Daddy Doms and the girls who love them

[chantilly_lace]

i have some friends who are into Daddy Doms .. not A/all in this scene are into 'age' play .. it is still ad Dom/sub type of relationship not unlike others. Most links you look up seem to show it involves age play but this is not the case at all . Daddy Dom is a nurturing authority. Sometimes but not always incorporating age play into his dynamic.

i admit that this is not my area of expertise but i have researched it a bit bc of my F/friends and this link i do believe is rather interesting and may be helpful for others Daddy Doms

 

[lil_slave_rose]

lil_slave_rose, can you explain to me how your girl role is different from your slave role? You and MasterPhoenix have described it as if it's something you turn on and off, and I'm not sure I understand how it works. For me I am always my Daddy's little girl, so I don't quite get it, can you help?

wow, this is going to be interesting to explain as i've never really had to before but i will give it my best shot and try to help you understand. my slave 'role' is more about service to Him, and honestly is the 'role' i am in more often than not, my princess/babygirl 'role' is more of a fantasy play, and usually only takes place in the bedroom. so i guess in short, our Daddy/babygirl is more about scening than anything else, playing out a fantasy where as my slave role i'm always in. i adress Him as Master MOST of the time. wow this really is hard to explain because it is so much more complex than i'm making it sound and it sounds like i'm saying it's a game we play, but it's not, i have two seperate roles, it's just what works for us *sighs* lol i hope i have atleast explained it a little better and have helped you to understand a little more. Maybe Master can do a better job than i, after all, He is the writer and the one that is good with words *smiles*

 

[MasterPhoenix]

OK this is going to be a bit of a long winded answer, but here goes.

Our primary roles to one another is that of Master and slave and that runs throughout all of our interaction. Within those roles we have also woven the vanilla concepts of love as well as a Daddy/babygirl bond. Our life is a wonderful tapestry of those three elements, as she is always My slave and My lover. Even within the confines of our Master/slave interaction I do have many of the nurturing characteristics that constitute a 'Daddy' Dom.

Often times when I am feeling that she is in need of extra nurturing our roles soften a bit to the Daddy/babygirl roles. I am never not Master to her, but during these times she calls Me Daddy so she can be lost in the extra warmth and safety that brings. Sometimes we spice it up with roleplay and take it into a scene, but other times its an outlet where I am giving her some extra warmth and reassurance.

I guess to make a long answer short (too late, I know) she is always My slave, but she is also always My little girl. That is an essence of what we are to one another.

I hope this kind of made sense....

 

[lil_slave_rose]

OK this is going to be a bit of a long winded answer, but here goes.

Our primary roles to one another is that of Master and slave and that runs throughout all of our interaction. Within those roles we have also woven the vanilla concepts of love as well as a Daddy/babygirl bond. Our life is a wonderful tapestry of those three elements, as she is always My slave and My lover. Even within the confines of our Master/slave interaction I do have many of the nurturing characteristics that constitute a 'Daddy' Dom.

Often times when I am feeling that she is in need of extra nurturing our roles soften a bit to the Daddy/babygirl roles. I am never not Master to her, but during these times she calls Me Daddy so she can be lost in the extra warmth and safety that brings. Sometimes we spice it up with roleplay and take it into a scene, but other times its an outlet where I am giving her some extra warmth and reassurance.

I guess to make a long answer short (too late, I know) she is always My slave, but she is also always My little girl. That is an essence of what we are to one another.

I hope this kind of made sense....

*giggles* i told you He's better with words than me. yea..what He said..that's exactly what i was trying to say LOL

 

[Shankara20]

OK this is going to be a bit of a long winded answer, but here goes.

Our primary roles to one another is that of Master and slave and that runs throughout all of our interaction. Within those roles we have also woven the vanilla concepts of love as well as a Daddy/babygirl bond. Our life is a wonderful tapestry of those three elements, as she is always My slave and My lover. Even within the confines of our Master/slave interaction I do have many of the nurturing characteristics that constitute a 'Daddy' Dom.

Often times when I am feeling that she is in need of extra nurturing our roles soften a bit to the Daddy/babygirl roles. I am never not Master to her, but during these times she calls Me Daddy so she can be lost in the extra warmth and safety that brings. Sometimes we spice it up with roleplay and take it into a scene, but other times its an outlet where I am giving her some extra warmth and reassurance.

I guess to make a long answer short (too late, I know) she is always My slave, but she is also always My little girl. That is an essence of what we are to one another.

I hope this kind of made sense....

It made sense to me, Thanks for taking the effort to explain it.

A question. Can she ask for those times of extra nurturing as well?

 

[lil_slave_rose]

It made sense to me, Thanks for taking the effort to explain it.

A question. Can she ask for those times of extra nurturing as well?

*nods* i can ask, but usually i don't. i let Him know in other ways that i need it, sometimes just by calling Him Daddy instead of Master, or i go into my lil girl voice,as He calls it, and He knows. our relationship is a very loving one and i don't have to ask for a 'time out' to say whatever it is i'm feeling or needing, i just tell Him and we work through it. this is not to say that He's not strict with me, because believe me He can be. and i've been told many times by others i am not a 'true' slave (whatever that may be) because Master lets me give my opinions freely and the mere fact that i have opinions. anyway, to make a long post short (haha) if i'm needing that extra nurturing, yes i can ask Him for it.

 

[Shankara20]

*nods* i can ask, but usually i don't. i let Him know in other ways that i need it, sometimes just by calling Him Daddy instead of Master, or i go into my lil girl voice,as He calls it, and He knows. our relationship is a very loving one and i don't have to ask for a 'time out' to say whatever it is i'm feeling or needing, i just tell Him and we work through it. this is not to say that He's not strict with me, because believe me He can be. and i've been told many times by others i am not a 'true' slave (whatever that may be) because Master lets me give my opinions freely and the mere fact that i have opinions. anyway, to make a long post short (haha) if i'm needing that extra nurturing, yes i can ask Him for it.

thanks - that helps me round out the picture I have in my mind of your relationship.

As I read your posts I get a feeling of much warmth flowing between you both. I'm glad you shared.

 

[MasterPhoenix]

thanks - that helps me round out the picture I have in my mind of your relationship.

As I read your posts I get a feeling of much warmth flowing between you both. I'm glad you shared.

Quite welcome...

And there is a lot of love between us as she is My soul mate as well as My slave and My little girl....

 

[lil_slave_rose]

thanks - that helps me round out the picture I have in my mind of your relationship.

As I read your posts I get a feeling of much warmth flowing between you both. I'm glad you shared.

*smiles* i'm glad i was able to help ya out with the picture i do know my boundries and lines and i know that when i cross them He will yank the leash to put me back in my place, and i love that feeling. i love the whole feeling of being 'owned' by Him and i could not ask for a better Master than He.

 

[MasterPhoenix]

*smiles* i'm glad i was able to help ya out with the picture i do know my boundries and lines and i know that when i cross them He will yank the leash to put me back in my place, and i love that feeling. i love the whole feeling of being 'owned' by Him and i could not ask for a better Master than He.

*beams with pride in her*

 

[kissmyrose]

Not about incest

I am a 42 yr old woman in a Daddy Dom relationship with a 43 yr old man. It has nothing to do with my incest fantasy or his we both are repulsed by that idea......Since we both are single parents. A Daddy Dom relationship is about the emotional support he gives his sub it is about the discipline he gives her (this is never done out of anger) he puts her on a pedestal and protects her at all cost yes we are co dependant woman but how many of us aren't. When I tell him OHHH Daddy Fuck me harder kids nor my father come to mind. It is a bond committment love that you have for this person. So those of you that think it is about incest you have your facts completely wrong. A Daddy Dom is different then a Master look it up get educated before you make ignorant comments about something you know nothing about.......

 

[Etoile]

I am a 42 yr old woman in a Daddy Dom relationship with a 43 yr old man. It has nothing to do with my incest fantasy or his we both are repulsed by that idea......Since we both are single parents. A Daddy Dom relationship is about the emotional support he gives his sub it is about the discipline he gives her (this is never done out of anger) he puts her on a pedestal and protects her at all cost yes we are co dependant woman but how many of us aren't. When I tell him OHHH Daddy Fuck me harder kids nor my father come to mind. It is a bond committment love that you have for this person. So those of you that think it is about incest you have your facts completely wrong. A Daddy Dom is different then a Master look it up get educated before you make ignorant comments about something you know nothing about.......

Interesting first post. Welcome to Lit.

 

[JoeAnaMamma]

I just found this thread after searching for more info into the Dom/sub relationships. When I first was searching for Dom info I seen about Daddy Doms and was reading into it. I found a site by a girl that was in a Daddy/lil girl relationship that I think would be of help here. What I read from here has really perked my intrest in the Daddy/lil girl relationship that I think that might be what Im lookin for. Anyways heres the site for everyone

http://www.geocities.com/midnite_angel1/index.html

 

[raven_wish]

Interesting first post. Welcome to Lit.

i have read many of your posts
and always enjoy your ideas and opinions
i am new to posting myself, although i have read a bunch on here
i had to say i thought it very nice of you to offer this welcome to this post-er
i think this post may get some spirited responses (possibly-what do i know)
but i know your welcome is a great (and true) reflection of Lit

 

[Shankara20]

i have read many of your posts
and always enjoy your ideas and opinions
i am new to posting myself, although i have read a bunch on here
i had to say i thought it very nice of you to offer this welcome to this post-er
i think this post may get some spirited responses (possibly-what do i know)
but i know your welcome is a great (and true) reflection of Lit

I find this thread of interest and have posted most of my feeling already. My feeling on this are close to what kissmyrose posted but I stated them in a differant manner.

Several months ago this thread had a livey discussion and many expressed views. It is not as "lively" right now so if there are not many responces it is just a matter of timing.

Welcome to Lit. What are your views on the matter?

 

[Etoile]

i have read many of your posts
and always enjoy your ideas and opinions
i am new to posting myself, although i have read a bunch on here
i had to say i thought it very nice of you to offer this welcome to this post-er
i think this post may get some spirited responses (possibly-what do i know)
but i know your welcome is a great (and true) reflection of Lit

Wow, thank you so much! And welcome yourself, I see you are also new here. I'm glad you finally decided to get an account and join us!

 

[raven_wish]

I find this thread of interest and have posted most of my feeling already. My feeling on this are close to what kissmyrose posted but I stated them in a differant manner.

Several months ago this thread had a livey discussion and many expressed views. It is not as "lively" right now so if there are not many responces it is just a matter of timing.

Welcome to Lit. What are your views on the matter?

great job directing my attention back to the thread here

i am of the 'to each their own' bunch - if u like it do it (within the ssc and legal bit)
but personally i have enjoyed both ageplay and mock incest play
and when in the mood for roleplay; still do
but s/m, D/s, and slave type activities are where my sex time is most spent
i do understand the idea of the nuturing daddy dom that has nothing to do with the actual daddy/daughter fantasy
and think that arrangement sounds absolutely heavenly
very loved, very secure

not sure if thats what u had i mind
if not ask away

 

[raven_wish]

Wow, thank you so much! And welcome yourself, I see you are also new here. I'm glad you finally decided to get an account and join us!

np Etoile..you are totally welcome and thanks for the welcome to Lit
this is the 1st online place ive been about the lifestyle that didnt have trolls!
i think Ill be staying

 

[MasterPhoenix]

np Etoile..you are totally welcome and thanks for the welcome to Lit
this is the 1st online place ive been about the lifestyle that didnt have trolls!
i think Ill be staying

welcome

 

[raven_wish]

welcome

Thank you for the welcome as well. As said on a thread elsewhere; i have enjoyed your posts as well.

 

[raven_wish]

great job directing my attention back to the thread here

i am of the 'to each their own' bunch - if u like it do it (within the ssc and legal bit)
but personally i have enjoyed both ageplay and mock incest play
and when in the mood for roleplay; still do
but s/m, D/s, and slave type activities are where my sex time is most spent
i do understand the idea of the nuturing daddy dom that has nothing to do with the actual daddy/daughter fantasy
and think that arrangement sounds absolutely heavenly
very loved, very secure

not sure if thats what u had i mind
if not ask away

Look at that you can quote yourself!!!!


What i forgot to say here was that you can have the latter mentioned
"daddy dom = nuturing type" while calling Him Sir, Master, Daddy, what have you
as well...

 

[Shankara20]

Look at that you can quote yourself!!!!


What i forgot to say here was that you can have the latter mentioned
"daddy dom = nuturing type" while calling Him Sir, Master, Daddy, what have you
as well...

yes you can - this "thing that we do" holds many people together with love, care, tenderness, dedication, understanding and so on and on and on...

 

[travlr99]

daddy looking

this daddy Dom is back and searching for his sweet lil girl.........................

 

[Etoile]

this daddy Dom is back and searching for his sweet lil girl.........................

*checks behind the sofa cushions*

Nope, not there. Sorry I can't be of more help.

 

[MasterPhoenix]

*checks behind the sofa cushions*

Nope, not there. Sorry I can't be of more help.

Now THAT was funny