How many women regularly orgasm through intercourse?

[StaciRay79]

I usually don't orgasm strictly from intercourse, but last night I did 3 times. I had been played with and teased all morning and most of the day and was already ready to cum before we went to bed.

He touched me and said that since I was already so wet he was just going to slide right inside. I almost came immediately! It took just a couple of thrust for the first one and as he kept going, so did I.

It's been a VERY LONG time since that happened!

 

[mellowyellows]

I usually don't orgasm strictly from intercourse, but last night I did 3 times. I had been played with and teased all morning and most of the day and was already ready to cum before we went to bed.

He touched me and said that since I was already so wet he was just going to slide right inside. I almost came immediately! It took just a couple of thrust for the first one and as he kept going, so did I.

It's been a VERY LONG time since that happened!

It really is all about a state of mind.....rather than physical.

 

[restless_bob]

I usually don't orgasm strictly from intercourse, but last night I did 3 times. I had been played with and teased all morning and most of the day and was already ready to cum before we went to bed.

He touched me and said that since I was already so wet he was just going to slide right inside. I almost came immediately! It took just a couple of thrust for the first one and as he kept going, so did I.

It's been a VERY LONG time since that happened!

That's such an incredible turn-on, when she cums right after I thrust in..

 

[Archer69]

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My girlfriend gets to cum most times. She orgasms pretty easy. We have talked and agreed she should not fake it for my benifit.

Once we get lubed up good and hitting a nice rhythm and as she gets into it I go deep and rub pubis to pubis and she usually cums at that point. After she is about through and starting to slow down, then I stroke slow and long and get my cookies that way.

Edit to add: I like it best when she on top and has control to make her orgasm happen. It usually involves the pubis to pubis grinding action that she seems to like.

 

[VulnerableSubmissive]

Nope. Clitoral stimulation and A LOT of it. (Way more than penetration provides.)

 

[talldad1]

I usually don't orgasm strictly from intercourse, but last night I did 3 times. I had been played with and teased all morning and most of the day and was already ready to cum before we went to bed.

He touched me and said that since I was already so wet he was just going to slide right inside. I almost came immediately! It took just a couple of thrust for the first one and as he kept going, so did I.

It's been a VERY LONG time since that happened!

Amazingly sexy. I agree with the others, it shows the power of your mind.

 

[Eilan]

In the right position, yes.

 

[Riles]

I was replying to someone else's post and it got me thinking about how lucky I am. My wife cums through regular intercourse virtually every time we have sex. I've always heard that is fairly rare. Do you find that to be true? She doesn't need anything but my cock inside of her; no fingers on clit, no extra stimulation. I know how lucky I am. To me there is nothing like cumming together every time.

I can only speak for THIS woman, and my own abilities to "O" from different stimulation was a process in evolution.

Clitoral O's were always the norm, and easy enough to induce. Vaginal took work. Lots and lots of work that was essentially training the body.

 

[muttley44]

My wife regularly orgasms from PIV sex, both vaginally and clitorally. Vaginally from the g-spot and posterior fornix. Clitorally from the glans of her clit either rubbing on my pelvic bone when grinding or on my shaft in certain positions.

The prime reason for the clit orgasms seems to be her very small C-V distance:

http://www.latimes.com/features/health/la-hew-ordistance11feb11,0,2763149.story

 

[Noor]

I am not totally sure, but I don't think so. I don't pay a lot of attention when I am coming to how I came. How I feel about myself and my partner is primary.

I do know that the more turned on I am the easier it is to come from almost anything. Its not that common but I have come from kissing among other things.

PIV is only part of the mix for me, like genitals are only part of sexuality. Cock size doesn't seem to be a factor, although either extreme could be, I suppose. My comfort level makes a big difference. Some guys just fit better and others move better for me. Factors that make a difference: hitting my g-spot helps, if I have come before, rubbing against their pubic bone, how turned on, how much hormones...

Position can make a big difference.

It also depends on my mood and the intensity of where I am sexually. There are times where my body has just taken off on a rhythm of its own in almost a primordial way and that is total PIV, real intense and somewhat scary. I have only had that happen simultaneously with one partner, it was very extreme

I get distracted easily and sometimes clit stim is too much. I prefer my whole body being involved rather than focusing on any one area be it clit, PIV, breasts ...

As for coming together, I am very aural and hearing a lover come often makes me come, often not for the first time. Its frustrating sometimes because its kind of cool to hear your lover come and watch his face which can be hard to do if you are coming.
I have never not used a condom so actually feeling him ejaculate into me is limited, though sometimes I can.

If we start PIV as I am coming from some other means I usually keep coming...

Great now I have totally distracted myself ...

 

[silknightgown]

I had a very deep vaginal orgasm, and it felt like loads of energy were being released through my entire body.
It was then that I felt the most stirring, fluttering, warm feeling coming through me … it started in my belly, came out my pussy, and just kept going and going and going… . There was no real ending, just a leveling off.
I felt the pleasure move completely through my body, slowly from my feet to my head, moving out through my head. I also had the sensation of strong ejaculation, as if I were a man, and that felt very powerful and strong. I felt elation and bliss progress within me, until my entire body was engaged and fully open to myself and my partner. Afterwards I cried in joy.
At that point, instead of the arousal curve dropping off, it skyrocketed, and the resulting subjective orgasm was so amazing, all encompassing, and subjectively long, that I passed out for just a moment.
… when I came it was like an electric shock—my eyes flew open and my body jerked wildly.
Waves upon waves. White energy bliss bubble. Breathing energy in and out. Closing an energy circle through lingam going in and coming out through her glistening eyes. Still shivering uncontrollably a few times.
I felt my skin get warm with a rush of excitement throughout my whole body moving upwards. Warm fluid released from what felt like the walls of my yoni and my cervix. I felt my connection to the universe in that moment of warmth and pleasure. It was so easeful and I was pleasantly surprised by the ease of this deep connection and pleasure. So much joy flooded our space together as we realized the level of connection we were creating.
There has only been one man in my life that has made me feel this way.

 

[x_Ava_x]

I find it easy to cum just from intercourse.
Though I would say it's more emotional because I find my boyfriend severely attractive and anything he does gets me hot. Nobody else I've been with can do that for me.

And I am one of those rare women who've had multiple orgasms with my partner. Though to get to that stage for me it takes a little more than intercourse.

I don't think size has impact at all. It's all about how you use it
xx

 

[lothwen]

My ex and I were together for 8 years and I never had an orgasm during intercourse; he had to get me off orally. Then one of my lovers was able to get me off a few times during intercourse, usually in the missionary position with my legs on his shoulders. Another guy I was able to orgasm through intercourse too, but I always had to be on top,and it felt like I was doing all the work.

 

[griffon]

I was replying to someone else's post and it got me thinking about how lucky I am. My wife cums through regular intercourse virtually every time we have sex. I've always heard that is fairly rare. Do you find that to be true? She doesn't need anything but my cock inside of her; no fingers on clit, no extra stimulation. I know how lucky I am. To me there is nothing like cumming together every time.

I've never had an issue. Starting way back with my first GF, every one has orgasmed through vaginal intercourse. Only one who never did was my ex-wife. Every other partner except for her has climaxed during vaginal intercourse. There's a reason the ex-wife is an ex!

 

[sweet_secrets4u]

I've heard many times that it doesn't matter how long or how good the actual intercourse is - she doesn't cum until he does. I think that, like many athletes, sexual performance can be enhanced by repetition and toning the right muscles. Any woman who says she won't cum until he does is a perfect example of how much EMOTION / PSYCHOLOGY plays in the over suckcess of sex. The fact that intercourse is a turn on is fine. The fact that she cums when she feels him cum is NOT physical at all. That is ALL emotion and the psychology of being super turned on knowing he is getting off. It shows perfectly that his orgasm is HER trigger and it is not the physical act of orgasming that sets her off. It is the emotional factor

Sweetie you are describing me have we met
I could not explain it better if I tried. I wrote in another thread, if I have sex, and the guy does not cum in me, im left wanting. And this is why.

Riding him is a different matter, I get good clitoral stimulation and can have multiple orgasms.

 

[muttley44]

My ex and I were together for 8 years and I never had an orgasm during intercourse; he had to get me off orally. Then one of my lovers was able to get me off a few times during intercourse, usually in the missionary position with my legs on his shoulders. Another guy I was able to orgasm through intercourse too, but I always had to be on top,and it felt like I was doing all the work.

What would you think was the difference? Size? Shape? Emotion? Technique?

 

[Kat73]

I have never had an orgasm from penetration alone. There always has to be g-spot or clitoral penetration. Back in the day, I would fake it because I thought that is what he wanted. Now, I don't. When sex is about him, I get excited, but don't do anything about it. I can cum pretty easily by clitoral stimulation. If I am incredibly turned on, I can cum multiple times and squirt.

 

[VanessaVixen]

My experience

I can cum through vaginal intercourse, though it does seem to take longer than clitoral orgasms. That's not a bad thing, though - a climax is more satisfying to me with a longer buildup. And once I've cum the first time, it seems to be easier to pull off the next few orgasms.

Sometimes my clitoral orgasms are purely physical, too, which I suspect might be part of it. When my mind is aroused, I cum way harder and more often, and the orgasm is more satisfying. Orgasms from PIV intercourse (with or without clit stimulation) or from the emotional arousal + the clit stimulation of using a strapon on a lover are more usually fulfilling for me than simple clit orgasms.

 

[shewantsmore]

For me there are only 2 ways to orgasm,either through masturbation or intercourse.

 

[purejoy]

I do..

9 out of 10 times i do ...lol wow something im good at. Go me!

 

[KoPilot]

I don't, and really don't care that I don't.

Orgasm for me is but one tiny piece of the overall experience. There's a whole laundry list of things I'd rather get instead.

 

[lothwen]

What would you think was the difference? Size? Shape? Emotion? Technique?

With the one guy it would have been size and technique, and with the other it would have been because I basically used his dick like a dildo (completely selfish on my part, but he was a really bad lover)

 

[muttley44]

With the one guy it would have been size and technique,

My wife cums several ways,but her favorites are either nudgefucking her deepspot (which stimulates her clit as well) or long sawing strokes balls deep to almost popping out. Mind sharing his technique?

and with the other it would have been because I basically used his dick like a dildo (completely selfish on my part, but he was a really bad lover)

Oddly enough what makes a woman great in bed, in my book, is when she takes matters into her own hands (or other body parts). It somewhat objectifies the guy, but it's also liberating in the sense you're taking what you want. Selfish, proactively selfish, is a good thing in this case.

 

[lothwen]

IMO, it's one thing for a woman to take charge of her body and be proactive about pleasuring herself in bed, and it's another for the guy to just lay there and tell her to get herself off because he doesn't want to have to try. But, YMMV.

 

[berk1234]

I know what you mean about them taking it in their own hands. My wife and I consider each others orgasms to be a team effort. But there is the occasional night where what I am doing is just not working for her. Usually it is because I'm too sensitive that night and can't get going fast enough and long enough to get her off...have to keep stopping. Sometimes she'll flip on top of me and begin to ride me like there is no tomorrow. There is something so sexy about that desperate to cum look on her face at that point. It does make me feel like just a piece of meat sometimes, but sometimes that can be a good thing.