guys, What would you do...

[swimmer60540]

i don't need any more morons and assholes in my life lol there's been enough of them!

Sorry to hear that, but I know the feeling too. Dumbass ppl really make me

 

[ickle_stace]

Sorry to hear that, but I know the feeling too. Dumbass ppl really make me

yeah, its about time i found me a nice guy

 

[Batman4ever71]

i only really miss the cuddles, the sex wasn't that good anyway, the only time i've done anything sexual and enjoyed it was when i met up with a friend a couple of times and we touched each other, but as for full sex, i've never been with a guy who has made sure i enjoyed it too, so i guess its a case of i can't miss what i've never had

Stace, Stace, Stace,

Where to start?? I've read from other posts that your concerned about a partner not wanting you because of your inexperience. From this guy's standpoint, nothing could be further from the truth. Personally, I'd prefer that the lady I am with not have had many partners. This way you both can experience everything together and no one has any unrealistic expectations. The right guy for you will want the same things you do and wat to proceed with a relationship at a speed you both feel comfortable with.

IMHO, too many men are just looking to get what they came for and pay little or no attention to what you want or need. From what I've read, you deserve a man who wants you because you are you and how you make them feel when your with them. Any others can go to...well....you know where.

Every human being, whether experienced or not is looking for love, acceptance and just a "warm and fuzzy" feeling when together. There is a difference between sex and making love, as I'm sure your well aware. IMHO, sex is to satisfy an immediate need by "pressing the flesh" and thinking of the fallout later. I believe that making love is not just the meeting of two bodies; it's the meeting of two hearts, minds and souls as well. Don't sell yourself short, you deserve "True Love". I know! An antiquated concept, but I am living proof that after 34yrs of searching I finally found my other half. Stay true to the values that you hold dear and you'll find your Prince.

As for cuddling and kissing, Those are, I believe, essential for a healthy relationship. Let's not forget the sense of humor either. Laughter truly IS the best medicine for what ails you. Sounds like what ails you is a broken heart. Have no fear, your Prince is out there waiting to pick up the pieces and make you feel all better.


Batman

 

[southerntierguy]

well people keep telling me that wen i find the right guy then he'll make sure i get what i want too

i just get scared that im gonna disappoint them too though because i probably won't be experienced as their past girlfriends will have been

I think when you find the right guy, you'll find that MOST of the time he'll be happiest when he's made you happy. Of course, everyone has their moments when they are just driven to satisfy themselves immediately, then take care of their partner afterwards. Undoubtedly you've had some immature lovers so far.

As for experience, well, I can't speak for everyone else, but I think with most successful relationships that I've known, sex gets better the longer you're involved. Don't worry too much about any initial awkwardness if you're sure you are both in it for the long term.

 

[ickle_stace]

thanks guys

 

[jayroxx]

Inexperience

Stacey,some men(me) like to mentor an inexperienced partner.Everything is new and exciting,being the first one to do certain things with a woman can be a huge turn on.I would love to speak to you further on the subject.

 

[ickle_stace]

Stacey,some men(me) like to mentor an inexperienced partner.Everything is new and exciting,being the first one to do certain things with a woman can be a huge turn on.I would love to speak to you further on the subject.

speak away

 

[dr.bong]

so my question is how do you plan to act on this information

 

[ickle_stace]

so my question is how do you plan to act on this information

I was just using it to prove a point to someone

what else am i supposed to do search out all the ones after what i want and see if they live near me lol

 

[dr.bong]

I was just using it to prove a point to someone

what else am i supposed to do search out all the ones after what i want and see if they live near me lol

not a bad idea there

 

[ickle_stace]

not a bad idea there

most of them seem to be on the other side of the world and/or married/in longterm relationship

 

[ratatoskov]

voting

i voted for fuck buddy
you are not partiularly my type, but still find you attractive
that and the age thing
and even though i have been in a few one niters, not really my thing

that and i am in the states would make it difficult for a real relationship
mike

(happy hunting)

 

[ickle_stace]

i voted for fuck buddy
you are not partiularly my type, but still find you attractive
that and the age thing
and even though i have been in a few one niters, not really my thing

that and i am in the states would make it difficult for a real relationship
mike

(happy hunting)

is you finding me attractive when im not your type a compliment then?

 

[Batman4ever71]

Stace,

Your a beautiful woman and from looking at all your fantastic pics, how could you NOT be someone's type. If I were single, I'd be booking my trip to the UK now........

Batman

 

[ickle_stace]

Stace,

Your a beautiful woman and from looking at all your fantastic pics, how could you NOT be someone's type. If I were single, I'd be booking my trip to the UK now........

Batman

awww thanks

 

[dr.bong]

most of them seem to be on the other side of the world and/or married/in longterm relationship

sadly true, unless you decided to travel

 

[ratatoskov]

type

everyone has there type that they like. I can see beauty in a 300 pound samoan, or a short thin asian girl. right now i tend to be fixated on medium height eurasian women for some reason. that does not mean i cant find other "types" attractive also

mike

 

[robin35]

gorgeous

Dear ickle_stace,
Sorry I have not been around lately but you are one gorgeous woman and I hope that we can can chat soon.
Love Robin
Halifax

 

[ickle_stace]

Dear ickle_stace,
Sorry I have not been around lately but you are one gorgeous woman and I hope that we can can chat soon.
Love Robin
Halifax

thanks

 

[AmbientBaka]

As many others have suggested, I, too, would probably go for fuckbudy for now, and maybe it would develop into a LTR. But then, I'm on the other side of the world, so it's a moot point.

You are, however, a very beautiful woman. I hope you find that for which you look.

 

[ickle_stace]

As many others have suggested, I, too, would probably go for fuckbudy for now, and maybe it would develop into a LTR. But then, I'm on the other side of the world, so it's a moot point.

You are, however, a very beautiful woman. I hope you find that for which you look.

thanks

 

[dr.bong]

I couldn't agree more

 

[ickle_stace]

I couldn't agree more

I'm gonna wait and meet someone special, and then i'm gonna love them with all my heart hehe

 

[robin35]

special

Me I thought I had found that special one. Lasted ten years and then I realised that she saw me not as someone specail but someone who would support her ambition whilst propping up the wall themselves.
Reality check for me.
Now I just look and if someone comes along who can put that special smile on my face then I shall see.
R

 

[ickle_stace]

Me I thought I had found that special one. Lasted ten years and then I realised that she saw me not as someone specail but someone who would support her ambition whilst propping up the wall themselves.
Reality check for me.
Now I just look and if someone comes along who can put that special smile on my face then I shall see.
R

nobody has ever really put a smile on my face, and if they did it was short lived before they started upsetting me, so i like to think when i meet someone who makes me smile for alot longer than the past ones have, then i'll know someone really cares for me