Is Romance Important to You or Is it All About the sex?

[cbo1234]

I'm with you 90% The first paragraph is a no brainer. I certainly have had some nice sex because we both needed it, but it feels a bit empty on any continuing basis unless I make a connection.

I agree with this as well.
For it to be an ongoing activity, some connection has to be made that is just beyond - Hey, I like your body.

 

[sixfoot4]

As, not getting it at home, and wanting a quick in and out, it's the sex, cos any romance, there'll be no out.

 

[TallGlassOfSarcasm]

It depends on the situation. For me as long as both people are on the same page it doesn't matter which page that is.

If I am romantically into her and she is just in it for the sex, it makes me sad. What I really want isn't happening

If she is romantically into me and I just want sex, I can't do it. It feels exploitative and is giving her false hope for something I don't want. I can't do that.

If we are both romantically interested the sex is an amazing connection of our souls (I should write greeting cards. There is a severe lack of "Thanks for showing your love through boning" cards on the Hallmark rack)

If neither of us has romantic interests and we are both just in it for the sex.... holy fuck buckle your seat belts. We're about to go next level crazy and make some stories that'll make even Lit blush

 

[mynameisben]

Of course, romance is important to me! That's why I always ask, "What's your name again, hon?" before I blow my load all over her face.


Ben

 

[TallGlassOfSarcasm]

Of course, romance is important to me! That's why I always ask, "What's your name again, hon?" before I blow my load all over her face.


Ben

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So beautiful.

 

[Sexy_Singer]

Yes that would definitely go a long way ....

 

[Lady2020]

One thing I find unromantic is rushing an OL sex session through. Wtf is the rush. You got a line waiting in the wings?

 

[Azuldrgon]

for me they are intrinsically linked and I cannot have sex without a helping of the auld romance.

Yup, I am a big softie

This is exactly the answer for me most of the time.

 

[Diosax]

Yes romance is important if I like the person and I want a relationship with them. But if is a casual thing then I don't need it, in fact I prefer not to.

 

[YoWhatsGood]

Yes romance is important if I like the person and I want a relationship with them. But if is a casual thing then I don't need it, in fact I prefer not to.

Exactly right, sometimes you just want to close your eyes and thrust until you collapse

 

[Diosax]

Exactly right, sometimes you just want to close your eyes and thrust until you collapse

So romantic lol

 

[YoWhatsGood]

So romantic lol

It's not supposed to be romantic, that's the point Dio!!!

 

[Diosax]

It's not supposed to be romantic, that's the point Dio!!!

Shhh don't kill the vibe!!!

 

[aussiegeekygal]

It depends on the situation. For me as long as both people are on the same page it doesn't matter which page that is.

If I am romantically into her and she is just in it for the sex, it makes me sad. What I really want isn't happening

If she is romantically into me and I just want sex, I can't do it. It feels exploitative and is giving her false hope for something I don't want. I can't do that.

If we are both romantically interested the sex is an amazing connection of our souls (I should write greeting cards. There is a severe lack of "Thanks for showing your love through boning" cards on the Hallmark rack)

If neither of us has romantic interests and we are both just in it for the sex.... holy fuck buckle your seat belts. We're about to go next level crazy and make some stories that'll make even Lit blush

https://imgur.com/PochNuk

 

[TallGlassOfSarcasm]

https://imgur.com/PochNuk

 

[Shenanigans90]

I prefer the flirting/romance to build the intensity in online relationships.

 

[Sexy_Singer]

Good Morning, Everyone ⚘

 

[Sexy_Singer]

Yes that would definitely go a long way ....

Do you like spaghetti?

 

[jeff_is_smiling]

I don't know if women consider it as romantic, but I am a "toucher." I naturally want to gently and lightly stroke arms, back, shoulders, hands - when in public. I love feeling hair as I stroke her head and then slip my fingers in it. It's all about sensual and pleasurable touching for me.

 

[Sexy_Singer]

Whether for romance or just sex, what kind of music do you prefer? Or, do you prefer no music at all?

 

[Strixaluco]

Whether for romance or just sex, what kind of music do you prefer? Or, do you prefer no music at all?

Something calm and relaxing.

Chris Rea, Il Divo, some Finnish ones you don't know...

 

[Sexy_Singer]

Something calm and relaxing.

Chris Rea, Il Divo, some Finnish ones you don't know...

Il Divo, I know. Who are the Finnish artists?

 

[Mo_Bandy]

Dude, romance is definitely fucking important. I always at least offer to buy Taco Bell after I take my slam piece to Pound Town, USA WTF!

 

[newbiebabe]

Romance is important... sex is important. Romantic sex is wonderful and has it's place... just going at it is wonderful and has it's place. Both are intimate for me when it involves the man I love.

 

[Strixaluco]

Il Divo, I know. Who are the Finnish artists?

Tomi Metsäketo (comparable to Il Divo in style).
Tommi Soidinmäki, Tomi Markkola and a few other artists in the domin of pop or "Finnish country" (which is very different from American country music)

Could also add Laura Pausini and Eros Ramazzotti. Marie Fredriksson (the solo album I bought is very different from Roxette).

The list is far from exhaustive.