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tenderpood
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Anal/erection?
My first few times getting fucked by another guy I maintained an erection, but since then I usually go soft after he enters me. However this does not deter me from enjoying the wonders of anal sex! I always cum while I am being fucked, and I never touch my own dick! So I would say that going semi-soft during anal sex is not uncommon.
My first few times getting fucked by another guy I maintained an erection, but since then I usually go soft after he enters me. However this does not deter me from enjoying the wonders of anal sex! I always cum while I am being fucked, and I never touch my own dick! So I would say that going semi-soft during anal sex is not uncommon.
Thanks for sharing guy! I've always enjoyed getting fucked, I was just intrigued when I noticed my cock staying hard.
I'll keep enjoying what happens regardless of what my cock does.
Scott
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I'm the kind of guy who usually doesn't let's guys take me from behind, but when I have allowed myself to be fucked in the ass it was because I got so high on arousal that I felt like I had turned into a slutty little bitch and my anus became my wet eager cunt. Naturally, so aroused my cock is always like a bar of steel during sodomy.
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I am like tenderpod, my first few times I stayed hard and I will often get hard if I am on my back and the other guy is really into me.(figurer of speech, sorry). But normally I go soft after the first few storks but it doesn't effect the way I cum. Soft or hard I cum like a fountain when I have an anal orgasm . Mark
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I think the coolest way to cum is just from the fucking - and that often happens whether I'm hard or not. If my partner hits the right spot just right the cum just pours out of me.
Women can have anal orgasms too. Gay men don't have a monopoly on it.
Thanks for checking in and sharing.
Scott
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It's a grrrrrreat time! God, I love that feeling.
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I think it is great if a guy is hard and/or dripping wet while getting fucked. The biggest reason it is hot is because you have actual proof that you are giving the bottom pleasure.
However, you cannot count on anything. Guys can have all sorts of responses -- hard, soft, in between, stages of erection that change during the fucking. The same guy can have different reactions at different times.
As an exclusive top (the last 25 years or so) I really want to know that the bottom is really enjoying himself. One of the weirdest reactions is some guys don't want their cocks touched much while being fucked. That has always been so strange to me. My partner is that way. It took some time for me to believe he was satisfied. However, we have been together almost 8 years, so if figured if he hadn't liked it, we wouldn't have been together (and exclusively so) if the sex was bad. Some times he will j/o himself off while we fuck, but not the entire time. Sometimes he just wants to feel my strokes inside him. I let him do whatever he wants while I'm inside, but it always gives me the sense that it is an act of loving sacrifice for my behalf since I cannot fathom a guy not stroking his cock during the act of getting fucked even if he is totally soft. My only prayer is that we will both be up to me fucking him when we are both old. I'm just very lucky to get to fuck him as being inside a guy's ass to me is the closest thing to heaven on earth.
However, you cannot count on anything. Guys can have all sorts of responses -- hard, soft, in between, stages of erection that change during the fucking. The same guy can have different reactions at different times.
As an exclusive top (the last 25 years or so) I really want to know that the bottom is really enjoying himself. One of the weirdest reactions is some guys don't want their cocks touched much while being fucked. That has always been so strange to me. My partner is that way. It took some time for me to believe he was satisfied. However, we have been together almost 8 years, so if figured if he hadn't liked it, we wouldn't have been together (and exclusively so) if the sex was bad. Some times he will j/o himself off while we fuck, but not the entire time. Sometimes he just wants to feel my strokes inside him. I let him do whatever he wants while I'm inside, but it always gives me the sense that it is an act of loving sacrifice for my behalf since I cannot fathom a guy not stroking his cock during the act of getting fucked even if he is totally soft. My only prayer is that we will both be up to me fucking him when we are both old. I'm just very lucky to get to fuck him as being inside a guy's ass to me is the closest thing to heaven on earth.
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Now, then ...
Of course, as in any case, an erection depends on various other factors as well:
* the level of your horniness
* the amount of time since you last had an orgasm
* your intimacy with your partner
I'm still a virgin, but I reckon that if there is a lot of cuddling / fondling / licking before penetration, I'll probably stay had and cum without touching myself as he pumps in and out of my ass.
Of course, as in any case, an erection depends on various other factors as well:
* the level of your horniness
* the amount of time since you last had an orgasm
* your intimacy with your partner
I'm still a virgin, but I reckon that if there is a lot of cuddling / fondling / licking before penetration, I'll probably stay had and cum without touching myself as he pumps in and out of my ass.
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That's me. When I was getting fucked my only source of sexual pleasure was my asshole and prostate. My cock is only an extension of that. A bottom doesn't need the direct cock stimulation. It's a thrill for me to know that I don't need to penetrate to have an orgasm.
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I'm another one who's usually "semi-hard" when being impailed. I don't mind my cock being touched while in the act, but it's a little frustrating because I always feel like I should be at full-mast when someone else is in me, and particularly when really turned on. It's a strange feeling to ejaculate when semi-stiff as well.
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I love it when I reach around a guy that I am pounding and he is rock hard. That can be a real turn on... But for me I get so intense when a guy is up my ass, that I normally go semi hard. That may be because I have been getting it up the rear for 20 years. I love it when another guy will come along and get under me and suck my dick while I am getting it up the rear. Even better if you have someone in your mouth at the same time. Then you just go with the flow.
Wish that happened more often.
Wish that happened more often.
me tooo
me to me toooooooooooo!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
me to me toooooooooooo!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
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Not at first. A lot of guys wanted to fuck me and as much as I wanted it, I couldn't take penetration. I had to ask them to stop.
I was with a guy I had been seeing for awhile, he had the hots for me, I could tell he wanted to fuck me bad. You know, I wanted him to do it too. We tried different positions, he would get his cock in maybe 2 or 3 inches then I would tighten up.
What he decided to do was train me with butt plugs for a period of time. We stated with small and worked our way up. I stated getting a hard on while he was training my ass, which he felt was a good sign. With lub and a his skilled hands it felt really good. Sometimes I would suck his cock while he played with my ass.
One day he thought I was ready, put me in what turned out to be the magic position, on my back, legs up. It was incredible, looking up and seeing him get ready to mount me with his hard cock. It hurt at first then I stopped fighting it. I opened up for him and he competed penetration. It was so nice. It felt so fucking good I couldn't believe it. I was hard too. The position gave both of us easy access to my cock. Most of the time I stoked my cock while he fucked. Part of the time he played with it.
He came first and I asked him to keep his cock in me until I came. God did I come. Most of the time I am hard now. My favorite positions are on my back fucked like a girl and the spooning position. I like dogie too.
I was with a guy I had been seeing for awhile, he had the hots for me, I could tell he wanted to fuck me bad. You know, I wanted him to do it too. We tried different positions, he would get his cock in maybe 2 or 3 inches then I would tighten up.
What he decided to do was train me with butt plugs for a period of time. We stated with small and worked our way up. I stated getting a hard on while he was training my ass, which he felt was a good sign. With lub and a his skilled hands it felt really good. Sometimes I would suck his cock while he played with my ass.
One day he thought I was ready, put me in what turned out to be the magic position, on my back, legs up. It was incredible, looking up and seeing him get ready to mount me with his hard cock. It hurt at first then I stopped fighting it. I opened up for him and he competed penetration. It was so nice. It felt so fucking good I couldn't believe it. I was hard too. The position gave both of us easy access to my cock. Most of the time I stoked my cock while he fucked. Part of the time he played with it.
He came first and I asked him to keep his cock in me until I came. God did I come. Most of the time I am hard now. My favorite positions are on my back fucked like a girl and the spooning position. I like dogie too.
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You are fortunate to have someone who would do that for you.
Not at first. A lot of guys wanted to fuck me and as much as I wanted it, I couldn't take penetration. I had to ask them to stop.
I was with a guy I had been seeing for awhile, he had the hots for me, I could tell he wanted to fuck me bad. You know, I wanted him to do it too. We tried different positions, he would get his cock in maybe 2 or 3 inches then I would tighten up.
What he decided to do was train me with butt plugs for a period of time. We stated with small and worked our way up. I stated getting a hard on while he was training my ass, which he felt was a good sign. With lub and a his skilled hands it felt really good. Sometimes I would suck his cock while he played with my ass.
One day he thought I was ready, put me in what turned out to be the magic position, on my back, legs up. It was incredible, looking up and seeing him get ready to mount me with his hard cock. It hurt at first then I stopped fighting it. I opened up for him
and he competed penetration. It was so nice. It felt so fucking good I couldn't believe
it. I was hard too. The position gave both of us easy access to my cock. Most of the
You are fortunate to have a good friend like that who took the time to break you in. Mark
time I stoked my cock while he fucked. Part of the time he played with it.
I know a number of guys who were introduced to bottoming this way, you are lucky to have such a good and horny friend.
He came first and I asked him to keep his cock in me until I came. God did I come. Most of the time I am hard now. My favorite positions are on my back fucked like a girl and the spooning position. I like dogie too.
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The bottom in this seriously hot vid stays soft untill about a second before he shoots-- and he talks about that in the comments below.
http://pupandsir.com/?p=811
it takes a looong time to load up, sorry, but it's worth it!
http://pupandsir.com/?p=811
it takes a looong time to load up, sorry, but it's worth it!
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Of course!
Everytime I have anal sex either with a dildo or a real cock my cock is rock hard, Same goes for when I'm sucking cock. I'm not saying that there are not times that my hard on relaxes at times when receiving anal sex but man, there is no bigger turn on.
Tom
Everytime I have anal sex either with a dildo or a real cock my cock is rock hard, Same goes for when I'm sucking cock. I'm not saying that there are not times that my hard on relaxes at times when receiving anal sex but man, there is no bigger turn on.
Tom
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