Any other men here with a deep desire to be dominated by a woman?

[mssweetangelina]

This is the kind of man I seek.

But chemistry plays a big factor, as it does in any other relationship dynamic.

Hope springs eternal!

 

[Woolmohair]

I have had a deep desire for female domination for years. The stories I have posted here on Lit reflect at lest some of what I want, need, desire, am willing to do... I have had some very limited experience, but I am wanting t serve. I will be grateful If I may...

 

[Woolmohair]

https://youtu.be/vvUzg63Kc6E


Yes. Please.

 

[77fbird400]

Hello everyone!

Just so you know, I've reached out to Sex And Submission / Kink.com and asked if they would do a private session for me and possibly my wife as submissive. They responded and said that they do not offer "fantasy fulfilment services" but I can reach out to their performers and arrange something. They can provide a list. It appears, I'm not the only one thinking of this. I'm considering pursuing this idea (when COVID is over) or at least looking into it.

For me / us, it would have to be perfectly legal though so no sex. Besides, I'm not interested in sex with other people.

Stay healthy everyone!

 

[Marty Fisher]

OH FUCK YES!~

 

[OlderBtm4U]

https://youtu.be/vvUzg63Kc6E


Yes. Please.

Exciting stories

 

[LizVegas79]

IDK. At least you're able to verbalize what you want. It's been my experience that men have a hard time saying what they want. Like women do. I'm not talking about the men who send pm's saying they're ready to cum. I'm talking about the men who you ask what they want or need, and then prevaricate.

THIS ^^^^^^ - exactly my experience too!

 

[BBWSeekingSugarDaddy]

Yes, I have that strong desire, however it has eluded me. It seems that unless I want to pay a professional it will probably not become a reality. Sexually Dominate women have been difficult to find

We aren't difficult to find, we are just extremely picky!

 

[bildoe22]

dominated

always wanted to try mildly dominated

 

[sub2femdom]

Just wondering if there are any other men here who have a deep desire to be dominated by a strong woman?

Without a doubt yes. There's many sub men here.

Like you, I've also been shouldered with soul-crushing responsibilities since I was a young man, and I currently carry as much as I ever did in my life.

When I have play-time, I don't want any responsibility for any part of it. I need someone to take control. Unfortunately in my life, it's just not possible (made a post about my marriage here). I don't necessarily want to be "broken down" or brought to tears, but all the same - you aren't alone.

 

[MissMayhem69]

IDK. At least you're able to verbalize what you want. It's been my experience that men have a hard time saying what they want. Like women do. I'm not talking about the men who send pm's saying they're ready to cum. I'm talking about the men who you ask what they want or need, and then prevaricate.

This is a beautiful point and we'll articulated.

My experience with submissive men vs submissive women is that men have a harder time actually ceding control than women. They have already pre determined how a scene or scenario will play out and buck when that is not at all how I've decided it will.

Breaking that down can be fun for me and instructive for them. Sometimes what they thing they need and what they actually need aren't the same thing at all.

 

[MIAtomik]

Sometimes what they thing they need and what they actually need aren't the same thing at all.

This was especially true early on in my discovery of my submissive side. It was exciting and new and I invested too much energy in learning how it could work vs. how it can work with someone right there with me.

That was the same dominant side that I was trying to escape getting in the way. Learning to let it go and just ride took time, but is such an escape.

 

[Rickstrasser]

Yes. Forced past my inhibitions.

 

[77fbird400]

Without a doubt yes. There's many sub men here.

Like you, I've also been shouldered with soul-crushing responsibilities since I was a young man, and I currently carry as much as I ever did in my life.

When I have play-time, I don't want any responsibility for any part of it. I need someone to take control. Unfortunately in my life, it's just not possible (made a post about my marriage here). I don't necessarily want to be "broken down" or brought to tears, but all the same - you aren't alone.

"soul crushing responsiblities" well said!

I dont think I'm submissive but I just want to play part-time. It would be great to leave behind this world of heavy responsibility, phone calls, emails, meetings, decisions, indecision even if it is for a couple of hours.

I can't even get away from it when my wife and I have sex. I wouldn't call her submissive, but she is content to let me take the lead. That is great! But it would be nice for her to tell me what to do sometimes as well. I asked her before, she jokingly says it is too much work.

I do enjoy pain and not just sexual pain. When I work out, I like to try and work out to the point of complete exhaustion and pain. I do it for exercise, but more so because I want to feel the burning pain, especially in my legs. I also love other athletes giving 110% and finishing in complete exhaustion. It is arousing in a non-sexual manner.

 

[77fbird400]

This is a beautiful point and we'll articulated.

My experience with submissive men vs submissive women is that men have a harder time actually ceding control than women. They have already pre determined how a scene or scenario will play out and buck when that is not at all how I've decided it will.

Breaking that down can be fun for me and instructive for them. Sometimes what they thing they need and what they actually need aren't the same thing at all.

Perhaps that is because it is not natural for men to be submissive to women?

For example, and I hope this doesn't raise a fuss (it probably will), do you agree that in 2021 we still live in patriarchal-flavoured society? At least in the free, capitalistic / materialistic world?

 

[Goldenfinger]

Perhaps that is because it is not natural for men to be submissive to women?

For example, and I hope this doesn't raise a fuss (it probably will), do you agree that in 2021 we still live in patriarchal-flavoured society? At least in the free, capitalistic / materialistic world?

I think you see what you want to see and you put your life in the world you want to be.

 

[supercollider00]

Perhaps that is because it is not natural for men to be submissive to women?

For example, and I hope this doesn't raise a fuss (it probably will), do you agree that in 2021 we still live in patriarchal-flavoured society? At least in the free, capitalistic / materialistic world?

There's no doubt that although things are slowly changing, it's definitely still very white patriarchy. It IS finally changing though

 

[MissMayhem69]

Perhaps that is because it is not natural for men to be submissive to women?

For example, and I hope this doesn't raise a fuss (it probably will), do you agree that in 2021 we still live in patriarchal-flavoured society? At least in the free, capitalistic / materialistic world?

Speaking socialtilly you're absolutely right.

But in fetish.... if you want to be topped, be submissive, give up control then you need to be prepared to put on the work. I know it's not easy, but when a woman who has agreed to take the reigns from you, puts in the effort and work, you respect that and do as you're told. (Within the agreed upon boundaries of course)

Topping from the bottom is a deal breaker for me.


As for society, whenever a man sees a sweet girl's face and speaks to me condescendingly, I just imagine thumping his balls and scratching my name in his stomach. It helps.

 

[77fbird400]

Speaking socialtilly you're absolutely right.

But in fetish.... if you want to be topped, be submissive, give up control then you need to be prepared to put on the work. I know it's not easy, but when a woman who has agreed to take the reigns from you, puts in the effort and work, you respect that and do as you're told. (Within the agreed upon boundaries of course)

Topping from the bottom is a deal breaker for me.


As for society, whenever a man sees a sweet girl's face and speaks to me condescendingly, I just imagine thumping his balls and scratching my name in his stomach. It helps.

What is "topping? sorry I'm new to this D/s thing.

Now you're talking.

Don't know if I can handle the ball thing. My interest in submitting to a woman is physical / mental, not sexual. I'm strictly monogamous (wife, teen kids x 4), even online.

I will be submissive, I will do what I'm told.

May I PM you? If yes, how shall I address you?

 

[MissMayhem69]

What is "topping? sorry I'm new to this D/s thing.

Now you're talking.

Don't know if I can handle the ball thing. My interest in submitting to a woman is physical / mental, not sexual. I'm strictly monogamous (wife, teen kids x 4), even online.

I will be submissive, I will do what I'm told.

May I PM you? If yes, how shall I address you?

Topping would be a broad word for Dominating in however you prefer.

I was speaking in the general you not you specifically but I'm glad you're ready. That makes me smile.

I don't need titles from anyone until we.sre in agreement. But I'll wait on your PM.

 

[77fbird400]

Topping would be a broad word for Dominating in however you prefer.

I was speaking in the general you not you specifically but I'm glad you're ready. That makes me smile.

I don't need titles from anyone until we.sre in agreement. But I'll wait on your PM.

PM sent. Pls take your time, I'm working now anyways.

 

[KyleR215]

We aren't difficult to find, we are just extremely picky!

I get it. And it is okay to be picky. It has to be a fit for both parties in all things sex. I respect that.

 

[LizVegas79]

If there are, send me a PM and beg me to be nice to you. My husband is pretty much what most people would probably
call an alpha male (ex-jock) so my dominant side doesn't get to come out to play as much as I would like.

And, to answer your question, imho experience at least it's more common than you might think. Of course, submissive men generally seem more attracted to tall women so maybe my experience is a little different than other women.

 

[Hardon4u21]

I have often fantasized about being dominated by a strong petite woman - like the gymnast type. I love when a woman takes full control. One of the hottest women I ever dated told me on the first date that she was a cock tease.

 

[Hardon4u21]

This is a beautiful point and we'll articulated.

My experience with submissive men vs submissive women is that men have a harder time actually ceding control than women. They have already pre determined how a scene or scenario will play out and buck when that is not at all how I've decided it will.

Breaking that down can be fun for me and instructive for them. Sometimes what they thing they need and what they actually need aren't the same thing at all.

Speaking from the point of view of a submissive man who has never been completely dominated. We men probably don’t fully know what we want. I know I want to be taken over the knee and spanked, but beyond that I want a woman to just take control and make me cum on her terms.