Cock Talk

[UnquietDreams]

Does seeing your partner with another man interest you?

No, not when I had a partner.

Has your partner ever suggested this in your relationship? What if they did?

No. If she suggested it, I would schedule a CT. It would be that far out of her orbit.

What is it about watching your wife or girlfriend have sex with another dude that guys find erotic?

I have thought about this. One, you have guys who are into humiliation kink. But there is the other side, the anger side. I remember when I found my girlfriend cheating with the neighbor (who had a wife and newborn kid next door). And I remember that rush of anger and righteous fury. (I wanted to smash in his pretty face and throw him into his apartment without opening the door.) It floods you with endorphins -- fight or flight-- and it can be a horrible but powerful emotional rush. Damaging, but powerful. The human mind is such a screwed up place, I could see how that rush could also include arousal, and how that would be attractive or even addicting.

Would you feel differently if you got to watch her with another woman?

That would also have been outside my ex-wife's orbit. I was involved in multiple partner groupings before, but I was usually the outside party, or we were three uninvolved people. I have never been in a relationship where the other was willing to go outside of our pairing. That said, I wouldn't hate watching my ex with a woman, even if that makes me a hypocrite. I can accept that.

 

[Endless_Night]

I have thought about this. One, you have guys who are into humiliation kink. But there is the other side, the anger side. I remember when I found my girlfriend cheating with the neighbor (who had a wife and newborn kid next door). And I remember that rush of anger and righteous fury. (I wanted to smash in his pretty face and throw him into his apartment without opening the door.) It floods you with endorphins -- fight or flight-- and it can be a horrible but powerful emotional rush. Damaging, but powerful. The human mind is such a screwed up place, I could see how that rush could also include arousal, and how that would be attractive or even addicting.

Interesting answer. Not one that would have occurred to me.

 

[hotwords229_A]

The Alcohol Lick

Do you (generally) use alcohol to relax before sex?
What is your drink of choice?
What kind of drunk are you?
Do a few drinks make you silly, horny, tired, angry, sad, confident, or something else?
What crazy sexual thing did you do while drunk?
Have you experienced the horror of Whiskey Dick? How’d that go?
If you are not a drinker, how do you relax before going out, getting laid, and/or overcoming (minor) social anxieties?
Let’s say you were willingly going to try something sexually adventurous, how many drinks would it take you to . . . (Fill in the blank)?

(answer that last one however you choose—butt sex, same sex, orgy, public sex—surprise us!)

 

[Neanderthal247]

The Alcohol Lick

Do you (generally) use alcohol to relax before sex?

Not anymore, when I was younger I did.

What is your drink of choice?

Now, mostly beer, Guinness

What kind of drunk are you?

If comfortable happy drunk and horn dog

Do a few drinks make you silly, horny, tired, angry, sad, confident, or something else?

If in a comfortable setting I begin to be the life of the party and outgoing

What crazy sexual thing did you do while drunk?

Fuck a woman outside in Time Sqare behind a NYPD Paddy Wagon, during New Year's Eve to New Years.

Have you experienced the horror of Whiskey Dick? How’d that go?

Yup, it did not turn out well. I call it Tequila Dick.

If you are not a drinker, how do you relax before going out, getting laid, and/or overcoming (minor) social anxieties?

I don't drink much anymore, I don't have anxiety and am very confident

Let’s say you were willingly going to try something sexually adventurous, how many drinks would it take you to . . . (Fill in the blank)?

0 drinks, If I want to do something adventurous sex is all the motivation I need

(answer that last one however you choose—butt sex, same sex, orgy, public sex—surprise us!)

Edited to add: Orgy, Public Sex, Vampire sex, NC role play

 

[Endless_Night]

1) Do you (generally) use alcohol to relax before sex?
2) What is your drink of choice?
3) What kind of drunk are you?
4) Do a few drinks make you silly, horny, tired, angry, sad, confident, or something else?
5) What crazy sexual thing did you do while drunk?
6) Have you experienced the horror of Whiskey Dick? How’d that go?
7) If you are not a drinker, how do you relax before going out, getting laid, and/or overcoming (minor) social anxieties?
8) Let’s say you were willingly going to try something sexually adventurous, how many drinks would it take you to . . . (Fill in the blank)?

1) No.
2) Not much of a drinker. The tase is unpalatable. I do like a couple of cocktails. French 75 and Kir Royale. I'll also drink very stout stout, but that's about all.
3) Affectionate.
4) Happy
5) Jumped off a second story canopy once when very young. Rather like Louisa in Jane Austin's Persuasion. Unlike Louisa, someone caught me. (Tequila. )
6) *not even going to ask what that is*
7) I . . . don't? If my anxiety is high and it's to do with other people I'm unlikely to want to dim my faculties with alcohol.
8) Alcohol is an unlikely trigger for me.

 

[ImpishSeraph]

The Alcohol Lick

Do you (generally) use alcohol to relax before sex?

Nope

What is your drink of choice?

Don't drink

What kind of drunk are you?

I was always a happy naked one

Do a few drinks make you silly, horny, tired, angry, sad, confident, or something else?

silly and horny

What crazy sexual thing did you do while drunk?

Took picture of a friend's cock was probably the last one

Have you experienced the horror of Whiskey Dick? How’d that go?

N/A

If you are not a drinker, how do you relax before going out, getting laid, and/or
overcoming (minor) social anxieties?

I don't use anything. I find it a thrill to have these anxieties

Let’s say you were willingly going to try something sexually adventurous, how many drinks would it take you to . . . (Fill in the blank)?

no drinks to have a MMF

(answer that last one however you choose—butt sex, same sex, orgy, public sex—surprise us!)

 

[cactusjack0584]

Do you (generally) use alcohol to relax before sex?
-I don’t drink
What is your drink of choice?
-Same answer
What kind of drunk are you?
-I was a lousy one
Do a few drinks make you silly, horny, tired, angry, sad, confident, or something else?
-Don’t remember anymore
What crazy sexual thing did you do while drunk?
-Probably a lot of things
Have you experienced the horror of Whiskey Dick? How’d that go?
-Never had any issues with that
If you are not a drinker, how do you relax before going out, getting laid, and/or overcoming (minor) social anxieties?
-I usually just don’t
Let’s say you were willingly going to try something sexually adventurous, how many drinks would it take you to . . . (Fill in the blank)?
-Honestly one, and there’s not many limits after that

 

[Cogan]

The Alcohol Lick

Do you (generally) use alcohol to relax before sex?

When I was young, but not anymore.

What is your drink of choice?

Back in the days beer.
Today I enjoy a lot of different drinks, but not as a sex boost.

What kind of drunk are you?

I'm tha kind that boost the mood I'm in. If I'm happy, that will increase, if I'm sad, horny and so on.

Do a few drinks make you silly, horny, tired, angry, sad, confident, or something else?

Silly and horny.

What crazy sexual thing did you do while drunk?

Have you experienced the horror of Whiskey Dick? How’d that go?

Yes I have. No fun at all.

If you are not a drinker, how do you relax before going out, getting laid, and/or overcoming (minor) social anxieties?

NA.

Let’s say you were willingly going to try something sexually adventurous, how many drinks would it take you to . . . (Fill in the blank)?

Today? Non!

 

[AlwaysDancing]

The Alcohol Lick

Do you (generally) use alcohol to relax before sex? …

No. Never needed to.

What is your drink of choice?

Wine.

What kind of drunk are you?

I don’t drink enough to get drunk. But I just talk … even more.

Do a few drinks make you silly, horny, tired, angry, sad, confident, or something else?
What crazy sexual thing did you do while drunk?

Silly … horny. Never been drink and lucky so ultimately a little lonely

Have you experienced the horror of Whiskey Dick? How’d that go?

Nope.

If you are not a drinker, how do you relax before going out, getting laid, and/or overcoming (minor) social anxieties?

This is part of it!! I dunno. This is a non-issue.

Let’s say you were willingly going to try something sexually adventurous, how many drinks would it take you to . . . (Fill in the blank)?

I just need a little mutual trust

 

[MischiefMakerAlways]

The Alcohol Lick

Do you (generally) use alcohol to relax before sex?

Nope. They aren't related in any way.

What is your drink of choice?

Probably craft beer. I like bourbon straight or simple cocktail. I can drink an obscene amount of margaritas. I fact, I can drink an obscene amount of anything. I like all forms of alcohol. I don't metabolize alcohol as much as the normal person, so it takes a staggering amount to effect me.

What kind of drunk are you?

Happy, funny, handsy.

Do a few drinks make you silly, horny, tired, angry, sad, confident, or something else?

It makes me calm down a little, enjoy the moment more, and lessens the perpetual depression I live with.

What crazy sexual thing did you do while drunk?

N/A. I'm almost never drunk, and there's nothing I wouldn't do sober that alcohol would overcome.

Have you experienced the horror of Whiskey Dick? How’d that go?

Sort of. It was a combination of that and a medicine I was on. Just gave up after a while.

If you are not a drinker, how do you relax before going out, getting laid, and/or overcoming (minor) social anxieties?

Let’s say you were willingly going to try something sexually adventurous, how many drinks would it take you to . . . (Fill in the blank)?

No alcohol needed, just a willing participant(s). I'm quite adventurous and want to experience much more than I have.

(answer that last one however you choose—butt sex, same sex, orgy, public sex—surprise us!)

 

[__Nathan1968]

The Alcohol Lick

Do you (generally) use alcohol to relax before sex?

Relax/eliminate inhibitions, yes

What is your drink of choice?

New England style IPAs, Cabernet, or Rye.

What kind of drunk are you?

Goofy and happy, or sometimes quiet and contemplative

Do a few drinks make you silly, horny, tired, angry, sad, confident, or something else?

Silly and confident.

What crazy sexual thing did you do while drunk?

Hooked up behind a bar. We’ve now been married 33 years.

Have you experienced the horror of Whiskey Dick? How’d that go?

I’ve never had whiskey dick or any other ED issues.

If you are not a drinker, how do you relax before going out, getting laid, and/or overcoming (minor) social anxieties?

N/A

Let’s say you were willingly going to try something sexually adventurous, how many drinks would it take you to . . . (Fill in the blank)?

(answer that last one however you choose—butt sex, same sex, orgy, public sex—surprise us!)

I’m guessing a half dozen or more rye and gingers might get me bold enough to engage in public sex (assuming I really liked the ginger).

 

[MindYaBitness]

Do you (generally) use alcohol to relax before sex?

Nope, I've never drank. However, I also don't really need/want to relax before sex. I want to fully aware & engaged

What is your drink of choice?

Diet Coke, and when I'm feeling really dangerous, a RedBull w/Blackberry syrup from Dutch.

What kind of drunk are you?

I'm not sure I want to find out. One brother is an angry drunk, the other is super sweet & happy. I think it's best I don't show how big of a slut I can be I just don't go there.

Do a few drinks make you silly, horny, tired, angry, sad, confident, or something else?

N/A

What crazy sexual thing did you do while drunk?

N/A, though whilst accidentally megadosed on so.e synthetic gummies, I did announce to a group that I intended to return to the hotel room & ride my spouse raw

Have you experienced the horror of Whiskey Dick? How’d that go?

N/A though, I did find out that some painkillers make it impossible to orgasm, does that count?

If you are not a drinker, how do you relax before going out, getting laid, and/or overcoming (minor) social anxieties?

I don't really experience social anxiety. As long as my outfit is appropriate & I feel put together, I'm pretty comfortable in any social situation.

Let’s say you were willingly going to try something sexually adventurous, how many drinks would it take you to . . . (Fill in the blank)?

Zero. I'm game to try pretty much anything, if my partner's into it.

 

[SassySheDevil]

Take my wife, please.



Every now and then I wander into the Fetish & Sexuality forum. I am surprised how many threads there are about a guy seeing his wife have sex with another man. Especially because, it seems, most of the interest is on the guy’s side of watching the sex and not the wife who would be getting the sex.

This topic interests me from a purely anthropological angle.

Does seeing your partner with another man interest you?

He has loved seeing me. But i really have no desire to see him. Though I have.

Has your partner ever suggested this in your relationship? What if they did?

Been there. Done that. With both sexes.

Do you want your man to watch you have sex with another man (or woman), does that interest you?

I used to have a pretty strong bitchy side where I wanted to tie him up, make him watch. I don't really have that in me anymore.

What is it about watching your wife or girlfriend have sex with another dude that guys find erotic?

my husband says he's not sure he can answer that now. It's been a while. He said probably just the thrill of seeing me get pleasured.

Would you feel differently if you got to watch her with another woman?

He didn't care all that much when it was another woman. He said it was too overwhelming.

Would you rather have sex with another woman for your guy’s enjoyment instead of another guy?

He'd prefer the guy. Again for my pleasure.

(I realize not all of these questions apply to everyone, feel free to answer whatever works for you and anything I didn’t think of asking)

Couldn't resist this set.

 

[aussiegeekygal]

Do you (generally) use alcohol to relax before sex?
No. I like to be sober and fully in the month.

What is your drink of choice?
Craft beer (dark/malty) or an Old Fashioned are my go-tos

What kind of drunk are you?
Very sloppy

Do a few drinks make you silly, horny, tired, angry, sad, confident, or something else?
Silly. Reserved. I rarely will go past a light buzz because I don't enjoy the feeling.

What crazy sexual thing did you do while drunk?
Got my tits out to win a beer skulling/chugging contest

Have you experienced the horror of Whiskey Dick? How’d that go?
Yeah. I don't remember tbh.

If you are not a drinker, how do you relax before going out, getting laid, and/or overcoming (minor) social anxieties?
I just do it scared.

Let’s say you were willingly going to try something sexually adventurous, how many drinks would it take you to . . . (Fill in the blank)?
None. I have learnt unless I want something when I'm sober I shouldn't do it drunk.

 

[Lmizzler]

The Alcohol Lick

Do you (generally) use alcohol to relax before sex?

Not really. Occasionally but it isn't really a scheduled thing, just happens

What is your drink of choice?

I'm not picky but I'll generally go with a beer or whiskey/bourbon. Occasionally a mixed drink like an old fashion or moscow mule.

What kind of drunk are you?

I don't drink to get drunk. Never have and probably never will. I enjoy the relaxation that comes with just a little bit of alcohol but I have no desire to drink to excess.

Do a few drinks make you silly, horny, tired, angry, sad, confident, or something else?

Depends on the day. I've experienced all of the above but mostly horny and confident.

What crazy sexual thing did you do while drunk?

N/A but like others have said, I think it would be the same either way.

Have you experienced the horror of Whiskey Dick? How’d that go?

No, I don't drink enough to get to that point. I want to remember and enjoy the whole experience so that would just jeopardize it.

If you are not a drinker, how do you relax before going out, getting laid, and/or overcoming (minor) social anxieties?

I'm pretty comfortable in most scenarios but a drink does generally help to relax a person who is feeling anxious or stressed. I've had a drink on occasion for that very reason when going to a social event that was outside my normal comfort zone(for example - a work networking event - which generally has alcohol at it anyway)

Let’s say you were willingly going to try something sexually adventurous, how many drinks would it take you to . . . (Fill in the blank)?

(answer that last one however you choose—butt sex, same sex, orgy, public sex—surprise us!)

I'd be lying if I didn't say that alcohol doesn't lower your inhibitions. So even just a little can be enough to cause you to consider something you wouldn't normally. Pour me a bourbon and lets see what happens.

 

[hotwords229_A]

You guys are really letting me down.
I assumed you were all raging alcoholics.

 

[Apisto42]

The Alcohol Lick

Best gif yet.

Do you (generally) use alcohol to relax before sex?

Nope.

What is your drink of choice?

G&T or French 75 if I feel like going to trouble of making it.

What kind of drunk are you?

Laid back.

Do a few drinks make you silly, horny, tired, angry, sad, confident, or something else?

Depends on whether I’m day drinking, how many people I’m with and whether I like the people I’m with.

What crazy sexual thing did you do while drunk?

It was all a long time ago and I’d rather not remember most of it.

Have you experienced the horror of Whiskey Dick? How’d that go?

lol. Yes. It was awful.

If you are not a drinker, how do you relax before going out, getting laid, and/or overcoming (minor) social anxieties?

Remember that I’m a Prince of the Realm and I’m all that.

Let’s say you were willingly going to try something sexually adventurous, how many drinks would it take you to . . . (Fill in the blank)?

None. I’d rather be sober and enjoy it.

(answer that last one however you choose—butt sex, same sex, orgy, public sex—surprise us!)

You guys are really letting me down.
I assumed you were all raging alcoholics.

I’d drink with the gif girl and become an alcoholic if she did to my cock what she’s doing to that bottle. Also, she’s got great tits.

 

[MindYaBitness]

You guys are really letting me down.
I assumed you were all raging alcoholics.

 

[Wand3rlust]

Does seeing your partner with another man interest you?

no.

Has your partner ever suggested this in your relationship? What if they did?

n/a but, if i had a partner and they did, then.... depending on some good discussion before I'd be down for that.

Do you want your man to watch you have sex with another man (or woman), does that interest you?

see above.

What is it about watching your wife or girlfriend have sex with another dude that guys find erotic?

From the discussions I've had, it's either a cuckold thing they get of on, or, a pride thing. 'Look at the woman I have, I'm not worthy yet she still goes home with me'
'Look at the woman I have, I'll share her with you, but she's ultimately mine and still goes home with me.'

Would you feel differently if you got to watch her with another woman?

n/a

Would you rather have sex with another woman for your guy’s enjoyment instead of another guy?

I'm open to discussion.

 

[Wand3rlust]

Do you (generally) use alcohol to relax before sex?

I can't remember... but no. I've not needed it.

What is your drink of choice?

depends. Gin, prosecco, cocktails...

What kind of drunk are you?

depends. Mostly the life and soul of the party.

Do a few drinks make you silly, horny, tired, angry, sad, confident, or something else?

a  few drinks will make me none of those things. A  LOT of drinks will make me any number of those things. But only red wine makes me maudlin.

What crazy sexual thing did you do while drunk?

from memory, sex outside a block of shared holiday balconies along side a quite well used path to get to the front of the apartments.
Also, probably some other thing I don't remember. I don't drink like that often. But every once in a while, my brain loses the ability to make new memories. Those aren't always fun mornings to wake up.

Have you experienced the horror of Whiskey Dick? How’d that go?

Yes. it's shit. (for me anyway)

If you are not a drinker, how do you relax before going out, getting laid, and/or overcoming (minor) social anxieties?

I dont  need alcohol. But I have enjoyed it. if there's music in the air and lots of loving everywhere.... anyway. If there's music and dancing I'm good.

Let’s say you were willingly going to try something sexually adventurous, how many drinks would it take you to . . . (Fill in the blank)?

(answer that last one however you choose—butt sex, same sex, orgy, public sex—surprise us!)

Hmm.. I'd like to think I'd go into almost everything sober enough to make the right decision.

 

[MedicalMuse]

The breast I could do.

I went through a scary time in my life where I thought I might never get to see Lily James’ boobs.
But I believed in myself, I worked hard at it and I made it. I’m basically an American hero.

Who did you or do you want to see naked?

Someone very particular

Was it worth it?

I never got to, and I really feel at this point it was probably much better for us both.

 

[MedicalMuse]

Take my wife, please.

Every now and then I wander into the Fetish & Sexuality forum. I am surprised how many threads there are about a guy seeing his wife have sex with another man. Especially because, it seems, most of the interest is on the guy’s side of watching the sex and not the wife who would be getting the sex.

This topic interests me from a purely anthropological angle.

Does seeing your partner with another man interest you?

Wasn’t another man, but it was interesting at the time.

Has your partner ever suggested this in your relationship? What if they did?

Welll, there’s a story there.

Do you want your man to watch you have sex with another man (or woman), does that interest you?

Nope. Been there done that. I think it leads to some rampant insecurity when you or your partner maybe feel like the grass is greener, yeah?

What is it about watching your wife or girlfriend have sex with another dude that guys find erotic?

My dude has watched me have sex with both another man and another woman. And then all of us kind of together. I think it was really the novelty

Would you feel differently if you got to watch her with another woman?

He definitely liked the girl girl action.

Would you rather have sex with another woman for your guy’s enjoyment instead of another guy?

I’m not entirely sure. Since it’s been done, I’m not sure if there is any appeal anymore.

(I realize not all of these questions apply to everyone, feel free to answer whatever works for you and anything I didn’t think of asking)

 

[deefalttwunnyfor]

The Alcohol Lick

She seems fun. I'd like to be friends with her

Do you (generally) use alcohol to relax before sex?

Not always, but you did say generally soooooooo yeah

What is your drink of choice?

I'll always order a long island iced tea at a restaurant/bar. It tells me so much about the bartender.
At home? Margs or whiskey
At a gathering? Beer or wine

What kind of drunk are you?

The best

Do a few drinks make you silly, horny, tired, angry, sad, confident, or something else?

My research indicates that it enhances the mood that you are in as you imbibe. So it can be any of those things.

Have you experienced the horror of Whiskey Dick? How’d that go?

I haven't but I worry that it's going to possibly occur as I approach the tender age of 28. <cough>

Let’s say you were willingly going to try something sexually adventurous, how many drinks would it take you to . . . (Fill in the blank)?

An orgy or public sex would take a few. It depends on what the drinks are? I'd want a buzz but not SO much that I'm out of it. I want to be present and remembering it

 

[deefalttwunnyfor]

A  LOT of drinks will make me any number of those things.

Here's to #1,2, and 6. Maybe a little of #4

 

[aussiegeekygal]

Pour me a bourbon and lets see what happens.

*there's no bourbon emoji*