Pmann’s Reasons Why Women Won’t Talk To Me (You) Thread

[JerseyJade]

What about a baseball bat the size of a dick?

Naa, I'm not really into sports, sorry.

 

[Justadesperatewifeandmom]

My number one reason for not talking to someone is that there is someone else who is entertaining me more. I talk with those who make me laugh, say the unexpected, and are here to have a good time. That is where my time (and often e-panties) go.

 

[Cyber_Bella]

What about a baseball bat the size of a dick?

OMG you’re in!

 

[Cyber_Bella]

Oh, I usually just talk to myself. No one else is that interested.

 

[Bbl87]

Oh, I usually just talk to myself. No one else is that interested.

Talking to yourself is ok as long as you don't turn and ask yourself what you just said.

 

[Cyber_Bella]

Talking to yourself is ok as long as you don't turn and ask yourself what you just said.

I do that!

 

[Nevyn_Black]

Yes. I was asking for real.

I’d say number two doesn’t matter nearly as much as you think.

Thanks for sharing. This is actually quite insightful.

It depends on what the woman is looking for. I would daresay the ones looking for a momentary sexual stimulation will tend to go with the more obvious choice of dudebro with a big peen. And thank you. As you said, I'm becoming a bit more self aware as I age. Maybe someday I will become a fully functioning adult male with a significant other who isn't an anime girl.

 

[AmberLGreen]

One of my reasons is I don't want to be the side chick of a side chick of a side chick. You know?

That is when you are elevated to a slam piece

The other is people like MichaelCat in the personals who just want to Skype without ever chatting in PMs to see if there's an interest in someone as a person. I'm not good Tinder material.

I haven’t checked on him in a while. Is he still doing this? Has he even posted his voice yet. I am beginning to think he might sound like a chipmunk

 

[Bbl87]

I do that!

 

[Cyber_Bella]

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Bingo!

 

[Bbl87]

It depends on what the woman is looking for. I would daresay the ones looking for a momentary sexual stimulation will tend to go with the more obvious choice of dudebro with a *allegedly* big e-peen.

Fixed it for you.

 

[AmberLGreen]

On a slightly more serious note, that's why I don't PM often. I figure ladies here get enough of that and will assume ulterior motives even if I'm nice and friendly. Sometimes I just think people are interesting though.

I really dislike that people think this way. You “figure” and “assume”. You shouldn’t do that. The way you communicate is down to you. If you don’t have an ulterior motive and still don’t message people then you could be missing out on a good conversation. Not everybody makes assumptions and will take each conversation at face value

 

[Cyber_Bella]

I really dislike that people think this way. You “figure” and “assume”. You shouldn’t do that. The way you communicate is down to you. If you don’t have an ulterior motive and still don’t message people then you could be missing out on a good conversation. Not everybody makes assumptions and will take each conversation at face value

Eh, he gets around. Don’t let him fool ya. He’s trolling for new chicks.

 

[Lonelywife1205]

The #1 reason I don’t is if they’re boring. If someone is fun and engaging, sure, let’s chat.

 

[Lord Pmann]

I really dislike that people think this way. You “figure” and “assume”. You shouldn’t do that. The way you communicate is down to you. If you don’t have an ulterior motive and still don’t message people then you could be missing out on a good conversation. Not everybody makes assumptions and will take each conversation at face value

Assumptions at Lit can be very dangerous.

 

[ydahecnot]

I know why they don’t talk to you, Pmann: they think you are really female and they don’t swing that way

 

[Bbl87]

I really dislike that people think this way. You “figure” and “assume”. You shouldn’t do that. The way you communicate is down to you. If you don’t have an ulterior motive and still don’t message people then you could be missing out on a good conversation. Not everybody makes assumptions and will take each conversation at face value

You make a fair point. I've started to be more willing to lately as I've started to banter more in the PG and feel like I'm a little less of a random if I do.

 

[Lord Pmann]

I know why they don’t talk to you, Pmann: they think you are really female and they don’t swing that way

I do come off as very feminine with my posting style.

 

[Crankbait88]

I have rarely reached out to someone of the opposite sex as me, preferring they contact me first.

Also, I can't remember what the original topic of this thread was, but suffice to say I agree with the smart poster in here.

 

[Bbl87]

Eh, he gets around. Don’t let him fool ya. He’s trolling for new chicks.

https://imgur.com/a/ipZak6h

 

[Cyber_Bella]

https://imgur.com/a/ipZak6h

They don’t talk to you because of the gifs!

 

[MedicalMuse]

They don’t talk to you because of the gifs!

And dad jokes…

 

[Bbl87]

They don’t talk to you because of the gifs!

If they don't love the gifs, I don't think we'd get along anyway. . Perhaps it's for the best.

 

[Bbl87]

And dad jokes…

Tough crowd.

 

[LadyLascivious1]

Time and inclination are my reasons. If you’re funny and interesting, I will do my best to make time but I don’t have all that much of it these days. If I’m already spending time getting to know one or two new friends I just don’t have anything left. Quality over quantity. Plus, I really enjoy the banter of the boards.

We massage each other's boobs and talk about lobster pants. It's a riot.

Actually boob massages are fracking amazing! And, for once, I am not making any sexual innuendo