Doms trying to dominate other doms

[AAkasha]

I'm a femdom (non switch) and have been representing myself that way on the net for years, and I seem to get a few male doms now and then that contact me and suggest that I switch with them, or accept my "sub" side. I've heard other femdoms get that, too.

Do male doms have femdoms emailing them ever and expressing an interest in "showing them the ropes?" Were any of these offers ever entertained?

Akasha

 

[jasonlf]

That actually sounds really disrespectful, on the part of those who contacted you, to think that they know more about your kinks than you do.

 

[Marquis]

I had a Domme try to dominate me once. I feigned meekness unil she was too far in to pull out, than I got icy and took control. Now I smile every time I see her at the fetish club, and she averts her eyes politely (even as she pours wax all over some shlub).

 

[catalina_francisco]

My Mentor used to think she could dominate me, that turned really ugly but we got it sorted out. So yes, I would say that FemDoms are as guilty in having big ego's as MaleDoms.

Francisco.
PS. Just so everyone knows I am the biggest the baddest, the most dominant Dominant in the world, so of course I dominate all other Dominants.

 

[Marquis]

PS. Just so everyone knows I am the biggest the baddest, the most dominant Dominant in the world, so of course I dominate all other Dominants.

*Bows low*

Yes Sir.

 

[catalina_francisco]

*Bows low*

Yes Sir.

LOL, please don't feed the ego too much.....didn't you see the pics of what he did to me last night?!! And he has already started the warm up for tonight before we planned to begin and the bruises are growing by the minute...such sweet bliss.

Catalina

 

[catalina_francisco]

*Bows low*

Yes Sir.

Just making sure that I have the quote In case I need it in the future for something. You never know I might need an unconditional 'Yes Sir' from a moderator somewhere in the future.

I almost forgot, I already have that from the other mod NOW I AM REALLY ALL POWERFUL.

Francisco.

 

[rosco rathbone]

I thought this was going to be about doms cockblocking each other. This thread is nowhere near as amusing.

 

[TaintedB]

I thought this was going to be about doms cockblocking each other. This thread is nowhere near as amusing.

What is cockblocking?

I think it's pretty rude for doms to try to dom other doms where there are so many clearly needy submissives out there in need of good homes and bdsm fucking. :/

 

[catalina_francisco]

What is cockblocking?

I think it's pretty rude for doms to try to dom other doms where there are so many clearly needy submissives out there in need of good homes and bdsm fucking. :/

So true!!! Where is their compassion, their valour, their sense of duty, their ethics?!!

Catalina

 

[TaintedB]

So true!!! Where is their compassion, their valour, their sense of duty, their ethics?!!

Catalina

Really! There ought to be some sort of rule: for every one dom you dom, you have to first dom five submissives.

 

[Marquis]

I thought this was going to be about doms cockblocking each other. This thread is nowhere near as amusing.

Did you buy that wig I told you to get for when I come to NY?

 

[AAkasha]

That actually sounds really disrespectful, on the part of those who contacted you, to think that they know more about your kinks than you do.

The men that have contacted me aren't worried about respect really -- and to be honest, I don't "expect" men to respect me just because I am on the femdom side of the coin. They don't really know me. So it doesn't "ruffle" my femdom feathers that a "man" would contact me in such a way - not at all. I have received much worse emails than that!

But yes they do know clearly about my kinks, and I think perhaps there is some mystique or challenge there -- ooh, how exciting it would be to dominate a dom.

And, there are those from the school of thought that dominants should be submissives first, and if they read something I wrote where I state that I didn't go that route, they consider it a public service to contact me and offer their domination services. You know, just to help me be more well rounded.

Akasha

 

[jasonlf]

The men that have contacted me aren't worried about respect really -- and to be honest, I don't "expect" men to respect me just because I am on the femdom side of the coin. They don't really know me. So it doesn't "ruffle" my femdom feathers that a "man" would contact me in such a way - not at all. I have received much worse emails than that!

I would expect them to respect you, not for being a femdom, but for being a female who has made their desires clear.

 

[Marquis]

I would expect them to respect you, not for being a femdom, but for being a female who has made their desires clear.

You know how sometimes No really means Yes?

Sometimes "I'm a Dom" really means "I'm a sub".

Not saying this about anyone in particular at all, just mentioning it.

 

[graceanne]

I think it's probably 'who had the biggest dick' type things.

If a dom/me can successfully dominate another dom/me, then that would (in their eyes) make them the most dominant.

Some people just can't resist competing about everything.

 

[Netzach]

I've gotten the invitation a few times. That's not how I operate. When I've bottomed it's been to people who want to top *me*not notch their bedpost with "I topped a Domme."

I've never sent one out.

However, I've also gotten the "shhhh don't tell anyone but I really would love to bottom for/sub to you sometime" overtures. I like those, but I have enough class to wait for them.

After all I'm a lady.

 

[graceanne]

I've gotten the invitation a few times. That's not how I operate. When I've bottomed it's been to people who want to top *me*not notch their bedpost with "I topped a Domme."

I've never sent one out.

However, I've also gotten the "shhhh don't tell anyone but I really would love to bottom for/sub to you sometime" overtures. I like those, but I have enough class to wait for them.

After all I'm a lady.

My lady, Netzach. I think it has a nice ring, what do you think?

 

[AngelicAssassin]

My lady, Netzach. I think it has a nice ring, what do you think?

But nowhere near as impressive as Queen Bitch of the Universe.

 

[graceanne]

But nowhere near as impressive as Queen Bitch of the Universe.

LOL Yeah, but you gotta be careful about her mood when you use that one. If it's the wrong time of the month . . .

 

[Netzach]

LOL Yeah, but you gotta be careful about her mood when you use that one. If it's the wrong time of the month . . .

heh, different sides, same coin.

 

[AngelicAssassin]

heh, different sides, same coin.

hush bitch.

 

[Netzach]

hush bitch.

Hey now there's a world of difference between Queen Bitch of the Universe and hush, bitch.

(have we all hijacked this poor thread enough?)

 

[Marquis]

I knew there would eventually be a clash of the titans in this thread.

 

[Netzach]

I knew there would eventually be a clash of the titans in this thread.

Rock on, let us all lift a leg to that!