Do you have a fuck buddy?????

I just started looking for a fuckbuddy myself. I've been single for almost two years after a ltr, I'm not looking to start one up again. Right now I just want to find a gal to have mindblowing sweaty, multi orgasmic sex with.... is that too much to ask ;)
SL
 
smoothdevil said:
mmm ... you may be right ... but all the lady friends that i no longer "make love to" ... are still buddies in the sense that we occasionally chat, but have no desire to meet again face to face ... so what is that r/s ... a non fuck , meeting buddy ????

LOL funny
 
We've talked about this on this thread before...
here are some comments that have been made by two others on the thread and I so agree

*edited for brevity*



posted by ToyDoc:

....The cool thing about a FB is distance, time apart, and not a life partnership commitment, but a friendship that includes sex.

.....Just remember, there is going to be love involved to a degree. friendship is, after all, one of loves many facets.


This being said...I'm not afraid of the "feelings" that may develope. I do, after all, want a friend first....with the benefits



posted by Tonitits:
I have had one for 5 yrs. we work together and started out as friends/co workers and then he called me and asked if I wanted to be his fuck buddy. (After knowing each other for about 1.5 yrs) I didn't know what that was but knew that there was something that we both shared, a desire to get to know each other so I said yes......
We went from can't keep our hands off of each other to calmer, but just as good sex and then back to some really hot sex and times that we can hardly keep our hands off each other. But the funny thing is noone at works even knows or suspects that we have anything other than friendship at work. They do know that from time to time when I have been sick that he has called to see how I was doing, but so did other friends at work. I think when your fuck buddy is a co worker it is important to keep it out of the prying eyes at work. At times the relationship changed. But during difficult times like when my mom died he was a totally great friend and never expected anything from me, not even sex. He just let me talk and held me. And then when I got hurt, he was great friend and he has always considered my feelings and wanted to please me. I had a friend ask me if I wanted it to be more because I could make it happen. I told her I didn't know if I would ever want to have that kind of relationship with him but enjoy being able to turn to him when I need a friend and lover.


In MY opinion, the above is what a true fb is.

If you're not inerested in sharing a friendship, but just getting together for the sex... that's not a fb... that's just sex for the sake of having sex.
And it's not for me ;)

Peggy
 
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babydoll2u said:
We've talked about this on this thread before...
here are some comments that have been made by two others on the thread and I so agree

In MY opinion, the above is what a true fb is.

If you're not inerested in sharing a friendship, but just getting together for the sex... that's not a fb... that's just sex for the sake of having sex.
And it's not for me ;)

Peggy

well, I think you are conveniently splitting hairs ... lol ... a true friend is someone who will give you his heart, whether it be for 1 sec or a lifetime ... I think the sex part is rather coincidental ... not arguing that there has to be some remote sexual attraction / need .. left my Sigmund books behind ... lol
 
smoothdevil said:
well, I think you are conveniently splitting hairs ... lol ... a true friend is someone who will give you his heart, whether it be for 1 sec or a lifetime ... I think the sex part is rather coincidental ... not arguing that there has to be some remote sexual attraction / need .. left my Sigmund books behind ... lol

naw, not splitting hairs... we just have differing opinions on what a FB is... not a problem ;)
 
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Collegeboy, it would help if you let people know about where you are so that you can find one close to you.
 
babydoll2u said:
naw, not splitting hairs... we just have differing opinions on what a FB is... not a problem ;)


true .. sameness can be very samely boring .. n'est pas ? ... and differenecs can be tres exciting ... lol ... have a great one ..ciao
 
smoothdevil said:
true .. sameness can be very samely boring .. n'est pas ? ... and differenecs can be tres exciting ... lol ... have a great one ..ciao

exactly! ;)
 
DustysSweety03 said:
Not really but might...............
a guy friend i've known since i was 16 and he now lives 1 hour away from me, and he knows i'm married.
Now I do too :D
 
Sounds like Lit might have brought two more people together in a good way.

I am still looking.
 
Warmslide said:
Please tell us....does it work for you? How often do you meet? Where? Are you, he/she, married?

Are you looking for a fuck buddy??????
:devil:

Well no fuck buddy here, but I do have a few phone fuck buddies.;)
 
babydoll2u said:
In MY opinion, the above is what a true fb is.

If you're not inerested in sharing a friendship, but just getting together for the sex... that's not a fb... that's just sex for the sake of having sex.
And it's not for me ;)

Peggy

Sex for sex sake is a fun thing ... but not nearly as incredible as that which you described babydoll. I had an intensely passionate FB who became an incredible friend ... and she remains a dear, although far too distant, friend today. Very few experiences in my life have compared to the joy she has brought me!
 
boundtoplease said:
Sex for sex sake is a fun thing ... but not nearly as incredible as that which you described babydoll. I had an intensely passionate FB who became an incredible friend ... and she remains a dear, although far too distant, friend today. Very few experiences in my life have compared to the joy she has brought me!

yup you're right sweetie, it is a fun thing.
but I'd rather have a fb ;)
 
babydoll2u said:
yup you're right sweetie, it is a fun thing.
but I'd rather have a fb ;)

Oh yes, absolutely ... (and I love your kissing thread btw)


::::::::thinking, I-71 north to Cincinnati isn't really that far ... :rose:
 
boundtoplease said:
Oh yes, absolutely ... (and I love your kissing thread btw)


::::::::thinking, I-71 north to Cincinnati isn't really that far ... :rose:

ah I'm so glad you visited the Kissing Club!
I hope you'll visit there often, we do have fun. Oh, and
every once in a while... things can get rather heated ;)



I-71 eh? hmmmmm.... ;)

:kiss:
 
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