How many women regularly orgasm through intercourse?

[Hopeorless1]

When I have sex, I tend to have lots of small orgasms throughout, hopefully leading up into one unbelievably mindshattering orgasm (usually through grinding my hips). However, considering the sex I have had in the last year or so, that last amazing one was a bit rarer.
When going alone it works a bit differently.

 

[goodlife3738]

I think that it depends on how a woman is wired. I've been around sexual women in swinging situations, that rarely have an orgasm. Others, like me, have many a night.

I have always been able to orgasm by penetration alone, but the more foreplay and orgasms before sex, the better the experience is!

Find out what works for you, or your partner, and do that. Mix it up, don't get in a rut.

Also, one last piece of advice.... If you stimulate a woman's mind, you'll have her well on her way before you get the panties off!

 

[boredVAwife]

Not often really. If it is a quickie to take care of him, never. I am not meaning to sound like it's a problem or even an issue. I just don't easily. Not a problem tho. If I am with a man I get a lot of self pleasure in making him cum and when I have been with a woman (the few thimes it has been) an O is simply not what motivates me.

 

[Lust Engine]

As a guy a woman's orgasm isn't my lone goal. It's all about pleasuring her- in all sorts of ways. Whether it's with my cock exploding in her, a tongue on her clit, a toy in her or some other esoteric means- the orgasm isn't exactly the do-all, end-all. If it happens, then great but maybe I'm just not wired for quickies- I like the marathon more so than the sprint.

 

[sissisissi]

I don't orgasm through intercourse; I don't orgasm when my hubby pleasures me; I only orgasm when I masturbate myself. Would love to at least be able to cum when my hubby masturbates me but it just doesn't happen. So an orgasm through intercourse is even more out of reach.

 

[sammiluvscock]

From intercourse alone, then along with most others here, generally seaking no. It requires oral, or my fingers stimulating myself to get me over the edge. However that seems normal from what I know with my friends so I am not completely disheartened, and obviously intercourse is mostly helpful in the matter!

 

[Pleasesuckle]

I can cum from intercourse alone...and cum harder than from clit stimulation. A cock swelling and pulsing as he cums sends me over the edge pretty much every time.

 

[porcelainthin]

I can orgasm by penetration without much effort but prefer several things going on at once.

 

[Reba67]

I do sometimes, but it has to be a position where I'm getting a lot of clit stimulation.

 

[MisBehaved]

My husband knows exactly what I like, but before he came around I was always really embarrassed when I had sex, because I'm a squirter, and it happens every time. It can freak inexperienced guys out, and they always made me feel like it was a bad thing.

But yea, I cum every time we have sex. I do think that it's a frame of mind: if I don't let myself go, and just get into it, I don't cum. I have more control now then I used to. I don't like to let myself cum unless there's a way to clean it up afterwards...sleeping on a puddle in bed is just no fun.

 

[yuna1981]

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[erotica_n_s]

Incidentally - I know that Professor Stuart Brody, a psychologist at the University of West of Scotland, has published a fair amount of research on penile-vaginal intercourse.

If you're really interested, you could look up his work on PubMed - several of his abstracts are available, but not the full paper(s).

Just a suggestion!

 

[With_Intent]

I'm lucky - I can come just from intercourse, but don't usually from thrusting in and out (though it's been known to happen). What sends me over the edge is bf's hips wiggling from side to side, or grinding. That way my clit gets all the action it needs, but my pussy is full of cock. = the perfect storm.

After the first orgasm, though, it takes very little. Just a few seconds of contact between his pelvis and my clit, and I'm screaming and writhing again. But this only works in a couple of positions. I've never come from doggie style, even if I or he rubs my clit while he's fucking me. I don't know why this is.

 

[Riles]

How many women regularly orgasm through intercourse?

This was something I actually had to teach/train myself to do. First experiences of sex required plenty of foreplay, along with clit stimulation during intercourse.

Experience, educated/inventive partners and children have changed the requirements significantly, and I'm typically good to go the moment I hear the zip of his fly.

 

[ayrton]

What about penis size? Have you ladies found it easier to orgasm from intercourse with a larger penis?

 

[BongoGal]

What about penis size? Have you ladies found it easier to orgasm from intercourse with a larger penis?

Yes, I have.

 

[With_Intent]

What about penis size? Have you ladies found it easier to orgasm from intercourse with a larger penis?

Yes. Larger & harder = a must. At my age, 47, that can be more difficult to cum by. (Ha!)

 

[Reading_is_Sexy]

It totally depends on the state of mind I am in. It usually takes a bit to get me going, and I need other stimulation. But if there is a lot of passion and heat in a moment, I can orgasm through penetration alone. Though, it is pretty rare.

 

[love_269_girl]

If I am on top, almost every time. It not about the in and out for me. It is about feeling full and stretched and grinding my clit against his pubic bone. Mmmm make me tingle just thinking about it.

 

[Siren_Smiles]

For me it depends on the position, certain ones are a sure bet, others require more effort and there are a few that will never get me there.

I think I'm one of a very small minority that prefers/needs penile penetration to orgasm. I enjoy oral and fingers and all of that as part of the build up but my clit is way too sensitive to ring the bell. The sensations are overwhelming and there's a pretty fine line for me before things switch from being blissful to uncomfortable. I prefer the indirect stimulation that comes from feeling his body against my clit over the direct contact of hands or a toy.

When it's just me, penetration alone, like with a vibe, won't do it. It's the combination of blunt contact and penetration. (I'm a pillow humper, so I guess that makes sense right?)

 

[gabriel16]

The variety

The variety of sex, of what works or doesn't - is so wonderful

 

[SweetDelight]

I am one of those who cant orgasm through penetration alone. It has never happened and though I have read that it takes practice nothing seems to work for me.
You girls who can easily orgasm are lucky in my opinion.

 

[Beth87]

I can cum from penetration alone.. I'm in my first proper relationship and so I am learning that my mindset plays a huge part in that. Sometimes a teasing hand on my hip sends me writhing and other times we both have to work harder on getting my body to play ball...so to speak.

It's weird how the mind and body can be so separate. However, when they are in sync, I can come without any penetration at all and minimal genital touching.

 

[tcbyron]

From reading the other postings on this thread, I'm the odd one out... I'm seriously multi-orgasmic... Big time... With that said, yes, I cum very regularly with just intercourse. Then again I can also cum on command with no more stimulation than him growling in my ear and nothing sexual going on...

But, oh my gawd, the feeling like CuriousKizzy was talking about, the feeling of your partner growing even harder and pulsing inside of me...... That seriously sends me waaaay over the edge.

 

[LucyH]

Never happens that way.