Do you have a fuck buddy?????

[Missingmeds]

Good morning everyone.

 

[robbie444]

still looking?

oh.. you're still looking Missing? I'm in columbus.. send me a note if I can help? happy sunday all..!

 

[Missingmeds]

Yes, I am still looking robbie.

 

[djay1000]

I am still looking myself. I travel to Toronto often and been hoping to find a fuck buddy. Any ideas?

 

[Missingmeds]

Have you tried posting in the Canada threads djay? Given people a chance to get to know you? Most people are careful about who they meet with.

 

[djay1000]

Thank you..I may have to try that again

Have you had good experiences with a fuck buddy?

 

[Missingmeds]

Yes I have and would like to continue to do so.

 

[Sioux City Male]

Good morning Missingmeds

How are you today?

 

[Missingmeds]

Better now that I have had my nap and yourself?

 

[Missingmeds]

Just a bump so that some of the new people can see this one.

 

[coltcarbine]

This thread made me want to post this.
This is kind of a fucked up story, so I apologize.

Three years ago, I married a fuck buddy lady that I thought I loved. Actually, it was probably lust being that I was 5 years divorced from a sexual lacking marriage, and my lady fuck buddy kept me well entertained!

Anyway, fuckbuddy lady (FB1) and I get married. After a year, I was wanting another FB (FB2?). So I started looking.

After being married for three years to FB1, I find another beautiful FB at school (FB2). She was smart, sexy and married, but bored, like me.

We hit it off, saw each other about once a week, we fell in love. Wife (FB1) finds out, wants a divorce. I give her one, keep FB2, until this summer. I wanted more than once a week, she couldn't accomodate my needs.

Wanting more, I start looking for someone else to be my FB. (FB3?) I find her, we've been together every weekend for three months and are in love. Yes, it is different this time around. It is not like before, when I was "uncertain" of my feelings.

I love her very much, who knows, she could be "the one".

Fucked up story, I know, but true.

Take care all.
cc

 

[Wolf31IL]

still looking

maybe I'll meet a fuck buddy here on Lit.

 

[handjive]

FB's

I had a wonderful FB for about 5 years. We would meet irregularly and have amazing sex. Beautiful Asian girl. We met in college, she was dating someone else and it just developed. Her man even had to know I slept with her several times cause all his friends knew (small school and all.) After graduation, I still met up with her about once a month. She got married, I got married and it kept going. Then, in the last year she moved to Cali and I must think about her at least twice a week. I think I was (am) in love with her, yet we never discussed feelings. A shame really. I miss the shit out of her. Maybe just the sex. Best sex of my life. As i told my buddies: Hooker sex. As in she was so good she good have been a hooker.

 

[Missingmeds]

I am still looking.

 

[djay1000]

me too

 

[DustysSweety03]

Not really but might...............
a guy friend i've known since i was 16 and he now lives 1 hour away from me, and he knows i'm married.

 

[smoothdevil]

fuck buddies are not love interests, but should be restricted to strictly physical gratifying activities. Tyring to make more out of it will doom the r/s.

I have a few ladies that I see occasionally. They like the non commitment and seeing them occasionally adds to the newness and adventure.

 

[babydoll2u]

fuck buddies are not love interests, but should be restricted to strictly physical gratifying activities. Tyring to make more out of it will doom the r/s.

I have a few ladies that I see occasionally. They like the non commitment and seeing them occasionally adds to the newness and adventure.

I disagree.

the term fuck buddy is just that...
a buddy is a friend...

in my experience, my fb's have been my closest friends... and the r/s worked out great. Even tho we aren't fb's any longer, they both remaim 2 of my closest friends today.

 

[Missingmeds]

fuck buddies are not love interests, but should be restricted to strictly physical gratifying activities. Tyring to make more out of it will doom the r/s.

I have a few ladies that I see occasionally. They like the non commitment and seeing them occasionally adds to the newness and adventure.

I find that not to be quite true smoothdevil. But then again that can be another one of those differences between the sexes.

 

[smoothdevil]

I disagree.

the term fuck buddy is just that...
a buddy is a friend...

in my experience, my fb's have been my closest friends... and the r/s worked out great. Even tho we aren't fb's any longer, they both remaim 2 of my closest friends today.

mmm ... you may be right ... but all the lady friends that i no longer "make love to" ... are still buddies in the sense that we occasionally chat, but have no desire to meet again face to face ... so what is that r/s ... a non fuck , meeting buddy ????

 

[smoothdevil]

I find that not to be quite true smoothdevil. But then again that can be another one of those differences between the sexes.

what part do you find not true .. or all ... ? ... well, since I'm straight, I like those differences between the sexes ...

 

[Flight420]

I have so many fuck buddies! buddy we just fuck and fuck and fuck and fuck because they are my buddies man! Damn fuckin' shame they all live within' my head only but they are eloquent at speaking with their hands. If my parties were a fraction of fun that my head-hoggin' sex parties are, I'd be such a damn HO without even trying!


seriously though,

I do have a few very good buds who drop by for a naked holiday on me (in me) and, as we say in the South, "If it ain't fried it ain't worth eatin'"!

 

[Missingmeds]

fuck buddies are not love interests, but should be restricted to strictly physical gratifying activities. Tyring to make more out of it will doom the r/s.

This is the part that I find not to be necessarily true. I mean there is nothing wrong with a fuck buddy going to the movies with me or the two of us sharing a meal. That doesn't make it love. Lust, maybe, but not love.

 

[smoothdevil]

This is the part that I find not to be necessarily true. I mean there is nothing wrong with a fuck buddy going to the movies with me or the two of us sharing a meal. That doesn't make it love. Lust, maybe, but not love.

lol .. musta missed sumpin ... i didn't think sharing a movie or a meal was LOVE ... lol ... wanting dessert could be considered lust ...

 

[Missingmeds]

fuck buddies are not love interests, but should be restricted to strictly physical gratifying activities. Tyring to make more out of it will doom the r/s.

Am I misunderstanding what you are saying in the above statement? The way that I took it was that you are saying that fuckbuddies should be restricted to strictly sexual activities. And that if I share a movie or a meal then that will doom the relationship.