Even More Random Thoughts

[Chillygirl]

how realistic would it be to move back to Korea? I still have my cousins in Inchon but I don’t know the rest of my extended family. Could I just do it? Live somewhere where I don’t speak the language or have any friends? Would the language come back to me?

 

[OralAllOver]

This is kind of a stochastic thread ...
And not

Bear with me folks, for today diction is as close as I will get to dick

 

[Canbe4fun]

Ah the quiet darkness of night…
Does this calm bring on loneliness, or does the din of life finally quiet to the point where one can regain their thoughts, perhaps seeking something familiar to remind their spirit to live…

Embracing the calm, the peace of night, the quiet…

 

[cheekygirl75]

how realistic would it be to move back to Korea? I still have my cousins in Inchon but I don’t know the rest of my extended family. Could I just do it? Live somewhere where I don’t speak the language or have any friends? Would the language come back to me?

Idk if you’re seriously considering this or not, but I’ve lived in Korea. It’s easy to get around just speaking English with a few words of Korean, if you learn to read the alphabet (pretty easy to do). It would probably be harder to find a job or to be someone who looks Korean but doesn’t speak Korean.

 

[Chillygirl]

Idk if you’re seriously considering this or not, but I’ve lived in Korea. It’s easy to get around just speaking English with a few words of Korean, if you learn to read the alphabet (pretty easy to do). It would probably be harder to find a job or to be someone who looks Korean but doesn’t speak Korean.

I figured if I did it I would try to transfer my job/status and work on one of the military bases. Over there I’m considered white so they’d be shocked if I spoke fluently lol.

 

[cheekygirl75]

I figured if I did it I would try to transfer my job/status and work on one of the military bases. Over there I’m considered white so they’d be shocked if I spoke fluently lol.

Oh that would make sense! I knew a couple of people in the military when I was there and they seemed to have a pretty nice set up.

 

[Canbe4fun]

It’s interesting to play the photo game of what do you see? Looking at a picture and asking another what jumps out at them? You can give it context or not, like “look at her face” “what’s on her mind?” That can also be a caption game with pictures, or a variation as you sit in a cafe…what do you see?

 

[Chillygirl]

It’s interesting to play the photo game of what do you see? Looking at a picture and asking another what jumps out at them? You can give it context or not, like “look at her face” “what’s on her mind?” That can also be a caption game with pictures, or a variation as you sit in a cafe…what do you see?

I have a friend who will send me various pictures and ask my thought. Sometimes he’ll direct me to a certain feature or tell me his thoughts. It’s really helped me become more descriptive and able to vocalize my thoughts.

 

[Canbe4fun]

I have a friend who will send me various pictures and ask my thought. Sometimes he’ll direct me to a certain feature or tell me his thoughts. It’s really helped me become more descriptive and able to vocalize my thoughts.

It’s also good at developing situational awareness…

 

[barefootgirl69]

Ah the quiet darkness of night…
Does this calm bring on loneliness, or does the din of life finally quiet to the point where one can regain their thoughts, perhaps seeking something familiar to remind their spirit to live…

Embracing the calm, the peace of night, the quiet…

The calm is restorative.

 

[Canbe4fun]

The calm is restorative.

It can bring you back to center…

The challenge is can one take advantage of the reset lol

 

[LaisDeMarieDeFrance]

It’s also good at developing situational awareness…

Situational awareness is at an all time low these days! People walking down the middle of the road in parking lots, blocking aisles in stores, etc. Sometimes I wonder if they're that oblivious, incredibly self centered, or just plain dumb?

 

[Canbe4fun]

Situational awareness is at an all time low these days! People walking down the middle of the road in parking lots, blocking aisles in stores, etc. Sometimes I wonder if they're that oblivious, incredibly self centered, or just plain dumb?

The best you can say is “oblivious” followed closely by “bless their heart” lol (southern reference)

Self centered is probably the winner

 

[LaisDeMarieDeFrance]

The best you can say is “oblivious” followed closely by “bless their heart” lol (southern reference)

Self centered is probably the winner

Bless their pea-pickin oblivious dumbass hearts! (I'm southern. )

 

[Canbe4fun]

Bein

Bless their pea-pickin oblivious dumbass hearts! (I'm southern. )

Being a left coast southerner I am not allowed to provide the full context

 

[Canbe4fun]

A knight's delusion...

a white night is confident but humble, steadfast, a protector, a true North sort of gentleman. Caring, nurturing, and gives of himself without hesitation. does not play the game of what will i get out of this, or why do they get that...Who wouldnt want a rock...

the Black Knight is confident with an ego, swings hot and cold, adventurous, lives on the edges of norms, rebellious with enough charm to be encouraged, he is seen as his own man. he is just a step away from being respectable...but is he willing to take that step...

Who are you?
A Guinevere - Holds on to that virtue of a man who leads, who strives for stability for all whom he touch...
or
A Catherine Earnsha - who has, but wants more, needs adventure, needs to be lusted for, willing to meet on the edges...

Is there a Grey Knight to fulfill the needs of the Faire who need both…

 

[alexgriffin74]

There is a gin and tonic calling my name somewhere....

 

[_valkyrie_]

That was not how I envisioned the end of my day.

 

[barefootgirl69]

Where did she get all this stuff?

 

[Canbe4fun]

Situational awareness part II
We all know people that say they cannot meet people. Sometimes its just not being prepared to meet, other times its a matter of view. noticing people around you, taking interest in others within your visual zone. its funny when you tell them wow, that person was smiling/looking/interested in you, and the response is who?? i know its not always as simple as that, but something to think about...or you notice, engage, then fall on your face lol - Thats where the preparation could have been helpful...

What about Sensualation awareness? Where you find yourself in situations where a moment can go to fantasy in a heartbeat. Eyes meet, quick smile, little hello, a brief moment where your mind goes to interest, arousal, (as a guy that could be tricky) just a visceral moment, hoping the other is vibing the same way. Normal things, ordering drinks, a white knight moment in a store, a cab ride, bumping accidently at an elevator, spontaneous meetings...

The sad thing is that people who can think that way are just called Pervs or Dirty minded, like its a bad thing to feel... i like to feel...

 

[AnalCreampieGiver]

It could always be worse I suppose

 

[TongueLust]

It's the neck grab for me.

 

[TunnelKing089]

It's the neck grab for me.

 

[barefootgirl69]

The sad thing is that people who can think that way are just called Pervs or Dirty minded, like its a bad thing to feel... i like to feel...

I think it's normal to feel things*. Sometimes, it's the acting on it that gets crazy. If you act on it and it's well received, even in passing, that smile will remain on your face a long while. If it's not well received, if the other person is not feeling it, that can lead to "that perv!" moment.


* depending on what and who you're crossing paths with. Know what I mean? We can't say these words on Lit.

 

[Canbe4fun]

I think it's normal to feel things*. Sometimes, it's the acting on it that gets crazy. If you act on it and it's well received, even in passing, that smile will remain on your face a long while. If it's not well received, if the other person is not feeling it, that can lead to "that perv!" moment.


* depending on what and who you're crossing paths with. Know what I mean? We can't say these words on Lit.

No crossing paths, everything including fantasy still needs to be done with decorum. You can’t have a lovely moment if it’s imposed, always needs to be consensual for it to be lovely…The premise is that an innocent moment can be sensualized, and not everyone appreciates that thought process…