How many women regularly orgasm through intercourse?

[berk1234]

I was replying to someone else's post and it got me thinking about how lucky I am. My wife cums through regular intercourse virtually every time we have sex. I've always heard that is fairly rare. Do you find that to be true? She doesn't need anything but my cock inside of her; no fingers on clit, no extra stimulation. I know how lucky I am. To me there is nothing like cumming together every time.

 

[satindesire]

I was replying to someone else's post and it got me thinking about how lucky I am. My wife cums through regular intercourse virtually every time we have sex. I've always heard that is fairly rare. Do you find that to be true? She doesn't need anything but my cock inside of her; no fingers on clit, no extra stimulation. I know how lucky I am. To me there is nothing like cumming together every time.

I think the fact that I come with clitoral stimulation incredibly lucky. To me, there is nothing like reaching an intense mind-shattering orgasm with my partner, every time. I don't need anything but a nice vibrator on my clit, no fingers and no penis inside me, no extra stimulation. I know how lucky I am.

 

[berk1234]

I think the fact that I come with clitoral stimulation incredibly lucky. To me, there is nothing like reaching an intense mind-shattering orgasm with my partner, every time. I don't need anything but a nice vibrator on my clit, no fingers and no penis inside me, no extra stimulation. I know how lucky I am.

Sorry. After I wrote that, I realized that it may come off as saying anything else is not as good. That is not what I meant to say, just that I love what we have and I was wondering how rare that is.

 

[infinity706]

It's really rare. Even the women I know that eclipse most guys with their sexual desire tend to orgasm from fingers, tongues, and vibrators.

 

[Tryharder62]

Rare for this chick. Never came with just one inside. Need other stimulation too.

Not a slam or anything but since I can't are you sure she does. That it is real orgasm.

Yes if you enjoy that you should feel lucky and love her up

 

[berk1234]

Rare for this chick. Never came with just one inside. Need other stimulation too.

Not a slam or anything but since I can't are you sure she does. That it is real orgasm.

Yes if you enjoy that you should feel lucky and love her up

I know what you mean. I'm smart enough to know that no guy can ever really know if his partner came. Back in our early 20's when we first got married, I'll admit, I was not very good in bed. Years later she told me she faked it most of the time. Now in our 30's, we're both more open with what we want/need and I'd dare say that I'm not half bad in bed. I'm confident that she isn't faking it if only because there are rare nights where we just aren't in sync and she'd rather just stop than fake it. To rephrase my earlier comment...I'm not lucky that she orgasms through intercourse, I'm lucky that she cums in a way that we both love. And if she stops being able to finish that way, I'll love her in other ways...though she'll have to reevaluate her opinion on receiving vibrators, hands and oral sex.

 

[Tryharder62]

You sound like a great guy. What a lucky wife

 

[SweetErika]

According to what I've read, maybe 20-25% of women orgasm from vaginal intercourse alone. Of course all of the studies/surveys are based on self-reporting, and it always depends on how questions are asked, so those numbers may very well be bloated (people usually report more orgasms, but typically don't say they don't come when they actually do).

I know a hell of a lot of women fake it because they believe their partner wants them to come from penile stimulation alone.

 

[curiouskizzy]

I do. It's an intimacy thing, feeling what the oher person is feeling. I love it when we're so turned on that he can barely move in me without us both cumming. We lie as still as we can, and I can feel the pulse in his big vein, and my cunt throbs round him. I could spill over into a full orgasm any second and the excitement is just so intense. Then we both feel the waves building and the orgasm is incredible, we can feel every single sensation in the other, and looking into each others eyes is just like souls touching. Of course at that moment we both give in, and he can thrust as hard as he wants and I'm lifting up to fuck him back, and as we get faster and faster, deeper and deeper, the wave keeps on hitting, so the orgasm is absolutely huge. There is just nothing like the feeling of a super-hard cock swelling, glans throbbing, and feeling the rising swell of his sperm inside me. It makes me cum every single time.

 

[Tryharder62]

Oh my that description almost made me dizzy. I'm straight and between your avatar and that description I'm having second thoughts. LOL.

Do you think it is the frame of mind a person is in? Sometimes I think I worry too much about having one? It almost is like a man going soft except of course I am a woman. It still feels great to have a man in there though.

 

[new_to_you]

I'm going to venture that it's rare, but I think it's not just a woman's body that does it. I mean to say, I've had some partners with whom I have had regular orgasms through intercourse, and some with whom I've had none. It really depends on the chemistry, or how well your bodies work together, in my opinion, anyway. So good for you and your wife for having found the right way to make it work together.

 

[Maxell46]

I've found that as a woman ages she is more likely to orgasm from intercourse.

I prefer a mature woman ...over 40...that is comfortable with her sexuality and not afraid to just enjoy whats going on.

It was rare when I was younger and the woman were younger. Seldom did any reach orgasm by intercourse alone.
Thats complety changed now...
but it could and probably is attributed to the fact that I'm attracted to highly sexual females and no longer will settle on anyone whos not comfortable with themselves and their sex drive.

 

[SactoRN]

Oh my that description almost made me dizzy. I'm straight and between your avatar and that description I'm having second thoughts. LOL.

Do you think it is the frame of mind a person is in? Sometimes I think I worry too much about having one? It almost is like a man going soft except of course I am a woman. It still feels great to have a man in there though.

Frame of mind certainly makes a difference.

I can regularly cum/squirt during sex. Usually it's easier if I've cum from oral or fingers before penetration. Sometimes I do need clit stim to get there.

 

[boredVAwife]

For me, it can happen but not often simply from intercourse itself. If I am out of my noodle aroused it is much more likely. I am however not one that has to achieve an O for sex to be enjoyable. If I am with the right partner, an orgasm can be secondary really. Sounds weird maybe but that's me.

 

[thesweetsweetness]

I honestly never knew this was so rare. I guess I am one of the lucky ones. I can cum from intercourse alone.

Heck, hubby has brought be to orgasm with out even touching my vulva at all, just from sucking my neck or caressing my hip bone area. Sometimes it seems he could look at me and I'd be set off.

 

[Latina49]

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[Jacqui_S]

I tend to. I would say maybe 8 times out of 10 I do. I've never faked it though. I think if you lie to your partner like that then nothing will improve, so its a bit silly really.

 

[berk1234]

I tend to. I would say maybe 8 times out of 10 I do. I've never faked it though. I think if you lie to your partner like that then nothing will improve, so its a bit silly really.

Right with you on that one. Way back when, I thought our sex life was fine. But once she realized that I'd never get any better if she acted like it was good for her, things began to improve right away.

 

[kamehameha]

I'm glad this topic came up actually because I can definitely come multiple times just with penetration. There are times where I have the duo going and it's vaginal and clitoral stimulation at once which really sets me off, but I have no problems getting off during sex, so much so that we also end up coming simultaneously every single time (seeing a man's face and body react as they're about to come is incredibly sexy and sets me off). In my opinion I don't think age has anything to do with it, it's the mindset that you generally attain as you age. I myself am in my 20s and am at this point already, mainly because I've always been a very highly sexual and curious person (even before I had sex), so I remember pretty much teaching myself what I liked and how I could get off in multiples during my teens. Maybe 45% of this is physical, but it's a largely psychological mindset.

It also has a lot to do with the attraction/compatibility of your partner and yourself. My boyfriend and I are extremely compatible and open-minded and highly sexual! We're both comfortable with ourselves and our bodies, we know what we like, and we're hot for the other...simple.

Although really it doesn't matter I think. An orgasm is an orgasm either way, so really, as long as you can have one at least —*there is no big deal or difference.

 

[bumlicker]

shes faking!!!

damn dude shes has you fooled

 

[BongoGal]

http://blog.museumofsex.com/the-internal-clitoris/

 

[Mr.G]

She cums EVERY TIME ??

Statistically that would be rare as shark feathers but it does happen. If she does cum EVERY TIME you have intercourse with her then she is a FREAK and the two of you should feel incredibly BLESSED!!

Maturity makes a big difference. Self-confidence and TRUST are also major factors.

I've heard many times that it doesn't matter how long or how good the actual intercourse is - she doesn't cum until he does. I think that, like many athletes, sexual performance can be enhanced by repetition and toning the right muscles. Any woman who says she won't cum until he does is a perfect example of how much EMOTION / PSYCHOLOGY plays in the over suckcess of sex. The fact that intercourse is a turn on is fine. The fact that she cums when she feels him cum is NOT physical at all. That is ALL emotion and the psychology of being super turned on knowing he is getting off. It shows perfectly that his orgasm is HER trigger and it is not the physical act of orgasming that sets her off. It is the emotional factor AND the fact that it has been practiced over and over again until that is the trigger.

This whole discussion is another window that allows younger couples, newer (together) couples and otherwise inexperienced lovers to experiment and work on the joys of letting loose, finding techniques that work for them and then honing those techniques so that, like the OP, things are excellent or better EVERY TIME they make love.

Thanks for sharing.

 

[Xxkaylaxxx]

I do.

 

[just a thing]

About 1 out of 3

 

[FinallyAwake]

This one is such an interesting thread, I finally had to register and respond. I had no idea!
I must truly be very lucky. I am able to orgasm through penetration alone, multiple times. With the exception of the first few times I ever had sex, and a select few times over the years, I have orgasmed more than once every time! Usually, the first orgasm is experienced very quickly after the initial penetration.
However, I can also orgasm through only clitoral stimulation.....no penetration needed....and that to, is relativley quick....just a few minutes.
I don't know if its how I'm built, or just the way my brain is wired.....but after reading through this thread, I'll certainly make sure to recognize just how amazingly lucky I am, and not take it for granted.