quicksylver69
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I can cum almost every time from sex but I do have to have a helping hand on my clit, either his or mine 
How many women regularly orgasm through intercourse?
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From my own experience, the whole "did she orgasm" worry has been deeply implanted into masculine brains way before we start having sex. The reason is, women are very tribal, much more than men, and two main reasons appear:
1) Women like what other women like and
2) Women dislike what other women dislike
With that in mind it's a constant worry that, if a night of intercourse was unpleasant for her, you can bet your paycheck she will be bitching about it with her friends the next day and thus, shattering any chances of even going out with any of them, let alone have sex with. So for men, screwing things up with one woman often means screwing them up with another 5-10, which is kind of the reason most men tend to overdo it nowadays
It is undeniable that having the girl reach climax at least once takes a lot of psychological weight off a man, and after he's able to perform much better, which is also the reason some women fake; otherwise they're going to have to put up with "i ain't leaving until you cum"
In my (not as vast as i would like it to be) experience, women seldom cum from intercourse alone, and at best, the intercourse only sets them close to the orgasm; adittional stimulation is often needed as a sort of "trigger" for them to actually climax. The type and intensity of such stimulation varies widely from girl to girl; most girls cum during intercourse with gentle stimulation to the clitoris, but some other may do so from kissing/biting her nipples, neck, earlobes, some from being spanked or even anally stimulated. Some girls can only cum if you directly masturbate them or give them oral, and a few others won't cum no matter what you do, most likely they don't like you enough
I don't know how it is for girls, but for men (at least men i know), not reaching orgasm feels sort of a dissapointment and can make an otherwise good evening to have a bitter aftertaste; not to mention the girl wondering why she was unable to get you all the way to climax. With that said, i think the best policy would be honesty about what you like (just don't get too kinky the first times so you won't scare each other off) and wheter you reached orgasm or not; i know most men would be quite willing to try whatever the girl suggests them to make her climax
1) Women like what other women like and
2) Women dislike what other women dislike
With that in mind it's a constant worry that, if a night of intercourse was unpleasant for her, you can bet your paycheck she will be bitching about it with her friends the next day and thus, shattering any chances of even going out with any of them, let alone have sex with. So for men, screwing things up with one woman often means screwing them up with another 5-10, which is kind of the reason most men tend to overdo it nowadays
It is undeniable that having the girl reach climax at least once takes a lot of psychological weight off a man, and after he's able to perform much better, which is also the reason some women fake; otherwise they're going to have to put up with "i ain't leaving until you cum"
In my (not as vast as i would like it to be) experience, women seldom cum from intercourse alone, and at best, the intercourse only sets them close to the orgasm; adittional stimulation is often needed as a sort of "trigger" for them to actually climax. The type and intensity of such stimulation varies widely from girl to girl; most girls cum during intercourse with gentle stimulation to the clitoris, but some other may do so from kissing/biting her nipples, neck, earlobes, some from being spanked or even anally stimulated. Some girls can only cum if you directly masturbate them or give them oral, and a few others won't cum no matter what you do, most likely they don't like you enough
I don't know how it is for girls, but for men (at least men i know), not reaching orgasm feels sort of a dissapointment and can make an otherwise good evening to have a bitter aftertaste; not to mention the girl wondering why she was unable to get you all the way to climax. With that said, i think the best policy would be honesty about what you like (just don't get too kinky the first times so you won't scare each other off) and wheter you reached orgasm or not; i know most men would be quite willing to try whatever the girl suggests them to make her climax
