Daddy's Little Girl - Fourth Edition

[Jw75766]

This is a quote from the Dom of the D/s couple that goes by _infinitedevotion. "You can have deep, close, loving intimacy, AND passionate, intense kinkiness with the same person over the long term." I watched that video last night and I was like, "Yes! So much yes!" He often talks about "holding space for her (his wife & sub) emotions". That is so important for me, and an important part of why I think Wolfie and I are so successful. I can be silly and happy, dancing around the house, and he will laugh and encourage me. Sometimes joining in. Other times, I'll come home and be emotionally exhausted by the day I've had, or we can be out together, and something will trigger me. He'll wrap me in his arms (and sometimes my blanket burrito), and speak softly and kindly to help me through it. He never implies that my emotions are invalid.

I think this deep, loving relationship is something that a lot of Doms and subs don't understand if they're just in a scene-based dynamic. Even if they only scene with each other or only in kink clubs. That's ok if that is what they're looking for, but some people we've met will say that we're not D/s because we're in a loving, long-term, committed relationship. For me, that's exactly why I was drawn to DD/lg. It seems to me that those of us here tend to be in longer-lasting relationships with our Doms. And I can be laughing and dancing, or curled into a ball and crying, behaving like any emotional child, and it doesn't matter. He is always there, my rock, my safe place in the storm. Then a few nights later, he can be so controlling and use me until I collapse into a satisfied pile of bunny fluff. Even then, it's like he flips a switch, and he's all about the aftercare.

Anyway, rant over. I just needed to get this out.

I really hope that being a D doesn't mean it has to be devoid of compassion. I'm sure some personality types might crave the more.....direct.....sort of Dom but i feel a compassionate D brings a lot to the table in terms of support, love, compassion and strength. Someone you can rely on for strength and direction when needed, but also encourage you, build you up, make you feel comfortable being yourself.

 

[Jw75766]

I know of those. Well, not really couples in the traditional sense (as in someone you might present to your parents), but having just a session-based relationship. That's quite common when.

But in DD/lg and not a ldr? Don't knows of any.

Curious, what is ldr? Tried to search it but couldn't find a definition/description.

 

[FrenchLopBunny]

I really hope that being a D doesn't mean it has to be devoid of compassion. I'm sure some personality types might crave the more.....direct.....sort of Dom but i feel a compassionate D brings a lot to the table in terms of support, love, compassion and strength. Someone you can rely on for strength and direction when needed, but also encourage you, build you up, make you feel comfortable being yourself.

It absolutely does not mean that you have to be devoid of compassion. There are many “types” of Doms. Mine is considered a Caretaker. Keep in mind that any definition you find won’t perfectly fit every dom. We like to say that every D/s couple is different. We do what works for us.

 

[FrenchLopBunny]

Curious, what is ldr? Tried to search it but couldn't find a definition/description.

Ldr is long distance relationship

 

[Jw75766]

Ldr is long distance relationship

Thanks, my mind went to leader, lol.

I definitely understand and can relate to the caretaker personality over other types. I'm so glad and thankful for how well you and others explain your relationships because it helps put into words feelings that are sometimes difficult for me to put to words.

 

[CuriousRick]

I hope you are all doing well. Anyone have big weekend plans?

 

[~Elizabeth~]

I hope you are all doing well. Anyone have big weekend plans?

Does work count?

 

[dawn_of_night]

Hey friends

 

[dawn_of_night]

Does work count?

Same.

 

[CuriousRick]

Daddy could would like to see his girl tonight. Where are you?

Not a hook up thread

 

[dawn_of_night]

My Daddy went to bed ..... He said I could tell him about my night in the morning.
He was up late last night with me....
And tomorrow we have to mow the yard ...

 

[barefootgirl69]

Daddy could would like to see his girl tonight. Where are you?

So, here's a perfect example of a that we've discussed.

• Someone who's horny and just looking to use you.

• Someone who calls himself "daddy" without establishing a relationship and CONSENT.

Don't be a walking like this guy.

 

[Strixaluco]

I hope you are all doing well. Anyone have big weekend plans?

I have been visiting my sister and will today travel to my friend to help there until Monday. Big enough for me.

 

[Jw75766]

Does work count?

Right there with ya.

 

[Strixaluco]

Thank goodness my friend doesn't have kids, I can stop adulting at least partly once I get there... (exhausted in the train)

 

[dawn_of_night]

Good morning friends... I'll be working at 3

 

[FrenchLopBunny]

A crazy time at our place last night!

https://ibb.co/xKVmpg9J

 

[CuriousRick]

A crazy time at our place last night!

https://ibb.co/xKVmpg9J

There ain’t no party like a bouncy bunny party!!

 

[dawn_of_night]

@Jw75766 I see you

 

[barefootgirl69]

I have been visiting my sister and will today travel to my friend to help there until Monday. Big enough for me.

Try to relax and enjoy yourself. This is a big thing for you and I'm sure your spoons will run out and you'll be exhausted by the time you get home. Will your Wolfie be there to settle you in when you get back?

 

[Strixaluco]

Try to relax and enjoy yourself. This is a big thing for you and I'm sure your spoons will run out and you'll be exhausted by the time you get home. Will your Wolfie be there to settle you in when you get back?

Now you mixed me and Bunny up No, my Dom will not be there when I get home (he's recovering from his own weekend program and probably sleeping half the Monday) . And I'll be resting all Tuesday, so that I have some energy for Wednesday-Friday when we are celebrating our 3 years so far spent together!

Thankfully the help needed here is mostly sitting and chatting so that my friend gets major decluttering done. I might knit perhaps... But right now I just wish I get a decent night.

 

[barefootgirl69]

Now you mixed me and Bunny up No, my Dom will not be there when I get home (he's recovering from his own weekend program and probably sleeping half the Monday) . And I'll be resting all Tuesday, so that I have some energy for Wednesday-Friday when we are celebrating our 3 years so far spent together!

Thankfully the help needed here is mostly sitting and chatting so that my friend gets major decluttering done. I might knit perhaps... But right now I just wish I get a decent night.

Oops! It's an easy name to remember because I have a friend I call Wolfie.

Three years already! That is exciting. It seems like yesterday you'd met him!

 

[Jw75766]

@Jw75766 I see you

Hope work today went well or is going well if you're still there. You doing ok?

 

[dawn_of_night]

Hope work today went well or is going well if you're still there. You doing ok?

Still at work....
It was decent, pretty eventless....
Watched some movies, made their dinner plates.... Watched more movies .....

 

[CuriousRick]

:::: Sneaking in with fresh muffins for breakfast. ::::