big girls got it going on

[Kalentros]

What? The camera or the collar? lmao Not an excuse...a painful fact...I'm broke until closing on my house in a week. It's expensive keeping up payments on TWO places ya know! lol

*Baps your nose* Smartass.

I wouldn't know.

 

[njguy1002]

Noo...nobody's buying me a camera. I was just trying to be funny!!!

I'll get one...I just have to wait until next Friday, that's all. I was gonna buy a webcam too...but still thinking about that one.

And its not because I don't want you taking pictures, either. I just don't like people buying things for me. Sometimes I'm too independent for my own good.

so when you buy your own camera I can come take some pictures? lol

 

[Guest]

so when you buy your own camera I can come take some pictures? lol

Only if your a good boy.

lmao

 

[njguy1002]

Only if your a good boy.

lmao

and how do you define good?

 

[Guest]

and how do you define good?

i define it by the number of orgasms...more is good..less is bad.

 

[jpashion4u]

Now..how much you wanna bet not one guy will respond to this. Got to thinking about that this morning...it doesn't involve blowjobs or fucking....lmao

Just kiddin' guys...or am I?

Hi Fire. After that post, I decided I couldn't resist. I feel that because of my disability, I am forced to think about the deeper things at least sometimes. I also feel that if you are perceived as being different than the supposed norm, you tend to become intraspective and evaluate your views more deeply. Unfortunately, in our society, big girls and people with disabilities, and people who have different color skin than we might, or people with big noses or who are different in any way think differently or deeply about something or another.

Now how am I going to segway into love as opposed to sex after all that? Well, I have a hard time even thinking about sex with someone if I don't have an connection on an area other than physical attraction, because of necessity, due to social norms, it's bad for me to just go up and start feeling people to see if I might be attracted to them. With me, though, there are surface things like the voice, the perfume, the touch, the accent, smoking or not, drinking or not, and so on that start me on my attraction, but I mostly don't just start thinking of sex with someone as soon as I bump into them so to speek. And along with sex, I look for being able to relate on some other level also.

Because I am curious about everything, I admit that I wonder what a purely sexual relationship would be like for me, but I feel that it would not work for very long based on how I feel I am wired.

 

[njguy1002]

i define it by the number of orgasms...more is good..less is bad.

then my goal would be to be very good lol

 

[Guest]

Hi Fire. After that post, I decided I couldn't resist. I feel that because of my disability, I am forced to think about the deeper things at least sometimes. I also feel that if you are perceived as being different than the supposed norm, you tend to become intraspective and evaluate your views more deeply. Unfortunately, in our society, big girls and people with disabilities, and people who have different color skin than we might, or people with big noses or who are different in any way think differently or deeply about something or another.

Now how am I going to segway into love as opposed to sex after all that? Well, I have a hard time even thinking about sex with someone if I don't have an connection on an area other than physical attraction, because of necessity, due to social norms, it's bad for me to just go up and start feeling people to see if I might be attracted to them. With me, though, there are surface things like the voice, the perfume, the touch, the accent, smoking or not, drinking or not, and so on that start me on my attraction, but I mostly don't just start thinking of sex with someone as soon as I bump into them so to speek. And along with sex, I look for being able to relate on some other level also.

Because I am curious about everything, I admit that I wonder what a purely sexual relationship would be like for me, but I feel that it would not work for very long based on how I feel I am wired.

Hi J! Glad my comment got you to post a response!!! Welcome to the thread!!!

I agree with most of what you say. For most, no matter how much they talk, there has to be some type of connection beside just the physical. For me, for example, sense of humor is a MUST. I'm too much of a smart-ass not to be able to tease and have fun. A guy could be drop-dead gorgeous, but have the personality of a brown paper bag.

And yes...when it comes to sex and love, I do see a separation in a way. I haven't had all THAT much experience with men, but I do know that there is a physical connection and then there's an emotional/spiritual connection...and the one CAN happen without the other. But if both happen together...look out and watch the sparks fly! That has only happened once in my life...and, believe me, there IS a difference.

Because of my weight, I rarely get the occassion to have just a purely physical relationship. The guys usually go for my thinner friends. But the very few I've had were great at the time, and fun, and very erotic. But when it was done...it was done.

Thank you again, J, for your comments. I truly appreciate your point of view!

 

[Guest]

then my goal would be to be very good lol

lmao that's a good goal to aspire to! I'll let you know when I get the camera!

 

[Guest]

Just had a thought...(can anyone smell the smoke? lol)

I'm planning a vacation to South Carolina in a few weeks. Myrtle Beach to be precise. Anyone in this thread near that area?

 

[Guest]

Another Question

I know...I'm just full of 'em today!!!

I'm sitting here staring at a blank document about to start my next story. I have a bunch that I've written over the years, but I didn't get the urge to post any of them. So...I'm going to start from scratch. My problem is I can't make up my mind on a story line...so, I need your advice. You guys know me pretty good..at least as well as you can get to know someone on here, so I trust your opinions.

Here are your choices:

1). Exhibitionism/Voyeurism - Similar to the movie theater scene I wrote about earlier in this thread...only longer and more intense.

2). Lesbian - A fictional story (so far) about my first experience with a woman...my fantasy so to speak.

3). Toys/Masterbation - I describe a night after being online with you guys.

4). Erotic/Romance - This would be one I wrote a while ago...I take you on a picnic at a romantic waterfall. Has some anal, bondage, food, etc. A little bit of everything.

5). Not sure what category this last one would fall into...but a member of this thread gave me the idea...and every time I think about it...instant throbbing. You and me in the office...having fun with no one else the wiser.

Ok..that's what I've been thinking...I can't make up my mind. I like all the ideas...and will probably write them all eventually...I just don't know which one to start with! Someone help!!!

 

[Guest]

OH..and did I mention that I'm drinking heavily tonight...and we know what happens when I drink!!! Right, VisionSkate? lmao

I learned how to make Black Cherry Kamakasi tonight...yummy!!!!

 

[njguy1002]

OH..and did I mention that I'm drinking heavily tonight...and we know what happens when I drink!!! Right, VisionSkate? lmao

I learned how to make Black Cherry Kamakasi tonight...yummy!!!!

what happens?

 

[Guest]

what happens?

alcohol is like an aphrodisiac to me...

 

[Kalentros]

alcohol is like an aphrodisiac to me...

Isn't that what it is for everyone?

 

[Guest]

Isn't that what it is for everyone?

No...you don't understand...I mean...EXTREME!!!

 

[visionskate]

VISION!!!!! I missed ya darlin'!!!!! Welcome back!!!

hahaha well its nice to know that someone misses me ..sorry about not being able to come on as much but ive been trying to start up a buisness so time is short right now ..but i again i say hello and and such

 

[Guest]

hahaha well its nice to know that someone misses me ..sorry about not being able to come on as much but ive been trying to start up a buisness so time is short right now ..but i again i say hello and and such

That's ok..yes...you were missed...but we understand how your priorities got screwed up.

LMAO just kiddin'! GOOD LUCK with the startup! It's tough to accomplish, but well worth the time and effort put into it!

 

[Kalentros]

No...you don't understand...I mean...EXTREME!!!

*Evil grin*

*Hands you a drink*

No...I think I do.

 

[gypziedoll]

Hello everyone, how are you tonight? Nice to meet you all.

 

[Guest]

*Evil grin*

*Hands you a drink*

No...I think I do.

HEY!!!!!!!!!! Philly is hockeytown usa!!! Flyers ROCK!!!!
<takes BIG long drink>

 

[Guest]

Hello everyone, how are you tonight? Nice to meet you all.

Hey gypzie! Welcome to the insane asylum!!!

These people in here are nuts! I think I'm the only normal one!

 

[gypziedoll]

Hey gypzie! Welcome to the insane asylum!!!

These people in here are nuts! I think I'm the only normal one!

Hi sweetie, thanks for the welcome.......glad to be here.....

 

[Guest]

Hi sweetie, thanks for the welcome.......glad to be here.....

Girl...you are in the DEEP south, aren't ya? Yikes!

We are more than glad to have you here!

 

[gypziedoll]

Girl...you are in the DEEP south, aren't ya? Yikes!

We are more than glad to have you here!

yes Darlin I am right in the heart of cajun country....and I am very glad to be here,