HOW TO TELL...if you're a bi-curious man!

[martinfs]

you sound like me

wish i was in oz

 

[priapusone]

Hmmm, i guess so!

 

[uboat1]

I have known I have been Bi for sometime but I dont know how much?!?

I want to research and try new experiences but I am having a difficult time locating someone I can trust and enjoy being around.

I guess, I am looking in all the wrong places

 

[ardee1948]

I have known I have been Bi for sometime but I dont know how much?!?

I want to research and try new experiences but I am having a difficult time locating someone I can trust and enjoy being around.

I guess, I am looking in all the wrong places

Me too, I think. looking for someone with little or no experience that could be discreet. But peep shows and movie houses not the place for me.

 

[uboat1]

Me too, I think. looking for someone with little or no experience that could be discreet. But peep shows and movie houses not the place for me.

I agree with you. I have been invited to peep shows etc and even a bath house. That is just a little over the top for me.

I have lived in the "straight" subburbs for too long. I am sure a friend or 2 I have are bi but how do you tell. If you make a mistake it could become very messy...lol...in a bad way.

 

[fungent1103]

fantasy is half of it

Hi there, I have been bi for about 5 years now. It did all start when I noticed myself thinking about other men and their bodies. This usually happens when I"m horny. Lately I've been horny all the time. I think I would rather have sex with women for sure but have had some satisfying man to man sex too.
Lately as in today, I was at the gym and checking out the women and noticed a couple of guys too. So I guess I would have to say for me it is just being comfortable with your sexuality.

Like I don't know what to say to a guy, A regular conversation would be so erotic.

 

[Majicone1]

I sucked my first cock last night.. So I think I'm passed the "curious" part.. As soon as I was done the only thing I could think about was how much I wanted a guy to fuck my ass and take my anal cherry.. I spent the rest of the night jerking off and fingering myself! INTENSE!

I live in Oklahoma city and would like to take your cherry and see what else we might want to try. I would love to hear from you.

 

[priapusone]

me too!

 

[Trysten]

Damned Confused but Pretty Damned Sure

I feel kinda bad responding to a thread like this. I think I'm a person who's really accepting of whatever someone does with themself. Seriously, i'm pro gay marriage, pro living the life you want, and all that jazz.

That said, however, I can't understand a middle ground between straight and gay dudes. The whole bi thing is baffling to me.

I'm straight man, and the thought of a being with a dude is as far from arousing as possible. I'm not ashamed to admit that and I don't think it shows I'm the extreme on one side of the "sexuality cross section."

I don't think it's a sheltered upbringing (because I've had gay friends for a while) or where I'm from (even though it's typically moderately conservative). It's just that there is a perfectly amazing option right here for us...and by that I mean ladies.

i don't want to stir up a fuss, but I'm sure I will. I just wanted to say this: if you think you're bi, you're probably more gay than straight.

 

[SilkyDave]

I feel kinda bad responding to a thread like this. I think I'm a person who's really accepting of whatever someone does with themself. Seriously, i'm pro gay marriage, pro living the life you want, and all that jazz.

That said, however, I can't understand a middle ground between straight and gay dudes. The whole bi thing is baffling to me.

I'm straight man, and the thought of a being with a dude is as far from arousing as possible. I'm not ashamed to admit that and I don't think it shows I'm the extreme on one side of the "sexuality cross section."

I don't think it's a sheltered upbringing (because I've had gay friends for a while) or where I'm from (even though it's typically moderately conservative). It's just that there is a perfectly amazing option right here for us...and by that I mean ladies.

i don't want to stir up a fuss, but I'm sure I will. I just wanted to say this: if you think you're bi, you're probably more gay than straight.

well well, another expert....human sexuality is far more diverse and complicated than gay or straight. There are numerous facets that have been scientifically studied that fall somewhere between gay and straight and there are studies by Kinsey and Epstein that clearly state that although there are people who are strictly straight or strictly gay, a vast number of people fall into different levels of bi-sexuality. Your simplistic notion is just that my good man, so open your mind and in my experience I have found that those who are so intolerant of bi-sexuality usually are in fact trying to hide the fact that they are are questioning their own sexuality. So that being said, embrace the idea and open your mind to the vast possibilities that exist for the very sexual human. I hope you enjoy the exploration and find peace of mind and peace of mind as well, spewing such anger, hate, and intolerance must be exhausting. I wish you well.

 

[Somehowyou]

I feel kinda bad responding to a thread like this. I think I'm a person who's really accepting of whatever someone does with themself. Seriously, i'm pro gay marriage, pro living the life you want, and all that jazz.

That said, however, I can't understand a middle ground between straight and gay dudes. The whole bi thing is baffling to me.

I'm straight man, and the thought of a being with a dude is as far from arousing as possible. I'm not ashamed to admit that and I don't think it shows I'm the extreme on one side of the "sexuality cross section."

I don't think it's a sheltered upbringing (because I've had gay friends for a while) or where I'm from (even though it's typically moderately conservative). It's just that there is a perfectly amazing option right here for us...and by that I mean ladies.

i don't want to stir up a fuss, but I'm sure I will. I just wanted to say this: if you think you're bi, you're probably more gay than straight.

Of course this is your opinion and I do not feel any hate coming from you. Me? I am not attracted to men. I have often fantasized about shemales however. I am not atttracted to men what so ever. But I do think that a beautiful woman with a cock is the ultimate in kinkyness. What does this make me? I have acted on this urge a few times now. I do like the mutual cock sucking, I do not like being penetrated. I like intercourse but it feels no different than a pussy to me (I couldn't tell the difference). What I do not like is that with a few of the TSTVs that I have been with something is wrong. Their heads are often too big reminding me that they are/where men or they will have no boobs (put that bra back on) . Yuck!

I saw a beautiful shemale once that was 99.9% passable. We had a great session. After I went to a gay dance club. One young guy approached me and he was very nice but there was 0 attraction. There were a couple of TS gurls there I tried to talk to and then I saw a young girl and I couldn't take my eyes off her. She was so lovely and beautiful I had to seek her out. We talked for awhile and I gave her a hug and said she was the most desireable thing i have ever seen and she said "but your gay?" I said no I am not (I didn't tell her that I was there as an experiement...to see if I was atracted to any other men because i am attracted to TS gurls.) I guess sexuality is complicated. I don't understand me.

 

[CandiCame]

What's wrong with having one thread out in all of cyberspace to get a little self assurance?

I don't know where you're from, but out here in the styx... You don't get anything... And having the label doesn't really help-at all! Sometimes it's just good to hear people say, "Holy fuck, me to!"

 

[sandm321]

Once you get turned on by looking at guys cocks. Then I guess you are playing for 2 teams. Or maybe just the other?

 

[I_LIKE_PEAS]

Of course this is your opinion and I do not feel any hate coming from you. Me? I am not attracted to men. I have often fantasized about shemales however. I am not atttracted to men what so ever. But I do think that a beautiful woman with a cock is the ultimate in kinkyness. What does this make me? I have acted on this urge a few times now. I do like the mutual cock sucking, I do not like being penetrated. I like intercourse but it feels no different than a pussy to me (I couldn't tell the difference). What I do not like is that with a few of the TSTVs that I have been with something is wrong. Their heads are often too big reminding me that they are/where men or they will have no boobs (put that bra back on) . Yuck!

I saw a beautiful shemale once that was 99.9% passable. We had a great session. After I went to a gay dance club. One young guy approached me and he was very nice but there was 0 attraction. There were a couple of TS gurls there I tried to talk to and then I saw a young girl and I couldn't take my eyes off her. She was so lovely and beautiful I had to seek her out. We talked for awhile and I gave her a hug and said she was the most desireable thing i have ever seen and she said "but your gay?" I said no I am not (I didn't tell her that I was there as an experiement...to see if I was atracted to any other men because i am attracted to TS gurls.) I guess sexuality is complicated. I don't understand me.

Some of the most passable IMO are Asian

 

[frogger_28542]

I have been bi for the better part of 7 years. It is an enormous weight on my shoulders that seems almost un-natural. However, when I am with a man, (10) so far, it is one of the most natural things, just like being with a woman. I can not describe it, nor explain it, and have come to accept and love this part of me. This part of me i can not, will not, and refuse to repress. I can only say that we only have a short time to live, love, and enjoy life however and with whomever we want. Judgements and perception will disappear, and when that does; will you be whole as a person? I know I will. Go FLORIDA!!

Darren

 

[CandiCame]

I feel kinda bad responding to a thread like this. I think I'm a person who's really accepting of whatever someone does with themself. Seriously, i'm pro gay marriage, pro living the life you want, and all that jazz.

That said, however, I can't understand a middle ground between straight and gay dudes. The whole bi thing is baffling to me.

I'm straight man, and the thought of a being with a dude is as far from arousing as possible. I'm not ashamed to admit that and I don't think it shows I'm the extreme on one side of the "sexuality cross section."

I don't think it's a sheltered upbringing (because I've had gay friends for a while) or where I'm from (even though it's typically moderately conservative). It's just that there is a perfectly amazing option right here for us...and by that I mean ladies.

i don't want to stir up a fuss, but I'm sure I will. I just wanted to say this: if you think you're bi, you're probably more gay than straight.

Yeah, that's probably because you're strait.
Now, imagine if you still felt that way about ladies, but also liked guys. That's where I'm coming from. I really don't think I'm gay because I feel the same way about chicks that you do-
But the whole, "dudes are as far from arousing as possible" thing, I'm not with you there. I'd totally pretend to be in RL, but we're coming from two different pages- but they're in the same book. You can totally be into chicks and dudes. Don't know if that helps with the confusion- took me a couple of months to get it myself- still don't really. But there's a lot of that whole, "am I gay/am I strait" thing. Yes. Yes to both. I guess that's what bisexuality means. Still pretty baffling to me to, bro.

But, well, whatcha gonna do?

 

[legend57]

just now becoming curious about being bi...i would love to talk to some of you for guidance and help...pm me

 

[partsecond]

i guess the fact that i have a lit. screen name and I frequent this forum might make me bi curious

Uh, yeah... Same here.

 

[iwpf]

i guess the fact that i fantasize about men often while masturbating, that i've given a guy a hand job, i've sucked two guys cocks, i've had two guys suck my cock, and have been fucked in the ass once by a guy probably all points to the fact that i'm bisexual. my first preference is to eat pussy and fuck a woman (prefer my wife but she'd not into sex anymore) and 69 with her. but, as i'm in a 'dry spell' with her i've been exploring my bi-side. pussy is first in line but i'm happy to play with cock, too!

 

[txboyalone]

I have always know I was bi and have been active with other men for some years now one of my fantasies has always been to get gang banged in a sling.

I was in San Antonio last week at a conference. Before going I made contact with an older group of guys who get together for some man to man play. I managed to wrangle and invitations to this group at an afternoon get together.

When I got there I introduced myself. The host said I could put my clothing in the front bedroom in one of the paper bags that they provided and to be careful that someone didn't take my shoes by mistake. Sounds like that had happened before. I handed over my $5.00 to help pay for refreshments and went in search of the changing room.

This wasn't my first time at one of these gatherings so I was anticipating a good time, but you never know who you will meet. The group was made up of mostly 40 to 60 year old men, I counted at one point about 12, but they were spread out around the house so it was hard to tell.

After getting undressed I ventured down the halls to one of the bedrooms where guys were trading blow jobs and one fellow was by himself, so I ask if I could have a taste. We had a pretty good time in man play and then the room kind of turned over so I when to get a drink.

The scene was kind of hot with guys kissing and rubbing on each other while others discussed the day's events. I wondered down the hall and one of the bedrooms didn't have any furniture in it but just a sling hanging from a mirrored ceiling. Now this was interesting and I had always fantasized about being in one of these. I am more of a versatile top so the idea of being a bottom in a sling was kind of interesting and exciting. Mainly I think I am a top because I don't like giving up control.

While inspecting it Roger the first guys I had meet came into the room and said, "Mark, why don't you give it a try?" I said will you stay close so it doesn't get to wild and make sure everyone uses a condom on, that is if anyone is interested in my old butt! What the hell, I felt safe with this group of guys and really wasn't sure anyone would want to take a poke so to speak, but decided to see.

Roger helped me get in and get my legs in the stur-ups and I hung there looking at myself in the mirrors on the ceiling and for some reason began to get increasingly harder. All of a sudden I had this teenage dick between my legs.

Roger started applying lube to my hole and had three fingers in me before I knew what was happening he said, "Can I fuck you?" Roger was about 6.5" and he put on a condom lubed it up and eased it in. It didn't take him long to get going strong and as any of you know if you have done anal there just isn't any way to describe that incredibly full feeling that comes with a good fuck. I could tell that Roger was having fun and every time he would get close he would ease off. I also began to notice that we had drawn a crowded of 4 or 5 guys. I was being offered dick to suck and guys were rubbing my chest and nipples and sucking on my dick that was standing up proud.

Roger finally pulled out and shot all over my dick and balls, but before I knew it another guy had taken his place. This fellow was about 8 inches and had some girth on his pecker. He eased in and went slow until I adjusted to him and then he picked up speed. He had done this before and keep changing angles until he hit that magic spot. OH NO, it wasn't going to be long before I was going to cum and my whole body begin to vibrate with the feeling of him pounding me. I didn't last long and because I knew I was going over the edge I would clamp down on his dick every time he changed directions to pull out.

Sure enough I came and came all over my chest as he filled the reservoir of that rubber. All in all three more guys topped me and Roger was there to help me get out of the sling. It was with shaking legs I cleaned up and got dressed. A very satisfied bottom. AS I was leaving the host said we don't normally let guys come to these from out of town, but I am sure happy we let you. Come back any time.

Check off one more item from by Bucket List of things to do. I have to say I would love to do that again bare bottom but that is not likely to happen in this lifetime.

 

[frogger_28542]

When you love feeling a dick get hard in your mouth and sucking it off until they cum in your mouth and you swallow every drop

 

[iwpf]

hell yeah

...when you're fantasizing about sucking the dick of everyone who's posting on lit (and licking pussy, too). aaaaah, if i could just reach out through the computer screen and service all of you. mmmmmmmmm

 

[claymaker]

iwpf,

I can't seem to PM you. email me claymaker30 at gmail. Let's talk about your proposition.

 

[uboat1]

When you love feeling a dick get hard in your mouth and sucking it off until they cum in your mouth and you swallow every drop

That is something I want to try! I bet that is a great feeling.

 

[michaelinteas]

I have always know I was bi and have been active with other men for some years now one of my fantasies has always been to get gang banged in a sling.

I was in San Antonio last week at a conference. Before going I made contact with an older group of guys who get together for some man to man play. I managed to wrangle and invitations to this group at an afternoon get together.

When I got there I introduced myself. The host said I could put my clothing in the front bedroom in one of the paper bags that they provided and to be careful that someone didn't take my shoes by mistake. Sounds like that had happened before. I handed over my $5.00 to help pay for refreshments and went in search of the changing room.

This wasn't my first time at one of these gatherings so I was anticipating a good time, but you never know who you will meet. The group was made up of mostly 40 to 60 year old men, I counted at one point about 12, but they were spread out around the house so it was hard to tell.

After getting undressed I ventured down the halls to one of the bedrooms where guys were trading blow jobs and one fellow was by himself, so I ask if I could have a taste. We had a pretty good time in man play and then the room kind of turned over so I when to get a drink.

The scene was kind of hot with guys kissing and rubbing on each other while others discussed the day's events. I wondered down the hall and one of the bedrooms didn't have any furniture in it but just a sling hanging from a mirrored ceiling. Now this was interesting and I had always fantasized about being in one of these. I am more of a versatile top so the idea of being a bottom in a sling was kind of interesting and exciting. Mainly I think I am a top because I don't like giving up control.

While inspecting it Roger the first guys I had meet came into the room and said, "Mark, why don't you give it a try?" I said will you stay close so it doesn't get to wild and make sure everyone uses a condom on, that is if anyone is interested in my old butt! What the hell, I felt safe with this group of guys and really wasn't sure anyone would want to take a poke so to speak, but decided to see.

Roger helped me get in and get my legs in the stur-ups and I hung there looking at myself in the mirrors on the ceiling and for some reason began to get increasingly harder. All of a sudden I had this teenage dick between my legs.

Roger started applying lube to my hole and had three fingers in me before I knew what was happening he said, "Can I fuck you?" Roger was about 6.5" and he put on a condom lubed it up and eased it in. It didn't take him long to get going strong and as any of you know if you have done anal there just isn't any way to describe that incredibly full feeling that comes with a good fuck. I could tell that Roger was having fun and every time he would get close he would ease off. I also began to notice that we had drawn a crowded of 4 or 5 guys. I was being offered dick to suck and guys were rubbing my chest and nipples and sucking on my dick that was standing up proud.

Roger finally pulled out and shot all over my dick and balls, but before I knew it another guy had taken his place. This fellow was about 8 inches and had some girth on his pecker. He eased in and went slow until I adjusted to him and then he picked up speed. He had done this before and keep changing angles until he hit that magic spot. OH NO, it wasn't going to be long before I was going to cum and my whole body begin to vibrate with the feeling of him pounding me. I didn't last long and because I knew I was going over the edge I would clamp down on his dick every time he changed directions to pull out.

Sure enough I came and came all over my chest as he filled the reservoir of that rubber. All in all three more guys topped me and Roger was there to help me get out of the sling. It was with shaking legs I cleaned up and got dressed. A very satisfied bottom. AS I was leaving the host said we don't normally let guys come to these from out of town, but I am sure happy we let you. Come back any time.

Check off one more item from by Bucket List of things to do. I have to say I would love to do that again bare bottom but that is not likely to happen in this lifetime.

You my friend are a lucky man

I got very hard reading your tale. And a little jealous too