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WannabeMontrealSlut said:
My opinion is that many people like humiliation but to a small degree. Being called a slut by a lover, being told to touch yourself or spread wide, etc.

People often associate humiliation with very degrading things but one can like drops of humiliation and not be interested in heavy degradation.

Nothing is just black or white.
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I completely agree with this^. Well said. I also believe humiliation is not confined to the Dom/Domme-sub play. Anyone can do humiliation especially since there are so many levels of it.

ES
 
eroticspank said:
I completely agree with this^. Well said. I also believe humiliation is not confined to the Dom/Domme-sub play. Anyone can do humiliation especially since there are so many levels of it.

ES
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I appreciate your point eroticspank. Granted, humiliation in a global sense can be found anywhere in varying degrees... May be smaller amounts of humiliation equals embarrassment?

Therefore you can find it in the workplace, in education, in sports, etc. That said, while humiliation is out there, its never going to be pleasurable IMHO. However, when its served up with relish by a beautiful Dom in the heat of the moment, its probably the most pleasurable it'll ever be, at least to a lowly sub like me.
 
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For me, humiliation is an integral and inseparable component of sexual arousal and eroticism. As a lifelong cocksucker, due to the stigma attached to the act, my passion for performing oral sex on other men has always been associated with the risk of discovery, exposure and the ensuing embarrassment. In the beginning, when I first began giving blowjobs to my best teenage friend, my emotions would vacillate back and forth between the two extremes, on the one hand, of uncontrollable lust to be on my knees, having his thick cock being savagely and repeatedly forced down my throat, and on the other hand, to intense regret and embarrassment for having allowed him to "use" me in this degrading and shameful manner. Each of the opposing emotional episodes would be predictably followed by it's reciprocal until the two extremes would merge into one and I would look forward to feeling humiliated as a precursor to the emotional ecstasy that I knew was imminent associated with my oral subjugation. He would threaten to tell our friends I was his cocksucker and I'd have to blow them also. I would masturbate while imagining myself on my knees at the head of a line of our friends, sucking cock after cock as the others stood around, joking and laughing at me as they waited to take their turn fucking my willing mouth. I like feeling humiliated.
 
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Justplatonic said:
I appreciate your point eroticspank. Granted, humiliation in a global sense can be found anywhere in varying degrees... May be smaller amounts of humiliation equals embarrassment?

Therefore you can find it in the workplace, in education, in sports, etc. That said, while humiliation is out there, its never going to be pleasurable IMHO. However, when its served up with relish by a beautiful Dom in the heat of the moment, its probably the most pleasurable it'll ever be, at least to a lowly sub like me.
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I get it and agree. The key is who does the humiliation, how it is done, and how the person takes it. All of this stuff is just in our heads.

ES
 
Hi...im a little dicked bi submissive mwm...SPH always gets me hard...being dominated...put into panties.all of it gets me verrry hot for cock
 
Re: Humiliation

Honestly, it's hard to say if it is my "primary" fetish or not, but humiliation and degradation really get me going a lot. Like, it is my "zero to sixty". ;) Instant horniness! Especially if something degrading/vulgar is whispered into my ear in a throaty, harsh tone in public. I melt!
 
Humiliation/degradation is DEFINITELY my thing. Choking, spanking... some of the really rough scenes online really get me going. Being called a filthy little.... whatever, is the BIGGEST turn on.

I'm not really sure what drives it - perhaps just an attention thing, I'm not sure. But as a sub it's the greatest.
 
not hard core

i just want my tiny penis played with, teased a little, and showed off to a couple of women. i'll happily cum.
 
For me, getting someone to humiliate themselves a bit

and then pushing that line or boundary works well.
 
Sexysuperslut said:
To go back to the original post - NO, you are most certainly not alone. I discovered very early on in my sexual life that the majority of men - at that time while I was at university - love to humiliate a willing woman. The more I discovered this the more I wanted to be used, abused, humiliated and degraded as I could see what a turn on it was for the guys with me. They became rock hard much quicker and more often than when just plain sex was on offer! As time went on, right up to the present, I became aware in my own thoughts and sexual excitement that I craved such actions more than sex itself!
I now consider a good dose of some type of humiliation an absolute must in and Gangbang event I take part in and the contents of this are usually agreed upon beforehand. It gets me wet and the guys hard. That must be a win win situation?
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Sounds like a win win to me
 
I would not say humiliation is my primary fetish. I don’t think thing in our private life are humiliating. But when if it involves something that could move outside our private setting (picture, of video clip) it gives me sensation of humiliation that’s erotic and I’d say terrifying at the same time.
 
The humiliation of being "outed" and everyone becoming aware that I'm a Cocksucker is one of my biggest turn-ons.
 
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I would never want to be "outed" as there would be hugely negative consequences for my professional and personal life outside of the intimacy. But in private, or (especially) with one (or more) of Her lovers... in the right scenario it would be HOT! Taking photos, so long as they are not posted anywhere, would be hot, although the key is, as long as there is trust that they won't be shared or posted...

The problem with public humiliation is it exposes other people around you to your intimate private life, who may not particularly WANT to be exposed to your and your intimate private life.
 
PaxNurgle said:
I would never want to be "outed" as there would be hugely negative consequences for my professional and personal life outside of the intimacy. But in private, or (especially) with one (or more) of Her lovers... in the right scenario it would be HOT! Taking photos, so long as they are not posted anywhere, would be hot, although the key is, as long as there is trust that they won't be shared or posted...

The problem with public humiliation is it exposes other people around you to your intimate private life, who may not particularly WANT to be exposed to your and your intimate private life.
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That is a very good point. Not everybody wants to know. I know that it’s only certain people that my wife if friends with knows and of course the people who work at the toy store.

There another side to it though. We’ve (by we I mean her) had issues. It has happened a couple of her friend though. They thought that since we are kinky people that anything goes. Which isn’t the case. She shouldn’t approached us but it was my wife’s fault. Unfortunately it wasn’t a lesion learned.
 
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PaxNurgle said:
I would never want to be "outed" as there would be hugely negative consequences for my professional and personal life outside of the intimacy. But in private, or (especially) with one (or more) of Her lovers... in the right scenario it would be HOT! Taking photos, so long as they are not posted anywhere, would be hot, although the key is, as long as there is trust that they won't be shared or posted...

The problem with public humiliation is it exposes other people around you to your intimate private life, who may not particularly WANT to be exposed to your and your intimate private life.
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Agree... still very arousing to fantasize.. in an alternate world where everyone is truly anonymous, no inhibitions and no consequences.. and all our sexual desires/kinks/fetishes are possible...
and no “society norms”
The possibilities are endless...
 
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