Long Distance Relationships

WOW and WELCOME to the new posters!

Hugs Meop!:rose: Congrats on your second countdown! It's not too far now, and I hope you and Whspr enjoy this visit even more than the last!

Hugs Cherie:rose: Hope your long wait will soon be over, and that your days will be as wonderous as you both expect them to be! Looking forward to hearing all about it!

Hugs LadySam, Hat, Ebony and Ladyhawke!:rose:

Oman is so very busy with his new job opportunities and moving out and finding a new place, and therefore our direct contact time has been greatly reduced. As much as I'd like to be with him NOW to help him, I am struggling through my own packing up and leaving NYC issues at this end, but we still manage to boost each other up! It will be so wonderful when our moves are finished, likely in October!:)


Thank you Pixie and Freya for adding to our thread!:rose:

I had no intention of meeting anyone online last September when I first found LIT's chat area. About a month after playing around, I discovered that there were actually many REAL people who would gather together and chat away, so I let "Jenny" be me!:D

Soon after Oman and I started an online relationship, but quickly became FRIENDS. I was shocked to discover that I had fallen in love, sight unseen, with him!

Four months into our relationship, Oman made a trip here for a visit, and any lingering doubt or fear that might have been there immediately disappeared when I looked into his eyes!:heart:

I know of several people who met folks face to face who later discovered their partner was not being truthful, so I don't think the odds of this happening are any greater with an online meeting.

LDRs are a lot of work, take a lot of patience and require a whole lot of TRUST! However, Oman and I discovered when we were together how much we REALLY knew each other through all our communications.

Hope this somehow makes sense, and that all of you are having a good week!

:rose:
 
Re: WOW and WELCOME to the new posters!

JennyOmanHill said:
Hugs Meop!:rose: Congrats on your second countdown! It's not too far now, and I hope you and Whspr enjoy this visit even more than the last!

Hugs Cherie:rose: Hope your long wait will soon be over, and that your days will be as wonderous as you both expect them to be! Looking forward to hearing all about it!

Hugs LadySam, Hat, Ebony and Ladyhawke!:rose:

Oman is so very busy with his new job opportunities and moving out and finding a new place, and therefore our direct contact time has been greatly reduced. As much as I'd like to be with him NOW to help him, I am struggling through my own packing up and leaving NYC issues at this end, but we still manage to boost each other up! It will be so wonderful when our moves are finished, likely in October!:)


Thank you Pixie and Freya for adding to our thread!:rose:

I had no intention of meeting anyone online last September when I first found LIT's chat area. About a month after playing around, I discovered that there were actually many REAL people who would gather together and chat away, so I let "Jenny" be me!:D

Soon after Oman and I started an online relationship, but quickly became FRIENDS. I was shocked to discover that I had fallen in love, sight unseen, with him!

Four months into our relationship, Oman made a trip here for a visit, and any lingering doubt or fear that might have been there immediately disappeared when I looked into his eyes!:heart:

I know of several people who met folks face to face who later discovered their partner was not being truthful, so I don't think the odds of this happening are any greater with an online meeting.

LDRs are a lot of work, take a lot of patience and require a whole lot of TRUST! However, Oman and I discovered when we were together how much we REALLY knew each other through all our communications.

Hope this somehow makes sense, and that all of you are having a good week!

:rose:

Thanks Jenny - that's a great story! Good luck to you both.
 
Plea To Jenny Oman

Please come out to dinner with us on Saturday the 20th Pleasssssssssssssssssseeeeeeeeeeee!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Peace,
Tulip

To stick with the topic Jenny you and I will be a long distance relationship after October. So pleaseeeee come out with us.
 
talking loudly so jenny can hear me since we are a lLDR and she is so farr away. can you hear me,JENNY? I love you.couple more months and ill make up every day for all the
http://loversunited.net/canada/a%20kissing.jpg

we have been missing since we are so far apart.

sshhhhhhhh dont tell anyone but i think we are go to do more than just kiss:devil: :devil:

holding a boquet of :rose: and:kiss: until you arrive
 
*tearfully stops by her old friends at LDR and wishes them much love and happiness.....*
 
Im no longer in my LDR. :( Its been extremely hard since I have come back from my trip. Things were wonderful when we were together, minus a few things that went awry.....but i came home to a husband that was pulling all the stops to save the marriage, after he convinced me it was over and that i couldnt do anything to save it..so i moved on...he is amazing now...my LD lover said he wasnt ready for us and is convincing me to save the marriage. My spirit has been broken. I do ok ...but late at night, like now, when it is quiet, i am alone and the kids are in bed....my heart just aches. I miss my LD lover so very much. I am still SOOOO in love with him. Ughh.. I better stop ...
 
Jewelz said:
*tearfully stops by her old friends at LDR and wishes them much love and happiness.....*

okay,jewelz. when Im around, tears arent allowed. What do I have to do to get you to smile.I hope you know, and I hope the other ldrs know, that I always have an arm, a shoulder and ear for people i care about. However, most the other parts have this part belongs to jenny branded on them, LOL
 
omahaman2 said:


okay,jewelz. when Im around, tears arent allowed. What do I have to do to get you to smile.I hope you know, and I hope the other ldrs know, that I always have an arm, a shoulder and ear for people i care about. However, most the other parts have this part belongs to jenny branded on them, LOL

LOL...you did it........you made me smile! silly guy!
 
ok ok,posted before i saw your post,jewelz but the offer is always open if any ldrs need a shoulder to lean on, an ear for someone to just listen and arms for a hug ,. i give incredible huggs
 
omahaman2 said:
ok ok,posted before i saw your post,jewelz but the offer is always open if any ldrs need a shoulder to lean on, an ear for someone to just listen and arms for a hug ,. i give incredible huggs

I can vouch for that, those shoulders are very big and the man is very sweet. I adore Oman and Jenny and can't wait for them to be together. Especially since both of them are always willing to listen to others and share their wisdom and hearts.:heart: :kiss:
 
Jewelz said:


LOL...you did it........you made me smile! silly guy!

First off,

Hugs Jewelz:rose: I am so sorry you are so tearful and troubled right now. Please know that we ARE here and available to you whenever you need an ear (or other suitable body part!).

As Hat has mentioned, Oman indeed has those "big" shoulders, and is definitely the best hugger I ever met!:heart:

Now, Oman...

What's this about me branding some select body part?!?:eek:

Sounds like a good idea!!:D

http://www.nhm.org/research/history/graphics/BrandingIron_lg.jpg

Now, bend over Darling!:devil: :p
 
Just checking in. I haven't been on lit in about a week. Not quite sure where things are with Daeth and I. :confused:I still love him and believe he loves me, but nothing is talked about "us" anymore. I'm afraid to add pressure to his life. But it hurts, I just want to hold him.

Jewelz hun I'm so sorry, if you need another shoulder I'm here too.

Ebony, Hat, Jenny and Oman *hugs* to you all.

*crosses fingers for Cherrie and Allan*
 
Oh lady....

*draws his hand across this beautifull lady's face and hair...*

You're beautifull you deserve to be happy.....

*slight kiss*

Meop79@yahoo.com
 
Oh sweety... (((hug)))

Jewelz said:
Im no longer in my LDR. :( Its been extremely hard since I have come back from my trip. Things were wonderful when we were together, minus a few things that went awry.....but i came home to a husband that was pulling all the stops to save the marriage, after he convinced me it was over and that i couldnt do anything to save it..so i moved on...he is amazing now...my LD lover said he wasnt ready for us and is convincing me to save the marriage. My spirit has been broken. I do ok ...but late at night, like now, when it is quiet, i am alone and the kids are in bed....my heart just aches. I miss my LD lover so very much. I am still SOOOO in love with him. Ughh.. I better stop ...

I'm so sorry! Things will work out in the end, remember that nothing happens for no reason... I know that's not exactly what you want to hear, but it's true. That and God never gives us anything that we aren't capable of handling. It WILL make you a stronger, better person for having been through what you've been through.
If you ever need to talk please feel free to IM me, I think my id for my Im is in my profile... (((hugs)))

C :heart:'s A
 
I am sorry to hear about your LDR

Jewelz said:
Im no longer in my LDR. :( Its been extremely hard since I have come back from my trip. Things were wonderful when we were together, minus a few things that went awry.....but i came home to a husband that was pulling all the stops to save the marriage, after he convinced me it was over and that i couldnt do anything to save it..so i moved on...he is amazing now...my LD lover said he wasnt ready for us and is convincing me to save the marriage. My spirit has been broken. I do ok ...but late at night, like now, when it is quiet, i am alone and the kids are in bed....my heart just aches. I miss my LD lover so very much. I am still SOOOO in love with him. Ughh.. I better stop ...

I hope you find what you need in saving your marriage. Here is a *hug* to see you through.

Ebony
 
LDL

Been there done that, no advice can get you through it, just hold on and keep talking to your friends, time will help.

The road of life is full of turns and junctions once a turn is Chosen or a decision made keep faqcing forward, que sera sera
 
Oh Jewelz...I hope things work out for you...I've got another two shoulders here if you need them to cry on...

(((Hugs)))
 
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