Have you ever meet anyone from here?
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ofallonguy
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I can honestly say I personally know someone very sexy from here.....
Stryderthorongil
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No, I have never met anyone from Lit.
KnightWing
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cmann1071 said:I was just wondering if anybody has ever hooked up with someone from this forum. I know that there is a lot of flurting and people making plans, but seriously has anyone ever got together. Let me know, give me hope.
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I have met several people from online including Lit. And I can say that every one of them has been a wonderful experience. And each of them have remained great friends that extend beyond online life.
After reading some of the other responses here, maybe I have been fortunate. But I have always tried to be open and honest with anyone I ever considered meeting. It is especially important to be very clear about each person's expectations of what that real life meeting might include or lead to.
For myself, I have always been clear not only about me own expectations and behaviors, but also on what I expected of them and their behaviors in return. This leads to a much more relaxed initial meeting without all the angst that often accompanies meetings of this type. I also don't agree to meet anyone that I haven't had numerous conversations with (chat, phone, etc.) so that we both had a good idea of the kind of person we were agreeing to meet.
So my advice would be to be careful, cautious and honest. And expect the same in return. If you do those things, I think you may find some wonderful opportunities exist to meet some wonderful new friends.
Just my 2 cents...
After reading some of the other responses here, maybe I have been fortunate. But I have always tried to be open and honest with anyone I ever considered meeting. It is especially important to be very clear about each person's expectations of what that real life meeting might include or lead to.
For myself, I have always been clear not only about me own expectations and behaviors, but also on what I expected of them and their behaviors in return. This leads to a much more relaxed initial meeting without all the angst that often accompanies meetings of this type. I also don't agree to meet anyone that I haven't had numerous conversations with (chat, phone, etc.) so that we both had a good idea of the kind of person we were agreeing to meet.
So my advice would be to be careful, cautious and honest. And expect the same in return. If you do those things, I think you may find some wonderful opportunities exist to meet some wonderful new friends.
Just my 2 cents...
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I have met 6 people from Lit in real life.
I have to say that all have become good friends, despite my teenage daughter's warnings of axe murderers, rapists etc. (getting her own back on her over protective Mum).
I agree that open, honest conversation is the key. I have never made any secret of the fact that I am in a very long term relationship (11 years this week) and have a teenage daughter. I chatted at length to 4 people before I met them in real life (the other two were introduced by mutual lit friends and I have chatted to them subsequently).
Just take the same sensible precautions that you would in your daily life anyway. I am actually going to stay with a male lit friend in August (because we are going to an England v Australia test match) so he has been here for a weekend so my partner could meet him and be sure of my safety.
Be honest, be safe and have fun!!!
I have to say that all have become good friends, despite my teenage daughter's warnings of axe murderers, rapists etc. (getting her own back on her over protective Mum).
I agree that open, honest conversation is the key. I have never made any secret of the fact that I am in a very long term relationship (11 years this week) and have a teenage daughter. I chatted at length to 4 people before I met them in real life (the other two were introduced by mutual lit friends and I have chatted to them subsequently).
Just take the same sensible precautions that you would in your daily life anyway. I am actually going to stay with a male lit friend in August (because we are going to an England v Australia test match) so he has been here for a weekend so my partner could meet him and be sure of my safety.
Be honest, be safe and have fun!!!
