Lit. Jealousy - Do You Have It??

[EroticRomanticMan]

I was surprised to have heard from a couple of people that they were jealous of me.
I am in no way competing for anything or with anyone here. I'm very easy going, friendly & I'm here for the banter. I've been fortunate to have met some cool people & have become friends with a few.
Some days I stay low key, other days I'm more open.
I love the diversity of the people here. You can be shy or you can be more outgoing & have a pic thread, it doesn't matter to me. Enjoy life to the fullest.

L

I think they were jealous that you have both a girlfriend and a husband.

 

[janeyl]

I feel very much the same way...even after being on this site for a year now myself. Somewhat of an inside-outsider, if that makes sense.

I'm having a problem lately with people's intentions and integrity as of late. If I don't follow into their lead of sex talk then it seems there's nothing to talk about with me and they stop communicating. If I do talk sex or even answer questions about sex but don't engage further in a full on cyber chat or move our chat off Lit, I'm often called a tease. That confuses me cause I'm very straight forward from the start and I'm very blunt. I say what's on my mind...what I'm thinking and I speak the truth. I get lied to. A lot. I'm realizing that more and more....and more.

This has been my experience much more now than in the past...Lit has a much more aggressive sexual undertone now than it ever used to...the opportunity to engage on that level was always much more a potentially delightful extra to the fun, communication and banter on the threads and in PM and made it feel a much more fun and safe place to be. Now, my interaction is brief and mostly with only a very few old friends because it's clear that, while I have my tits out, I'm not available on that level...any interaction tends to end very quickly after that...I'm not complaining, it's just an observation...

Mind you, I always did find that people here would always rather talk to people who fantasise about some things rather than actually experience it...the strap on thread was always a good example of that...

I've never had Lit jealousy because while I used to have lots of fun, flirtation and sometimes sexual contact, I don't any longer and have never engaged on a particularly emotional level that would leave me open to the possibility of that...after all, I watch my life partner have sex with other people...there's no place for jealousy in my real life with the love of my life, why would it come about here?

 

[hotoldrguy]

I think Lit is a great place to meet and have fun and chat with people. I do enjoy the sexy interaction and the plain friendly and joking posts. LIT jealousy is not something I have or expect to ever have. I think LIT should be a place just to have fun...fantasies and generally enjoy people you may never have met if not for LIT.

 

[cowslinger64]

I think they were jealous that you have both a girlfriend and a husband.

I'd certainly be much more inclined to be jealous of her husband. Lol

This has been my experience much more now than in the past...Lit has a much more aggressive sexual undertone now than it ever used to...

Mind you, I always did find that people here would always rather talk to people who fantasise about some things rather than actually experience it...

I've never had Lit jealousy because while I used to have lots of fun, flirtation and sometimes sexual contact, I don't any longer and have never engaged on a particularly emotional level that would leave me open to the possibility of that...after all, I watch my life partner have sex with other people...there's no place for jealousy in my real life with the love of my life, why would it come about here?

Well written m'lady.. IMO, as time goes by and the longer and longer this society breeds people that are able to hide behind their monitors and do and say anything they wish, the more it will be that way. No one has to own their words any more, and can be whatever they want to be, without fear of reprisal.

IMO, this place was somewhere that filled a void. I notice that the more life I have, the less I desire being here. There are some terrific people tho, and for that reason more than anything I still come around. I don't see the fun discourse so much that used to be so prevalent. Clowns thread about sex has been fun, but so much of it is about "I'll fuck her, kiss her, lick her"...

If it weren't for garbage like ronster, query, lance et all, and the pussy guy ass kissers.... this place would probably be a lot more fun. We need Ryan Black, ERF, Millianthe, and the others that were here when I first came...

 

[fireymatt]

I was surprised to have heard from a couple of people that they were jealous of me.
I am in no way competing for anything or with anyone here. I'm very easy going, friendly & I'm here for the banter. I've been fortunate to have met some cool people & have become friends with a few.
Some days I stay low key, other days I'm more open.
I love the diversity of the people here. You can be shy or you can be more outgoing & have a pic thread, it doesn't matter to me. Enjoy life to the fullest.

L

Your last 5 words summed it up best..... and you of all people know the meaning of that. xo

 

[Titts4Tatts]

Not jealous of the guys or gals but serious envy over some of the bras you ladies post. I'm like hellz mine look like frumpy old lady and you all look so sexy. Yup I'm jealous of the bras !!

 

[followmenow6969]

Not jealous of the guys or gals but serious envy over some of the bras you ladies post. I'm like hellz mine look like frumpy old lady and you all look so sexy. Yup I'm jealous of the bras !!

We love your Tits, Titts4Tatts

 

[BlackCashmere]

Not jealous of the guys or gals but serious envy over some of the bras you ladies post. I'm like hellz mine look like frumpy old lady and you all look so sexy. Yup I'm jealous of the bras !!

You are beautiful as you are...believe it...

 

[Scentofawoman]

Oh boy! Jealousy that green eyed monster.

Yeah I felt it early on when I first came onto Lit. I was overwhelmed by the attention and I had a serious void to fill. I got close, to close and even though I said it never bothered me, it did. Luckily I met some great men that I could confess my jealousy too and they told me to realize that this is just a fantasy. I left lit mostly to get into another fantasy game that filled another void.
I found jealousy there too, this time of me. Mainly from the traits I learned on Lit I could navigate and confront the implications head on and at the beginning.

Biggest thing I've learned is you can't say it to my face I just have to turn the phone off. You can disparage me as much as you want in cyberspace. If you have the balls to come to me in Michigan say it in my face I might buy you a drink and the take a bat to your knees.

 

[Trekka]

Oh boy! Jealousy that green eyed monster.

Yeah I felt it early on when I first came onto Lit. I was overwhelmed by the attention and I had a serious void to fill. I got close, to close and even though I said it never bothered me, it did. Luckily I met some great men that I could confess my jealousy too and they told me to realize that this is just a fantasy. I left lit mostly to get into another fantasy game that filled another void.
I found jealousy there too, this time of me. Mainly from the traits I learned on Lit I could navigate and confront the implications head on and at the beginning.

Biggest thing I've learned is you can't say it to my face I just have to turn the phone off. You can disparage me as much as you want in cyberspace. If you have the balls to come to me in Michigan say it in my face I might buy you a drink and the take a bat to your knees.

Wow. Well said.

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[Scentofawoman]

Wow. Well said.

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Thank you!

Lots of big girl tears shed to get to this point!

 

[Trekka]

Thank you!

Lots of big girl tears shed to get to this point!

Big girl tears. *shudder* They're the best/worst.

 

[Scentofawoman]

Big girl tears. *shudder* They're the best/worst.

Yeah can be cathartic.

One thing I haven't done inawhile is really cry. You know that huge crying jag you have where you have snot bubble and your hair gets crazy and you look disgusting?
I've been holding it in, but i feel the damn ready to burst

 

[RoyceConnors]

I still don't get the jealousy thing here. What is there to be jealous of? Attention? Numerous Lit friends? If you want them, there's more than enough people of both sexes to accomplish that, so why be jealous of someone who went ahead and did what you're too afraid to do?
It seems to come down to greed of not being happy with what one has already and always wanting more. Be happy without and you'll be happier with.

 

[Minalick]

Yeah can be cathartic.

One thing I haven't done inawhile is really cry. You know that huge crying jag you have where you have snot bubble and your hair gets crazy and you look disgusting?
I've been holding it in, but i feel the damn ready to burst

Let it out sweety, don't let the negativity hold you down. It's good to cry it out and be rid of it. It's what makes us stronger.

 

[LIVINRFANTASIES]

Denny & Dollie

Yeah can be cathartic.

One thing I haven't done inawhile is really cry. You know that huge crying jag you have where you have snot bubble and your hair gets crazy and you look disgusting?
I've been holding it in, but i feel the damn ready to burst

Don't cry about anything you read here. Laugh and piss the enemy off.

If we were in MotorCity we'd buy you a drink.

 

[Pennyshub]

Jealousy not a problem for me here. I think I am still too new plus I have enough drama at home.

 

[Scentofawoman]

Oh no no crying for lit!

Thanks ladies! It's real life and I need tequila and time.

 

[ShelbyBubbles]

Yeah can be cathartic.

One thing I haven't done inawhile is really cry. You know that huge crying jag you have where you have snot bubble and your hair gets crazy and you look disgusting?
I've been holding it in, but i feel the damn ready to burst

Hold it in until the Redwings are out of the playoffs (most likely in the first round against Tampa Bay) and I'll cry with you!

Yeah...I mention them a lot right now cause it's the playoffs

 

[Scentofawoman]

Hold it in until the Redwings are out of the playoffs (most likely in the first round against Tampa Bay) and I'll cry with you!

Yeah...I mention them a lot right now cause it's the playoffs

Ohhh hockey!

But I already hijacked thread. We can talk shop on another thread

 

[PrissOff]

I've experienced jealousy in the past, though mostly I would consider it being protective of the other person. I'm not much into sharing (I'm the youngest ) so, at times when my significant other has been flirted with or picked on - both on or offline - I get protective.

 

[mistheory]

Jealous? No. Confused? Absolutely. I am often confused by people that say the same thing over and over again in every thread. "This person can't be the sexiest person on LIT, you told that to the last 3." I am also confused by the "badboy" types. Being a dick doesn't make you a badboy, it just makes you a dick.

 

[DayMaker]

Jealous? No. Confused? Absolutely. I am often confused by people that say the same thing over and over again in every thread. "This person can't be the sexiest person on LIT, you told that to the last 3." I am also confused by the "badboy" types. Being a dick doesn't make you a badboy, it just makes you a dick.

Whaaaaaat? Say it isn't so.

 

[mistheory]

Whaaaaaat? Say it isn't so.

Lol!! No pretending you dont know what Im talking about.

 

[DayMaker]

Lol!! No pretending you dont know what Im talking about.

I'm consoling myself with Oreos....which may be the reason I'm not the sexiest chicka on Lit.