Ask Doctor Liz ... Again

Dear Dr. Liz
My GF is a skinny flat chested mature woman. As with all of us who age, her firmness is not what it used to be i.e.: her ass is a bit saggy. She is very self conscious about her tiny tits and saggy ass.
To me it is not bothersome in the least. I sag in places too!
How can I convince her that I find her very sexy? Her body is just one part of the whole “package”.
Waiting for your advise.

Dear Change Is Natural,

You are a breath of fresh air!

It is sadly so rare, but so, so nice when a man can appreciate a woman as she matures and her body changes! Trust me, she is probably racked with self-doubt right now. You need to let her know that she is beautiful, but not just with words.

Corner her in the shower with an erection that is already standing tall and proud!

Buy her a box of chocolate and a sexy, flattering piece of lingerie. Hint: slinky silk slips are most flattering for small breasted, slender women who don't have the curves to fill out bras or thongs. Don't buy her anything padded or push-up either as that will only remind her of what she thinks she's missing. Depending on her skin tone, animal prints are great, but so is anything in her favorite color.

Take her on vacation somewhere and when you get back from dinner or the spa or even just a movie, set a new (or her favorite :) ) vibrator in the middle of the bed so that she sees it after she gets ready for bed.

Women love surprises. And actions speak far, far more convincingly than just words.

- Doctor "Tell Her She's Beautiful AFTER You Show Her That She's Beautiful" Liz
 
Dear Change Is Natural,

You are a breath of fresh air!

It is sadly so rare, but so, so nice when a man can appreciate a woman as she matures and her body changes! Trust me, she is probably racked with self-doubt right now. You need to let her know that she is beautiful, but not just with words.

Corner her in the shower with an erection that is already standing tall and proud!

Buy her a box of chocolate and a sexy, flattering piece of lingerie. Hint: slinky silk slips are most flattering for small breasted, slender women who don't have the curves to fill out bras or thongs. Don't buy her anything padded or push-up either as that will only remind her of what she thinks she's missing. Depending on her skin tone, animal prints are great, but so is anything in her favorite color.

Take her on vacation somewhere and when you get back from dinner or the spa or even just a movie, set a new (or her favorite :) ) vibrator in the middle of the bed so that she sees it after she gets ready for bed.

Women love surprises. And actions speak far, far more convincingly than just words.

- Doctor "Tell Her She's Beautiful AFTER You Show Her That She's Beautiful" Liz

Dr. You are awesome.
 
Dear Dr. Liz,

The other day my wife and I were out for a hike and she suggested to me in a round about way that she would like for me to get into the physical shape I was when we had first met and dated (I was 29 at the time she was 20). I’m not overweight or anything however I definitely don’t have the same muscle definition that I did in my 20s. Nowadays I’m a bit softer particularly in the abdominal region sporting a much softer belly! She still looks as amazing now as she did then if not maybe even more so and to be fair the first thing that caught my attention when I first seen her was her curves and it still does particularly the booty (___Y___) :D

How important do you think the visual aspect is when it relates to sex desire/attraction for a man? Also what do you prefer better a soft belly or abs? I asked her and she said she likes abs.

Dear Wondering If Looks Are Important,

Women are not as visually stimulated as men are. BUT, that does not mean that we do not appreciate a shredded six-pack and python arms to go along with the cute, endearing smile we originally fell in love with.

I know from past experience with you that this wife of yours delights in making you bend over backwards for her. You seem not to mind too much, so that's fine. That's your dynamic. She likes to sleep with black guys from time to time to scratch the itch that you can't quite. If you're okay with that, then you should be okay with skipping a few pizzas or cheeseburgers or three-cheese burrito's to try and sculpt your bod back towards your prime.

But listen, I know, you know and she knows you're never going to get all the way back there without changing your entire diet and life around to center around cardio and muscle building exercise. But I suspect you don't really have to. The effort to you make in a healthier direction should not go unappreciated unless she's already decided to leave you (again). Lose 5-10 pounds for her. Curl some iron and do some crunches 3-5x/week. And if she acts like she doesn't appreciate the progress that you're making, pin her against the wall and MAKE her appreciate the progress that you're making! :devil:

- Doctor "Give Her What She Wants A Little Harder Next Month" Liz
 
No one would believe you. They all know how lovely you are.


Well, I'm not sure about that. But arguing with a Latina is generally bad for your health.

Although, on the other hand, it can be great for your sex life! ;) :) :devil:
 
I need some cute handyman or artist to add a little corporate branding to our clinic's new mobile clinic :D

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I can't afford to pay you right now but I promise you'll get a free ride from yours truly ;) :) :kiss:
 
Dearest Doc,

What happened to all of your sexy assistants? Did you have to lay them....off because of the pandemic? I certainly miss the skills that they applied to their patient's difficultly straining hard times. It seemed for a time they had your clients cumming and going constantly and keeping up your high satisfaction rating.
 
Gracias Dr. Liz! I’m already on it running in the morning and doing body weight exercises before work. I’ve also pledged to myself to cut out the tacos and cervezas ;)

Good for you, sweetie! :kiss:

Dearest Doc,

What happened to all of your sexy assistants? Did you have to lay them....off because of the pandemic? I certainly miss the skills that they applied to their patient's difficultly straining hard times. It seemed for a time they had your clients cumming and going constantly and keeping up your high satisfaction rating.

Well, when I lay people off, believe me, I always try to lay them off real, real good
so that they remember being laid off for a long, long, long time ;) :)

No, I miss my old assistants and the fun times we use to have. Things just change I guess.
The traffic in our lives gets sort of congested and complicated sometimes I guess :(
 
Good for you, sweetie! :kiss:



Well, when I lay people off, believe me, I always try to lay them off real, real good
so that they remember being laid off for a long, long, long time ;) :)

No, I miss my old assistants and the fun times we use to have. Things just change I guess.
The traffic in our lives gets sort of congested and complicated sometimes I guess :(

Nothing stays the same it seems. I think it is so valiant of you to continue to have a firm grip on things, taking matters into your own hands and see that your patients get the servicing and treatments they need.

I also see below that you have added a mobile clinic. What a great addition and I am sure it allows you to take it anywhere, any time and any place! How thoughtful of you to offer services on the road!
 
Nothing stays the same it seems. I think it is so valiant of you to continue to have a firm grip on things, taking matters into your own hands and see that your patients get the servicing and treatments they need.

I also see below that you have added a mobile clinic. What a great addition and I am sure it allows you to take it anywhere, any time and any place! How thoughtful of you to offer services on the road!


I like to think of myself as the AAA of sex therapy LOL
 
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ATTENTION ALL CLIENTS AND REGULARS AND DROP-IN GUESTS

I've hired full-time staff for the Demerit Room,
but if everyone is such a fucking perfect little angel
and doesn't NEED my Demerit Room
then going to have to make some very
difficult staffing decisions.
:(

Isn't anyone even a tiny bit kinky anymore?

What has this world come to?


- Doctor "A World Without Kinky Perverts Is Bad For Business" Liz :rolleyes:
 
^^^

Dr. Liz -

Just wanted to let you know . . . I can lace up more than just boots! ;)

And that outfit, c'est magnifique! (still working on the accent :))


Signed

Boot (and Corset) Lacer Applicant
 
You know how it works Lizzie, if there aren’t any demerits you go find demerits. :devil::heart:
 
^^^

Dr. Liz -

Just wanted to let you know . . . I can lace up more than just boots! ;)

And that outfit, c'est magnifique! (still working on the accent :))


Signed

Boot (and Corset) Lacer Applicant

Dear Multi-tasker par Excell-lance!
(I'll keep working on my accent too :) )

You're hired!

And don't worry too much about your accent. It'll come with time. Since boot licking is a central part of boot lacing, I'm sure you'll get a taste for the language soon enough.

- Doctor "Wanna Learn A New Language?" Liz :rolleyes:
 
I must put on my glasses next time...I thought that said you were the ASS...and a lovely ass it is...of sex therapy.:cool:


Dear Stop Reading Between The Lines,

Well, I might MAKE an ass of myself as a sex therapist sometimes. But even if I did, I probably would never come right out and admit it lol

- Doctor "An Ass Is Different Than A Smartass" Liz ;) :)
 
Dear Dr. Liz

Oh my I may be cringing a little when I read my comment to you about ASS!!! What was meant to be cute and funny....well I knew what I was writing....or I thought I knew what I was writing but it may be that you and others read it as me calling you and ass instead of focusing my words on your ass. lol

I am so sorry if that didn't come off right. You know I would ever call you an ass!

Remorsefully signed,

ASSMAN
 
Dear Dr. Liz

Oh my I may be cringing a little when I read my comment to you about ASS!!! What was meant to be cute and funny....well I knew what I was writing....or I thought I knew what I was writing but it may be that you and others read it as me calling you and ass instead of focusing my words on your ass. lol

I am so sorry if that didn't come off right. You know I would ever call you an ass!

Remorsefully signed,

ASSMAN

Dear Assman,

Don't be silly!

I was just teasing you. I know you'd never say anything mean to me in a million years - even if it was true!! :kiss:


- Doctor "So Now You're Saying I'm Over-sensitive?" Liz ;) :)


I think every male would make them obvious so they would be taken care of by your staff.

My staff is good at taking care of your staff, I mean stuff, no wait, I guess I do mean staff LOL
 
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