Last day on Lit.....

[Naughty n Nice]

Okay.. so I am fairly new here.. and don't know many of the people involved.. I have read through some of the hoopla.. and it appears to me that is was perception gone askew.. which is common when one is interpreting the writtien word.. and a misunderstanding of who was actually doing what.. etc..

I don't think it is necessarily just an apology that would suffice.. but some acknowledgement from the host/hosts that Naughty didn't do anything wrong.. w/the exception of posting a PM.. although really.. how many people have read completely through the rules.. I know I haven't.. and perhaps now I will so that I don't inadvertantly do or say something that is unacceptable.

Basically.. any form of acknowledgement.. be it a quick note in response to the e-mails and PM's.. so that she knows where exactly she stands.. appearances would indicate that because of the post from Laurel that she took sides in this. I don't know.. I don't know her.. nor have I read through enough of the BB to know her posting style or personality.. so no offense is intended to anyone.... but I think that is how it has been perceived...

I may be completely wrong.. and talking out of my butt.. however, that is my take on the situation..

I truly hope that you will stay around Naughty.. or at least stay in touch.. I am sure that there are many people that would miss you on the boards.. You have helped many.. and pissed off a few.. however that is life.. I enchant 1/3 of the people I meet.. the other 2/3 hate me with a passion.. that more often than not.. I find amusing and flattering.

Whatever you decide.. many well wishes I hope for you .

CC

Thank you sweetheart, and I will always stay in touch with you.

 

[Naughty n Nice]

Naught n Nice...Don't go...

You're a doll as always

 

[capricious_chic]

CC I am sorry if you think it is never propper to use that word
but whoever did do this deserves much worse.

If your relationship is strong.. and you have trust in faith in one another.. then there is no need to care what another person thinks.. or says.. There are always people trying to interfere with others.. That is the nature of life.. people covet and envy what they don't have.. The only reason you would have to make such a stance.. is if you are insecure. I don't really want to get involved with your relationship.. I am just saying.. there is no justification to warrant your response.. it is unforgiveable to call a woman a cunt out of anger.. regardless of the perceived provocation.

I am not attacking you Celtic.. just explaing a woman's mindset.. esp. w/ some of things you said..

I truly hope that you all can work this out.. to everyone's satisfaction. Good Luck to all..

 

[Naughty n Nice]

Look, I said I was sorry, but i will say this whoever did lie
for whatever motive and said I was being unfaithful is avile creature, male or female. I am sorry this was wrongfully
directed towards NnN. She didn't deserve it being someone
did this with deception. But who ever would do this does deserve
worse than the words I said. I am just sorry that they were
directed at an innocent of this meaning you NnN. No one has the
right to try to break up a relationship. I am sorry, but I was
raised to believe that only a vile creature would do such a thing
and yes I do feel bad that NnN's name was used and caused
her to be made to look like the perpetrator. Naughty I am sorry.
CC I am sorry if you think it is never propper to use that word
but whoever did do this deserves much worse.

And noone has a right to speak like you spoke. Especially without confirming that you're talking to the right person. And by the way, in a lot of people's opinion, you are a vile creature for what you spewed from your mouth.

 

[Naughty n Nice]

Well folks, I've had just about enough of this. Those of you who know how may call or im me. Otherwise, maybe I'll see you later. But for now, I'm off.

 

[Celtic Warrior]

STOP, STOP, STOP, STOP!!!!!! LET IT GO. As far as what I said,
A lady wouldn't deserve such words, but a LADY wouldn't stick
her nose where it doesn't belong, nor an honorable MAN.
It is extremely rare that I resort to such strong language, but in
my defense I must say, no, I am not insecure in the relationship,
but also it pissed me off that someone would try to hurt the
person I care very much about and I am sorry if you think that is
not as bad as me using strong words. Whether it be man or
woman if I do resort to such language it means you did
something really bad and I wouldn't care if you liked me or not,
because I wouldn't want someone like that as a friend anyway.
If you are a Lady I will try to treat you as such, if not don't expect to be treated as such. To get respect you have to give it. Like
I said , it is extremely rare that I use those words, but if you hurt
or try to hurt someone I care about so very much, be thankful if
I only hurt your feelings. Now please people, be adult and let
this drop. If you don't like me, fine, don't talk to me. But let
this all go. To quote NnN from last week, "it's in the past."

 

[Angelofsex]

.........................
THE END........NO MORE........NNN DON'T GO ...........AND CW HOW IS TEXAS?..........The weather is hot in Jersey................

 

[mbb308]

.........................
THE END........NO MORE........NNN DON'T GO ...........AND CW HOW IS TEXAS?..........The weather is hot in Jersey................

It's pleasant and partly cloudy in VA.

 

[Celtic Warrior]

?

 

[prettygrneyes]

Look, I said I was sorry, but i will say this whoever did lie
for whatever motive and said I was being unfaithful is avile creature, male or female. I am sorry this was wrongfully
directed towards NnN. She didn't deserve it being someone
did this with deception. But who ever would do this does deserve
worse than the words I said. I am just sorry that they were
directed at an innocent of this meaning you NnN. No one has the
right to try to break up a relationship. I am sorry, but I was
raised to believe that only a vile creature would do such a thing
and yes I do feel bad that NnN's name was used and caused
her to be made to look like the perpetrator. Naughty I am sorry.
CC I am sorry if you think it is never propper to use that word
but whoever did do this deserves much worse.

okokokok,sheeeeeeesh I said NO MORE!!!!!please

 

[Angelofsex]

It's pleasant and partly cloudy in VA.

mbb I am glad to hear it..I just can't take the hot weather.

 

[mbb308]

mbb I am glad to hear it..I just can't take the hot weather.

I'm not a big fan of it myself, but I get used to it by the time it cools off every year. Then, of course, the reverse is true.

I would winter here and summer in western Montana if money were no object.

 

[Celtic Warrior]

PGEs me too. I don't want grief you know this, I just want this all to stop.
Hi Angel. The weather here is beautiful, but what do you call hot?
Here the humidity is probably 20% and 81 degrees..
PGEs i wish you were here with me right now.

 

[hotNnasty]

Naughty you shouldn't leave if you don't want to!
Nobody should.
I'm only posting here because NnN has always been nice to me.
Otherwise I would not get involved
I DO NOT post in threads where there is fighting.
The RW has enough of that.
I get on line to have a good time and converse with fun people.
So that's all I have to say



Have a great day

 

[Naughty n Nice]

HnH you shouldn't leave if you don't want to!
Nobody should.
I'm only posting here because NnN has always been nice to me.
Otherwise I would not get involved
I DO NOT post in threads where there is fighting.
The RW has enough of that.
I get on line to have a good time and converse with fun people.
So that's all I have to say



Have a great day

*looks around* hmmm HnH must be me? My nickname, Hot n Horny??
Thanks sweetie for your comments.

 

[Naughty n Nice]

TICK TOCK TICK TOCK STILL NO WORD FROM LAUREL

 

[Naughty n Nice]

Hmmm the day is coming to an end, and although celtic finally erased his post, I still haven't heard from Laurel. tsk tsk tsk not good.

 

[sueanninct]

My opinion

I'm going to try and say this without upsetting anyone. I have been reading the threads that all of this has happened on. Things were misunderstood, which can be a common problem in reading posts. Then, it got blown out of proportion, which everyone agrees to. I am glad that Celtic apologized. In fact, he apologized more than once, which he did not have to do. I think that speaks well of him that he did it more than once. I am also glad that the post in question was removed, but I understand that it is in some replies, so it is not completely gone. I don't know if it is possible to do that. If it is, I hope the moderators or someone else will go ahead and do that.

I did not read Laurel's post on this situation, so I cannot comment about whether or not she took sides. I think a post from her on why she did what she did (or didn't do) might be a good idea.

I have been posting and talking to Naughty since she first came on the boards. I have enjoyed our conversations very much, and will continue to talk to her offline if she decides to leave Lit. I, for one, hopes that she doesn't. I haven't posted with Celtic, so I really don't have an opinion (good or bad) about him. As I said earlier, I'm glad he apologized. I'm sure all of us at one time or another has said something they didn't mean to, myself included.

I have stayed out of this mess because I don't like choosing sides. It's a personal issue with me, and has nothing to do with anyone else. I sincerely hope that Naughty doesn't leave. We all have a right to be here.

Again, I hope I have not upset anyone, it was not my intention to do so. I just wanted to give my opinion.

Sue

 

[Naughty n Nice]

Umm, doesn't speak well of him at all. If he was sorry, he'd have apologized 3 days ago when he first posted it. Now, he only apologized because PGE told him to. Besides, anyone who can use that kind of language (esp to a woman) doesn't speak well for himself (no pun intended)

But you and I, Sue, will always stay in contact.

 

[Naughty n Nice]

Well, thanks to all of you who supported me through this. I don't suspect I'll be back on Lit, not after Laurel has insulted me like this. I will miss you all.

 

[BustyTheClown]

Lol christ, I thought we left this all behind in high school...

Naughty, Laurel does not take sides. She is a moderator, and is here to remove "illegal" posts. She removed your post because it was illegal. Get over it. Go read the rules and see whether or not Celtic's post was actually "illegal" according to the forum rules. You may find that she did not remove it because it was not a blatant disrespect for someone's privacy. Celtic had every right to be upset at whoever posted his PM -- he happened to think it was you, so you felt his wrath.

Now he realizes he was mistaken and has apologized repeatedly. It is time to forgive and forget. Or at least forget. Posting endless complaints to him and everyone else to pity you for being too sensitive will not get you anywhere, it will just prompt posts like mine.

What Celtic said was wrong. But he admitted it, and apologized to you sincerely a number of times. If you can't just accept it, then you do need to leave. This will happen again, even if it isn't with you, because that is how life is. You just need to learn to deal with it. The fact that you are holding on to this so damn tightly suggests something about your character. "To err is human, to forgive is divine." So be divine about it.

First, stop accusing Laurel of taking sides like this is some playground best-friends fight. She knows what she is doing, and for you to insult her job like that is just rude. She is a busy woman and will get back to you when she can. You may be royally pissed, but you are not necessarily the #1 priority on other people's lists. Second, either forgive Celtic for his mistake or just shut up about it. Bitching is not going to get you anything except frustration from others, even your friends. Third, if you're going to leave, then leave. Quit taking up the space. Every Literotican is welcome here, and each presence is felt by others, but you're just rippling the pond and it's annoying and childish. Don't rock the boat, baby.

Oh, and grow up.