, we will get through this once the storm has calmed.

Don't run from it. Embrace it. It is the greatest, hardest reminder of what and who is important to you. Who has loved you, or loves you.

 

[cascadiabound]

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For those that have Lit-ships, online relationships, long-distance, a partner who has to travel, or a love you've lost there are some nights where you need to be held, to be holding, to be next to each other. It's hard. Loss and distance make these moments feel never-ending.

We try to find ways to cope. We tell ourselves to suck it up. We remind ourselves this feeling will pass. We try not to spiral in that emotional turmoil of not having them here.

But, I find myself wanting to let that hurricane toss my fragile soul about in its harsh winds. Flood my very being with that desperate longing for the eye of the storm. Knock down those emotional walls with the flung debris. Let the storm take me and do its worst.

It will be painful, rough, torturous. It will send me into a state of yearning, desire, desperation. I will fly on the winds that carry me, and I will fall onto the earth to be shattered.

But, I know, in my heart of hearts, the sun will rise, the storm will calm, and he will be there. Maybe not physically, but what he can provide is so much more than what I thought possible.

His words will soothe the aches. His voice will mend the pieces scattered in the damp air. His hands will hold my heart like it's the most precious thing he's seen. And I will let him.

Or, for those that have lost that someone... the memories of those moments will do the same. Even though they're gone, your love for them and what you shared remains alive. That will be your sun after the storm, and the warmth and light you carry for them will help you pick up those pieces once again.

None of us are alone. These feelings belong to us all. They are real. They are yours. They are mine. And, we will get through this once the storm has calmed.

Don't run from it. Embrace it. It is the greatest, hardest reminder of what and who is important to you. Who has loved you, or loves you.

#Truth
Grief, loss, distance.

Such hard human experiences. Each one unique in it's own pain, and yet also universal.

This is such good advice.

"Don't run from it. Embrace it. It is the greatest, hardest reminder of what and who is important to you. Who has loved you, or loves you."

 

[Chloe_Harper]

#Truth
Grief, loss, distance.

Such hard human experiences. Each one unique in it's own pain, and yet also universal.

This is such good advice.

"Don't run from it. Embrace it. It is the greatest, hardest reminder of what and who is important to you. Who has loved you, or loves you."

Thank you I hoped it would be something others could relate to or even needed to hear.

I think emotional pain makes us so uncomfortable. Our natural inclination is to run from it, ignore it or try to cover it with something else. It's taken me a long time to realize that those torturous moments are what make the good feel that much more important.

It doesn't make it any less painful in those moments. But, it reminds us why we will survive this too.

 

[cascadiabound]

Thank you I hoped it would be something others could relate to or even needed to hear.

I think emotional pain makes us so uncomfortable. Our natural inclination is to run from it, ignore it or try to cover it with something else. It's taken me a long time to realize that those torturous moments are what make the good feel that much more important.

It doesn't make it any less painful in those moments. But, it reminds us why we will survive this too.

Pain often generates the most growth. It's no fun, but it does shape us, and reminds us to treasure the blessings we have and grab hold of love, opportunities and happiness when they come.