big girls got it going on

firestorm71 said:
was beginning to think i was alone again! lol :D what are you up to today? anything sexy and erotic? :kiss:


Can't till the little ones go down for nap, otherwise not too much just hanging out.

j
 
Curious

Just got an idea from another thread I was visiting...

How many here are in love...whatever your definition of the word...right now?

And do you think being in love make the sex better?

Just curious..no right or wrong answers... :kiss:
 
hi

morning everyone, hi busty,,,just curious how did you get the name "busty" ?
fire my little pet miss you honey. hopefully i'll catch up with you sometime today
and does anyone know why the thread has moved? :confused:
 
bustyblondebombshell said:
Morning!!

Well it is for me anyways!

As for the love thing... let me stew on it for a while, and I'll get back to you!
mornin' busty...and all....good morning here too!

Stew away...it's not a timed test! just my morbid curiosity! well...that, and besides for being totally addicted to sex, im a hopeless romantic! My down side that i don't tell most people. So shhhhhhhhhhh! lmao :rolleyes:
 
kirksaudi said:
morning everyone, hi busty,,,just curious how did you get the name "busty" ?
fire my little pet miss you honey. hopefully i'll catch up with you sometime today
and does anyone know why the thread has moved? :confused:
Hey Darlin'...I miss you too!!! Your pet needs some major stroking!!! :devil:

Did it move? I haven't noticed. I have it listed on my subscribed threads, so I don't go through the main boards. Where did it move to?
 
firestorm71 said:
Just got an idea from another thread I was visiting...

How many here are in love...whatever your definition of the word...right now?

And do you think being in love make the sex better?

Just curious..no right or wrong answers... :kiss:

right, been thinking about this..... coulda picked an easier question! It took me a while to get my blonde head into gear!

I'm more in love with the idea of being in love than actually "in love". I have these ideals that I aspire to, but seem to be quite happy trying to grab them with whomever crosses my path....

Been in a relationship for the last 3 and a half years, I was in love in the beginning, but now we seem to cohabit and occassionally fuck..... there's no shared interest and we rarely do things together. We have sex out of necessity, probably averaging about once a month. He has no interest in my fantasies, what turns me on, or differing the routine. To be honest, it is beginning to get boring and predictable. I tried to suggest introducing my desire for BDSM into the bedroom, but this floats his boat as much as the titanic made it to its final destination. In fact finding things to make him suddenly go "Phwoar"... became an unachieveable quest!

So for me, I think the excitement of being with a stranger whom is dominant, forcing me into submission, is just tripping the light fantastic.....

In saying all that though, I think that if you are truly in love with someone, and the love runs deep then fucking, sex and making love are three very different and very special things....

Is that the kind of thing you were looking for Fire? I know you said there were no right or wrong answers, but I have a habit of misreading questions!

Kirk...... how did I get the name busty eh?!?! mmmm, well, here in the UK, where breast enhancements aren't common place, I am considered to have big tits..... 38DD all natural (and often a hinderance - I want my B cups back!!). I'm incredibly conscious of them, and would rather hide them than flaunt them for the attention they receive. So... therefore, as you probably suspected, is the reason behind the 'busty' part of my name!
 
bustyblondebombshell said:
right, been thinking about this..... coulda picked an easier question! It took me a while to get my blonde head into gear!
Now what fun would it be if I made it an easy question? Gotta make sure y'all are payin' attention! :D

Thank you, Busty for answering so honestly!

Now..how much you wanna bet not one guy will respond to this. Got to thinking about that this morning...it doesn't involve blowjobs or fucking....lmao

Just kiddin' guys...or am I?
 
firestorm71 said:
Now what fun would it be if I made it an easy question? Gotta make sure y'all are payin' attention! :D

Thank you, Busty for answering so honestly!

Now..how much you wanna bet not one guy will respond to this. Got to thinking about that this morning...it doesn't involve blowjobs or fucking....lmao

Just kiddin' guys...or am I?

I have to say that for me sex is pretty good in love or not :)
I think that the first time after you truly realize you are in love, the sex is mindblowing!! Maybe its the thought of finding that one person you WANT to spend the rest fo your life with <my how quickly things change> or if its just that you are completely open to the person you are in love with, I dont know.
But there is something to be said about uninhibited hot sweaty no strings freaky sex. I mean just getting to it, no sweetness and tender kisses , just touching and teasing and stroking and licking and sucking. Giving all youve got and taking all thats given. Collapsing afterwards totally spent,drained and satisfied.
Thats just my humble opinion :D
 
Phillychocolatem said:
I have to say that for me sex is pretty good in love or not :)
I think that the first time after you truly realize you are in love, the sex is mindblowing!! Maybe its the thought of finding that one person you WANT to spend the rest fo your life with <my how quickly things change> or if its just that you are completely open to the person you are in love with, I dont know.
But there is something to be said about uninhibited hot sweaty no strings freaky sex. I mean just getting to it, no sweetness and tender kisses , just touching and teasing and stroking and licking and sucking. Giving all youve got and taking all thats given. Collapsing afterwards totally spent,drained and satisfied.
Thats just my humble opinion :D
Well..you answered one part of the question...I'll give you that. :)

And you are right...sex is great in any form. But there is that mindblowing, seeing God and the heavens sex that only comes with someone that you are head over heels in love with.

And by the way...the reason I asked this question today....I was reminded today how very special love is...and how quickly it can be taken away....and most of all, how much it can hurt. I'm really beginning to think I should just become a hermit...lol
 
Too Serious!!!!

I'm sorry guys! I really got way too serious there! Just having a bummed-out day. I promise..nothing but blowjobs and kinky wild sex from now on! :D No more of this love crap...it has been proven to me way too many times that it doesn't exist (at least not for me), so why waste time on it?

Let's get back to the good stuff!!!! SEX in all shapes, forms, fetishes, kinks and whatever else comes to mind!!!!! :devil:
 
firestorm71 said:
I'm sorry guys! I really got way too serious there! Just having a bummed-out day. I promise..nothing but blowjobs and kinky wild sex from now on! :D No more of this love crap...it has been proven to me way too many times that it doesn't exist (at least not for me), so why waste time on it?

Let's get back to the good stuff!!!! SEX in all shapes, forms, fetishes, kinks and whatever else comes to mind!!!!! :devil:


Love is just a perception that each person has. Your point of view on love differs from that of another. The problem is that when you get together with someone who doesn't have the same perception as you. When that occurs, then you know that things are going to be rough.

The point is to find that person who percieves love in the same way that you do. When you do then "LOVE" will be viewed as a positive thing again. So I hope that I haven't gone all over the top on you?? Hope that things get better Firestorm.

j
 
Moony31 said:
Love is just a perception that each person has. Your point of view on love differs from that of another. The problem is that when you get together with someone who doesn't have the same perception as you. When that occurs, then you know that things are going to be rough.

The point is to find that person who percieves love in the same way that you do. When you do then "LOVE" will be viewed as a positive thing again. So I hope that I haven't gone all over the top on you?? Hope that things get better Firestorm.

j
I appreciate your thoughts and understand what you are saying. Still think I just want to become a hermit for a while.
 
firestorm71 said:
I appreciate your thoughts and understand what you are saying. Still think I just want to become a hermit for a while.


ok well i'm thinking the same to be honest with you :D.

j
 
Moony31 said:
ok well i'm thinking the same to be honest with you :D.

j
You pick the island and I'll bring the beer....no wait...YOU bring the beer, I'll pick the island. :D
 
Hey all! Where'd everybody go???

I know what it is....no blowjobs!!!

Hmmmmm...we'll have to fix that!
 
njguy1002 said:
how are you going to fix it?
Well, unfortunately, I can't do it in person to most on this thread because they don't live in jersey, like us, but I love to give blow jobs....way back when this thread was first started by kirksaudi, he dared me to get nasty in the thread...so I did...and found out I liked it. :)

I just love writing and I love sex...so, with this thread, I've found my outlet! :) I've just been out of it for a week or two and need to step things back up again.

Any suggestions on what we can do to get this thread hot and nasty again?
 
firestorm71 said:
Well, unfortunately, I can't do it in person to most on this thread because they don't live in jersey, like us, but I love to give blow jobs....way back when this thread was first started by kirksaudi, he dared me to get nasty in the thread...so I did...and found out I liked it. :)

I just love writing and I love sex...so, with this thread, I've found my outlet! :) I've just been out of it for a week or two and need to step things back up again.

Any suggestions on what we can do to get this thread hot and nasty again?
sounds like a fun dare. I am glad you found your outlet. I will have to think of some suggestions.
 
firestorm71 said:
Glad you joined the fun Hush! And I can't say that anyone, black/white/blue/purple, approach me. Though i'm much more outgoing on here than I am in rl. my weight usually has me being a wallflower...but i've decided enough of that crap..***** too short...gotta have some fun! :D

That's the trick...get out there and live today. Personally I think I'm sexier now and just as uninhibited as I was when I was a size 10. (I'm 5'6" 275lbs). Afterall, my curves speak for themselves and look sensual and inviting in everyday clothes while my much smaller friends are running around in next to nothing trying to show off their ribs - I don't see what's sexy about that.
 
firestorm71 said:
Just got an idea from another thread I was visiting...

How many here are in love...whatever your definition of the word...right now?

And do you think being in love make the sex better?

Just curious..no right or wrong answers... :kiss:


I wouldn't say that I'm in love right now. Not really looking for it. I'm enjoying the solo single life right now and all the freedom that comes with it.

Does being in love make the sex better? Not necessarily. I think the benefit of being intimate with someone you're truly in love with is the emotional bonding the sex brings. Even if I'm in love, 100% truly in love, if my partner isn't as adventurous or open to new experiences or for whatever reason can not/will not satisfy me sexually, the sex for me may be emotionally satisfying, but that's it.


But really hot, passionate, crazy, memories are made of this sex isn't dependent on being in love with your partner. I've dated guys who became much more inhibited once I'd achieved girlfriend/fiance status.

I think the key to really great sex is being comfortable with yourself, feeling comfortable with your partner and surrendering to the experience without being hung up on whether a specific desire is too weird, kinky or not what the rest of the world is doing in their sex life.

But that's just my own $0.02.
 
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