HOW TO TELL...if you're a bi-curious man!

I guess this is me officially "coming out", even though I did on other threads in a less formal context: I'm bi-curious. I am not attracted to "manly" mens' faces hardly at all, but lately I've been fostering an appreciation for their bodies and cocks. I've been watching a ton of frot porn and absolutely loving it and I really want to try that out sometime. Having said that, I will not participate in anal sex, giving or receiving. I absolutely will not - I don't crave dick that badly lol

Mostly, my attraction lies toward very, very feminine looking men, crossdressers and shemales, and I guess that's due to my love for women. I absolutely adore women - their facial structure, their lips, their bodies, their natural scent, their voices - but there's something about the unorthodoxy of women with dicks and crossdressers that's been driving me wild.
 
I guess this is me officially "coming out", even though I did on other threads in a less formal context: I'm bi-curious. I am not attracted to "manly" mens' faces hardly at all, but lately I've been fostering an appreciation for their bodies and cocks. I've been watching a ton of frot porn and absolutely loving it and I really want to try that out sometime. Having said that, I will not participate in anal sex, giving or receiving. I absolutely will not - I don't crave dick that badly lol

Mostly, my attraction lies toward very, very feminine looking men, crossdressers and shemales, and I guess that's due to my love for women. I absolutely adore women - their facial structure, their lips, their bodies, their natural scent, their voices - but there's something about the unorthodoxy of women with dicks and crossdressers that's been driving me wild.

So you don't even have anal with chicks?
 
So you don't even have anal with chicks?
I've never tried it. I admit to not being very experienced at sex despite an intense desire to try out a lot of things lol I'm not a virgin but my luck with women hasn't been exactly stellar.

Anyway I don't knock those who are into anal, obviously, but I've heard some horror stories about anal that really turned me off to it. Besides, the only thing I'd like to do with a woman's ass is kiss, smell and worship it. ;)

Side-note: You know who I had (and still have) a MAJOR crush on when I was 17? Danny Noriega from American Idol. Dude is fucking HOT. His personality is too way catty for me, but his eyes and lips..holy fuck. :heart:
 
Newly bi curious young male

My girlfriend and I have been entertaining the idea of having a threesome with a female friend and while I think this is extremely hot, I think I might prefer one of her gay friends to be the third. I just cannot get the idea of sucking a cock that has just left her pussy or sharing a cock in our mouths. I would love to have a cock in my ass while my cock is in her. I'd like to feel my cock against another while both inside her pussy. I think I could suck cock great even though I've never tried. I love having my ass licked. I'm a big dude with a thick cock and my fantasy involves a boyish skinny male with a long slender cock. Anybody out there like to break me in feel free to message me.
 
My girlfriend and I have been entertaining the idea of having a threesome with a female friend and while I think this is extremely hot, I think I might prefer one of her gay friends to be the third. I just cannot get the idea of sucking a cock that has just left her pussy or sharing a cock in our mouths. I would love to have a cock in my ass while my cock is in her. I'd like to feel my cock against another while both inside her pussy. I think I could suck cock great even though I've never tried. I love having my ass licked. I'm a big dude with a thick cock and my fantasy involves a boyish skinny male with a long slender cock. Anybody out there like to break me in feel free to message me.

mmm... sounds fun- I've always wanted to try something like that to
 
I am definately thinking I have become bi-curious. I love to crossdress and like watching crossdresser, shemale etc... type videos. I have recently also like to watch cr's or shemale with guys wishing and dreaming I was the cd, shemale. Up to now I have only tried my precum. After reading literotica forums I got up the nerve to try my full cum. Well today was the day I decided it was time. :D I dressed up in my favorite blouse, skirt, panties, thigh hi's and black heels. Sat down on my bed and began to jerk myself off. I have had those times before where I get close to cumming and stop but not in time and i cum but am still horny and hard. So I got to that point today and shot on my hand and licked it all off. Tasted just fine with no bad taste at all. Maybe because I had a ton of grapes yesterday (have read what you eat determines taste).

I have thoughts about being with another cd or guy but am afraid I will actually like it. Scared is a understatement.
 
I think I'm bi and I haven't even acted on it yet...

I've read this entire post for the most part and there are a lot of people here that share the same sentiments as I do, but without the available circumstances/fate/etc. I have yet to act on those feelings. I'd never been 'blessed' with the childhood friend that I could jerk off or suck/fuck with...I was a kid that liked girls and never knew about that other side.

Since I was in my preteen years, I'd been addicted to Penthouse Letters--my dad had a subscription and thought he was being sneaky where he hid them. Fake stories or real, it didn't matter to me since I was enrapt by the tales that were told. When I could afford to buy my own 'material' I ran back to PL, buying the bound versions of the letters they had out for awhile. A lot of stories about things I'd never heard of: enemas, anal self penetration of men, bisexuality (women & men), CDs, TVs, LPs (kidding). All kinds of things that drove me over the edge while masturbating.

I experimented with enemas when I was younger (after reading about them) with an e-bag my mom had. The first time I tried it was like a bolt of lightning that went straight to my cock--I came so hard and there was so much that I couldn't tell if I was cumming or pissing. From that point on it was all about my ass...I tried all kinds of stuff: fingers, pens, and other homemade dildoes. It didn't have to be that all the time, but whenever I knew I wanted to cum hard and I had the time to play, that was it. Eventually I'd use the wife's vibrator or g/f's dildo--nothing too terribly big, but it was enough to get me off in style.

Was I straight, gay, bi, kinky, demented? My brain ran the gamut. I'd always been worried about the stigma that was attached to what I was doing.

I'd often thought about another man, but it was nobody I knew--no actors, friends, strangers. Just a body with a hard cock that wanted to fuck me and that I wanted to fuck. Again the thoughts came at me: would it hurt, I get diseases, it be dirty, etc.? Plus like others have said here, I LOVE women. I look at a beautiful naked woman and I get hard. I really don't have the same type of feeling looking at a picture of a naked man. Always on a picture of a man, my eyes go to the cock and processes start about if I could handle it...never about...boy he sure is dreamy--I just want to cuddle. Whereas I could feel that way about a woman. Even kissing a man doesn't interest me...although in the throes of passion, I think that might change.

I think a turning point came for me very recently--about a week ago. I was extremely horny as I'm here all alone (my g/f is in CA) while I work some things and I came across a site from a Google search about (ha) enemas. They had a forum where they talked about all kinds of stuff and one of them was homemade dildoes. Fascinated, I started reading about what guys would use and some of them were enormous. I keyed in on one one--a yellow squash. As I thought about it, it was perfect and my mind was made that I was going to try this--and quickly.

To make a long story short...I picked out a couple of different sizes and fairly big one (about 5-6" around) and I realized that I was bound and determined to get that big one inside me. It took about an hour or so with some petroleum jelly, but it finally started to work its way in. I was seeing stars and it felt like nothing I've ever felt before with any other toy I'd used. As my ass muscles parted deep inside me it was almost literally like another door had opened for me sexually. As I pulled it out of me, I came in torrents and my body shook me to my core.

From that point on, I knew I was bi...although I hadn't had a man inside of me, I was now determined to do this. You could also say that I'm curious about giving head, but if you're gonna fuck my ass, the least I can do is suck your cock. ;)

I hope this wasn't too long, but I had to get it off my chest. Thanks for listening.
 
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I don't really have a confession, nor do I have a question. But I do have rambling thoughts to ramble about!

My sexual desire in men comes and goes (bad pun semi intended), though barring some mid-teen experiences with a friend I've never acted on them. Some people strive to define themselves by labels, but I've never really wanted to pick one. Bi? Pansexual? And a lot of other terms I'm probably not familiar with.

I'm happy being in love with women, but I'm also perfectly content with a physical desire for men (and if a girlfriend suggested a m/m/f, I'd probably go for it). The thing is, I'm not really bothered if I make them come true or not. So would the term 'straight' be applicable? I don't think so. Bi? Not really. And bi-curious suggests you actively want to see what it's like.

So, personally, I don't want to pick a label as none seem to fit.
 
My so far only bi-sexual experience happened at the beginning of this year while I was on a business trip in Denver. I had had a long day of meetings, followed by a client dinner. After finally getting rid of the clients, I went to my hotel bar for a night-cap. I always carry a pair of my wife's flimsy little panties with me whenever I am on a trip somewhere. I also have a few very erotic pictures of her on my 'phone.

I was halfway through my drink when a man sat down next to me at the bar. We started chatting - another "road warrior" - and soon were talking about our respective wives etc. I showed him a photo of Diana fully dressed and he told me that I had a very beautiful looking wife. I then picked one of the more erotic pictures, a photo showing her in just panties, the ones that I had in my pocket. He took a breath and said that Diana was so hot and I told him I agreed. I then pulled out my wife's panties and showed them to David. He put them to his mouth and I saw him lick the flimsy material with his tongue.

I said, in a low voice, would he like to come upstairs to my room and see the other pictures of Diana as well as an incredibly sexy video of her. Of course David immediately agreed. We entered my room and both sat on the side of the bed as I fired-up my lap-top and began to show him the photos. He still had my wife's panties in his hand and I could see that he was getting harder and harder. I took Diana's panties, looked at him and then got ont my knees in front of him. I unzipped his pants and his cock sprang out...hard....thick and longer than mine. I wrapped Diana's panties around the base of his cock and his balls and then took the tip of David's cock into my mouth.

He leaned back on the bed and I quickly pulled off his pants, underwear, shoes and socks.As he unbuttoned his shirt, I croached over him, gently rubbing Diana's panties over his body. I took his cock in my hand and stroked it while licking the tip. At the same time, I was telling him that I was getting himhard so that he could fuck my wife. He groaned in pleasure and said that he wanted to fuck her...that she obviously needed fucking all the time and that she obviously needed lots of cock.

I got up and started undressing as quickly as I can. David continued to lie there on the bed, playing with Diana's panties. Once I was naked, I resumed stroking and sucking David. He then said he wanted to taste my cock so I rolled around and we got into a 69 position, each of us taking the other's cocks in our mouths. I carresed his ass with my wife's panties and within aanother minute he came....violently...into my mouth and all over my face. The taste of his salty creamy cum was a suprise - a suprise that I found I actually enjoyed. As I continued to kiss and suck his cock, licking as much cum off it as I could, I felt myself on the verge of climax.

I told David that I was about to cum and he let me spray all over his face and chest. We turned to look at each other and began to smile. I gave him Diana's panties after we had cleaned up and dressed and we exchaned phone numbers etc. I have spoken to him a couple of times and we are planning to meet in September. I have also invited him to visit Diana and myself in October if he can. I have yet to tell my wife about this but if David firms up his visit, then I will tell her.
 
My so far only bi-sexual experience happened at the beginning of this year while I was on a business trip in Denver. I had had a long day of meetings, followed by a client dinner. After finally getting rid of the clients, I went to my hotel bar for a night-cap. I always carry a pair of my wife's flimsy little panties with me whenever I am on a trip somewhere. I also have a few very erotic pictures of her on my 'phone.

I was halfway through my drink when a man sat down next to me at the bar. We started chatting - another "road warrior" - and soon were talking about our respective wives etc. I showed him a photo of Diana fully dressed and he told me that I had a very beautiful looking wife. I then picked one of the more erotic pictures, a photo showing her in just panties, the ones that I had in my pocket. He took a breath and said that Diana was so hot and I told him I agreed. I then pulled out my wife's panties and showed them to David. He put them to his mouth and I saw him lick the flimsy material with his tongue.

I said, in a low voice, would he like to come upstairs to my room and see the other pictures of Diana as well as an incredibly sexy video of her. Of course David immediately agreed. We entered my room and both sat on the side of the bed as I fired-up my lap-top and began to show him the photos. He still had my wife's panties in his hand and I could see that he was getting harder and harder. I took Diana's panties, looked at him and then got ont my knees in front of him. I unzipped his pants and his cock sprang out...hard....thick and longer than mine. I wrapped Diana's panties around the base of his cock and his balls and then took the tip of David's cock into my mouth.

He leaned back on the bed and I quickly pulled off his pants, underwear, shoes and socks.As he unbuttoned his shirt, I croached over him, gently rubbing Diana's panties over his body. I took his cock in my hand and stroked it while licking the tip. At the same time, I was telling him that I was getting himhard so that he could fuck my wife. He groaned in pleasure and said that he wanted to fuck her...that she obviously needed fucking all the time and that she obviously needed lots of cock.

I got up and started undressing as quickly as I can. David continued to lie there on the bed, playing with Diana's panties. Once I was naked, I resumed stroking and sucking David. He then said he wanted to taste my cock so I rolled around and we got into a 69 position, each of us taking the other's cocks in our mouths. I carresed his ass with my wife's panties and within aanother minute he came....violently...into my mouth and all over my face. The taste of his salty creamy cum was a suprise - a suprise that I found I actually enjoyed. As I continued to kiss and suck his cock, licking as much cum off it as I could, I felt myself on the verge of climax.

I told David that I was about to cum and he let me spray all over his face and chest. We turned to look at each other and began to smile. I gave him Diana's panties after we had cleaned up and dressed and we exchaned phone numbers etc. I have spoken to him a couple of times and we are planning to meet in September. I have also invited him to visit Diana and myself in October if he can. I have yet to tell my wife about this but if David firms up his visit, then I will tell her.

Thanx for the hot visual...:devil:
 
My so far only bi-sexual experience happened at the beginning of this year while I was on a business trip in Denver. I had had a long day of meetings, followed by a client dinner. After finally getting rid of the clients, I went to my hotel bar for a night-cap. I always carry a pair of my wife's flimsy little panties with me whenever I am on a trip somewhere. I also have a few very erotic pictures of her on my 'phone.

I was halfway through my drink when a man sat down next to me at the bar. We started chatting - another "road warrior" - and soon were talking about our respective wives etc. I showed him a photo of Diana fully dressed and he told me that I had a very beautiful looking wife. I then picked one of the more erotic pictures, a photo showing her in just panties, the ones that I had in my pocket. He took a breath and said that Diana was so hot and I told him I agreed. I then pulled out my wife's panties and showed them to David. He put them to his mouth and I saw him lick the flimsy material with his tongue.

I said, in a low voice, would he like to come upstairs to my room and see the other pictures of Diana as well as an incredibly sexy video of her. Of course David immediately agreed. We entered my room and both sat on the side of the bed as I fired-up my lap-top and began to show him the photos. He still had my wife's panties in his hand and I could see that he was getting harder and harder. I took Diana's panties, looked at him and then got ont my knees in front of him. I unzipped his pants and his cock sprang out...hard....thick and longer than mine. I wrapped Diana's panties around the base of his cock and his balls and then took the tip of David's cock into my mouth.

He leaned back on the bed and I quickly pulled off his pants, underwear, shoes and socks.As he unbuttoned his shirt, I croached over him, gently rubbing Diana's panties over his body. I took his cock in my hand and stroked it while licking the tip. At the same time, I was telling him that I was getting himhard so that he could fuck my wife. He groaned in pleasure and said that he wanted to fuck her...that she obviously needed fucking all the time and that she obviously needed lots of cock.

I got up and started undressing as quickly as I can. David continued to lie there on the bed, playing with Diana's panties. Once I was naked, I resumed stroking and sucking David. He then said he wanted to taste my cock so I rolled around and we got into a 69 position, each of us taking the other's cocks in our mouths. I carresed his ass with my wife's panties and within aanother minute he came....violently...into my mouth and all over my face. The taste of his salty creamy cum was a suprise - a suprise that I found I actually enjoyed. As I continued to kiss and suck his cock, licking as much cum off it as I could, I felt myself on the verge of climax.

I told David that I was about to cum and he let me spray all over his face and chest. We turned to look at each other and began to smile. I gave him Diana's panties after we had cleaned up and dressed and we exchaned phone numbers etc. I have spoken to him a couple of times and we are planning to meet in September. I have also invited him to visit Diana and myself in October if he can. I have yet to tell my wife about this but if David firms up his visit, then I will tell her.


Got me instantly hard ---- Thaks!
 
My so far only bi-sexual experience happened at the beginning of this year while I was on a business trip in Denver. I had had a long day of meetings, followed by a client dinner. After finally getting rid of the clients, I went to my hotel bar for a night-cap. I always carry a pair of my wife's flimsy little panties with me whenever I am on a trip somewhere. I also have a few very erotic pictures of her on my 'phone.

I was halfway through my drink when a man sat down next to me at the bar. We started chatting - another "road warrior" - and soon were talking about our respective wives etc. I showed him a photo of Diana fully dressed and he told me that I had a very beautiful looking wife. I then picked one of the more erotic pictures, a photo showing her in just panties, the ones that I had in my pocket. He took a breath and said that Diana was so hot and I told him I agreed. I then pulled out my wife's panties and showed them to David. He put them to his mouth and I saw him lick the flimsy material with his tongue.

I said, in a low voice, would he like to come upstairs to my room and see the other pictures of Diana as well as an incredibly sexy video of her. Of course David immediately agreed. We entered my room and both sat on the side of the bed as I fired-up my lap-top and began to show him the photos. He still had my wife's panties in his hand and I could see that he was getting harder and harder. I took Diana's panties, looked at him and then got ont my knees in front of him. I unzipped his pants and his cock sprang out...hard....thick and longer than mine. I wrapped Diana's panties around the base of his cock and his balls and then took the tip of David's cock into my mouth.

He leaned back on the bed and I quickly pulled off his pants, underwear, shoes and socks.As he unbuttoned his shirt, I croached over him, gently rubbing Diana's panties over his body. I took his cock in my hand and stroked it while licking the tip. At the same time, I was telling him that I was getting himhard so that he could fuck my wife. He groaned in pleasure and said that he wanted to fuck her...that she obviously needed fucking all the time and that she obviously needed lots of cock.

I got up and started undressing as quickly as I can. David continued to lie there on the bed, playing with Diana's panties. Once I was naked, I resumed stroking and sucking David. He then said he wanted to taste my cock so I rolled around and we got into a 69 position, each of us taking the other's cocks in our mouths. I carresed his ass with my wife's panties and within aanother minute he came....violently...into my mouth and all over my face. The taste of his salty creamy cum was a suprise - a suprise that I found I actually enjoyed. As I continued to kiss and suck his cock, licking as much cum off it as I could, I felt myself on the verge of climax.

I told David that I was about to cum and he let me spray all over his face and chest. We turned to look at each other and began to smile. I gave him Diana's panties after we had cleaned up and dressed and we exchaned phone numbers etc. I have spoken to him a couple of times and we are planning to meet in September. I have also invited him to visit Diana and myself in October if he can. I have yet to tell my wife about this but if David firms up his visit, then I will tell her.

very cool
 
I don't really have a confession, nor do I have a question. But I do have rambling thoughts to ramble about!

My sexual desire in men comes and goes (bad pun semi intended), though barring some mid-teen experiences with a friend I've never acted on them. Some people strive to define themselves by labels, but I've never really wanted to pick one. Bi? Pansexual? And a lot of other terms I'm probably not familiar with.

I'm happy being in love with women, but I'm also perfectly content with a physical desire for men (and if a girlfriend suggested a m/m/f, I'd probably go for it). The thing is, I'm not really bothered if I make them come true or not. So would the term 'straight' be applicable? I don't think so. Bi? Not really. And bi-curious suggests you actively want to see what it's like.

So, personally, I don't want to pick a label as none seem to fit.

mmmmm kinda know what ya mean i think,,personally id say i never fancied a guy or any male even but would love to have a cock to play with both of us ,,,cant imagine kissing a guy even and in fantasy guys dont even have a face
 
But kissing's an intensely erotic thing, so I've no problem with that. Be it between me and a partner, two women, or two guys - it's all good.
 
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