Did anything make you cry today?

[FreckledSprite]

I did while considering Emotional Permanence and realizing even someone with a strong foundation would probably not want my former situation.

I kept being honest about my feelings. But with him not saying anything reciprocating+breadcrumbing+confrontation and just a general feeling of disconnection. No one wants to go months without being told they’re still loved by the person who said it first, said it frequently, until one day he stopped saying it altogether.

I stayed at that party way too long.

 

[Fiestykitten]

yep and it's only 8:45.... just great

 

[Azuldrgon]

yep and it's only 8:45.... just great

 

[cactusjack0584]

Yea, twice now.... fuck Monday's.

Sorry I missed this one…

I did while considering Emotional Permanence and realizing even someone with a strong foundation would probably not want my former situation.

I kept being honest about my feelings. But with him not saying anything reciprocating+breadcrumbing+confrontation and just a general feeling of disconnection. No one wants to go months without being told they’re still loved by the person who said it first, said it frequently, until one day he stopped saying it altogether.

I stayed at that party way too long.

That’s just…

yep and it's only 8:45.... just great

To make up for yesterday…

 

[Spicypink]

When you're a Daddy's girl and he's gone, it's tough. His birthday is in 2 days.

 

[Ssbbw4u1974]

I need to stop listening to these fucking songs that make me think of him.
Or I will get sad. And he's not worth my tears, or the power to make me sad....!!

 

[cactusjack0584]

When you're a Daddy's girl and he's gone, it's tough. His birthday is in 2 days.

I could imagine so… sorry

I need to stop listening to these fucking songs that make me think of him.
Or I will get sad. And he's not worth my tears, or the power to make me sad....!!

Music is such a powerful mood shifter…
Apparently yacht rock tends to balance one’s mood… maybe try it…
Also

 

[FreckledSprite]

I regret a choice I made yesterday because I betrayed my heart and acted crass beyond it.

 

[SassySheDevil]

Not yet. Give it a few hours.

 

[cactusjack0584]

I regret a choice I made yesterday because I betrayed my heart and acted crass beyond it.

Our heart is a fickle bastard sometimes…
I can only offer a sincere

Not yet. Give it a few hours.

I hope if it does happen it makes you feel better… eventually…
But in the time being

 

[Azuldrgon]

I started with a good song this morning...which led to a song that made me cry...followed by another one.
You have to let it out sometimes no matter how "non-manly" it is perceived.
You can't keep it bottled up. It allowed me to have a better day even though they were on my mind before that.

 

[cactusjack0584]

I started with a good song this morning...which led to a song that made me cry...followed by another one.
You have to let it out sometimes no matter how "non-manly" it is perceived.
You can't keep it bottled up. It allowed me to have a better day even though they were on my mind before that.

Dude I feel that. And I cry all the fucking time. I spent 38 years of my life being the tough guy… it’s exhausting. It’s good to let it out. and high five for being a good dude!

 

[Saucy_honey]

I know its a lil old but a hangover from yesterday, got love bombed for a month and then dumped, thought I had met a good guy, met a fboy.

 

[NakedStoryLover]

A few tears welled up while feeling lonely in a crowd, including my dear family.

They passed, but....

 

[cactusjack0584]

I know its a lil old but a hangover from yesterday, got love bombed for a month and then dumped, thought I had met a good guy, met a fboy.

That is rough. I’m sorry you went through that.

A few tears welled up while feeling lonely in a crowd, including my dear family.

They passed, but....

It’s crazy how in a crowd some of us can feel alone. I’m sorry friend, .

 

[MrMakersMark]

My goldfish, Cherokee, passed away a couple days ago.
Barely a minnow when I brought him home.

Oh the good times we had.

He seemed so healthy one day, all straight up and down. Little tail kicking. Flashing in the sunlight like a little golden coin.

Then I just came home from work...and there was... side-sleepin' in eternal slumber.
I guess it was his time.

Really got me when I flushed him and just for a minute ....it looked like he was swimming again. Just..in a circle.

Put me on my knees I tell ya'.

Oh, Cherokee.

 

[Anononly1992]

The final episode of Adolescence on Netflix. Literally bawled my eyes out and sat there in silent contemplation for 10 mins after!

Powerful, amazing piece of art.

 

[PrettyLilPussy19]

Big time.

 

[MindYaBitness]

My goldfish, Cherokee, passed away a couple days ago.
Barely a minnow when I brought him home.

Oh the good times we had.

He seemed so healthy one day, all straight up and down. Little tail kicking. Flashing in the sunlight like a little golden coin.

Then I just came home from work...and there was... side-sleepin' in eternal slumber.
I guess it was his time.

Really got me when I flushed him and just for a minute ....it looked like he was swimming again. Just..in a circle.

Put me on my knees I tell ya'.

Oh, Cherokee.

I get this, it's heart breaking! I had to flush, what was sold to me as a Red Walking Frog, but turned out to be an endangered Termite Frog. He died because I didn't feed him the proper bugs, and he was not nearly as fast as the other frogs in the terrarium who ate up all of the crickets before he could get them. It felt like murder. Seeing him look a bit revived as the water swirled was a mind-eff, for sure!

 

[MrMakersMark]

I get this, it's heart breaking! I had to flush, what was sold to me as a Red Walking Frog, but turned out to be an endangered Termite Frog. He died because I didn't feed him the proper bugs, and he was not nearly as fast as the other frogs in the terrarium who ate up all of the crickets before he could get them. It felt like murder. Seeing him look a bit revived as the water swirled was a mind-eff, for sure!

I hope this song, I coincidentally recorded around 1am pretty recently, eases your grief with a tear of happy remembrance.

https://voca.ro/11DVFFcuMjbN

 

[cactusjack0584]

My goldfish, Cherokee, passed away a couple days ago.
Barely a minnow when I brought him home.

Oh the good times we had.

He seemed so healthy one day, all straight up and down. Little tail kicking. Flashing in the sunlight like a little golden coin.

Then I just came home from work...and there was... side-sleepin' in eternal slumber.
I guess it was his time.

Really got me when I flushed him and just for a minute ....it looked like he was swimming again. Just..in a circle.

Put me on my knees I tell ya'.

Oh, Cherokee.

Dude that sucks. I’m sorry for your loss.

The final episode of Adolescence on Netflix. Literally bawled my eyes out and sat there in silent contemplation for 10 mins after!

Powerful, amazing piece of art.

Films like music really do play with heartstrings sometimes.

Big time.

I get this, it's heart breaking! I had to flush, what was sold to me as a Red Walking Frog, but turned out to be an endangered Termite Frog. He died because I didn't feed him the proper bugs, and he was not nearly as fast as the other frogs in the terrarium who ate up all of the crickets before he could get them. It felt like murder. Seeing him look a bit revived as the water swirled was a mind-eff, for sure!

That’s so sad. Poor little buddy. Don’t blame yourself, it happens. And nobody is perfect

 

[SmokingFap]

I know its a lil old but a hangover from yesterday, got love bombed for a month and then dumped, thought I had met a good guy, met a fboy.

I'm sorry you went through that. Just don't feel bad for feeling bad. And look forward to the part where you're over all of it.

 

[fsa52]

Nope, I’ve done my crying with the situation and damned cried out! No more tears from me

 

[AngelicaS1780]

I've been crying on and off for two days. I was stupid enough to let a certain Litster back into my life three months ago. He had broken my little Lit newbie heart six years ago when he chose another lady Litster over me. He disappeared from Lit in early 2020. At the start of our renewed correspondence, he was open, apologetic, and telling me how he had changed. I gave him a second chance. He broke out the "I love you"s and "my girl"s and told me repeatedly how happy I made him.

A couple days ago, we hit what I would characterize as a minor bump in the road... our first one in three months. His immediate reaction was to state that he didn't need this stress. He said that I cared more than he did and expected different things from the relationship, which shocked me, as this had not come up in any of our discussions.

I apologized. I asked him to talk with me about these issues so I could better understand what he was saying and reassure him as to my expectations. But it was like he flipped a switch and every positive feeling he had towards me was just gone, like the prior three months meant absolutely nothing. He was done with me, with barely an apology.

 

[SassySheDevil]

I've been crying on and off for two days. I was stupid enough to let a certain Litster back into my life three months ago. He had broken my little Lit newbie heart six years ago when he chose another lady Litster over me. He disappeared from Lit in early 2020. At the start of our renewed correspondence, he was open, apologetic, and telling me how he had changed. I gave him a second chance. He broke out the "I love you"s and "my girl"s and told me repeatedly how happy I made him.

A couple days ago, we hit what I would characterize as a minor bump in the road... our first one in three months. His immediate reaction was to state that he didn't need this stress. He said that I cared more than he did and expected different things from the relationship, which shocked me, as this had not come up in any of our discussions.

I apologized. I asked him to talk with me about these issues so I could better understand what he was saying and reassure him as to my expectations. But it was like he flipped a switch and every positive feeling he had towards me was just gone, like the prior three months meant absolutely nothing. He was done with me, with barely an apology.

I'm so sorry Angelica. It's so hard to throw your heart out there hoping someone else will help protect it. Not be the one to hurt it.