insertcutename
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I asked my Daddy if I could call him that. He told me to call him Sir, but it felt unnatural.
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Shankara20
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insertcutename said:
and so you call him "Sir", and he is Daddy and you are his "girl". Right?
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insertcutename said:
Awww I'm sorry to hear that
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Why? This I don't understand, but then again, it could just be because I "grew up" in the L-G (going back to the days when their was no BT) community. I like the terms - they immediately conjur up images of a very loving D/s relationship to me. The term is used similarly among a lot of black folk who are at least my age or older (along with baby, with which everyone seems to be fairly comfortable).Etoile said:Yay, good bump. I'm glad there are more Daddy/girl types on here now; I remember a thread long ago where someone insisted that if I was in a D/g relationship, I must be into incest.
On another note, I have a friend who is also "versatile." Been in the leathermen's community for years. Has currently has a Daddy and a son. They didn't know each other until they played together at a play party. Son's response - "I guess I should call you Grandpa."
I don't know why I find this story so cute - it really does tickle my funny bone...
Shankara20
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neonflux said:Why? This I don't understand, but then again, it could just be because I "grew up" in the L-G (going back to the days when their was no BT) community. I like the terms - they immediately conjur up images of a very loving D/s relationship to me. The term is used similarly among a lot of black folk who are at least my age or older (along with baby, with which everyone seems to be fairly comfortable).
On another note, I have a friend who is also "versatile." Been in the leathermen's community for years. Has currently has a Daddy and a son. They didn't know each other until they played together at a play party. Son's response - "I guess I should call you Grandpa."
I don't know why I find this story so cute - it really does tickle my funny bone...
"I guess I should call you Grandpa." LOL
At the start of the thread I talked about the acceptance the GLBT community has with the Daddy/boy relationship. I am glad to see that understanding of those relationships expanding to other communities. I am not now is any sort of relationship in R/L or on-line, but I have found the Daddy/boy or Daddy/girl (I'm bi) dynamic the most natural and comfortable for me and how I Top.
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secrets_within said:Awww I'm sorry to hear that
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Well, I tend to use Sir with customers who are jerks, so calling him that felt weird.
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Shankara20 said:
I don't call him Sir anymore. I call him Daddy and he calls me his little girl.
Shankara20
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insertcutename said:
thats cool that you get to use the name you like...
Shankara20
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I have been ruined a bit now that I know of your love of butts in white cotton panties. When I am surfing for panty porn and I run across a photo of lovely white panties you come to my mind - and that is a mood swing for me that has taken some work to handle.Betticus said:I should have known that I'd find Shankara all over this thread. I just followed the trail of panties!!!!!!
Not to worry, whenever I choose to wear my own white cotton panties you never cross my mind....
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Shankara20 said:I have been ruined a bit now that I know of your love of butts in white cotton panties. When I am surfing for panty porn and I run across a photo of lovely white panties you come to my mind - and that is a mood swing for me that has taken some work to handle.
Not to worry, whenever I choose to wear my own white cotton panties you never cross my mind....
Ahhh, the infamous white cotton panty thread.... *nostalgia*.....
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Shankara20 said:
Maybe he was going to lead up to me calling him Daddy anyhoo. He didn't seem upset by my request.
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insertcutename said:
I'm so glad you are able to call him whatever makes you comfortable.
When we first met, my (now) Daddy had no preference as to what he was called. He said in reality it just wasn't important to him, that I could call him Oompa Loompa if I wanted to..he's all about the obedience, not the name. Interestingly enough though, after being together a short while he suggested Daddy. It felt right to him and it certainly felt right to me. The D/g dynamic was already developing naturally, but putting the names to it helped everything fall into place.
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Daddy was not always Daddy to me. In the beginning of our relationship he was Master or I used his name. I felt that "Daddy" sounded silly and he didn't feel comfortable with the word because of his childhood. For some reason we grew into it. Suddenly the word started to appeal to me and I was beginning to think that it fits him so perfectly.
I have no idea how it exactly happened but we went from "nah, that's not us" to feeling really comfortable with it.
For me the word has nothing to do with my father. I didn't grow up using the English language so I never used "daddy" for him.
Referring to my owner as Daddy feels very natural to me. To us the word it is a combination of loving husband, sadistic Master and controlling owner.
I have no idea how it exactly happened but we went from "nah, that's not us" to feeling really comfortable with it.
For me the word has nothing to do with my father. I didn't grow up using the English language so I never used "daddy" for him.
Referring to my owner as Daddy feels very natural to me. To us the word it is a combination of loving husband, sadistic Master and controlling owner.
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huismus said:
thank you for shairing this with us....
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little girl
Had a relationship with a woman and W/we loved to play out that fantasy. Many a GREAT nights of sex.
Had a relationship with a woman and W/we loved to play out that fantasy. Many a GREAT nights of sex.
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Yes indeed...Daddy/boy (or Daddy/boi) is much much more acceptable than the straight version of same.Shankara20 said:
I notice I didn't actually participate in this thread back in 2002, even though I was in a D/g relationship at the time...but I know I've been snarked at somewhere about how I simply must be into incest and all that. I can't figure out what website it was though. This thread was actually pretty good, I got to explain (around pg 3 or so) what D/g really is for a lot of us, and what it's not.
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My girl and I play at the Daddy/girl dynamic. When we are in that mode our 'scenes' are very nurturing and loving... and yes we do play at the incest taboo. This has nothing to do with My having a desire for real little girls, but something that we do as a form of plan.
Yes, she has called Me Daddy in public... and loved it.
Yes, she has called Me Daddy in public... and loved it.
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MasterPhoenix said:
yes, yes i did. as you can see by my name i am His slave. but there is something about our Daddy/babygirl that does it for me and Him both. i love being His slave, dont' get me wrong, but when we are playing the Daddy/babygirl roles i love it also. we do not live as Daddy/babygirl, we live as Master/slave that's what works for us. but while He was here, we went out to eat one night and i did indeed fall into my babygirl role, calling Him Daddy and not caring who heard me *smiles* it was fun, and refreshing and somehow gives me a break from being 'slave' i hope i'm making sense, as sometimes i have a hard time finding words to describe what i'm trying to say *grins*
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lil_slave_rose said:
It was quite fun too...
I don't think anyone around us picked up on it, or at least they didnt show it... maybe if I HAD actually made you order from the kids' menu...
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MasterPhoenix said:
*giggles* the looks on their faces woulda been priceless and i can hear the whispers now..haha..but i'm glad You didn't make me order off the kid menu, i would have left hungry
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lil_slave_rose said:*giggles* the looks on their faces woulda been priceless and i can hear the whispers now..haha..but i'm glad You didn't make me order off the kid menu, i would have left hungry
yeah well... I know My girl needs sutinence...
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lil_slave_rose, can you explain to me how your girl role is different from your slave role? You and MasterPhoenix have described it as if it's something you turn on and off, and I'm not sure I understand how it works. For me I am always my Daddy's little girl, so I don't quite get it, can you help?
