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Lady_Sam said:
You the sweetest thing since double chocolate chunk & Fudge ripple ice cream calling me sweet? *blushes profusely...*
Awwww shucks...
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Meeting does make it harder to cope while away
Sam, I know all to well. Hatara and I have met twice for a week each time. It has been almost four months since I have seen her smiling face and I worry about her now more than ever. She has been thru alot with moving into a new place and I couldnt be there to help take care of the problems. It has really weighed my mind down. Then with all the stuff going on every time I called (which was almost daily) I seemed to be interupting. I know it was probably just me feeling guilty but I vowed not to call for a while.
Now when I do call I have not been able to reach her. I leave messages but I feel I have done something wrong or worse she may be sick......or have found another diversion.....
LDR's are tough and the best thing I can suggest is if you do meet be prepaired to spend a lot of time on chat, emailing and on the phone to keep the lines of communication open...
I hope it all works out..
Huggers, Marty
Sam, I know all to well. Hatara and I have met twice for a week each time. It has been almost four months since I have seen her smiling face and I worry about her now more than ever. She has been thru alot with moving into a new place and I couldnt be there to help take care of the problems. It has really weighed my mind down. Then with all the stuff going on every time I called (which was almost daily) I seemed to be interupting. I know it was probably just me feeling guilty but I vowed not to call for a while.
Now when I do call I have not been able to reach her. I leave messages but I feel I have done something wrong or worse she may be sick......or have found another diversion.....
LDR's are tough and the best thing I can suggest is if you do meet be prepaired to spend a lot of time on chat, emailing and on the phone to keep the lines of communication open...
I hope it all works out..
Huggers, Marty
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Hugs Lady Sam
Oman is so busy adjusting to an overnight shift of work, plus working hard to finding a place for us! It's frustrating that I cannot be with him right now, and since he's been staying with his brother, it's been very difficult to actually chat with him.
These next two months are going to be so hectic for me, as my lifelong friends are trying to get as much of "me" as they can before I leave NYC!
Hopefully this time will pass quickly and smoothly! Can't wait to finally be in Oman's loving arms!
Pink kangaroo?
Oman is so busy adjusting to an overnight shift of work, plus working hard to finding a place for us! It's frustrating that I cannot be with him right now, and since he's been staying with his brother, it's been very difficult to actually chat with him.
These next two months are going to be so hectic for me, as my lifelong friends are trying to get as much of "me" as they can before I leave NYC!
Hopefully this time will pass quickly and smoothly! Can't wait to finally be in Oman's loving arms!
Pink kangaroo?
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Hello Everyone!
Wow! I can't believe how I've missed you all and all the support you have given me, but I couldn't bear to be here without good news to share. Allan has finally finished up what he had to do in Germany and is hoping to book a flight over on Thursday... please pray for us that nothing happens this time.... (again..) and that I'll finally be able to leave LDR Hell once and for all... I hope everything works out for everyone, and that eventually, you'll all be able to put your LDR status far behind you. I'm truly looking forward to a lifetime of happiness with my guy. If you want, when we get married, I'll post pictures so we can share our day with you all. You guys have been the best! And I want you all to know how much I have appreciated your help in getting me through this nightmare of waiting. Thank you... all of you.
Cherrie + Allan =
Wow! I can't believe how I've missed you all and all the support you have given me, but I couldn't bear to be here without good news to share. Allan has finally finished up what he had to do in Germany and is hoping to book a flight over on Thursday... please pray for us that nothing happens this time.... (again..) and that I'll finally be able to leave LDR Hell once and for all... I hope everything works out for everyone, and that eventually, you'll all be able to put your LDR status far behind you. I'm truly looking forward to a lifetime of happiness with my guy. If you want, when we get married, I'll post pictures so we can share our day with you all. You guys have been the best! And I want you all to know how much I have appreciated your help in getting me through this nightmare of waiting. Thank you... all of you.
Cherrie + Allan =
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Hello Everyone!
Oops! Sorry! 
Oops! Sorry!
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Just happened across this thread and I had to post.
I've "met" Oman on a different thread and I just had to wish Jenny and Oman the best of luck and the best of lives.
You started this thread in November and now it is only a few short weeks until you are together. I have never seen a post from you before Jenny, but I have had the opportunity to see several from Oman. His love for you is palpable, his joy so great, that I know you have found a truly wonderful man to be with till the end of days. I wish you both the greatest happiness. I almost feel like I am witnessing the end of a romantic fairy tale - and the beginning of a wonderful life together.
To Lady Sam - I've only a few posts here at the end of this thread, but I have to echo Soron's thought. You need to bring it up. For your sake. This isn't a matter of an LDR, it a relationship thing. If there's a problem, or an anxiousness, the both of you need to talk about it, and not let it fester or simmer under the surface. No good will come of that. My best hopes and wishes go to you.
To 1stTwistedSistr and Allen - Hoping that you two will be united very soon. Looking forward to wedding pictures (lots and lots of wedding pictures - it will strenghten hope and bring affirmation to so many others).
To Hatara and Classy_Lover - best wishes for the future
I'm sure there were many others in this thread that I never read about, but I hope that all works out well for you.
I've "met" Oman on a different thread and I just had to wish Jenny and Oman the best of luck and the best of lives.
You started this thread in November and now it is only a few short weeks until you are together. I have never seen a post from you before Jenny, but I have had the opportunity to see several from Oman. His love for you is palpable, his joy so great, that I know you have found a truly wonderful man to be with till the end of days. I wish you both the greatest happiness. I almost feel like I am witnessing the end of a romantic fairy tale - and the beginning of a wonderful life together.
To Lady Sam - I've only a few posts here at the end of this thread, but I have to echo Soron's thought. You need to bring it up. For your sake. This isn't a matter of an LDR, it a relationship thing. If there's a problem, or an anxiousness, the both of you need to talk about it, and not let it fester or simmer under the surface. No good will come of that. My best hopes and wishes go to you.
To 1stTwistedSistr and Allen - Hoping that you two will be united very soon. Looking forward to wedding pictures (lots and lots of wedding pictures - it will strenghten hope and bring affirmation to so many others).
To Hatara and Classy_Lover - best wishes for the future
I'm sure there were many others in this thread that I never read about, but I hope that all works out well for you.
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Wow!
SecretScribe,
Thank you so much! This was very thoughtful of you... Jeez, you've brought tears to my eyes! I wish for you the love of your life and as much happiness as my Allan brings me. Pictures it is! Lots of them!
Thanks again,
Cherrie and Allan
The soon to be Mr. & Mrs. Campbell
AC
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SecretScribe,
Thank you so much! This was very thoughtful of you... Jeez, you've brought tears to my eyes! I wish for you the love of your life and as much happiness as my Allan brings me. Pictures it is! Lots of them!
Thanks again,
Cherrie and Allan
The soon to be Mr. & Mrs. Campbell
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SECRET,
WOW you make me blush and smile both
http://www.gif.com/ImageGallery/Animated/Characters/Drawing/smileyblush.gif
Jenny is so wonderful, I couldnt help but fall head over heels in love with her.
http://www.gamesinfo.com.au/postgames/en/images/vol2/03_the_games_unfold/12_day10/5_509HR.jpg
However.i agree its like a dream come true for. Im so happy its reality,not just a fairytale.
In regards to the other ldr couples,they are all great in my eyes. They are all so filled with love and caring for their chosen partner. I agree,lots and lots and lots of wedding pictures.I dont think all these couples realize how much i care about them.
WOW you make me blush and smile both
http://www.gif.com/ImageGallery/Animated/Characters/Drawing/smileyblush.gif
Jenny is so wonderful, I couldnt help but fall head over heels in love with her.
http://www.gamesinfo.com.au/postgames/en/images/vol2/03_the_games_unfold/12_day10/5_509HR.jpg
However.i agree its like a dream come true for. Im so happy its reality,not just a fairytale.
In regards to the other ldr couples,they are all great in my eyes. They are all so filled with love and caring for their chosen partner. I agree,lots and lots and lots of wedding pictures.I dont think all these couples realize how much i care about them.
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I echo Oman's thoughts and welcome, Scribe I certainly do feel like the luckiest woman on the planet!
Congrats and YAY to Cherrie and Allan! Thank you for keeping us posted, and, as always, wishing you all the best!
I certainly do feel like the luckiest woman on the planet!Congrats and YAY to Cherrie and Allan! Thank you for keeping us posted, and, as always, wishing you all the best!
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Re: How are all my LDRs?
Hugs Ebony
Nothing wrong with being LOUD, especially with good feelings!
Life has been going great as well for Oman and I: the lease is being signed, and we have a lovenest to cuddle in! October cannot come fast enough!
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Hugs Ebony
Nothing wrong with being LOUD, especially with good feelings!
Life has been going great as well for Oman and I: the lease is being signed, and we have a lovenest to cuddle in! October cannot come fast enough!
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Re: Re: How are all my LDRs?
October will be here before you know it! Glad things are on track. I am just hanging loose!
Ebony
JennyOmanHill said:
Hugs Ebony
Nothing wrong with being LOUD, especially with good feelings!
Life has been going great as well for Oman and I: the lease is being signed, and we have a lovenest to cuddle in! October cannot come fast enough!
October will be here before you know it! Glad things are on track. I am just hanging loose!
Ebony
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Ok I am down to one leak but it is a major one. The wall of the bathroom started to cave in a bit because of it. They will hopefully find that leak today.
They put up a rod and shelf in the second bedroom that is my study. But they forgot to anchor it so after putting in less than a 1/3 of my things the screws came flying out of the wall.
On the bright side the phone company rewired all of my jacks so that I have a house phone and the cable company rewired those jacks so that I have my modem.
Mutt and Jeff return tomorrow and I am promising myself that I will think good thoughts. One more incident and I am calling my Mom to come with Holy Water and bless the place. I wanted an exorcist but my sister told me I wasn't allowed. He might get lost for all eternity!
hugggggsssssssss
They put up a rod and shelf in the second bedroom that is my study. But they forgot to anchor it so after putting in less than a 1/3 of my things the screws came flying out of the wall.
On the bright side the phone company rewired all of my jacks so that I have a house phone and the cable company rewired those jacks so that I have my modem.
Mutt and Jeff return tomorrow and I am promising myself that I will think good thoughts. One more incident and I am calling my Mom to come with Holy Water and bless the place. I wanted an exorcist but my sister told me I wasn't allowed. He might get lost for all eternity!
hugggggsssssssss
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Hey girlfriend!
Are you absolutely sure that this is the house you want to live in???
Sounds like one problem after another! Poor thing! My heart goes out to ya! Sounds like you're the one needing the hug! So c'mere...(((hug)))
Hope the rest of your day smooths out some!
AllanCherrie
hatara said:Ok I am down to one leak but it is a major one. The wall of the bathroom started to cave in a bit because of it. They will hopefully find that leak today.
They put up a rod and shelf in the second bedroom that is my study. But they forgot to anchor it so after putting in less than a 1/3 of my things the screws came flying out of the wall.
On the bright side the phone company rewired all of my jacks so that I have a house phone and the cable company rewired those jacks so that I have my modem.
Mutt and Jeff return tomorrow and I am promising myself that I will think good thoughts. One more incident and I am calling my Mom to come with Holy Water and bless the place. I wanted an exorcist but my sister told me I wasn't allowed. He might get lost for all eternity!
hugggggsssssssss
Are you absolutely sure that this is the house you want to live in???
Sounds like one problem after another! Poor thing! My heart goes out to ya! Sounds like you're the one needing the hug! So c'mere...(((hug)))
Hope the rest of your day smooths out some!
Allan
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I hate water leaks. Such a pain to find and fix.hatara said:
Ummm . . . who are "they". They don't sound very, umm, capable.
Hope things begin to go better for you
SS
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Long time couple breaks up
Hello everyone,
an LDR is a real tough road. I had posted earlier I thought I might have trouble in my LDR with Hatara, I was right. I had made a comment several months ago that bothered her a lot. I didnt even remember what I had said but it did hurt her. After that I noticed a change in her, her voice, her manor. I took it as stress with her move. I was wrong, it was me. The problem was she didnt talk to me about it. I just found out she has had another relationship going. She was dropping hints, but I thought I was just being paranoid. Who knows how long she would have let this go on. I finally asked her directly and she confessed. So, all LDR's learn... Talk and be ready to speak your mind.....
I wish her and Jamore the best...She is a great lady and a wonderful lover... my heart is broken
Marty
Hello everyone,
an LDR is a real tough road. I had posted earlier I thought I might have trouble in my LDR with Hatara, I was right. I had made a comment several months ago that bothered her a lot. I didnt even remember what I had said but it did hurt her. After that I noticed a change in her, her voice, her manor. I took it as stress with her move. I was wrong, it was me. The problem was she didnt talk to me about it. I just found out she has had another relationship going. She was dropping hints, but I thought I was just being paranoid. Who knows how long she would have let this go on. I finally asked her directly and she confessed. So, all LDR's learn... Talk and be ready to speak your mind.....
I wish her and Jamore the best...She is a great lady and a wonderful lover... my heart is broken
Marty
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Marty...
I'm so sorry to hear that... I wish there were something I could do for you... How about a cyber (((hug))), it's the best I can do. Keep looking toward the future, and most importantly, have no regrets.
CA
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I'm so sorry to hear that... I wish there were something I could do for you... How about a cyber (((hug))), it's the best I can do. Keep looking toward the future, and most importantly, have no regrets.
C
AErotic Tendencies
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