~Deacon's Fucked up Cancer Thread~

Just saw this thread for the first time as not been here much, I will now be sending you regular prayers and hoping you recover well from surgery :rose:
 
Thanks peeps, and I hope everyone knows how much I appreciate and love you. I do get strength from you guys even though I might not mention it :heart:

I wont say I'm not scared of chemo, but I do have my secret weapons, my laughter, and you guys :D
 
Thanks peeps, and I hope everyone knows how much I appreciate and love you. I do get strength from you guys even though I might not mention it :heart:

I wont say I'm not scared of chemo, but I do have my secret weapons, my laughter, and you guys :D

:heart::heart:

You know we are rooting for and praying for you.
 
Well now I know what I can post in the "Who is Crossing Your Mind " thread today. You'll be there for sure. More than usual.

Love,
The Other
 
Thanks peeps, and I hope everyone knows how much I appreciate and love you. I do get strength from you guys even though I might not mention it :heart:

I wont say I'm not scared of chemo, but I do have my secret weapons, my laughter, and you guys :D

My mom had a porta cath in her chest. The main thing is to keep it clean with a wet cloth. You will be just fine. Through your clothes, it barely shows. You’ve got this.

Let this thread show you have real estate in all of our hearts. Thank you for inviting us into your treatments, procedures and health issues period. We all are backing you and are with you on this life journey.
 
So tomorrow morning at 5:30am I go in for my porta cath placement surgery. I should be home by 10:00am, and I'll let everyone know I'm still alive and kickin :D

Be thinking of you, Deacon. Stay positive and upbeat....and KICK CANCER'S ASS!!!! :cool:
 
So tomorrow morning at 5:30am I go in for my porta cath placement surgery. I should be home by 10:00am, and I'll let everyone know I'm still alive and kickin :D

Good luck - we'll be pulling for you. You're tough and will beat this thing. Best wishes.
 
Thanks peeps, and I hope everyone knows how much I appreciate and love you. I do get strength from you guys even though I might not mention it :heart:

I wont say I'm not scared of chemo, but I do have my secret weapons, my laughter, and you guys :D

Praying for you babe :heart::heart::heart:
 
Thanks peeps, and I hope everyone knows how much I appreciate and love you. I do get strength from you guys even though I might not mention it :heart:

I wont say I'm not scared of chemo, but I do have my secret weapons, my laughter, and you guys :D

It is OK to be a little scared. You do have all of us pulling for you.
 
Home safe and sound. It went perfect, and now I have a brand new piece of plastic in my upper chest :D Now to get this chemo started!
 
Thank you, I loved that, and I believe it too.

Kinda crazy, but it's our 33rd anniversary today as well :)

I actually had a blast at the hospital too. Needless to say, I had them all laughing :D

Well, then. Happy anniversary!
 
Thank you, I loved that, and I believe it too.

Kinda crazy, but it's our 33rd anniversary today as well :)

I actually had a blast at the hospital too. Needless to say, I had them all laughing :D

Happy Anniversary, to you and your wife, Deacon. :):heart:
 
Thanks!

So here's a crappy picture of my upper right chest area. You can see the superglue holding the wound shut, but I can't seem to get the lump from the port to show. Maybe next time :)

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Thanks!

So here's a crappy picture of my upper right chest area. You can see the superglue holding the wound shut, but I can't seem to get the lump from the port to show. Maybe next time :)

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glad to hear that all went well with the port.
 
Thanks!

So here's a crappy picture of my upper right chest area. You can see the superglue holding the wound shut, but I can't seem to get the lump from the port to show. Maybe next time :)

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Oh lo! It’s like you are a superhero now. :) Life serves up these scars and extra pieces. Three years ago my daughter was diagnosed with cancer. My SIL and BIL went out of their way to tell me how chemo was no big deal. How the surgeries were just a blip on the radar. I told them that it was my daughter they were talking about, and that my daughter had cancer. I think that it’s important to acknowledge that this is SOMETHING. You are going through something big, and I see that. You have a plastic shunt in your chest. That is a big something. Rest, lo. While I know that you are capable to handle what is on the road ahead, I know that you will need your mental and emotional strength as well as physical.

Sending you much love. :heart:
 
Oh lo! It’s like you are a superhero now. :) Life serves up these scars and extra pieces. Three years ago my daughter was diagnosed with cancer. My SIL and BIL went out of their way to tell me how chemo was no big deal. How the surgeries were just a blip on the radar. I told them that it was my daughter they were talking about, and that my daughter had cancer. I think that it’s important to acknowledge that this is SOMETHING. You are going through something big, and I see that. You have a plastic shunt in your chest. That is a big something. Rest, lo. While I know that you are capable to handle what is on the road ahead, I know that you will need your mental and emotional strength as well as physical.

Sending you much love. :heart:

Thank you Em I appreciate what you wrote. At home it is a bit tense, but I'm just a bit anxious about this week and whats to come. My brothers and sisters are pretty wound up about it because my mom died of cancer in 2014, and my grandpa died of cancer in 1990.

For me, every fight is different, so keeping my chin up :D
 
I didn’t have a chance to congratulate you on your anniversary before. Happy belated anniversary!

This IS something big. I’m glad to see you are acknowledging it and treating it with care and caution. That cut and that area doesn’t look very nice of course, but you’re still here with us. For this, I’m very thankful. This is just a suggestion: If you can, keep a picture diary of these events as they happen. Show your children and grandchildren what a fighter you are. It won’t feel good going through this and it will be very humbling, but just like you’re sharing with us in words, your family will appreciate the steps taken to be with you during the not so good. The photo diary would only add to the lives of those seen struggling with adversities. Seeing you do it may inspire them to keep going.
 
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