Long Distance Relationships

[Ebonyfire]

Re: Hysterics

I woke up this morning with crying hysterics! I cannot stop crying. I am soo not ready for this!

I need a dose of something.

Ebony

Yes, and now I know what I need... A GOOD DOSE OF REALITY.

Thanks gang for helping me through this. What have I got to complain about? I had an extraordinary vacation, I have my health, I have good friends and family, and I have me.

I have lost nothing but my pride and a little ego. So what? I am not alone. I have friends RL friends who want to see me and share experiences with me. So I am not having a story tale ending. Who does? I am still sad, and I am still crying, but not as much. I will get through this.

Ebony

 

[meop79]

Re: Hysterics

I woke up this morning with crying hysterics! I cannot stop crying. I am soo not ready for this!
I need a dose of something.
Ebony

*HUGS!!!!!!!!!!*

Meop79@yahoo.com

 

[meop79]

Oh ebony.....

You have friends both here and in RL and yes you're right but, don't try to shut the pain out or deny it.... it's ok to hurt over what happened and what might have been...

But know that you are worth so much more than that..... and your friends will always be there for you...

Meop79@yahoo.com

 

[1stTwistedSistr]

Aw Ebony... C'mere...

Cherrie wraps her arms around Ebony and just rocks her squeezing her tight... I know it hurts honey but like God always says, "This too shall pass..." I'm so sorry you're hurting, if there's anything I can do you just let me know. Anytime, night or day, it seems I've forgotten how to sleep so I'm on my computer all the time... so please don't hesitate to make one of those middle of the night IM's... ok?



A's C

 

[luvsubbbbb]

Re: Re: Re: I can hardly bear it Omahaman

To tell you the truth, NO!

I bet you were not expecting that answer. I wish to God I had never met him. I regret it all. I was resigned to being alone. I could cope. NOw I just feel cheated. And like a gullible fool. I wll never do this again. NEVER.

although i do not know you, Ms Ebony, it saddens me to see you in pain, as i too have been there, and on more than one occassion.......

one of the most important aspects of LDRs is constant and continual communication so that an individual does not suddenly wake up one morning and learn that their partner has "changed their mind" about the relationship.........

then again, love is sometimes blind, and oftentimes one will see only what they want to see, irrespective of the level of communication in the relationship...........

if truth and honor was maintained throughout the relationship, however, my experience tells me that the hurt and the pain will dissolve, and the heart will mend faster......easier said than done, i know.............

i wish you only the best...........

 

[omahaman2]

Re: Hysterics

I woke up this morning with crying hysterics! I cannot stop crying. I am soo not ready for this!

I need a dose of something.

Ebony

When you're down and troubled
And you need some loving care
And nothing, nothing is going right
Close your eyes and think of me
And soon I will be there
To brighten up even your darkest night

You just call out my name
And you know wherever I am
I'll come running to see you again
Winter, spring, summer or fall
All you have to do is call
And I'll be there
You've got a friend

If the sky above you
Grows dark and full of clouds
And that old north wind begins to blow
Keep you head together
And call my name out loud
Soon you'll hear me knocking at you door

You just call out my name
And you know wherever I am
I'll come running to see you again
Winter, spring, summer or fall
All you have to do is call
And I'll be there

Ain't it good to know that you've got a friend
When people can be so cold
They'll hurt you, and desert you
And take your soul if you let them

You just call out my name
And you know wherever I am
I'll come running to see you again
Winter, spring, summer or fall
All you have to do is call
And I'll be there
You've got a friend

 

[omahaman2]

http://www.thoughtfulmoment.com/images/friend.jpg

 

[meop79]

Morning!

Meop79@yahoo.com

 

[Ebonyfire]

At least

Morning!

Meop79@yahoo.com

you didn't day "good".

But everyday above ground is a good one.

Ebony

 

[meop79]

Re: At least

you didn't day "good".
But everyday above ground is a good one.
Ebony

*HUGS*

Meop79@yahoo.com

 

[omahaman2]

http://member.apcug.org/hugpc/images/HUG.GIF

to everyone that needs one.You are all in my thoughts

 

[JennyOmanHill]

Thinking of all LDRs!

Joining Oman with giving everyone a super sized HUG:

http://www.nvr9.com/private/postales/postales/Super-Sized-Hug.gif

 

[Lady_Sam]

*hugs to everyone* Miss you all, just doing some thinking

 

[meop79]

*HUGS* to you too

Meop79@yahoo.com

 

[JennyOmanHill]

Hi and HUGS to all!

http://www.bluemountain.com/eng3gifs/ashley/lifehard/lifehard.gif

 

[Ladyhawke]

Jenny that is lovely...it's been a rough week for me but I'm sure better days are coming!

Hugs to everyone!!!

 

[Top Cat]

Hello everyone....

I'm just passing through, it has been a long time since my last visit.

Jenny, I mistakenly when to the first page in this thread... it is amazing how far we have come.

I could not keep away from an LDR. I am involved in another, much closer to home. At least this time we both life in the same country...

Anly 600 miles apart. About a 10 hour drive... worst part is... I can't drive that far anymore.

It is interesting though and I wish everyone a rewarding month ahead. keep the positive thoughts going and then the negatives don't get a chance.

Thinking of you all,

TC

 

[1stTwistedSistr]

News Flash! Oh, ok ... only an update...

Finally got to talk to Allan for more than two minutes... day before yesterday and he has almost everything done over there... He's hoping to be on a plane tomorrow sometime... Looks like it actually may happen this time.... On my knees praying to God, "please, please, please don't let anything happen this time!!!" I'm so happy I could just burst!

Anybody know how long it takes to get a marraige license in California?


Cherrie's in

 

[omahaman2]

dun dun dunda dun dun dunda

 

[Ladyhawke]

Cherrie that is wonderful news...I'll keep my fingers crossed for you big time!!!

Hugs to everyone!!

 

[JennyOmanHill]

Re: Hello everyone....

I'm just passing through, it has been a long time since my last visit.
Jenny, I mistakenly when to the first page in this thread... it is amazing how far we have come.
I could not keep away from an LDR. I am involved in another, much closer to home. At least this time we both life in the same country...
Anly 600 miles apart. About a 10 hour drive... worst part is... I can't drive that far anymore.
It is interesting though and I wish everyone a rewarding month ahead. keep the positive thoughts going and then the negatives don't get a chance.
Thinking of you all,

TC

Hugs TC How wonderful to see you here again!

Yes, we definitely have come a long LONG way since this thread started!

Best wishes on your new LDR! Closer is definitely better! Can't wait until October when I'll finally be WITH Oman full-time! I'm really looking forward to this "change of life"!

Positive thoughts definitely do work, although there are times when it's not an easy thing to keep up with! Worth the efforts though!

Great news, Cherrie! Was thinking of you this week and happy your wait should soon be over!

Hugs Ladyhawke

Oh, and hugs (OF COURSE) to my Darling!

 

[omahaman2]

dedicating my l


http://www.gasolinealleyantiques.com/images/Potpourri%20Page/game-life1.JPG


to jenny.

GEEZ, i must love her, it cost over 20 dollars at the toy store

 

[JennyOmanHill]

dedicating my l

http://www.gasolinealleyantiques.com/images/Potpourri%20Page/game-life1.JPG

to jenny.

GEEZ, i must love her, it cost over 20 dollars at the toy store

Thank you, darling! Sharing my LIFE with you will be my goal as well!

However, I'm sure we'll be playings lots of "games" when we get together again!

http://www.endlessgames.com/images/inset_games.jpg

 

[hatara]

Thinking of giving Jenny different games to play with oman!

 

[JennyOmanHill]

Thinking of giving Jenny different games to play with oman!

I already have a list of ideas, but could always use more!