I'm having a lesbian affair...with a married woman

[LaotianLass]

I don't know what to think or what to do.

I feel like she will talk to him and work something out. Maybe that's naive. But i have to give her a chance to figure this out.

 

[LaotianLass]

This isn't going to end well

Probably not.

I don't know what i csn do differently. I love her desperately. I am a slave to my desire and passion for her.

 

[LaotianLass]

It is a very tangled web that only time will tell the outcome.

Yes. I'm afraid so.

I wish i had more strength and ability to control this.

But i don't.

 

[Michael_Keaton]

You did the right thing by letting her in, even if the evening hadn't ended the way it did. Nothing is accomplished by shutting someone whom you care about out of your life. Be patient. Whether it works its way out the way you want it to or not, this is going to take some time to work itself out. In the meantime take some time to think logically about the possible outcomes and try to prepare yourself for either outcome.

 

[MiaDani80]

Lass,

For better or worse, your affair brought a whole host of issues out into the open for your lover and her husband.

It might have been better in the short term to keep it all secret but this was likely inevitable.

I know the emotional roller coaster is tiring and exhausting but I think you have two options...jump on, quench your passion and know that it's going to be an unpredictable journey or jump fully off.

Dont think there is any in between.

We're all rooting for you and your happiness.