Ask a woman a question

DLL said:
laughs..i don't have a pick up line...i usually just will start a conversation...
I like to talk and listen as well..but people that know me know I am never short of words :p
What about you..would you come over and talk to me???


most likely, depends upon my first impression -- and then my second impression...

and then my ..... LOL :)
 
DLL said:
Its not so much read our minds as being paid attention to..women like to be pampered ...and we like the little things remembered..like a favorite flower or book
I agree with WW's post....


xoxo :kiss:

I'm not a woman, but I think I can answer this question. Stryder is right. 'Reading' women is not that hard. Regardless of the line from American Pie

Oz: All that you gotta do is ask them questions, and listen to what they have to say and shit.
Stifler: I dunno, man, that sounds like a lot of work!

The bottom line (for me anyway) is this. If you are truly interested in a woman, then you are interested in everything about her. You talk to her about her interests, likes and dislikes. Hopes and fears. And you are attentive. When I am with someone I truly care about, this is so very easy.

She may not say, gee I wish I had a picture book of Tom Cruise. But she may say she loves his movies or thinks he is sexy. So next time I am at the book store, I see a book of movies or one focused on Tom Cruise and think of her. It makes me smile and I think she will smile too. So I buy it. But I also write something short and personal inside the cover.

Bottom line, if you are only interested in her tits, you will not pay much attention to the rest of her and it shows. By contrast, if you really are interested in her, these things will come natural and your interest will show. As will hers!
 
LibraStud said:
You are with your husband/boyfriend and see a really hot guy. You whisper to your guy,“I would love to spend a weekend with that!”. Will your man pick up on this little thing and make arrangements for you?


NOoooooooooooooooo Wayyyyyyy ..he would make arrangements to meet with a divorce attorney maybe :p
 
I have found a woman will lead you where she wants you to be, do..or plan, you have to pay close attention to those wispy gossamer threads she will lead with, but she will often leave you room for make. :rose:
 
romanticdrifter said:
I'm not a woman, but I think I can answer this question. Stryder is right. 'Reading' women is not that hard. Regardless of the line from American Pie

Oz: All that you gotta do is ask them questions, and listen to what they have to say and shit.
Stifler: I dunno, man, that sounds like a lot of work!

The bottom line (for me anyway) is this. If you are truly interested in a woman, then you are interested in everything about her. You talk to her about her interests, likes and dislikes. Hopes and fears. And you are attentive. When I am with someone I truly care about, this is so very easy.

She may not say, gee I wish I had a picture book of Tom Cruise. But she may say she loves his movies or thinks he is sexy. So next time I am at the book store, I see a book of movies or one focused on Tom Cruise and think of her. It makes me smile and I think she will smile too. So I buy it. But I also write something short and personal inside the cover.

Bottom line, if you are only interested in her tits, you will not pay much attention to the rest of her and it shows. By contrast, if you really are interested in her, these things will come natural and your interest will show. As will hers!
This is exactly IT!!!!!!!
(by the way RD..I love Marilyn Monroe not Tom Cruise) LOL :p
 
DLL said:
This is exactly IT!!!!!!!
(by the way RD..I love Marilyn Monroe not Tom Cruise) LOL :p

It's really not that hard. Ok it can be, but that's later. ;)

I mean it's really not that hard to read a woman. They are not as sly as they think they are.

Marilyn Monroe eh? I will try to remember that. ;)
 
DLL said:
so cool!!!! how'd you do that????
anything from my fav movie???
and no its not a MM one its a jimmy stewart one
bell book and candle :)

Ah my dear DLL, there are so many things I could teach you... ;)

I will look around and see what I can find
 
romanticdrifter said:
I'm not a woman, but I think I can answer this question. Stryder is right. 'Reading' women is not that hard. Regardless of the line from American Pie

Oz: All that you gotta do is ask them questions, and listen to what they have to say and shit.
Stifler: I dunno, man, that sounds like a lot of work!

The bottom line (for me anyway) is this. If you are truly interested in a woman, then you are interested in everything about her. You talk to her about her interests, likes and dislikes. Hopes and fears. And you are attentive. When I am with someone I truly care about, this is so very easy.

She may not say, gee I wish I had a picture book of Tom Cruise. But she may say she loves his movies or thinks he is sexy. So next time I am at the book store, I see a book of movies or one focused on Tom Cruise and think of her. It makes me smile and I think she will smile too. So I buy it. But I also write something short and personal inside the cover.

Bottom line, if you are only interested in her tits, you will not pay much attention to the rest of her and it shows. By contrast, if you really are interested in her, these things will come natural and your interest will show. As will hers!

romanticdrifter so true..A man who finds himself hooked only by her beauity will soon hang his head in shame..for missing the best part of her.... her brains( wit ,charm and intelligents)
 
LustfulOne50 said:
romanticdrifter so true..A man who finds himself hooked only by her beauity will soon hang his head in shame..for missing the best part of her.... her brains( wit ,charm and intelligents)


but come on you guys...you like a pretty face too don't ya??? :p
 
DLL said:
but come on you guys...you like a pretty face too don't ya??? :p


I haveTo be honest that would round out the the lady..but not a nessary item. Ok here goes my crude part of me..All Women two things in common T&As, but that is not what makes them who they are. What lies between the ears and in her heart is what makes them who they are...A M.M. with no brains or heart is just a cute empty shell.
 
romanticdrifter said:
Ah my dear DLL, there are so many things I could teach you... ;)

I will look around and see what I can find


actually a great line is in a marilyn monroe movie called some like it hot..
she says....It's the story of my life. I always get the fuzzy end of the lollipop.
Thats another one of my all time fav. movies....
:heart:
 
DLL said:
as someone with an ample chest i have had more than my share of conversations when the men s eyes were a bit lower ..however....i also get the ones that just stare into my eyes and thats just as annoying...come to think of it i have had my ass stared at...my legs....shoes...LOL





basically i just try to carry on the conversation and move along...i usually don't bring attention to the fact he is staring..unless its at my fly and then i look down too.. :p

You know, sometimes that damn zipper is down. lol.
 
DLL said:
laughs..i don't have a pick up line...i usually just will start a conversation...
I like to talk and listen as well..but people that know me know I am never short of words :p
What about you..would you come over and talk to me???

If you made eye contact with me, held if a second and smiled, I would come over and talk to you but if you made quick eye contact and then looked away I would not since I would feel that you had looked me over and did not show any interest.
 
DLL said:
but come on you guys...you like a pretty face too don't ya??? :p

The pretty/handsome face is what gets things started. You have to have a physical attraction to the person before you are going to get the mental attraction. You may find a person has a great personality, witty, intelligent and any other adjectives you can think of but if there is no physical attraction, most likely you are just going to be friends and nothing more. I can only think of 2 situations where a mental attraction might come first and that would be working very closely with somebody for a length of time or taking a class with somebody where you interact on a regular basis.

I agree that it is personality that will grow a relationship, make you miss the other person when you are apart, make your face light up in a smile when you see him/her but if you are not phyiscally attracted I doubt you will ever get to that stage. It takes both the inside and outside.
 
This is more theoretical than an actual question but I'm posting anyway... I'm more intelligent than the average bear (barely) so I do know the answer. At least, I have my own answer anyway.

"Why, are there certain women who at first glance, a guy will want to jump her bones? Do all those things that he has stored in his little box of fantasies? Then in an instant, that fades and the very same woman becomes someone special to him. Maybe those ideas remain somewhere in the distance but still, not at all as important as she is. As important as her friendship... her respect for him, as important as the hope that she'll always be there?"
 
Are there any women that have intentionally bent over knowing that a guy will look down her shirt? Hey, have to ask some amusing questions to get this thread moving again.
 
Looking4Fun46 said:
Are there any women that have intentionally bent over knowing that a guy will look down her shirt? Hey, have to ask some amusing questions to get this thread moving again.
Yes but then again. That's just me ;)
 
Looking4Fun46 said:
Are there any women that have intentionally bent over knowing that a guy will look down her shirt? Hey, have to ask some amusing questions to get this thread moving again.

Yup.. In HS my friend and I would do that with certain (male) teachers. It worked..we pretty much got to do anything we wanted
 
SouthernGaGal said:
Yup.. In HS my friend and I would do that with certain (male) teachers. It worked..we pretty much got to do anything we wanted

Care to show me??? :D Bet you could get whatever you wanted from me...
 
Most times when you pass a guy in the hallway he will make eye contact with me or maybe even nod in greeting but 99 out of hundred times when I pass a woman in the hallway at work she just looks straight ahead and never even acknowledges that I am passing by. Why is that? I am an average looking guy so I don't think looking at me will hurt her eyes. Also why is it that guys almost always look over when passing a car while driving or at a stop light but women rarely do?
 
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