Are Older people Better Lovers
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KHAN-E
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Some - Yes, Some - No.
In love (SEX), as in other aspects of life, some people put to use that whcih they learn and experience. Such people, naturally, and obviously, become better lovers.
However, not all people are so inclined. Some just keep doing the same stuff they've always done, unwilling to learn or to change. These people don't get better at much of anything. In fact, they probably get worse, as they become both bored and boring.
I'm ALWAYS looking for the former. I have NO use for the latter!
In love (SEX), as in other aspects of life, some people put to use that whcih they learn and experience. Such people, naturally, and obviously, become better lovers.
However, not all people are so inclined. Some just keep doing the same stuff they've always done, unwilling to learn or to change. These people don't get better at much of anything. In fact, they probably get worse, as they become both bored and boring.
I'm ALWAYS looking for the former. I have NO use for the latter!
redshedevil
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Majority of the time yes they are because they are more patient and hopefully more open to different ideals.
Older lovers
The term 'older lover' is one for which I am over qualified. LOL. When I was in college, and for some years after, even through my first marriage, it was almost no foreplay, and mostly the missionary position. After I was single, I met a few women who really turned me on. Foreplay became fun. I was introduced to cunnilingus, and took to it like a duck takes to water. Unusual places to have sex became exciting. Especially where there was a chance of being caught or seen. Like the added fun of doing something that is forbidden. I continue to try new things. Some of which I didn't like, but tried. Some I did like, but would never have suspected that I would have. It all comes down to this. It's never too late to have a happy childhood.
P.S. Ain't Khan-E wonderful!
The term 'older lover' is one for which I am over qualified. LOL. When I was in college, and for some years after, even through my first marriage, it was almost no foreplay, and mostly the missionary position. After I was single, I met a few women who really turned me on. Foreplay became fun. I was introduced to cunnilingus, and took to it like a duck takes to water. Unusual places to have sex became exciting. Especially where there was a chance of being caught or seen. Like the added fun of doing something that is forbidden. I continue to try new things. Some of which I didn't like, but tried. Some I did like, but would never have suspected that I would have. It all comes down to this. It's never too late to have a happy childhood.
P.S. Ain't Khan-E wonderful!
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mfs686 said:
In my case yes...as I reach 40 my desire for making love grew.....I want to try so many different things, ways, whatever the person and I want to do.......Really got tired of the same thing day in and out.
I want spice in my life not sour milk.
wildrose70
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And then there's the really *mature* lady of sex...Believe me they do make better lovers...I'm talking from the women's view of course...on the other hand ...you could check w/my younger lovers
and I believe they would all agree
and I believe they would all agree
redshedevil
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Enjoy while it lasts darling quite sure some other guys will eventually find this thread.
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Seee....
What happens when you open your keyboard mfs...
Just cutting in to say hello and I think the experience of an older lover can be good. Most of my lovers have been younger than me, and most have liked the results. (no brag, just fact)
Miss Taken I think hit it with the "right person" comment. You must also be mentally into this person as well as physically.
I have yet to have an older lady...may or may not happen. Time will tell.
Hope everyone is having a great day.
redshedevil said:
What happens when you open your keyboard mfs...
Just cutting in to say hello and I think the experience of an older lover can be good. Most of my lovers have been younger than me, and most have liked the results. (no brag, just fact)
Miss Taken I think hit it with the "right person" comment. You must also be mentally into this person as well as physically.
I have yet to have an older lady...may or may not happen. Time will tell.
Hope everyone is having a great day.
junglejim6969
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older lovers......
being 55, i would definately say yes.....i remember when i was younger, it was the old "wham bam thak ya mam" thngie......as you age you mellow and realize that the person with whom you are experiencing the wonders of lovemaking, you are more concerned with their being satisfied than with your own satisfaction..........plus the fact of many years experience in the art of making love definately is an asset.........just my humble thoughts................just an old georgia boy
being 55, i would definately say yes.....i remember when i was younger, it was the old "wham bam thak ya mam" thngie......as you age you mellow and realize that the person with whom you are experiencing the wonders of lovemaking, you are more concerned with their being satisfied than with your own satisfaction..........plus the fact of many years experience in the art of making love definately is an asset.........just my humble thoughts................just an old georgia boy
redshedevil
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Re: older lovers......
An old georgia boy I wouldn't mind meeting some day!!!
junglejim6969 said:being 55, i would definately say yes.....i remember when i was younger, it was the old "wham bam thak ya mam" thngie......as you age you mellow and realize that the person with whom you are experiencing the wonders of lovemaking, you are more concerned with their being satisfied than with your own satisfaction..........plus the fact of many years experience in the art of making love definately is an asset.........just my humble thoughts................just an old georgia boy
An old georgia boy I wouldn't mind meeting some day!!!
redshedevil
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Re: Younger ones
Just remember at one time we were the younger ones. Give those younger ones know about ten years and they more likely will not be as intimidated or considered the young ones
mfs686 said:
Just remember at one time we were the younger ones. Give those younger ones know about ten years and they more likely will not be as intimidated or considered the young ones
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I think as a younger woman I was intimidated by the men....and didn't realize my own pleasure was just as important...but with age comes knowledge and wisdom....
There is no more *wham bam..thank you mam*...I can be very choosy.....if they dont realize it works both ways...they aren't invited back again!!!
Again speaking from experience ....there's a lesson here somewhere....be dammed if I know what it is....
There is no more *wham bam..thank you mam*...I can be very choosy.....if they dont realize it works both ways...they aren't invited back again!!!
Again speaking from experience ....there's a lesson here somewhere....be dammed if I know what it is....
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Mr Sneaky...haha didnt take you long to find me!!!
She speaketh the truth!!!!!
She speaketh the truth!!!!!
